I decided to post about this topic because I rarely have close friends anymore. I used to be besties with this girl. Let’s call her Cindy. So Cindy and I used to hang out all the time, talk about our problems, joke around and do stuff together. I considered her a close friend.
Then I met this other girl named Natalie who I talked to ocasionally but I wouldn’t consider her a close friend. I had a better connection with Cindy. One day I was with Natalie and I had to introduce her to Cindy because she happened to be at a friend’s house and we were meeting with other people as a group. I don’t know how it happened but Cindy and Natalie slowly started becoming friends and now they are like besties.
Cindy talks to Natalie a lot more than she talks to me 😟 and I hate it for some reason. I have both of them on social media and I haven’t talk to them in ages but I see how they always interract while I am pretty much pushed to the side. And it’s not the first time it happens. Back in middle school I remember a girl who always had to hang out with different people, otherwise she would get bored. So she went from being a cool friend to totally distancing herself once she found a more interesting person.
I do know I had a really good friend who was an Aquarius. She had TONS of friends but never “ditched” me to hang out with someone else. They say Aquas make good friends and maybe it’s true. But she went to different schools and we didn’t see each other again.
Do you have similar experiences? Are you jealous of your friends or hate it when they prefer to hang out with others rather than with you?
Well, I don’t know what else to say at this point. I think I’m being fair with my boyfriend as far as his financial share. His only payments are half of the rent, the electric bill and groceries. That’s it. I pay the other half of the rent, the rest of the bills and my car, which he sometimes uses because he doesn’t have his own. And I make a little less money than him. It’s not a huge difference but it’s still less.
I know my BF sounds like a loser but he was totally different when I met him. Now he has shown his true colors. As far as his sons, he does spend money on them! One time he’s youngest son stayed with us for a week and every single day he would buy him food from outside. Whatever he desired even though BF was on a tight budget. I don’t think it was necessary to eat out EVERY day when we have food at home. And then he ran out of money and asked me if I could lend him money to buy his precious boy a chicken from some random fast food place. Sometimes all I could do is stay quiet because when I mention that his sons need to be financially independent, he gets pretty defensive. But I will be firm in not lending him more money and I will consider breaking up since his sons are # 1 in his life and he already showed it.
He doesn’t tell me specifically how he spends his money. He’s a lot older than me and with sons from a previous relationship! But his sons are not children anymore. The youngest is 18 and the oldest 24. He still supports his sons. The youngest doesn’t work and has a girlfriend. My BF actually gives his son money to take his girlfriend out on dates. I have told him his son should become financially independent but he says he’s too “young” and needs to focus on school. So I’m sure a big part of his money goes to his adult sons. If he wants to continue supporting them that’s fine but he needs to pay his bills and not ask me when he rans out of money. He has not specifically told me how much he gives his sons monthly. If he’s on a tight budget, his sons are fully capable of working. They could help out.
He has a stable job so there’s no excuse for him not to have money. The problem is that he doesn’t know how to busget and manage it well. He never saves a penny so when there’s an emergency, it seems like I’m his only option since I take care of my money and have my savings. I’ve helped him many times but enough is enough. He has no shame to ask.
Hi I feel so ashamed posting this. I know I should’ve dumped my Libra man a long time ago but I’m stupid and I have forgiven him many times since I sincerely love him but I don’t think he loves me at all.
He is really bad with his finances and the first person he asks for money whenever he’s short is me. We keep our finances separately. I’ve helped him many times and he always pays me back but I’m tired of him never having his own savings and always asking for $ $ $ like I’m an ATM machine.
Since we live together, when the rent was due this past month, he told me to wait 2 weeks because he didn’t had the money ready for the rent. We pay 50/50 of the rent. The electric bill was also due which he pays because I pay for other bills and I had to help him pay that too besides the rent. Just when he finally payed me back, my boyfriend had no shame and asked me again if I could lend him money because he did something stupid and damaged his phone!! Now he has no phone and no money to buy another one. He’s acting offended because I was firm and told him I was not giving him more money. Just now we were talking and I told him I don’t want him to get into the habit of asking me for money when he should have his own savings. He told me: “then why do I have a partner if I can’t count on you?” According to him, I’m the bad guy of the situation. Is it okay for me to be selfish and not let him take advantage of me? It’s not my fault that his phone doesn’t work and that he doesn’t have money for a new one.
I don’t have a favorite movie, but when Titanic came out in 1997, I was obsessed!! It was not only a romantic movie, but it had sone drama and action as well when the TItanic sank and everyone was trying to survive. To me, it was a legendary movie and it was based on a true story which makes it even more interesting.
I got vaccinated because I have elderly parents and I want to protect myself, go to the gym, have a normal life and not worry too much about dying. I don’t know what will happen since some people don’t want to get vaccinated. All I know if it things get worst and we have another lockdown down the road, it will NOT be fair for us that got vaccinated. I will be pissed. We should all want things to get better, not worst
To be honest, I am okay without kids. I just don’t see what’s so fun about having them. When they’re little they cry, throw tantrums and scream and have your house looking like a mess. It doesn’t make sense for me how all these women are excited to become moms but then they have to go to work and leave their child with theirs moms or at daycare. What’s the point of becoming a mom then? You gotta take care of the kid! You probably will need a rich husband if you want to spend time time with your baby and being a stay at home mom.
Plus, relationships are so complicated now a days and the divorce rates are high. Let’s say I don’t get along with my partner, I only have two choices: (A) get divorced and leave my child without a father or (B) be stuck to my partner since I have a child with that person. A person who is child free can just walk out of the relationship without feeling guilty or dealing with kids drama.
My cousin has twins with a man she married and then had another baby. A third one! And when the third baby was only one, she decided to separate from her husband. Why do people do this? Just keep on having kids instead of focusing on having a descent family. I guess being single dads/moms is more popular now a days than having a real family.
I have come to realize that I absolutely hate shopping malls. And you know what?? I’m a girl 👧 I’m supposed to love going shopping but I just hate how crowded the malls are, especially around Christmas season. Believe me, I avoid them like the plague. I was passing by today and I realized I hadn’t been in the mall for a loooong time! I heard us Cancers don’t like very crowded places. Maybe that’s why I don’t like it. I have done a lot more shopping online, which seems better rather than going to a mall were there’s no parking space, you have to make lines and always say: “excuse me” as you try to go from store A to store B. So annoying!!! I would only go to the mall for a very important and significant purchase. Sometimes I don’t get how people can spend all day there.
I admit that I have a problem. I feel stupid for being too nice, almost like a doormat for everyone 🥺🙄 When people ask me for favors, I have a hard time saying no out of fear of turning people down. I feel that people only like you if you say yes to everything. If you don’t, you’re automatically selfish or a bad person.
At my job they ask me if I can stay overtime a lot. Stupid me always says yes when I really need some time for myself. My mom asks me to do her favors or run errands for her. I always say yes otherwise I’ll feel guilty for not helping her. She’s my mother, not just any person. My brother asked if I could watch my niece and nephew on a Wednesday night. Oh man, I REALLY wanted to say no, but I ended up doing him the favor even if my brother never speaks to me.
I am tired of being so stupid and caring too much about peoples feelings. So what if I turn them down? I feel like I care too much about others while they could care less about me. How can I stop being afraid of saying no? Has anyone been in the same boat?
Before the pandemic, I wanted to take my parents on a trip to Europe. It was something I always had in mind. Now I’m basically just waiting for things to get better. I don’t want to risk buying airplane tickets and I wouldn’t like to travel wearing masks and with all these crazy restrictions as we are still social distancing a little bit. How much longer do you think it will rake for things to go back to normal as far as traveling and going on vacations to foreign countries? I already got vaccinated but still, Covid is not completely gone.
I am divorced and while I was married to my ex, my father in law didn’t like me. He didn’t like the fact that my Italian ex was going to move to the USA to live with me. When I went to Italy to visit he would bully me and make me feel intimidated. He would stare at me with a bad look and he made me drink wine even though I didn’t like to drink liquor. Since Italians drink it, he wanted me to drink it too and I got dizzy. I always felt like he didn’t like me. When I divorced my ex I heard that he had told his son that i was not the right woman for him and he always knew it. I swear I was nothing but polite and educated with my in laws. I heard that he got sick and he passed away. I don’t wish anyone to die but I couldn’t help to think that he was mean to me while my parents treated my ex like a son. It wasn’t fair as I am a good person.
First of all, I am a female and at work there’s this female co worker. I don’t know why but we’re not friends and we barely talk. The thing is that I feel like she could be my best friend forever for some reason. I feel like we are similar in many ways. She’s a big coffee drinker like me and she likes the movie Titanic as much as I did as a child. I am curious to get to know her more, as a friend of course. I’m not lesbian. Lol. 🙊 I’m 100% straight. The thing is that I feel like she could be my best buddy as we click so well. Just by saying hi to each other I feel this weird connection. Is that weird??? I am super curious to know her zodiac sign. Maybe she’s a water sign like me. I guess I’ll always be curious to be her friend. I’m an introvert and bad at socializing. Have you ever had a really strong connection with a friend even before knowing each other?
Sometimes I wonder how I will feel if I lost my life partner/companion. I feel sad and want to cry even thinking about it 😭 Can you imagine being with someone for 20 or 40 years and suddenly not having that person with you anymore? I can’t believe the pain of losing a spouse. I am super emotional and I feel like I wouldn’t be able to re marry. I think that will be the end of my life, right there. I don’t care about dying myself but going through the pain of losing someone I have loved all my life would break me in a million pieces. I’d rather us die together so neither of us have tu suffer or feel alone. Does this scare you or make you sad?
It’s been hard for me to leave because he was really different in the beginning. Very charming and romantic. I’ve never met a guy like that before. But he changes personalities sometimes and I think he might be bipolar but I’m not sure. I do love him but his mood changes exhaust me sometimes
So I’ve read that Libras stay in a relationship to be comfortable even though they don’t love their partners. Is this true? So does that mean that they will eventually leave once they find someone more interesting and stay so they are not alone or get out of their comfort zone??
My Libra man doesn’t leave me EVER, even if he acts like he hates me. He has told me I’m cold, selfish, stupid and whatnot. Yet, he hasn’t officially end things. Will this relationship never end unless I break it? Why do Libras stay if they don’t even like you?
Hi. I’ve posted a couple of times about my relationship. I’m a Cancer and my man is a Libra. I’m still with him because I love him even though we’re not very compatible in some areas. We’re not married but we live together.
My Libra guy has started the habit of going to sleep by himself on the couch rather than with me in bed. He does it for no apparent reason or sometimes because he gets mad over small stuff. I have never told him to go sleep in the couch, he just does it voluntarily. So only whenever he feels like it he’ll come to bed with me. I feel weird waking up with nobody by my side when he’s supposed to love me, as he says. The worst thing is that when he goes to sleep on the couch I don’t know what he might be doing. What if he’s talking to someone else during late hours and I don’t even know? 🤷♀️
It doesn’t make sense that he prefers our small couch where he barely fits rather than our queen size bed. It makes me feel like he doesn’t like me and I’m just his roommate. Oh but when he wants sex he sure comes to bed. I feel used and we’ve talked plenty of times about separating if he’s not happy with me but he wants to stay in this weird relationship. Maybe it’s convenient for him. But is this the way a relationship should be? Should I be okay with sleeping alone when he’s not in the mood to be with me? I thought couples slept together. Traditionally that’s how it should be. I think only couples who can’t stand each other sleep separately.
I’m a Cancer and I’m into romantic movies and childish movies, like Disney type of movies. It sounds odd but I don’t know why I’m into those movies. I’m like a little girl inside ☺️ Every time I want to watch something I chose those types of movie genres 99% of the time