ESTJ

Describing a person from dominate planets
All in order


Person 1 Saturn, sun and moon

Person 2 mars, Pluto and sun

Person 3 Saturn, Jupiter and Neptune
I’m an Aries and I show my personality by being a natural rebel. Acting out is one way of being emotional
So yeah
Cap mooner too
Thank god
Life is getting better
(Lol jk)
Posted by lisabethur8
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thats alot of aqua....

is your brother violent?

so what if you chill at home? he sounds really controlling.

his libra mars...and pisces moon help a bit but not much..

i mean, look at this guy Axl Rose, wasn't "nice" all the time.



When he was five he threw a shoe at my face and broke my nose. My family didn’t even care. My nose was bleeding like crazy and nobody helped me. I was 10 years old


he was just a child. i dont know why he got angry though, a temper tantrum, probably you were upsetting him.
but your parents should have reprimanded him not to do that.

it sounds more your parents problem that they dont discipline, or care that is the crux of the problem.



Child? He’s going to be 21 next February


in your CONTEXT...

he's 5 years old when he threw a shoe at you?

are you talking about when he's an adult NOW?

that he hit you?

i dont know why i bother wasting my writing on you.

you just dont even care about all the things i wrote and only want what you want to hear.

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Sorry I didn’t read that part
I thought you were talking about the situation in general

I’m aqua mars
My dad was VERY cold toward me when I was younger up until I was 19 years old. He didn’t really care to be around
He was strict as f***
Now we are civil. We get along, but I mean it’s nothing special
It’s not like I’m going to tell him about my life
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I always dated men the same age until I was older around 50. I never had a problem with relationships, from guys 18 to 26. Then i was off the market for twenty years. Idk maybe it’s just what I attracted?
Guys who wanted love and relationships - were 3 major ones from age19-27. Well last one started at 27 & he was the 20 year guy. I’d say the first two were two young to really be thinking about marriage even though they were.

Anyway, they are saying now that males brains don’t fully develop until age 25. I have had SO many guys tell me that they didn’t get their act together until mid-to late 20’s. So that falls into that 26-30 timeframe. They are getting their act together & ready to settle down. I have to wonder about those who never married by 40 though.


Youre 50????



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Lol you don’t look 50
You look a lot younger
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I always dated men the same age until I was older around 50. I never had a problem with relationships, from guys 18 to 26. Then i was off the market for twenty years. Idk maybe it’s just what I attracted?
Guys who wanted love and relationships - were 3 major ones from age19-27. Well last one started at 27 & he was the 20 year guy. I’d say the first two were two young to really be thinking about marriage even though they were.

Anyway, they are saying now that males brains don’t fully develop until age 25. I have had SO many guys tell me that they didn’t get their act together until mid-to late 20’s. So that falls into that 26-30 timeframe. They are getting their act together & ready to settle down. I have to wonder about those who never married by 40 though.


Youre 50????

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I had a friend who was an Aquarius sun, Pisces moon. He’d say things just to get a rise out of me and people, then just laugh. I think Pisces moon is such a bad placement for fire and air. I noticed it creates this restless instability that manifests as aggression.

I also noticed Aries are usually considered the black sheep of the family. My partner and my sister were seen that way for years. I don’t think many people understand Aries, it also doesn’t help that Aries are too proud to show any sort of weakness.

I’d say brush it off. One day you’ll prove them all wrong.


Black sheep in the family, but popular in the world (at least my experience)
People love me at work
I love customers and they like me
I’m not best friends with any of them, but I’m always civil and cool with them
That’s all I really care about to be honest


Sounds like something my partner would say.
Not very close to his family but an excellent salesman. Makes big $ $ $ because customers love him. Friends, acquaintances follow and admire him, yet he’s not close to them at all. Surprisingly, all he needs is the one that holds his heart and that truly loves and understands him. Everyone else is expendable.


Is he an Aries sun? You know it’s just so easy for my brother. When I first started learning more about astrology I looked at the moon. I guess since moon represents mothers too. Supposedly Pisces Moons (Water signs in general I guess) are better
Pisces def being the best. Capricorn Moon supposedly being the most difficult. My mom is aqua moon so meh. Everything they say about cap mooners and relationships with moms is true.
butter makes me low key depressed

Do you know what planet represents relationship with your father?


I think Pisces moon can be good if the person knows how to manage it or has a sun or other placements to balance it. Ime water and fire sun/moon combos gives off a very unbalanced personality if the person doesn’t know how to manage or control it. I’ve seen it in a few people irl and on DXP.

And yes he is an Aries sun. An earthy Aries to be more specific. And he also had issues with his mom and Dad both Earth signs. They preferred his younger brother, a Taurus, who was looked at as the good kid.

I know that Saturn is the parental placement. The father figure and the moon the mother. What are your parents sun and Saturn sign?


My mom
Sun: Gemini
Saturn: Taurus

Dad
Sun: leo
Saturn:aries

Seems like your dads Saturn and Leo is trine and Saturn conjunction your Sun. So there might be a bit more of an understanding there. Probably more of a guidance or reprimand towards you.

Mom Saturn inconjunct your sun might be reflext misunderstanding. Her Gemini sun might overlook your nature/personality because she understands your rambunctious energy but in the way life/commitment/duty she might seem like you are too unstable. Might come off as extremely critical, possessive, and malicious at times?

Idk this is just a guess


Yeah he has always been more understanding. He trusts me more and doesn’t really question me as much. Probably because I’m open with him. I do feel like I can tell him my dreams and he doesn’t seem “jealous” of it. I don’t feel like he views me as unstable either. However I feel like he does push his ideas or me on the type of man I should marry. He does it passively though. He does know I’m a good judge of character. He wasn’t in my life until I was older, but I get along with him more

My mom was just extremely critical and had an idea what a daughter should really be. She didn’t like that I had that attitude I will do what I want when I want. I always tell her to be careful with certain people. She never listens and I’m always right. She still doesn’t listen to this day, even though I proved her this many times. She thinks I’m retarded, slutty and I lower myself. At least she did most of my life. Don’t talk to her enough now to see how she is now.



Wow that is just so sad about your mom. Sorry to hear that and big hug.
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They will learn eventually learn
Posted by lisabethur8
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Posted by lisabethur8
thats alot of aqua....

is your brother violent?

so what if you chill at home? he sounds really controlling.

his libra mars...and pisces moon help a bit but not much..

i mean, look at this guy Axl Rose, wasn't "nice" all the time.



When he was five he threw a shoe at my face and broke my nose. My family didn’t even care. My nose was bleeding like crazy and nobody helped me. I was 10 years old


he was just a child. i dont know why he got angry though, a temper tantrum, probably you were upsetting him.
but your parents should have reprimanded him not to do that.

it sounds more your parents problem that they dont discipline, or care that is the crux of the problem.
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Child? He’s going to be 21 next February
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
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in his case, i don’t think he means what he says, long story short. he’s just being reactive and not in a healthy way. it sounds like to me somehow he misinterpreted something you said and got offended and automatically jumped to the defense and lashed back at you. it’s a very common mars/saturn hard aspect thing.

i have mars square saturn. i was very defensive growing up. i always felt like i was under attack and would either argue back or just lash out or come up with some defensive response to whatever i felt was said to hurt me. i misinterpreted a lot of things. lashing out the way he did to you though was rare for me. i hardly ever lash out now. probably due to my venus dominance idk.


I told him when I’m out of this state, I’m never coming back. I’m sick of how this family treats me
This whole family will eventually regret what they are doing to me
Worse thing Is leaving and never coming back. Like they don’t exist
Def better on my own


☹️ that’s interesting. my aries BFF has a very similar family discordance.

i will say she’s done much better on her own, and to this day her family likes to make rude remarks to her. don’t give up. she’s made so much progress without them weighing her down or making her feel badly about herself. keep those who are good to you close. you’ll find them. even if they’re not family. my friend always tells me i’m the only one closest to her that is like true family. i hope you find your close friends that are like that to you. i think aries are very strong and self-reliant. it’s sad you can’t have supportive family, but you all are very capable of doing it all on your own and rising above whatever they claimed you “couldn’t do.”

stay strong.


Yup that’s my plan



wishing you the best 🌹✨

keep us updated with positive occurrences or even when you need more encouragement. i’d even write down everything you accomplish that makes you feel proud to be the independent person that you are. as the list grows, so will you. and you can look back at all you’ve done in those inevitable moments of doubt and feeling down and realize that you are in fact #1 and you’re the butter for all you’ve accomplished with nobody else’s help and amidst all of the negativity that had been previously thrown your way.

you already know you got this.
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Thank you so much for the positive feedback


Who would be more in love?
This will be a battle with names

Battle 1: Mark Antony vs Octavia
Mark Antony
Sun- Aries
Moon- Scorpio
Mercury- Taurus
Venus- Aries
Mars- Scorpio
Jupiter- Capricorn
Saturn- Scorpio
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio

Vs

Octavia
Sun- Virgo
Moon- Virgo
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Leo
Mars- Aries
Jupiter- Gemini
Saturn- Sagittarius
Uranus-Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto-Scorpio

Battle 2:

Mark Antony vs Cleopatra

Mark Antony:
Sun- Aries
Moon- Scorpio
Mercury- Taurus
Venus- Aries
Mars- Scorpio
Jupiter- Capricorn
Saturn- Scorpio
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio

Cleopatra:
Sun- Aries
Moon- Capricorn
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Pisces
Mars- Aquarius
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn- Aquarius
Uranus- Capricorn
Neptune-Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio

Battle 3: Julius Caesar vs Octavia

Julius Caesar
Sun: pisces
Moon: pisces
Mercury: aqua
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Capricorn
Jupiter: cancer
Saturn: Capricorn
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio

Octavia
Sun- Virgo
Moon- Virgo
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Leo
Mars- Aries
Jupiter- Gemini
Saturn- Sagittarius
Uranus-Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto-Scorpio

Battle 4: Julius Caesar vs Cleopatra

Julius Caesar:
Sun: pisces
Moon: pisces
Mercury: aqua
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Capricorn
Jupiter: cancer
Saturn: Capricorn
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio


Cleopatra:
Sun- Aries
Moon- Capricorn
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Pisces
Mars- Aquarius
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn- Aquarius
Uranus- Capricorn
Neptune-Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
yes they have no hearts


I think a lot of his aqua placements with his Pisces Moon makes him somewhat nuts
He’s my brother and I love him
We are usually cool, but he has this crazy meltdowns
His meltdowns are beyond crazy
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
in his case, i don’t think he means what he says, long story short. he’s just being reactive and not in a healthy way. it sounds like to me somehow he misinterpreted something you said and got offended and automatically jumped to the defense and lashed back at you. it’s a very common mars/saturn hard aspect thing.

i have mars square saturn. i was very defensive growing up. i always felt like i was under attack and would either argue back or just lash out or come up with some defensive response to whatever i felt was said to hurt me. i misinterpreted a lot of things. lashing out the way he did to you though was rare for me. i hardly ever lash out now. probably due to my venus dominance idk.


I told him when I’m out of this state, I’m never coming back. I’m sick of how this family treats me
This whole family will eventually regret what they are doing to me
Worse thing Is leaving and never coming back. Like they don’t exist
Def better on my own


☹️ that’s interesting. my aries BFF has a very similar family discordance.

i will say she’s done much better on her own, and to this day her family likes to make rude remarks to her. don’t give up. she’s made so much progress without them weighing her down or making her feel badly about herself. keep those who are good to you close. you’ll find them. even if they’re not family. my friend always tells me i’m the only one closest to her that is like true family. i hope you find your close friends that are like that to you. i think aries are very strong and self-reliant. it’s sad you can’t have supportive family, but you all are very capable of doing it all on your own and rising above whatever they claimed you “couldn’t do.”

stay strong.
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Yup that’s my plan