To be honest, I am okay without kids. I just don’t see what’s so fun about having them. When they’re little they cry, throw tantrums and scream and have your house looking like a mess. It doesn’t make sense for me how all these women are excited to become moms but then they have to go to work and leave their child with theirs moms or at daycare. What’s the point of becoming a mom then? You gotta take care of the kid! You probably will need a rich husband if you want to spend time time with your baby and being a stay at home mom.
Plus, relationships are so complicated now a days and the divorce rates are high. Let’s say I don’t get along with my partner, I only have two choices: (A) get divorced and leave my child without a father or (B) be stuck to my partner since I have a child with that person. A person who is child free can just walk out of the relationship without feeling guilty or dealing with kids drama.
My cousin has twins with a man she married and then had another baby. A third one! And when the third baby was only one, she decided to separate from her husband. Why do people do this? Just keep on having kids instead of focusing on having a descent family. I guess being single dads/moms is more popular now a days than having a real family.
I have come to realize that I absolutely hate shopping malls. And you know what?? I’m a girl 👧 I’m supposed to love going shopping but I just hate how crowded the malls are, especially around Christmas season. Believe me, I avoid them like the plague. I was passing by today and I realized I hadn’t been in the mall for a loooong time! I heard us Cancers don’t like very crowded places. Maybe that’s why I don’t like it. I have done a lot more shopping online, which seems better rather than going to a mall were there’s no parking space, you have to make lines and always say: “excuse me” as you try to go from store A to store B. So annoying!!! I would only go to the mall for a very important and significant purchase. Sometimes I don’t get how people can spend all day there.
I admit that I have a problem. I feel stupid for being too nice, almost like a doormat for everyone 🥺🙄 When people ask me for favors, I have a hard time saying no out of fear of turning people down. I feel that people only like you if you say yes to everything. If you don’t, you’re automatically selfish or a bad person.
At my job they ask me if I can stay overtime a lot. Stupid me always says yes when I really need some time for myself. My mom asks me to do her favors or run errands for her. I always say yes otherwise I’ll feel guilty for not helping her. She’s my mother, not just any person. My brother asked if I could watch my niece and nephew on a Wednesday night. Oh man, I REALLY wanted to say no, but I ended up doing him the favor even if my brother never speaks to me.
I am tired of being so stupid and caring too much about peoples feelings. So what if I turn them down? I feel like I care too much about others while they could care less about me. How can I stop being afraid of saying no? Has anyone been in the same boat?
Before the pandemic, I wanted to take my parents on a trip to Europe. It was something I always had in mind. Now I’m basically just waiting for things to get better. I don’t want to risk buying airplane tickets and I wouldn’t like to travel wearing masks and with all these crazy restrictions as we are still social distancing a little bit. How much longer do you think it will rake for things to go back to normal as far as traveling and going on vacations to foreign countries? I already got vaccinated but still, Covid is not completely gone.
I am divorced and while I was married to my ex, my father in law didn’t like me. He didn’t like the fact that my Italian ex was going to move to the USA to live with me. When I went to Italy to visit he would bully me and make me feel intimidated. He would stare at me with a bad look and he made me drink wine even though I didn’t like to drink liquor. Since Italians drink it, he wanted me to drink it too and I got dizzy. I always felt like he didn’t like me. When I divorced my ex I heard that he had told his son that i was not the right woman for him and he always knew it. I swear I was nothing but polite and educated with my in laws. I heard that he got sick and he passed away. I don’t wish anyone to die but I couldn’t help to think that he was mean to me while my parents treated my ex like a son. It wasn’t fair as I am a good person.
First of all, I am a female and at work there’s this female co worker. I don’t know why but we’re not friends and we barely talk. The thing is that I feel like she could be my best friend forever for some reason. I feel like we are similar in many ways. She’s a big coffee drinker like me and she likes the movie Titanic as much as I did as a child. I am curious to get to know her more, as a friend of course. I’m not lesbian. Lol. 🙊 I’m 100% straight. The thing is that I feel like she could be my best buddy as we click so well. Just by saying hi to each other I feel this weird connection. Is that weird??? I am super curious to know her zodiac sign. Maybe she’s a water sign like me. I guess I’ll always be curious to be her friend. I’m an introvert and bad at socializing. Have you ever had a really strong connection with a friend even before knowing each other?
Sometimes I wonder how I will feel if I lost my life partner/companion. I feel sad and want to cry even thinking about it 😭 Can you imagine being with someone for 20 or 40 years and suddenly not having that person with you anymore? I can’t believe the pain of losing a spouse. I am super emotional and I feel like I wouldn’t be able to re marry. I think that will be the end of my life, right there. I don’t care about dying myself but going through the pain of losing someone I have loved all my life would break me in a million pieces. I’d rather us die together so neither of us have tu suffer or feel alone. Does this scare you or make you sad?
It’s been hard for me to leave because he was really different in the beginning. Very charming and romantic. I’ve never met a guy like that before. But he changes personalities sometimes and I think he might be bipolar but I’m not sure. I do love him but his mood changes exhaust me sometimes
So I’ve read that Libras stay in a relationship to be comfortable even though they don’t love their partners. Is this true? So does that mean that they will eventually leave once they find someone more interesting and stay so they are not alone or get out of their comfort zone??
My Libra man doesn’t leave me EVER, even if he acts like he hates me. He has told me I’m cold, selfish, stupid and whatnot. Yet, he hasn’t officially end things. Will this relationship never end unless I break it? Why do Libras stay if they don’t even like you?
Hi. I’ve posted a couple of times about my relationship. I’m a Cancer and my man is a Libra. I’m still with him because I love him even though we’re not very compatible in some areas. We’re not married but we live together.
My Libra guy has started the habit of going to sleep by himself on the couch rather than with me in bed. He does it for no apparent reason or sometimes because he gets mad over small stuff. I have never told him to go sleep in the couch, he just does it voluntarily. So only whenever he feels like it he’ll come to bed with me. I feel weird waking up with nobody by my side when he’s supposed to love me, as he says. The worst thing is that when he goes to sleep on the couch I don’t know what he might be doing. What if he’s talking to someone else during late hours and I don’t even know? 🤷♀️
It doesn’t make sense that he prefers our small couch where he barely fits rather than our queen size bed. It makes me feel like he doesn’t like me and I’m just his roommate. Oh but when he wants sex he sure comes to bed. I feel used and we’ve talked plenty of times about separating if he’s not happy with me but he wants to stay in this weird relationship. Maybe it’s convenient for him. But is this the way a relationship should be? Should I be okay with sleeping alone when he’s not in the mood to be with me? I thought couples slept together. Traditionally that’s how it should be. I think only couples who can’t stand each other sleep separately.
I’m a Cancer and I’m into romantic movies and childish movies, like Disney type of movies. It sounds odd but I don’t know why I’m into those movies. I’m like a little girl inside ☺️ Every time I want to watch something I chose those types of movie genres 99% of the time
My boyfriend is Libra and I’m a Cancer. We disagree on many things and fight all the time. We’re still together though but I’m not sure how it will go. All the negative responses here make me hopeless 😂😂😂 He is a great guy and I love him in spite of our differences
Ok, so I’m a Cancer here 🙋♀️ My sign is considered to be maternal. Actually we are called “the mothers of the zodiac” for some reason I’m not one of those women that is desperate to be a mom. I have all the other Cancer traits though. I’m extremely emotional, sensitive , moody, and a homebody. I’m just wondering why I’m lacking maternal instinct, especially being a Cancer woman. I don’t have anything against children but having kids is not one of my top priorities in life. I actually enjoy freedom and having hobbies and interests. I’m sure I would be a good mom if I have kids, but I’m not crazy about the idea.
How about you? Is there something about your sign that you don’t relate to? Or do you relate to all your characteristics?
Well, my boyfriend is Mexican so the insults were in Spanish and I understand because I’m Latina as well. While we were arguing he suddenly looked at me and said: “you’re a piece of butter”. And the most recent time he insulted me was when we were arguing about something insignificant and he said: “are you listening to me donkey?” But he said it all in Spanish. But I think it’s pretty offensive. It’s not fair because I treat him with respect even if I’m angry. I might yell but never insult
Hi I just want your feedback in this situation. I love my boyfriend but lately when he gets mad he insults me. I believe we’re all human and we can say things we don’t mean out of anger. It’s ok if it happens once or twice but my SO is really offending me. I’m the type of person that thinks it’s stupid to let someone insult you and act as if nothing happened. My parents have insulted each other over and over and I always told myself I was not going to ever allow that or be like them.
The thing is that I know relationships can be complicated and no one is perfect. Would ending the relationship over this be too dramatic? I’m a Cancer so I’m sensitive and I take things personal. But I don’t know if I’m overreacting or if it’s wrong to stay when someone starts to insult you. I’m not perfect either but I don’t offend people unless they really provoke me.
I don’t know if I’m wrong to think this way. I know we’re living in a new generation but I don’t feel comfortable paying for dates. Sorry. I don’t know if some women can relate to me but it’s just how I am. Call me old fashioned, but I still believe things should be like the old days. A man should pick up a girl, open the car door for her and pay for the date. Then drive her back and end the date with a hot kiss 😘 👍 hahaha
That doesn’t mean I’m high maintenance. I don’t expect men to take me to a fancy expensive restaurant but to act like a gentleman, be romantic and show me that he can take good care of me. I want to know if anyone else thinks like me or I’m crazy for thinking this way. By the way, I pay for my own bills and I do think us women should contribute financially to the household bills, but I don’t know about dates. Why do some men get annoyed that they always pay? Of course, there’s also circumstances. If a man lost his job then it’s different but if he’s financially stable there shouldn’t be an excuse to act like a gentleman. I’d like to hear some opinions.
So Virgos are the perfectionists of the zodiac. And I personally think Michael Jackson was just that. I’m not talking about his personal life, but his music career. He had a good voice, good dance moves, nice wardrobe and the best videos and concerts. Do you think he was just a natural born talent or his sign plays a role in who he was and his success?
How risky do you think it is to to back to the gym during the pandemic? My membership is active and I have to decide if I’m going back or cancel it. they usually wear gloves and masks but I have elderly parents and I’m going to work everyday. I don’t want to out anyone at risk. My parents don’t live with me but I see them sometimes.
I know that everyone is struggling right now due to Covid19. Some people aren’t working yet and I get that but do you think people should use the excuse of the virus not to look for work or attempt to work? I think the elderly, for example or people with special conditions should be more careful about exposing themselves or rushing to go back to work but, say a 20 something year old sitting at home not trying to look for jobs and living off the government just because there’s a virus? Is this a valid excuse not to work and live off the government? I’m asking because I know some people who are like this and I don’t know what’s so great about being home doing nothing. This virus might not go away anytime soon but life goes on. Everyone is at risk and we can’t be locked forever in our homes until this virus goes away. My company was closed for a while and I stayed home during lockdown but I never planned on staying home forever. So is the pandemic an excuse to live off the government and not do anything? I think if people don’t feel safe going out, they should at least try working from home. That’s my personal opinion.