Posted by starlord 32 years old, never been in a real relationship. Accepted I can´t do casual sex, so now have not had sex in almost two years. In that time kissed maybe 3 guys and gone on 2 dates. Slept over at friends because I locked myself out of my appartment. He made a few little cute moves, but I declined, mostly because I know I can´t do casual.
But after that my body has turned against me completely and all I think about now is sex and who I can have it with. But I know, that casual sex is not what I want, and I know that ultimately I am gonna hurt myself by doing this. Yet my body/brain is sending me signals to do so constantly.
Wtf is wrong?! Why has nobody had any interest in me? In the past 2 years but also moreso in the past overall? Nobody wants to make the effort, only guys that approach me who I find attractive, are the ones unavaileble. And it´s not becuase of their cute personalities, but just some bodily reaction that I can´t control. I don´t get why things aren´t more alligned; if casual is all I am gonna get, why am I not made to enjoy that? And if I am meant to have a relationship, then where the treetrunk is the guy, and why the treetrunk am I getting hot and bothered by guys that always want to have sex with me, but are not in a time of their lives to want a relationship. Nothing makes sense.
What is your sign? Yes, I don't get either when nobody wants to make the effort? You can tell they are interested just won't approach. What makes a guy ask one girl for commitment vs the other.
Posted by -sierra my millenial brain can't process this.. all i can think of is taxes.. insurance.. and it not being awkward anymore when strangers refer to my dude as my 'husband'
got this guy friend telling me he's proposing to his gf right after i made some cynical remarks like how am i supposed to know he's announcing that? i'd have been more polite if i did.. so it got awkward
and i know this is judgy but could it be coz he's in his late 20s? is that when you start thinking about it? he's had other gfs before this and they haven't even been together for an entire year nor have they lived together for even a day.. i asked him and he told me he just felt like it.. okay that's fair
Yes, timing and stars I guess. You can wait a lifetime to find someone and then find them just like that get married and have a kid all within 2 years if things work out.
Posted by -sierra and for some reason, his announcement's making me focking nervous but i'm crazy so that's not surprising..totally not interested in him i swear ... i just always thought this dude's never getting married like he's had this string of gfs just come and go one after the other
I can relate to the feeling. For me it's almost all my friends are married so when another one marries the nervousness is about why is it not happening for me? It's like everyone is moving to the other side.