I don’t know if it’s normal to feel this way but I can’t stand rich and spoiled people like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton. I know a person in real life that is just like that. It’s a guy who has never worked hard for anything. His parents buy him expensive clothes, his first car, payed for his entire college education, give him credit cards and now I found out that they’re selling their house and guess who will get the money from that house? The kid!!! The parents worked hard and the kid is the one receiving all the benefits without lifting a finger. Wow, how convenient. I’m not jealous but I know there’s less fortunate people and I hate that some people get everything without any effort. They’re often entitled, arrogant and self-centered. I believe that sometimes the less fortunate are happier because theyactually achieve things rather than mommy and daddy solving everything in their life.
So I got laid off from my previous job because of the Covid-19. I’ve been stucked at home for a month and I applied for unemployment. However I don’t want to be in debt because my boyfriend is hardly working and we’re very broke right now.
Some places are still open and I want to work. Of course, businesses are taking precautions and everyone wears masks. After applying to several places, a small company hired me. I will be working in an office but my boss and co-worker are males. My boyfriend has always been ridiculously jealous and doesn’t trust me around men. And I don’t understand why because I have respected him since the beginning of our relationship. He’s even jealous of all my previous boyfriends. It’s crazy!
All I want to do is work. Just because I will be with men doesn’t mean I will cheat on my boyfriend or act inappropriately. I told my boyfriend that my boss was going to be a male because he says I need to tell him everything!!! and he told me that I shouldn’t say “my boss” and that I needed to use another word like “the owner of the company”. Even though I know myself and that I’m not unfaithful, I feel guilty for taking the job. My boyfriend didn’t even congratulate me after I got hired. I want to feel happy not guilty while I start my first day. Since my boyfriend is a jealous freak, I feel guilty working close to a man. Is this bad? Should men and women work together or how do you see it?
So I’ve heard about people with claustrophobia and lately I feel like I have signs of being claustrophobic, to the point that I can’t sleep with my partners being too close or hugging me, as if I can’t escape. I have to tell my partners that I need space when I sleep and they usually feel offended.
I don’t like small spaces. When I tried on a wedding dress it was so hard to put it on and I felt trapped in the dress. I wanted to put it on right away so I didn’t felt trapped. The idea of being in a situation where I can’t move or breathe makes me uncomfortable. I’m okay with being inside an elevator, but if it’s in a place like a coffin I will be scared to death and probably have anxiety.
I have a story. Ever since I was little, I was very close to one of my aunts. She was my mom’s sister. I just liked spending time with her and she went through a lot of problems in her life and had no one, except a few friends. Later on she moved to another country and I still kept in touch with her. I will send her letters and sometimes call her. Unfortunately she got sick at died about 2 years ago. Now my brother has a 2 year old daughter that seems to love me. I’m her auntie. Everyone says that she always asks about me or will randomly say my name. I rarely visit her but my brother says she adores me and says she misses me. Sometimes I wonder if it’s a coincidence or because I did a good deed with my aunt, who was lonely, now life is paying me with a niece that loves me. I don’t have kids, but I’m glad my niece likes me and keeps me in her thoughts even if I don’t see her a lot. She’s only a toddler!
Well, I would have to definitely speak to my boyfriend first. If I reach out without telling him it will be bad! But he's so dramatic and he will start telling me the usual. "that I don't love him and I'm disrespectful".
One time he got mad because I mentioned an ex. Here's what happened. I have a dog and whenever he saw my boyfriend she got all happy. So I told him: "I'm surprised she likes you so much. I can't believe she's reacting like this. I had an ex and she did not like him at all. She actually barked at him".
He got furious when I told him this saying that I'm disrespectful and till this day he is not over it. He keeps bringing it up and making me feel like I betrayed him just because I said that.
Is he dramatic??? So when I tell him I want to reach out he will go even more crazy. That's my concerned
Ok, this a hard situation for me. I used to be married to an Italian man but we divorced because we weren't compatible. Now I'm in a relationship with another man who is super jealous, controlling and who hates every boyfriend I ever had in the past. He wants me to hate all my boyfriends, including my ex husband.
I really don't have any grudges or hate him, we just didn't get along so I moved on. He went back to Italy with his family and they live in the north of Italy!!! That's were everyone is dying right now. So I feel that I should just send him and his family a message wishing them well. Nothing else. I don't have any intentions of trying to get back with him but I don't know if it's a good idea. 🤔 Is this disrespectful towards my current boyfriend. He will go NUTS if I tell him I want to wish him well. I just don't want to be an insensitive human being. I traveled to Italy many times and met many people there because of my ex and I can't imagine what they're going through. Locked at home and with fear of getting infected!!! I'm in a terrible situation here. Should I reach out or not? Or maybe contact someone else there so they tell him I say hi.
Hi The only social media I have is Facebook but for some reason I like to keep some things private and that's why I don't have my parents on Facebook. I wouldn't like them being nosy and knowing everything I do or reading everything that comes out of my mind. Facebook is almost like a diary to me.
My dad just sent me a friend request and I don't know what to do. I feel bad because he's my dad and I shouldn't ignore him but I'm a really private person. Also I'm a little angry because my mom keeps telling me that he's disrespectful towards her, telling her that she's old and stuff.
What should I do???? I want to accept but once I do it my privacy will be gone. My dad will know everything I do and I will have to add my mom too since I want to be fair with both. I'm an adult by the way.
Before you give me an answer please read my story so you can understand my situation. I know I've been posting a lot about my relationship and I think it has come to an end unfortunately. Early this morning my boyfriend sent me like 50 messages in which he insulted and offended me. I have never insulted him. He pretty much gets mad for everything.
As a Cancer I feel extremely offended that I don't even want to respond to his messages or see him, but the problem is that he lives with me. The apartment is mine and I could just tell him to leave but I feel like he will win because he already made me feel like crap so I feel that I should do something about this. I pretty much want him to feel like I'm dead. I want him to regret every word he said and not because I care anymore but because I'm a good person and he's the psycho that has issues.
What would you do in my situation? I don't want to go back to my own apartment because all I want to do is avoid him so badly. I don't want to see him or speak to him. If I go back and tell him to just leave I will let him get away with what he did and he deserves to feel some pain just as I have felt it all the time I dealt with him. Any thoughts?
He's a Libra. But he keeps asking me to forgive him just to make the same mistakes over and over again. So that's why I feel he has some issues going on. Maybe he's frustrated deep inside for some reason. I really wished I could help him because I love him but if he's not willing to help himself get better I don't think I have a future with him.
My boyfriend keeps getting mad over stupid things. It has gotten to the point that I feel nervous of saying something or doing something wrong that might get him mad. Just yesterday he asked me to forgive him because he got mad at me and was moody for 2 days straight. I forgave him and today he started another stupid fight again.
I already mentioned to him that maybe we could try going to therapy because I need someone to give feedback on his attitude problems since he won't recognize he's wrong. He says he doesn't need therapy and refuses to go. He recognizes he has anger issues but says he can fix them himself, which I don't see hapenning. So if I can't help him and he doesn't want to see help what else is there to do? I love him and I know he could get better but I'm getting tired of his behavior. What would you do?
I think I can give you an answer based on my experience. I'm a Cancer female and my boyfriend is a Libra male. And like you said, he's super charming and outgoing which I like because Cancers are the complete opposite. I'm shy and introverted so I like being with him. But I don't want to lie, we do fight often because we have our differences and I can be very sensitive when he likes to joke around and says things he doesn't mean. Another thing you have to watch out is that some Libras are known to be players. My boyfriend was sincere from the beginning and told me he was a big player before he met me. So far he hasn't cheated on me and we're trying to work on our problems. I don't know if the relationship will last but I do love him and he's different and special unlike other men I've met. That's why I'm still with him.
Hi I live on my own and during my childhood years my parents argued a lot. There was some physical abuse both from my mom and dad. My mom insulted my dad so much that he couldn't handle it and hurt my mom physically. I don't live with them anymore and they still argued but are no longer physically abusive to one another. They started going to church and changing but for some reason sometimes I have dreams about my dad hitting my mom. And I get so sad when I have those dreams and scared, like I can't do anything, like helpless.
I want to stop having these nightmares but I've had them numerous times. Why do I have these dreams if my dad changed and is no longer abusive to my mom? And I'm not experiencing or witnessing any abuse?
I'm a Cancer woman and from my point of view, I like men who are sincere. So if you care about her and want her back, show it to her but be SINCERE. Don't play any mind games and show her that you've changed. If a guy doesn't make an effort with me or doesn't speak to me for days I assumed that he moved on and no longer cares. She might be different but that's my personal opinion.
Ok, here's what I think. I agree that sometimes people can make mistakes. They can be in love at the beginning and then things can fall apart once they have a child. But at the same time I don't understand why people don't make smart choices? I've seen couples in a rush to get children right after marriage. Why so quickly? They should live each season of their lives properly and make sure to have a good marriage before starting a family. Unfortunately I grew up with parents who argued all the time and they still do after my brother and I moved out of their house. I went on vacations with them during summer and they kept acting like little children arguing in front of me about everything. It was so uncomfortable and I if I ever have kids I don't want to give that example. I'm in my 30's currently living with my boyfriend and we've thought of having a family but I don't want to rush like most people. I'd rather see if my relationship will work even if I'd like to become a mom someday. I want to be a good mom though, not an ordinary one.
I'm pretty sure you've heard of stories about couples who stay together just because they have a child. I find this very silly. Why have a kid in the first place if the love was not strong enough? I really think making a baby is a huge deal and our job as adults is to be a good example to that child. The child should grow up with the idea that his/her parents love and respect each other but not fake that they get along just because of a child. What are your opinions? It just seems like it's becoming very common for kids to come to this world without a real family.
I don't know if it's normal but I'm strong when it comes to crying. When people die, such as my grandma I did not cry. I don't think I'm heartless but there are other situations that make me cry. Like, something unfair happening, seeing someone suffer or something like that. And for some reason I'm embarassed to cry in front of others. A few tears are ok, but not snobbing. That's just me.