It’s been hard for me to leave because he was really different in the beginning. Very charming and romantic. I’ve never met a guy like that before. But he changes personalities sometimes and I think he might be bipolar but I’m not sure. I do love him but his mood changes exhaust me sometimes
So I’ve read that Libras stay in a relationship to be comfortable even though they don’t love their partners. Is this true? So does that mean that they will eventually leave once they find someone more interesting and stay so they are not alone or get out of their comfort zone??
My Libra man doesn’t leave me EVER, even if he acts like he hates me. He has told me I’m cold, selfish, stupid and whatnot. Yet, he hasn’t officially end things. Will this relationship never end unless I break it? Why do Libras stay if they don’t even like you?
Hi. I’ve posted a couple of times about my relationship. I’m a Cancer and my man is a Libra. I’m still with him because I love him even though we’re not very compatible in some areas. We’re not married but we live together.
My Libra guy has started the habit of going to sleep by himself on the couch rather than with me in bed. He does it for no apparent reason or sometimes because he gets mad over small stuff. I have never told him to go sleep in the couch, he just does it voluntarily. So only whenever he feels like it he’ll come to bed with me. I feel weird waking up with nobody by my side when he’s supposed to love me, as he says. The worst thing is that when he goes to sleep on the couch I don’t know what he might be doing. What if he’s talking to someone else during late hours and I don’t even know? 🤷♀️
It doesn’t make sense that he prefers our small couch where he barely fits rather than our queen size bed. It makes me feel like he doesn’t like me and I’m just his roommate. Oh but when he wants sex he sure comes to bed. I feel used and we’ve talked plenty of times about separating if he’s not happy with me but he wants to stay in this weird relationship. Maybe it’s convenient for him. But is this the way a relationship should be? Should I be okay with sleeping alone when he’s not in the mood to be with me? I thought couples slept together. Traditionally that’s how it should be. I think only couples who can’t stand each other sleep separately.
I’m a Cancer and I’m into romantic movies and childish movies, like Disney type of movies. It sounds odd but I don’t know why I’m into those movies. I’m like a little girl inside ☺️ Every time I want to watch something I chose those types of movie genres 99% of the time
My boyfriend is Libra and I’m a Cancer. We disagree on many things and fight all the time. We’re still together though but I’m not sure how it will go. All the negative responses here make me hopeless 😂😂😂 He is a great guy and I love him in spite of our differences
Ok, so I’m a Cancer here 🙋♀️ My sign is considered to be maternal. Actually we are called “the mothers of the zodiac” for some reason I’m not one of those women that is desperate to be a mom. I have all the other Cancer traits though. I’m extremely emotional, sensitive , moody, and a homebody. I’m just wondering why I’m lacking maternal instinct, especially being a Cancer woman. I don’t have anything against children but having kids is not one of my top priorities in life. I actually enjoy freedom and having hobbies and interests. I’m sure I would be a good mom if I have kids, but I’m not crazy about the idea.
How about you? Is there something about your sign that you don’t relate to? Or do you relate to all your characteristics?
Well, my boyfriend is Mexican so the insults were in Spanish and I understand because I’m Latina as well. While we were arguing he suddenly looked at me and said: “you’re a piece of butter”. And the most recent time he insulted me was when we were arguing about something insignificant and he said: “are you listening to me donkey?” But he said it all in Spanish. But I think it’s pretty offensive. It’s not fair because I treat him with respect even if I’m angry. I might yell but never insult
Hi I just want your feedback in this situation. I love my boyfriend but lately when he gets mad he insults me. I believe we’re all human and we can say things we don’t mean out of anger. It’s ok if it happens once or twice but my SO is really offending me. I’m the type of person that thinks it’s stupid to let someone insult you and act as if nothing happened. My parents have insulted each other over and over and I always told myself I was not going to ever allow that or be like them.
The thing is that I know relationships can be complicated and no one is perfect. Would ending the relationship over this be too dramatic? I’m a Cancer so I’m sensitive and I take things personal. But I don’t know if I’m overreacting or if it’s wrong to stay when someone starts to insult you. I’m not perfect either but I don’t offend people unless they really provoke me.
I don’t know if I’m wrong to think this way. I know we’re living in a new generation but I don’t feel comfortable paying for dates. Sorry. I don’t know if some women can relate to me but it’s just how I am. Call me old fashioned, but I still believe things should be like the old days. A man should pick up a girl, open the car door for her and pay for the date. Then drive her back and end the date with a hot kiss 😘 👍 hahaha
That doesn’t mean I’m high maintenance. I don’t expect men to take me to a fancy expensive restaurant but to act like a gentleman, be romantic and show me that he can take good care of me. I want to know if anyone else thinks like me or I’m crazy for thinking this way. By the way, I pay for my own bills and I do think us women should contribute financially to the household bills, but I don’t know about dates. Why do some men get annoyed that they always pay? Of course, there’s also circumstances. If a man lost his job then it’s different but if he’s financially stable there shouldn’t be an excuse to act like a gentleman. I’d like to hear some opinions.
So Virgos are the perfectionists of the zodiac. And I personally think Michael Jackson was just that. I’m not talking about his personal life, but his music career. He had a good voice, good dance moves, nice wardrobe and the best videos and concerts. Do you think he was just a natural born talent or his sign plays a role in who he was and his success?
How risky do you think it is to to back to the gym during the pandemic? My membership is active and I have to decide if I’m going back or cancel it. they usually wear gloves and masks but I have elderly parents and I’m going to work everyday. I don’t want to out anyone at risk. My parents don’t live with me but I see them sometimes.
I know that everyone is struggling right now due to Covid19. Some people aren’t working yet and I get that but do you think people should use the excuse of the virus not to look for work or attempt to work? I think the elderly, for example or people with special conditions should be more careful about exposing themselves or rushing to go back to work but, say a 20 something year old sitting at home not trying to look for jobs and living off the government just because there’s a virus? Is this a valid excuse not to work and live off the government? I’m asking because I know some people who are like this and I don’t know what’s so great about being home doing nothing. This virus might not go away anytime soon but life goes on. Everyone is at risk and we can’t be locked forever in our homes until this virus goes away. My company was closed for a while and I stayed home during lockdown but I never planned on staying home forever. So is the pandemic an excuse to live off the government and not do anything? I think if people don’t feel safe going out, they should at least try working from home. That’s my personal opinion.
Just wondering... do you believe that couples can get along 100% of the time? Do you fight or argue with your partner? If so, how often? And what are your zodiac signs?
I fight with my boyfriend A LOT, and I think I already got used to it. At first I didn’t had patience but se still love each other even if we’re not the greatest match. He’s a Libra and I’m a Cancer. My mom and my dad hate each other and they’re incompatibile. He’s a Gemini and she’s a Taurus but they’re still together after almost 30 years.
I don’t know if it’s normal to feel this way but I can’t stand rich and spoiled people like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton. I know a person in real life that is just like that. It’s a guy who has never worked hard for anything. His parents buy him expensive clothes, his first car, payed for his entire college education, give him credit cards and now I found out that they’re selling their house and guess who will get the money from that house? The kid!!! The parents worked hard and the kid is the one receiving all the benefits without lifting a finger. Wow, how convenient. I’m not jealous but I know there’s less fortunate people and I hate that some people get everything without any effort. They’re often entitled, arrogant and self-centered. I believe that sometimes the less fortunate are happier because theyactually achieve things rather than mommy and daddy solving everything in their life.
So I got laid off from my previous job because of the Covid-19. I’ve been stucked at home for a month and I applied for unemployment. However I don’t want to be in debt because my boyfriend is hardly working and we’re very broke right now.
Some places are still open and I want to work. Of course, businesses are taking precautions and everyone wears masks. After applying to several places, a small company hired me. I will be working in an office but my boss and co-worker are males. My boyfriend has always been ridiculously jealous and doesn’t trust me around men. And I don’t understand why because I have respected him since the beginning of our relationship. He’s even jealous of all my previous boyfriends. It’s crazy!
All I want to do is work. Just because I will be with men doesn’t mean I will cheat on my boyfriend or act inappropriately. I told my boyfriend that my boss was going to be a male because he says I need to tell him everything!!! and he told me that I shouldn’t say “my boss” and that I needed to use another word like “the owner of the company”. Even though I know myself and that I’m not unfaithful, I feel guilty for taking the job. My boyfriend didn’t even congratulate me after I got hired. I want to feel happy not guilty while I start my first day. Since my boyfriend is a jealous freak, I feel guilty working close to a man. Is this bad? Should men and women work together or how do you see it?
So I’ve heard about people with claustrophobia and lately I feel like I have signs of being claustrophobic, to the point that I can’t sleep with my partners being too close or hugging me, as if I can’t escape. I have to tell my partners that I need space when I sleep and they usually feel offended.
I don’t like small spaces. When I tried on a wedding dress it was so hard to put it on and I felt trapped in the dress. I wanted to put it on right away so I didn’t felt trapped. The idea of being in a situation where I can’t move or breathe makes me uncomfortable. I’m okay with being inside an elevator, but if it’s in a place like a coffin I will be scared to death and probably have anxiety.
I have a story. Ever since I was little, I was very close to one of my aunts. She was my mom’s sister. I just liked spending time with her and she went through a lot of problems in her life and had no one, except a few friends. Later on she moved to another country and I still kept in touch with her. I will send her letters and sometimes call her. Unfortunately she got sick at died about 2 years ago. Now my brother has a 2 year old daughter that seems to love me. I’m her auntie. Everyone says that she always asks about me or will randomly say my name. I rarely visit her but my brother says she adores me and says she misses me. Sometimes I wonder if it’s a coincidence or because I did a good deed with my aunt, who was lonely, now life is paying me with a niece that loves me. I don’t have kids, but I’m glad my niece likes me and keeps me in her thoughts even if I don’t see her a lot. She’s only a toddler!
Well, I would have to definitely speak to my boyfriend first. If I reach out without telling him it will be bad! But he's so dramatic and he will start telling me the usual. "that I don't love him and I'm disrespectful".
One time he got mad because I mentioned an ex. Here's what happened. I have a dog and whenever he saw my boyfriend she got all happy. So I told him: "I'm surprised she likes you so much. I can't believe she's reacting like this. I had an ex and she did not like him at all. She actually barked at him".
He got furious when I told him this saying that I'm disrespectful and till this day he is not over it. He keeps bringing it up and making me feel like I betrayed him just because I said that.
Is he dramatic??? So when I tell him I want to reach out he will go even more crazy. That's my concerned