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Queenaries2
joined February 02, 2018
  • Im 53.4 percent earth
    17 percent water
    16.9 percent Fire
    12.8 water

  • Anything with no eye contact
    Aqua mars
  • Posted by Arielle83
    Posted by Queenaries2
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Queenaries2
    Posted by NemDeux
    Posted by Queenaries2
    One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?
    There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

    I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some butter




    for the most part - based on your incessant vain posts - imo this is projection on your behalf ....you have a pattern of humble bragging trying to coax some validation on how beautiful you are no man dares to approach you in a normal fashion.
    you're a transparent little braggart.
    i am not a fan of scaling people ...but dare ask me, please.


    Nah men show me a lot of hate too



    how do they hate you??



    i have gone through this in REAL life...and i have mentioned my abuse in the past in the hands of men.

    they love me too much but it's complete hate too.

    how do these men hate you? and how do they show it?


    edit - i will tell you truthfully, which i have also menionted here years ago...

    one of my ex's have said to me, "you only make me feel this way, i have never hit any woman"

    i'm like bulbutter.... i dont make yuo do anythng. i dont make you do butter. we are just simply incompatible.
    (yeh i got a backhand for that too)

    true story. just telling you how itis..


    I get hate on social media and real life
    Just like I stated above
    Men will either stalk me or men will call me names and I don’t even know them! Some men will talk to me like I’m dumb etc
    Another example: i will comment on a status and almost all the others are saying the same thing and one guy will get only st me and start cursing me out or dissing me
    Example: a guy put a post saying do women ever stop and listen to their men

    I said why would I listen? Which most of the other females said
    This random guy writes you’re more of a man than your man. 1) he doesn’t know what my man looks like 2) who is he?
    I just said thanks. It’s the reaction they want



    Well you gave him a snarky response.

    You made him feel inferior.

    As if he isn’t important enough to be heard.

    What kind of respect to expect from ppl when you do that?

    No matter what gender, that person will go off at your dismissive attitude.
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    The guy who wrote that wasn’t even his post
    So idk why he’s mad
    Why didn’t he get at anyone else
  • Posted by LethalFantasia
    You attract stalkers girl. Some girls I know are like that too. Attracting creepy men. Wow, aren't you scared when they come to your work? Wtf? Ignore them. Or talk to them and see their reaction.


    Yes I get scared a little so I try and watch my back. But I also attract men who despise me and have a lot of hate. That just screams a manag kill me
  • Posted by Juliiette
    well your story is weird. random men you never talked to?


    Yes. Random men on the street or social media
    Men will add me on fb and sometimes if I say something they don’t like they will call me disgusting, ugly etc
    If they thought I was ugly why did they add me?
  • Posted by Haruuka
    Posted by Queenaries2
    Posted by Ariqua
    Do you have venus in Aries? If so the libra Pluto generation could be creeps to you.

    It happens to me too. Obsessive stalkers and sometimes they turn mean.


    I have venus in Pisces
    I also attract men who show a lot of hate for me
    Calling me a slut, just like me, ugly etc
    I don’t even know these men


    This is very sad, and weird

    Why they calling you that when they don’t even know you!!??

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    Thanks. Idk sometimes random men will call me names on the street or just be aggressive toward me. A guy posted this meme on fb saying do women ever stop and listen to their man. I said I don’t listen to my man. Other girls were saying it to me. This random guy replied dissing my looks and only to me lol it’s interesting
  • Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by Queenaries2
    Posted by NemDeux
    Posted by Queenaries2
    One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?
    There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

    I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some butter




    for the most part - based on your incessant vain posts - imo this is projection on your behalf ....you have a pattern of humble bragging trying to coax some validation on how beautiful you are no man dares to approach you in a normal fashion.
    you're a transparent little braggart.
    i am not a fan of scaling people ...but dare ask me, please.


    Nah men show me a lot of hate too



    how do they hate you??



    i have gone through this in REAL life...and i have mentioned my abuse in the past in the hands of men.

    they love me too much but it's complete hate too.

    how do these men hate you? and how do they show it?


    edit - i will tell you truthfully, which i have also menionted here years ago...

    one of my ex's have said to me, "you only make me feel this way, i have never hit any woman"

    i'm like bulbutter.... i dont make yuo do anythng. i dont make you do butter. we are just simply incompatible.
    (yeh i got a backhand for that too)

    true story. just telling you how itis..
    click to expand


    I get hate on social media and real life
    Just like I stated above
    Men will either stalk me or men will call me names and I don’t even know them! Some men will talk to me like I’m dumb etc
    Another example: i will comment on a status and almost all the others are saying the same thing and one guy will get only st me and start cursing me out or dissing me
    Example: a guy put a post saying do women ever stop and listen to their men

    I said why would I listen? Which most of the other females said
    This random guy writes you’re more of a man than your man. 1) he doesn’t know what my man looks like 2) who is he?
    I just said thanks. It’s the reaction they want

  • Posted by NemDeux
    Posted by Queenaries2
    One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?
    There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

    I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some butter




    for the most part - based on your incessant vain posts - imo this is projection on your behalf ....you have a pattern of humble bragging trying to coax some validation on how beautiful you are no man dares to approach you in a normal fashion.
    you're a transparent little braggart.
    i am not a fan of scaling people ...but dare ask me, please.
    click to expand


    Nah men show me a lot of hate too
  • Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    Were you sexually assaualted at a young age?

    Women who were sodomised at a young age can and often do attract stalkers in their older age.

    I’d Pm you this but this butter happens so often it’s lost it’s political incorrectness tf!

    Peace


    Are you saying severe childhood sexual abuse is related to receiving extreme unwanted sexual advances from men?


    There’s a link in child sexual assault and women attracting stalkers. Not victim blaming at all. Trauma definitely follows a certain pattern especially unresolved trauma.
    Women tend sympathisise with their aggressor/stalker (let him down lightly) appease..
    all the beautiful qualities most people admire but the kind you’d never employ with a chronic space invader.

    Not every case but there is a strong pattern.

    I’ve worked with many victims of childhood
    Sexual assault and majority have had phases where they couldn’t shake a stalker or had at least 2 lurking.


    I doubt there is any type of solution or a means to resolve sexual abuse trauma once things have gone to the abusive stage. Maybe there is but idk.

    I'm not sure. If the stalkerish mentality were to come from someone they know or trust? Or are you talking about complete strangers also?

    And why do you think this attraction from people with stalkerish behavior happens to these girls who have been abused in their childhood?


    Without sounding patronising but survivors of trauma are true empaths so they pique the attention off all kinds of men,
    Diresired or not they definitely garner admiration and adoration.

    It’s a vibe thing I’ve noticed

    Scientifically it’s a limits and boundary setting issue.

    Usually it’s stymied by fear of hurting a persons feelings.

    Not all cases. Some victims can come from very sheltered lives where the familiar was safe secure relational patterns.

    It’s normally the former that is sadly the case.






    So you would say they attract even the most undesirable energy because others feel they can be vulnerable around them?

    I got what you mean. But I am looking for that particular word from the guys desire to connect with the girl.
    Do they feel safe around this girl? They see her as weak?


    Not so much weak but definitely vulnerable. Self effacing
    Accepting
    Open



    Okay.
    No abuse but I do get stalkers. Some are creepy but most are more on and off. And some have been around for years. So I'm curious.
    And I would like to know how to break the cycle. I get the addictive behavior types. Obsessed ones. Guys who know nothing about me. Even strangers which doesn't make sense. I used to think it is the chase or because they see me as difficult to get. But after few years they are suppose to let go. Some pretty much flaunt it. Maybe to scare me? But idk I don't get scared nowadays.

    Having said that they do give me my space if and when I have sat down and talked to them. Not all. Very few. Strange.

    I will hide this post.
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    I can relate, I also attract a lot of hate from men
  • Posted by Ariqua
    Do you have venus in Aries? If so the libra Pluto generation could be creeps to you.

    It happens to me too. Obsessive stalkers and sometimes they turn mean.


    I have venus in Pisces
    I also attract men who show a lot of hate for me
    Calling me a slut, just like me, ugly etc
    I don’t even know these men
  • Posted by Bk201
    Do you have venus pluto?


    Nope mars square Pluto
    And Saturn square Pluto

    I also attract a lot of verbally abusive men who are strangers
    I ignore it all the time though
  • One time I went to a donut shop and this guy sitting was looking at me. I went two days in a row after that and he was there doing the same thing. He came into my job like a week later. He came up to me trying to talk to me. Like how would he know where I work?
    There is this guy when I was about 17 years old who went to my gym. He was a lot older than me so nothing happened. I started seeing him again. He comes into my job all the time. He legit never buys anything. He comes into my job just walking around. Sometimes he comes with this 6 year old girl. He legit has only brought something twice. I know he watches me. I can feel it

    I also have random men calling me from blocked or texting me through email (lol) harassing me about some butter
  • Posted by Gobby
    Posted by Queenaries2

    He’s christian yet abuses you?

    Naive much?
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    Not naive at all
    Ita more about how not all Christians are good
    Its the writing tone
    A little sarcastic
  • Posted by -sierra-
    Posted by Queenaries2
    Posted by Sapphire23
    @Moonbutter- Yes, we did want marry also for religious reasons as we are both Christians


    He’s christian yet abuses you?


    i say guilt him
    use religion to do it
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    Yup
    Op, don’t let any man abuse you. Dress up nice, be happy and ignore his little childish behavior
    If he’s so christian he wouldn’t abuse you
  • Posted by Sapphire23
    @Moonbutter- Yes, we did want marry also for religious reasons as we are both Christians


    He’s christian yet abuses you?
  • Thanks
  • Posted by bkbella86
    Leo men can be biches...not manly enough for me


    I’m starting to realize that
  • Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by Queenaries2
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Is this another online flirtation? Or are you guys actually hanging out irl


    Lmao why do you assume this is an online thing? I met him 3 years ago in person
    Idiot


    Cause all your stories are about online butter. But cool you want to sling insults. Good luck with the synastry...or lack there of 💅
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    Lmao I met 95 percent of men in person
    At work, at parties etc
    I only met two men online 😂
  • Posted by Nevamore
    How long do you know him?


    3 years
  • Posted by LadyNeptune
    Is this another online flirtation? Or are you guys actually hanging out irl


    Lmao why do you assume this is an online thing? I met him 3 years ago in person
    Idiot