Posted by lostundersea
-Drugs

-Drugs

-Drugs

That sums me up

So you acknowledge those are bad for you.

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Posted by RamOnFire1
Why did he broke up with you? What reasons did he gave you?
Just curious you dont need to share if you dont feel like it.
*Sending virtual hugs to you..


His reasons was pretty much what I was acknowledging on my email to him. We were great he was really into me until our weekend away. I as really not myself cos I was falling for him but I couldn't communicate that I ended up pushing him away by being difficult and over reacting to many things. Even we also had MANy good moments on that trip he decided it was too much ups and downs just in 3 days.

He said because of that he can't feel the deep connection (we had before) he can't see us working in long term. He said you are a really nice girl (while staring at my boobs) I could have see you for a few more times or few more months until I get caught up in work again. But that wouldn't be fair to you.

I didn't try to convince him I just thanked him for being respectful and honest during the break up and that I was falling and I didn't know what I was doing and I was scared. I told him I will be sad but I will get over it. He had tears in his eyes and said me too


That's bs
Only three difficult days n he walks
He wasn't in it
I mean wtf with a few more month or times n would get caught up in work , not fair. Blah blah
He already knew it be an end

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Exactly. And he let her visit him on his work trip and then back down after having fun.

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Posted by enfant_terrible
Keep in mind that I've been working out for most part of my life, so being quite muscular I ain't really the same sight as a pale and hairy little fatty in surfing shorts.





Is this still true after 8 years? haha.



Moreso than ever 👍

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Good for you.

Posted by GreekLibra
Hey all, so a couple of weeks ago a girl I know approached me all of a sudden. Here is the quick dialog

Girl: "Hey! How are you?"
Me: "Hey what's up?"
Girl: "Do you remember my friend that you met earlier?"
Me: "Yeah what about her?"
Girl: "She likes you"

And I didn't respond at all on this. I just smiled. Anyway the girl came a few minutes later (who is virgo) and sat next to me. We were talking alot, flirting each other, she asked friends of mine to takes pictures of us and all. After all a while we all went for drinks at a club. We started dancing and in the end we made out.. a lot xD. We exchanged numbers, we didn't talk the next, she said that I look like a nice guy to some of my friends. We chatted a bit 2 days after that night. I asked her when am I going to see her again. But she said she was too busy. Anyway, a few days later something weird happened. She sent me a long text saying that she is not ready for a relationship cause she doesn't want one at the moment blah blah blah. I was reading it and I was kind of confused cause I never mentioned a relationship to her. In the end I told her that we are going to talk about it after easter break and she agreed. We chat now and then but she doesn't see my messages immediately. Last time 3 days passed until she responded.

That's a summary of the situation at the moment. I really like her though, any advice is welcome.

So who is the virgo? the girl or her friend?

Posted by StrawberryJam
Posted by RamOnFire1
Why did he broke up with you? What reasons did he gave you?
Just curious you dont need to share if you dont feel like it.
*Sending virtual hugs to you..


His reasons was pretty much what I was acknowledging on my email to him. We were great he was really into me until our weekend away. I as really not myself cos I was falling for him but I couldn't communicate that I ended up pushing him away by being difficult and over reacting to many things. Even we also had MANy good moments on that trip he decided it was too much ups and downs just in 3 days.

He said because of that he can't feel the deep connection (we had before) he can't see us working in long term. He said you are a really nice girl (while staring at my boobs) I could have see you for a few more times or few more months until I get caught up in work again. But that wouldn't be fair to you.

I didn't try to convince him I just thanked him for being respectful and honest during the break up and that I was falling and I didn't know what I was doing and I was scared. I told him I will be sad but I will get over it. He had tears in his eyes and said me too
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To be honest it does not look like your fault. He asked you to join him on his work trip and then after having fun he could not deal with your insecurities. If he wanted he could have tried to convince you, maybe you were being difficult but he gave up too easily. When two people like each other they are supposed to stick with each other not give up when the fun is over. It would have been different if this was going on for a long time, the insecurity. But he gave up in the start itself. So maybe in a way good for you because he was not that invested maybe.

Posted by LazyK
I'm a Virgo and id say there's two types of Virgo. The quiet ones and the loud ones. I hate the quiet ones. They are like dead men walking 💀 🚶

Are you a pisces or virgo?

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I love the tv show 'Married at First Sight'

I think most couples in that show have not stayed married right?
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Posted by MrEmptyBackpack
Depends on you and them

I show real self after 6 months so it is all downhill from that point off


So then you need to marry within the first 6 months if you want to trap her haha


Lol awww poor girl


Wow I've known you for years. What does that make us now huh lol?

I know ALL of you Ands. So maybe stop running away. 😎🖕🏾
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Is that Chris Kodak in your avi? For a sec I thought he was posting lol.

Posted by MissDiamond
I met my husband in September 2013 and we got married in January 2015. Some say it was too fast but our marriage couldn't be happier. We are truly soulmates, so why would we have waited?

Personally I don't think that there is a 'right' amount of time to wait before getting married. Some couples get married after a few months and have a fulfilling life long marriage, some wait for years and file for divorce months after getting married.

I heard sags take their time. What is your husband's sign? Yes, if both feel the same way no point in waiting.

Posted by MrEmptyBackpack
Depends on you and them

I show real self after 6 months so it is all downhill from that point off


So then you need to marry within the first 6 months if you want to trap her haha
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Live with him/her first then you'll know.


living together is the way to go.

then you'll know his/her habits. if he snores, if he steals your blankets,

and what foods he /she likes in the morning..

what will annoy the hell out of you...or what you find adorable, that you can't live without.

although i find if you love them a lot to begin with, to passionately want to be with them you'll ENDURE a lot....smelly armpits, socks, whatever...bring it!!! it's all love.
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But is it possible people are trying to be at their best behavior even during live-in and then let go after getting married?
Posted by Ellygant
The better you know yourself the easier it is to make the decision to get married. That's why older couples jump into it more I think. I'm sure fertility has something to do that, but as a whole most older couples I meet that get together in their 40's, 50's or 60's either get married quickly or not at all, and fertility isn't really a factor in those relationships.

When you are still trying to understand yourself, trying to understand someone else feels like a monumental task. Commuting to understanding them forever feels near impossible lol.

I guess 40 could mean quick marriage lol.
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Posted by puhleeze
Have seen few couples married and with a kid in a year or two of knowing each other. And they seem happy together. I can understand feeling instant connection and jumping right into marriage. But can it be too good to be true, or some people just get lucky in finding their soulmate?


Happened to me...

I pray for everything though.
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Sounds like it is still going good for you. That is great.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Keep in mind that I've been working out for most part of my life, so being quite muscular I ain't really the same sight as a pale and hairy little fatty in surfing shorts.





Is this still true after 8 years? haha.

Have seen few couples married and with a kid in a year or two of knowing each other. And they seem happy together. I can understand feeling instant connection and jumping right into marriage. But can it be too good to be true, or some people just get lucky in finding their soulmate?
Posted by lostundersea
I went to go get some new shoes and a girl comes up to me and told me "why so sad ?" I didn't know how to respond and was stuck in my head all day cuz I knew she was right

Maybe she was trying to hit on you? From where do all these random girls come to you haha

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
than just not being good enough! I mean i am dreaming about a TOP TIER guy, when im like 5th tier

wtf.



crawls under her bed and cries. loudly.

We just need to find the guy whose mental tier is same as ours. Bigger problem is when you find him and he is not AVAILABLE. Most of them are married or taken
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I think I'm in love with the leo. Because his face is a master piece.
Posted by MilaniKisses
So as the hours have passed, I've become more depressed by the situation. I am just lost with why he cut off all contact with me. Before he hung up the phone yesterday, he told me how much he loved me... Then all of a sudden a ghost.
Its driving me up the wall that I couldnt talk to him over the phone about everything... And I dont understand why he changed his number. I almost think that he got back with his ex and she forced him to change it...

He hasnt replied to my messages at all which is also making me crazy... I hate this feeling of not having a proper closure.

Hmm but aren't you the one who broke up with him? No one likes being rejected. That might be his way of dealing with it.