Hi all! I have written on this before and I have received some very insightful answers so I am hitting you up again. Once again, I have a Taurus man that still chats with me about once a month and he lives in Hong Kong. We chat and it is fun and he gets very sexual. I go along and I enjoy it too. But I was wondering if this means he's Trusting me more. It seems he's opening up to me and he will call me from wherever he is and we talk on the phone. I have no expectations anymore and I have to say I handle it better. I don't get crazy about it, I know he has noticed I don't stop my life for him. And when I have a date, I tell him I'm busy. Then he wants to know who it's with. I don't tell him, but I think it bothers him. He will ask his name, where he works...i dont tell him anything. I just can't seem to find any answers about this. Let me know what you all think
I am in a similar situation so you will not get any judgment from me. I am having an affair with a married Virgo man. We have and always will be good friends. He is not going to leave his wife and I would not ask him to. But what I have found is that they will leave their current situation if you are there waiting. But remember when he says I can't or won't be monogamous heeans it
We can't let each other go. We will always be connected. But I know I flipped the script and I feel much stronger because of it. When he says "jump" I don't ask "how high", I ask "why". I think that frustrates him. Everything said is true, he is overseas so I don't see the feasibility. I don't know. But what I do know is he is not going to get the best of me this time. It's like he has this radar that kicks in whenever I am truly happy and enjoying my life. He comes along and drags me back. All I know is that I am not giving up dating the men I am dating--having too much fun--and maybe that bothers him (?). I still love him, but I will never say that again. He caused too much pain the first time around. But I asked him to let me go the last time, and he said "no. I won't let you go and I can't"
oh, one more thing. He did the whole text and called while I was in a movie with my sister..MY SIS. He knew I was with her. I did ask him what he wanted from me. Just be direct and he said "I want to be with you".
hi all, I haven't been on this in a while. I don't know If anyone remembers me, but I have a long standing relationship/friendship with a Taurus man that lives overseas. Anyway, after much drama and asking him to step back and let me get my life on track, he is back. We established and he was very clear that we would just be friends. However, he recently started chatting with me and the texts are not "just friends". They are very sexual and to the point. I am handling it very differently now, as I don't change my plans, and am dating some pretty great guys now. He doesn't ask who I have plans with, and I don't say if it's a date, but he's smart enough to realize that it's most likely a date. For example: He says "when are you going to be home" I will say "I have plans won't be home until about 9". Even though he knows I'm with someone he continues to text me and he will even call if I don't respond..keep in mind, he is calling from Hong Kong. I think he is messing with me, what do you all think?
I have been on this sight before and have read just about everything about the taurus man. But I did read that what we (pisces girl) may perceive as ignoring is them just thinking everything is fine. The taurus man I am talking about lives overseas (Hong Kong). About a month ago I sent him an email to see if he wanted to chat (via email). We have emailed here and there this past year. Well, he emailed me back and asked for my phone number (I live in the states). I gave him my number, totally not expecting him to call. He called two minutes later. We got disconnected a few times, but he always called right back. We talked for some time and it was a pleasant conversation. I tried to connect again and I have not heard anything in about a month. I know taurus play the disappear/reappear game. And I also know he is very busy. I do know they are single minded. So, should I just chill out and do my thing and just not worry about it? Is he thinking "things are fine, I'm busy, she's busy, we will connect at some point" ? Is it a big deal that he called me? We tried to Skype but I couldn't get the video part to work. He asked me for a picture because he needed a visual while he talked to me. Nothing bad, just a normal pic. But we haven't heard each others' voices in over 20 years and the very first question he asks me is "do you remember the nights we spent together?" I am a little confused.
I am a little confused. I think I am being tested by a taurus man that I have known for many years. We were in school together a very long time ago. We reconnected on facebook, and it's a long story, but suffice it to say I told him I still loved him. He said he was tied down, I had to accept it and agreed we would be friends. It was very hard for me to accept, but I had to. Well, we emailed here and there He disappeared then reappeared, etc...(typical taurus behavior from what I have read). So last night I emailed him and asked if he wanted to chat. He emailed me back and asked for my phone number so he could call me. He lives in Hong Kong and I live in the states, so needless to say, I was shocked. He wanted to skype. I gave him my phone number and he called me (from Hong Kong) about two minutes after I sent the email. To be honest, I didn't think he would call. We got disconnected a few times, and he always called me back. Finally spoke on Skype and had a nice conversation. then he asked to not be on speaker phone and he called me on my cell phone and we talked for about an hour. It was great to hear from him and everything, but the first thing he asked me was if I remember those nights we spent together (y'all can guess) in school. I said yes, I did. My question: Is this a test? And why? We didn't argue and it was a very pleasant conversation.
I have a lot of male friends, and some of them I had slept with (a long time ago). They are married to other people now, and they are still my friends. I wouldn't trade them for anything. Having said that, I think Impulsv is correct. She is disrespecting your relationship with her, and treating you poorly. She should've told you about staying at an exes parents house, etc...asked you if that were okay, and you would have told her "no, it's not okay"...the boundaries were not set, and it appears that she is acting single and enjoying all the bonuses of being single, but still has you. You need to sit down and lay it all out. She doesn't have to give up her male friends, she needs to understand that there are boundaries with these guys. If she is unwilling to bend and compromise then cut her loose. If she is willing to listen to you and respect your concerns, then proceed. But either way, be prepared for her to get defensive. She may not be doing anything wrong (in her eyes) but if the shoe were on the other foot? What would she say?