Posted by MaxPowerPosted by piscespoppy
Hubby says give him some space, let him go in his shell to sort out whatever it is bothering him, let him know you love him and will not contact him until he contacts you, ( don't worry he will) ok xx
I basically used to do the same tbh but I would go to my mums and ignore him, by day 3 he was usually on the phone asking me to come home x start as you mean to go on Hun, just give him space and do yourself for a few days, be strong you'll be fine, hubby says he doesn't have the emotional capacity to care about anything but his problem while he's trying to sort it out, but he still loves the people he loves x
When he feels he has sorted the problem he will be his sweet self again, but don't try to talk about it unless he wants to ok xx
Does Hubby leave for six months with no notice and watch you online while refusing to speak to you?
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Posted by Leowoman0814Posted by SMCPosted by Leowoman0814Posted by SMCPosted by Leowoman0814Posted by SMC
Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...
First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.
Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something
We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.
if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.
the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.
hope it works out
Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.
if you dont want people to assume and be able to give you good advice you should tell the whole story..you probably should have mentioned that earlier on is what im saying..*sigh* -_-
also think you are the one who should chill really
You should read. I posted it earlier when I responded giving someone the backstory.
*sigh* let me repeat myself though
He is my FWB we have been talking for a long time he needed money I was promised it the VERY NEXT DAY. I didn't get it I just recently brought it up this past week to him. Asking if I could have it he promised me four nights in a row I'd receive it cause he said I know you need it and I don't wanna lose you. He never came through. When I asked why he said " I smoked I got lazy , I'm sorry" it has now been a week. I haven't heard anything I got mad I blocked his number. So I can relax. And not say anything out of pocket. So my question to you was not if I should chill I acknowledged I'm
Going to chill by keeping distance. My question was , am I wrong for blocking him.
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