My natal chart is in my profile photos.

Posted by P-Angel

I do have malignant cancer.

It started in my right adrenal gland, spread to my liver where a tumor was formed, and the spread to my lungs.

I start chemo on the 28th.

At the moment the focus is on my liver, the tumor is massive ... whereas the cancer nodules on my lungs are minimal in comparison. My oncologist says that the chemo should zap all of those cancer cells, and put the cancer in remission in my lungs.

However, my liver is in serious condition. The tumor has taken over 65% of my liver, and I'm damn lucky that I not riddled with infections, since the liver filters out all toxins in the body. The goal is to shrink the tumor and then keep it maintained.

He said there is no cure, which we all know, and the only thing he can do is to prolong my life by keeping the cancer in remission, and the tumor reduced.

The prognosis depends on how my body responds to the chemo treatments. If my liver shrinks and the other cancer cells go into remission, then I have a good 5 years. If my liver doesn't respond to treatments and they can't get it reduced ... then I won't make it through the summer, probably only a month or so. Because once my liver becomes severely compromised further, then I will be unable to fight off any illness, even a common cold or the flu could do me in.


So, just letting everyone know that if I suddenly stop posting, then you'll know why. I won't close the account down. I'll just vanish one day. When it gets to the point where I cannot even post any longer, then I'll update everyone so they know the end is near.


Happy trails, everyone ...... I'll see you all on the other side. In the meantime, if a ghost is haunting the treetrunk out of you and you know you've been a bleep and deserve it ..... yep, that would be me still kicking your ass.


I wish you the best of luck and happiness, use what time you have with your family, loved ones and those that matter.


Family Ties, Alex P Keaton
Posted by Seraphlight
I am very shy. Most the friends I have ..i have had for years. But in new social situations ...it's harder...particularly in groups.


How big is your town
Posted by justagirl
Posted by rabidtalker
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Posted by rabidtalker
If someone is ignoring you they are looking for one of two reactions:
1. that you'll go away
2. that you'll react, flip out or get angry.

I usually hope it is the first case so that I can mutually cut them out of my life, but it is usually the 2nd option in which case I have to pretend I dont notice until they actually go away themselves. Usually they will up the stakes in some way or fashion though.


Honestly curious, why not just tell them you aren't interested? why do butter to get reactions?

i mean for myself.. if i send a message or two and nada.. i just move on, unless i have invested time/energy and friendship, then i try to find out whats going on.

If this is someone i just meet.. bye.


The folks who have done this to me are trying to get me to do something, give them contacts, give them info that type of thing, once they think they've gotten all they can they move on. When I was younger and had more time I'd let them think they got all they could to help facilitate this. But now that I'm older, have less time, and time = money for the most part, I try to save as much time on my side as possible. Telling them off or cutting contact too quickly eventually results in more lost time because now I have to deal with their tantrums, so it's a fine line. If it is someone who "ups the stakes" then I'll sometimes pretend I'm hurt so they think they've gotten me good and then go away, especially if I think it'll save time. Assuming I'm busy. But some folks will view this as an opportunity to harass me more, thereby wasting more time, so I have to get a read on them to see how I think they'll act. Safest is what I said though, just ignore them until they themselves go away, and hope they dont up the stakes.





I see. this sounds more work related thou. But thank you for answering. i just was wondering, as i have seen said type of stuff you mentioned, why i asked lool

i'm not innocent in the no response/ignore thing. i have done it to people that i didn't want to give them false hopes. Most went away, but those that kept on it, i finally just told them i wasnt interested and to please leave me alone. thankfully that worked, i have been called a cookiemonster for it thou.

*shrug*
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A lot of times it is but it's not always work related, one guy wanted me to be his "hook up" connection so that he could meet girls all of which would not normally give him the time of day. He did this before and harassed a girl in a vulnerable position who was not interested in him and then he dragged her name through the mud.

For guys, if a girl doesnt respond, it's sort of universally understood she's not interested. It's always been that way from what I know.

Posted by justagirl
Posted by rabidtalker
If someone is ignoring you they are looking for one of two reactions:
1. that you'll go away
2. that you'll react, flip out or get angry.

I usually hope it is the first case so that I can mutually cut them out of my life, but it is usually the 2nd option in which case I have to pretend I dont notice until they actually go away themselves. Usually they will up the stakes in some way or fashion though.


Honestly curious, why not just tell them you aren't interested? why do butter to get reactions?

i mean for myself.. if i send a message or two and nada.. i just move on, unless i have invested time/energy and friendship, then i try to find out whats going on.

If this is someone i just meet.. bye.
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The folks who have done this to me are trying to get me to do something, give them contacts, give them info that type of thing, once they think they've gotten all they can they move on. When I was younger and had more time I'd let them think they got all they could to help facilitate this. But now that I'm older, have less time, and time = money for the most part, I try to save as much time on my side as possible. Telling them off or cutting contact too quickly eventually results in more lost time because now I have to deal with their tantrums, so it's a fine line. If it is someone who "ups the stakes" then I'll sometimes pretend I'm hurt so they think they've gotten me good and then go away, especially if I think it'll save time. Assuming I'm busy. But some folks will view this as an opportunity to harass me more, thereby wasting more time, so I have to get a read on them to see how I think they'll act. Safest is what I said though, just ignore them until they themselves go away, and hope they dont up the stakes.



If someone is ignoring you they are looking for one of two reactions:
1. that you'll go away
2. that you'll react, flip out or get angry.

I usually hope it is the first case so that I can mutually cut them out of my life, but it is usually the 2nd option in which case I have to pretend I dont notice until they actually go away themselves. Usually they will up the stakes in some way or fashion though.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm in the same boat and I decided long ago that instead of arguing with them about it I let fate decide. Those who are meant to be in your life will stay or start to put more effort into your friendship. But I don't let them change who I am. From a practical standpoint, I put less energy into the friendship and direct it towards other areas but if they need me...they only have to reach out. Money, things etc can be replaced. Time can't. I let them be who they are and if they only call when they need something...fine. I don't treat them any different. Perhaps I can serve as an example to them on what true friendship is.


You are a stronger person than me. I would fade out or cut them out, but this does take effort.

Posted by anna1
Sun in Cancer, Moon in Pisces

The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a highly fluid nature with much emotional depth. You store a constant flow of impressions and your instincts and hunches are usually very accurate. Your polarity reveals that your personality blends harmoniously with your individuality, but also accentuates your emotional nature, making you mentally receptive and impressionable. You have a very peaceable and amenable personality, and is agreeable and rarely on the wrong side of an argument; agreeable, friendly and diplomatic. Not a fighter, you are so affable and pleasant that is sometimes hard to tell where you stand or how long you are going to stand there. This is not to say you don't have ideas, but you keep them to yourself rather than produce conflict and turmoil. Your practical or political sense is so clear and your ability to apply tact to most situations usually assure you success in most endeavors, but you may have to develop your self-confidence and be a little more willing to act on your hunches and highly accurate intuition. You're suspicious of others, and you may keep many secrets locked inside. In fact, you are self-protective, a bit defensive, and some would say too cautious, a good deal of the time; but because of this, very able to protect yourself from designing people. Never easy to fool, you have good business sense and the ability to drive a good bargain. You can be popular in a large broad way with groups of people, though in personal contacts you are likely to remain a little suspicious and overly careful.




Posted by youngali
What are some of the things you would want to inform people about Cancers before they consider dating one?


get ready to lose control and make lots of posts on these forums when it doesnt turn out the way you want
Posted by notsosure
did the love then last? And was it love?


Did not last, yes, it was love
Posted by P6X58DE

Saturn in XI

He appreciates the company of older people of intelligence and good counsel. These will help success in professional life. He has few friends and has difficulty in finding a partner. He is very reserved.



Posted by lisabethur8
would you steal a man or woman from someone?? would you consider yourself righteous?? or just keep your boundaries?



do you believe what she says?


open to all, this is a good 8th house topic.


I always say that you hope that scorps and capricorns have a good set of morals and values because they have a lot of power to use in the way they believe is right.

Posted by SunMoonStars
1. Do you take them off social media?

2. Do you throw hardcopies away?

Open to all signs.


1. maybe

2. no
Posted by sonja44
I went on a first date with my new aquarius man, everything went perfect. afterwards, we decided to both wait sexually until the right time came along. two weeks later, he's telling me that he met a woman on a chance meeting on Saturday then she asks him to come over the next day sunday to go to a superbowl party with her.
Next morning, hes telling me that Im such an amazing lady and he almost instantly fell for me, however he wants to see this other woman for now, and be with me maybe in the future. he did this after already planning a valentines day dinner together which is for my birthday since its February 14, 1970. his birthday is February 11, 1970.

What do I need to do? I looked into my eyes and told me to wait for him before he ever saw this woman.


What kind of established medical doctor
Whale
Your spirit animal is the whale because you have a strong inner voice, and always follow your own truth. Because you are so in touch with reality, you are self-aware and don’t get involved in drama. You have strong bonds and emotional ties with those you love.
In my experience there is no guesswork with this sign, they pursue you with no uncertain terms, the males or females
Generally in my experience, fixed signs are most loyal