Hi. I just want an opinion because I don't know if my boyfriend is being a jerk. We live together and I cook breakfast and dinner everyday (except for the weekends). I also work full time.
When my boyfriend and I fight I'm not in the mood to cook. I can't pretend that I'm not mad at him.
Today my boyfriend started a fight when we got home from work over something insignificant so instead of going straight to the kitchen I went to my room to do something else. I was going to cook but I wanted to calm my anger a bit. Well he got more mad and told me that I'm expected to cook as soon as we get home from work because he's hungry as hell. So it doesn't matter if he starts a fight, I still have to feed him. I mean, if he's hungry he can also get something to eat or cook himself but he doesn't think that way.
I just want to know if it's normal for me not to be in the mood for cooking after we fight? And most of the time he starts the fights so I don't think it's fair to pretend there's nothing going on. I have emotions.
I'm just wondering if it's normal to be closer to one parent more than the other? I talk to my mom a lot and I feel confident to tell her things. I talk to my dad but sometimes I feel bad because I don't talk to him as much as my mom. I want to try getting closer to my dad but now it's hard because I never talked to him from the beginning.
Do you feel that you're closer to one of your parents?
My boyfriend is a Libra with a lot of air placements. He sounds like a Taurus or Scorpio but he's not.
Well, I had told him twice that I was going to delete my Facebook account and open a new one to get rid of all my past because even some of my pictures bothered him!!! I thought opening a new account was the best thing to do to leave all my past was behind. And he told me: "No, don't do it. Just keep your old Facebook". So I trusted him but he keeps stalking me and judging me about everything I have there about my past. I would understand if I did something bad NOW but he's judging me about things I posted before I met him. He also has a past himself, which is not good but I didn't judge him. He confessed that he cheated and that he slept with many girls. Maybe that's where his insecurities are coming from. He thinks that because he did that I'm going to do the same thing.
He tells me that I chat with men and delete the messages after. That's NOT TRUE. He makes things up in his head. Yesterday I told him I had made my decision of getting rid of Facebook bacause it causes problems but he told me the not to do it. Well, too bad. I won't listen to him this time.
Hi I really need to vent because I'm scared of losing my boyfriend because of his jealousy. Lately he's been very controlling and goes through my phone to see my past activity on Facebook. He's obsessed about my past and wants to find out everything!
He reads my old Facebook posts and messages I had with guy friends when I was single. I try to tell him that it doesn't make sense that he's reading that when it happened like 5 years ago way before I met him. The messages are harmless but it still bothers him. And he tells me that I don't love him because it's impossible to love more than one person and I already loved my previous boyfriends. I think he's overreacting because I made mistakes and met the wrong men. It could happen that you love someone but that love could die but he doesn't believe in that.
It has gotten to the point that I prefer to quit social media since I'm having problems with my boyfriend all the time. What can I do to make him understand that the past is in the past and he should focus on the present? I have been faithful and I haven't talked to other men since we started dating. But still, he's mad and jealous about my past relationships. I'm desperate. I don't know what to do.
Hi I'm a Cancer and I want to vent because I'm tired of being sensitive when I'm in a relationship. I think that's the reason why I've failed so many times with men and I don't last with them.
I expect everything to be a fairytale and as soon as a guy has a flaw, I feel like I need to keep on searching for prince charming. I feel so stupid being like this because I feel like I'm going to end up alone. All guys are going to have flaws and I need to be more realistic.
Right now I have an amazing boyfriend who treats me so well. Just because he stopped using smiley faces and calls me less I'm already thinking something is not right. The idea of a guy taking me for granted scares me. But I don't want to leave another guy because of something stupid and assume that there's a perfect guy without 1 flaw. I don't want to continue living in a fantasy world that I had to write a list of all the good things my boyfriend has so that when bad thoughts come into my head I remind myself that he's not a prince but a normal guy that loves me. Is there a way that I can be less sensitive and more realistic and emotionally strong?
Hi Yesterday for some odd reason my boyfriend posted a shirtless picture of himself on Facebook. He has a good body because he works out a lot. He posted a picture like that once but when he was single. I got a little mad because it was a picture he had sent me two weeks ago. It was a selfie of him with shorts and his shirt open where you could see his chest. And now he posted it on Facebook and I wonder why. Do you find this appropriate? He said it won't happen again but I feel like he wants to be noticed. I think any picture showing your body is provocative.
Hello I desperately need some advice because I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend to death and we get along pretty well. He's really affectionate and caring but has one problem. He cares a lot about money and makes it a priority.
He's a workaholic and I admire him for being ambitious but he works every day and doesn't have time for himself or for our relationship. He's not punctual when we agree to meet because he has such a busy life style .
Sometimes I feel like he doesn't know how to use money wisely because he spends it on things that aren't necessary. One time he bought a t-shirt of $ 200 dollars and I think it's too much. It was not dressy, just a normal t-shirt. It's good that he works hard to buy things but he also needs to relax and he never does. His ambition is so big that he gambles with his friends for money besides working long hours.
I'm really worried because he makes very little time for ourselves and I've had fights with him over this. I've told him he needs to organize his life better but he's already used to that life style . I don't want to leave him but I don't know how to solve this issue. Right now he wants to buy a brand new car because he sold his old car. But he wants an expensive car, not just a normal good car. As I said before, he's a great guy and says he can't see himself without me yet he puts his work and money before our relationship. What advice can you give me?
We've been together for 4 months. It's not that we split but our fights make it seem like we're going to break up. It's weird because usually with other guys I would NOT give second chances. I'm proud and hate begging for love but with this guy is different. I forgive him easily because I just can't see myself without him. I'm usually immature and can't forgive over small things. I'm surprised that I'm still with him in spite of everything. Have I found my true love??? What's the best way to make it last???
Hi I have a problem with my boyfriend. We fight a lot over stupid things and disagreements between us but we reconcile right away because our love is stronger than our fights.
Last night, for example, we had a small argument and my boyfriend didn't talk to me after that. This morning he told me to delete his number and forget about him. I thought it was over so I told him "Let's remain friends at least" and an hour later he started telling me how much he loves me and can't be without me. Now we're happy again!!!
The problem is that I don't feel secure in my relationship because we always have small fights and hours later we're happy again. I literally don't know what to expect tomorrow and if this romance will someday end. He says he doesn't see his life without me and neither can I. We're inseparable or something and I've never experienced this with other men. It's easy for me to break up and move on but I my boyfriend and I can't let go of each other. Even if we do, we'll be back together the next day. How can I have more security in my relationship?