Posted by DetailsPleasePosted by Pisces_Dream
A few weeks ago, I had the conversation with Aries that I really am looking for more of a long-term committed relationship. I thought he understood this and he wanted to see me some more.
What made you think this? Did he agree or not agree to a long-term committed relationship?click to expand
Posted by Jesse91
he sees you as a pushover and at this point, he's probably just waiting for you to give into his self-serving wishes. he thinks you're emotionally weak. don't be swayed by this. walk away. keep your dignity.
Posted by MysticRamPosted by Pisces_Dream
I had been seeing this Aries since first of December. We had been getting along great, and the sex was mind-blowing fun and exciting. Well we met on a dating site. I had been getting hits still, and I had been telling the other guys that I was kinda dating someone. I was not in an exclusive relationship. A few weeks ago, I had the conversation with Aries that I really am looking for more of a long-term committed relationship. I thought he understood this and he wanted to see me some more. So the topic came up again. I have kept myself on the dating site because he has kept himself on the dating site. We had been seeing each other every week when we had free time. In his relationship status it shows we were both looking for long-term.
So I had the talk again to see if we are on the same page. He said he would have taken his profile off if he wanted to be exclusive. I am so sad. So I told him no matter how great the chemistry we have, I think it would be best if we stopped seeing each other.
I don't get it.
PD - Why did you give up? It had only been two months. If the chemistry was so amazing...why not let things be, set some boundaries, and show him what's up? Pisces and Aries are both very vulnerable signs so I believe it takes both to step out on that ledge if they feel its worth the leap...
I am only going off the details you provided above. Is there more to this story?click to expand
Posted by DetailsPlease
What don't you get?
Posted by venusianbull
*accepts coffee gladly* Thank you pretty PD! I am smiling quite widely now, I think you and his connection is marvelous, and that is something I know. *sigh* Try not to think of the good-bye. I loathe goodbyes, they sound so final, even when they're not. Concentrate on how exciting and great it is right here, right now. Enjoy time with him, be excited about Mexico and man and make that time spin as slowly as possible while you're there. ???
Posted by venusianbull
Oh now, what a nice way to start the day. Makes my heart go pitty-pat. ???