47 year old Pisces women Aquarius moon, Cancer rising Aries Venus Sagittarius Mars
47 year old Pisces women Aquarius moon, Cancer rising Aries Venus Sagittarius Mars

It's scary, but I'm a sexy way !! Makes me go all weak 😁Run away!!!!!
You sound like a lovely guy, I'm sorry a fellow fish is hurting you like this, she does sound immature and perhaps getting engaged has stressed her out a little, plus not knowing which direction to go career wise, plus the thought of hurting you too, her head probably is spinning a little.
I would give her a lil space about coming to see her, warm up again to her when you speak to her, that will make her feel comfortable with you again and probably calm down a little.
It strikes me she sees you as a sort of father figure ? Forgive me if you disagree x

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Post this under Scorpio Hun, I'm sure you'll get more help there x
Err, it contains sperm, so if you don't want to get someone pregnant then, ye it's bad ! Use condoms.

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Hubby says give him some space, let him go in his shell to sort out whatever it is bothering him, let him know you love him and will not contact him until he contacts you, ( don't worry he will) ok xx

I basically used to do the same tbh but I would go to my mums and ignore him, by day 3 he was usually on the phone asking me to come home x start as you mean to go on Hun, just give him space and do yourself for a few days, be strong you'll be fine, hubby says he doesn't have the emotional capacity to care about anything but his problem while he's trying to sort it out, but he still loves the people he loves x

When he feels he has sorted the problem he will be his sweet self again, but don't try to talk about it unless he wants to ok xx


Does Hubby leave for six months with no notice and watch you online while refusing to speak to you?

Stop giving this girl false hope.
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I respect your point of view obviously but I just asked my husband who is a cancer and has done this a few times during our 16 actually 17 years together, so I am simply posting his response.
And no , he has never left me for 6 months, but obviously there was a reason the posters cancer came back to her so I'm just trying to give her advice how I see it, they are not teenagers but my husband took a long time to emotionally mature so I'm just trying help her through this or not, it's up to her ultimately if she takes the advice or not, we are all human and will all do only what we want to ultimately anyway, so she can take my advice or leave it, as can anyone else I respond to x
Hubby says give him some space, let him go in his shell to sort out whatever it is bothering him, let him know you love him and will not contact him until he contacts you, ( don't worry he will) ok xx

I basically used to do the same tbh but I would go to my mums and ignore him, by day 3 he was usually on the phone asking me to come home x start as you mean to go on Hun, just give him space and do yourself for a few days, be strong you'll be fine, hubby says he doesn't have the emotional capacity to care about anything but his problem while he's trying to sort it out, but he still loves the people he loves x

When he feels he has sorted the problem he will be his sweet self again, but don't try to talk about it unless he wants to ok xx
Lol! I'm dying !! My nan bless her used to keep all my grandads old vests and big white cotton y fronts for rags, it was weird as a child watching her wipe the windows and door frame around with grandads underpants, while she chatted pleasantries to the neighbours 😝😛
How old are you both Hun ? I'm sorry he is hurting you,it's a roller coaster, you may or may not know I've been with my cancer man 16 years, I'll talk to him for you when he comes in ok xx
You have same placements in sun moon rising and Venus as me, bless, you must really like him, are you worried about talking a load of nonese too, sentences back to front and going brain dead at the sight of him.
I know it's hard try not to worry don't forget he is probably nervous too you will probably end up giggling about how nervous you both are and that will break the ice xx Good luck!! Hope it all goes well Hun x👍
Aires Venus here married to a Gemini moon, what's going on ??? 😝😝
Seriously, my husband has never cheated on me but he is a flirt sometimes, and he accuses me of flirting all the time lol! I just like to think I enjoy having a laugh is all I've never had an affair or anything like that xx I'm not saying I was an angel when I was younger though 🤔🤒
Omg, bless you Hun x what happened your so upset ??
Sorry to hear your probs.. so your back in the fold Hun, good luck with your future, be positive, the only way is up when you hit rock bottom x
Err I use Calvin Klein contradiction night all the time after bath for work so must smell nice even though. No one ever tells me ????? 🤒
Oh bless you, don't be sad, start thinking about things you love doing, hobbies ect, music you like, that sort of thing x be kind to yourself and positive x
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Take yourself up on that chill pill and take a deep breath...

First off you need to tell us some more about how long it has been since you lend him the money, you know a bit of background to the story.

Second, leos never give anything without wanting anything in return...there is always something dear. It could be as simple and tiny as a compliment/appreciation, but its always something



We are fwb .... I gave it too him 3 weeks ago., he said I'd give it back. I have yet to get it back. I didn't give it too him , for something I gave it to him because HE NEEDED IT. My loyalty like I said runs deep. ): he was a friend in need. His parents he doesn't really speak too he has no family they aren't close. That bothers me when people have no one else to fall back on. So I wanted to help. I don't have much so I give what I can.



if you gave it him because he NEEDED it, you shouldnt worry about getting it back so soon already.
the fact that you've been worrying about it and now posting about it doesn't look so selfless like you say it is though...but thats just me.

hope it works out




Just because he needed it doesn't mean I didn't need it. Wtf are you talking about? He just needed it more. He promised that I would get it back. The VERY NEXT DAY he just didn't have it ATM he said. I had no reason NOT TO BELIVE HIM. Wym so soon it's been three weeks. Chill.



if you dont want people to assume and be able to give you good advice you should tell the whole story..you probably should have mentioned that earlier on is what im saying..*sigh* -_-

also think you are the one who should chill really




You should read. I posted it earlier when I responded giving someone the backstory.

*sigh* let me repeat myself though

He is my FWB we have been talking for a long time he needed money I was promised it the VERY NEXT DAY. I didn't get it I just recently brought it up this past week to him. Asking if I could have it he promised me four nights in a row I'd receive it cause he said I know you need it and I don't wanna lose you. He never came through. When I asked why he said " I smoked I got lazy , I'm sorry" it has now been a week. I haven't heard anything I got mad I blocked his number. So I can relax. And not say anything out of pocket. So my question to you was not if I should chill I acknowledged I'm
Going to chill by keeping distance. My question was , am I wrong for blocking him.
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No you are not wrong for blocking Hun, he is a weed smoker by your admission so probably dosnt care if he pays you back or not in my experience, you are obviously a kind person, pls don't get in touch with him again, just put it down to experience, don't blame yourself, friends with benefits too?
You can't help him he has to help himself first, how old are you both ? I'm not trying to be mean, I'm the first to help people but he blatantly told you he smoked instead of paying you back, that would infuriate me so I'm not surprised you posted! Yes get shot of him Hun , that's my advice 100 percent 👌
Be strong, be who you are, dont chase her around it will be hard at first but cancer people don't like doormats hun, let her go in her shell, ignore it, believe me she will come after you for an explanation when she is ready and her feelings will only be the ones that matter, or that's what it will feel like to you.
If you really care for her, be ready for a whole weekly/ monthly lifetime of this cause that's a cancer, male or female hun, but the the sweet times make it all better x