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RedemptionSong
joined November 25, 2017
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  • RedemptionSong
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    Pisces forum is where I started here on dxp, so I think it's only natural it is where I shall bid you all adieu. I have had some good times on dxpnet, but life is moving me in a new direction now. I will only be checking in periodically now, if at all, so I'm not going to delete my account.

    @nemdeux @donumdei @shakedown @MsFisk and my other pisces loves and dxp people goodbye. πŸ˜™
  • RedemptionSong
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    Yes. I put myself on an exercise and healthy eating regimen a few months ago. Cut out a bunch of crap food and started hitting gym 3 to 4 days a week. If I don't stay disciplined I can easily put on weight.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by HearttofTopaz
    I’m afraid to wear her makeup. I don’t want my forehead to get any bigger than it already is



    Forehead contouring could be the next big thing

    LOL! I think I read somewhere that most attractive people have large foreheads.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by ACsquarepluto
    Same. I'm on the email list for the lingerie line, just got the email that it's dropping tomorrow. I own a pair of her fenty x puma heels

    How are the heels? Are they comfortable?
  • RedemptionSong
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    I'm here for it. I'm not going to lie, I was skeptical about her products. But I've been wearing the Fenty foundation for a month and I love it. Not sure I will be kicking my Lancome to the curb any time soon, but I like her foundation as my second option.

    I'm looking forward to seeing what she does with her lingerie launch on May 11th. The prices look very affordable, which I respect because she didn't do the usual celebrity price gauging.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by Lioness18881
    So there's that saying... treat em mean to keep them keen.



    How much truth does that hold? If someone is always nice to everyone and they don't like gossip or saying mean things about others, would you lose interest?



    Do you prefer markers/cookiemonsteres over someone who always sees the good side in people and situations?





    I prefer to be a appreciated for who I am. If I have treat someone mean to keep them I wont respect them, or the relationship.

    I'm also not interested in douchey marker men.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Also, why are some people considering these men simps? I thought men prided themself on being able to protect and provide? So if he is able to buy his girlfriend gifts or pay for her upkeep, isn't it a stoke for his ego as well that he can provide for her? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ I mean T.I. did say it ain't tricking if you got it. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Posted by Ixion
    So I was thinking about this after a conversation with one of my sisters, she revealed that she has had several bfs over the past decade who have willingly offered taking over the funding for her upkeep: nails both manis and pedis, and even one who paid for her hair...(trust me when I say black hair care is expensive af even without a salon) so I wanted to know how common of an occurrence is this for the dudes here?



    Do you have rules surrounding whether you do or not and for who?




    You mean it's not normal for guys to do this? I never considered it paying for upkeep. I just assume men want to keep us happy. I don't know a man whose dated a black woman who hasn't paid or at least offered to pay for hair or nails at some point. It's not like we feel entitled to it, but it's common place. Where I'm from at least... click to expand




    Meh I wouldnt say its super super common...at least not in my age range...but I have seen older men in my neighborhood definitely do this sorta thing for their wives/long terms...wanted to know what other folk did in regards to that. click to expand
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    Hmm. I'm 36, I don't know if its older generation or what not. It's common among women I know, especially Gen X women.

    I remember a black male comedian making a joke about this once. That if you date a black woman at some point you're gonna have to pay for her to get her hair done. I think it was Chris Rock lol.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by Ixion
    Posted by TaurusBull1977
    Posted by Ixion
    So I was thinking about this after a conversation with one of my sisters, she revealed that she has had several bfs over the past decade who have willingly offered taking over the funding for her upkeep: nails both manis and pedis, and even one who paid for her hair...(trust me when I say black hair care is expensive af even without a salon) so I wanted to know how common of an occurrence is this for the dudes here?



    Do you have rules surrounding whether you do or not and for who?




    Since this question is directed towards the men.....



    I will offer some advice for the men who are commenting on this thread.



    If you're going to be a 'simp', state your needs, and get it in writing.

    If you're smart enough to see right through her...then GOOD FOR YOU!



    My opinion on this issue,



    This bravado your sister exudes of finding a 'simp' to endorse her beauty routine is quite comical.

    The employees at the nail salon are grossly underpaid, overworked and burned out, which is why her mani/pedis are cheap. Yes, I used the word 'CHEAP.'



    If her hair appointments are expensive, she probably wears a weave.

    No disrespect to the sistas with 'fake' hair, but if you can't afford the maintenance of a weave on your own, then don't wear one.



    In NYC (yes, in any of the five boroughs) a wash/blow/set can cost anywhere from $ 25- $ 35 if you're maintaining your own hair.









    Not expensive at all.



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    So..... thanks opinion on the manner.



    First of all...Who hurt you? Because you seem to be making some pretty wild assumptions.



    Second of all...she tends to get her beauty done at black-owned businesses here in Brooklyn.....they are not 'CHEAP' (emphasis yours) also you made an assumption about what she paid as I never said how much she paid...you really need to check that.



    Third of all this was never about the expense but about the practice. As stated numerous times prior to this my sister told me about 3 partners out of a multitude over some 15 years who offered of their own volition. She doesn't need anyone to keep her...she has her own and takes care of her own. You just exhibited the kind of knee-jerk reaction I JUST talked about above and seem out to demonize a woman based on free will offers given......by men...



    You have some powerful mental frames that really make you uncomfortable about this I'm curious as to where your discomfort stands from.



    As for her hair type she actually has had Dreadlocks for well over a decade...beautiful ones and styling those absolutely do not cost 35 bucks in all the 5 boros...please chyle catch yourself.

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    πŸ‘πŸ‘
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by Ixion
    So I was thinking about this after a conversation with one of my sisters, she revealed that she has had several bfs over the past decade who have willingly offered taking over the funding for her upkeep: nails both manis and pedis, and even one who paid for her hair...(trust me when I say black hair care is expensive af even without a salon) so I wanted to know how common of an occurrence is this for the dudes here?



    Do you have rules surrounding whether you do or not and for who?


    You mean it's not normal for guys to do this? I never considered it paying for upkeep. I just assume men want to keep us happy. I don't know a man whose dated a black woman who hasn't paid or at least offered to pay for hair or nails at some point. It's not like we feel entitled to it, but it's common place. Where I'm from at least...
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by Impulsv
    Size 10 plus size?

    Only in the fashion world. To every one else it's about average. I find it weird when standard size clothing stores stop at a size 12. The average woman is a size 12 and up these days.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by AstroPlus
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Posted by TheTinMan
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Posted by kitten_
    What zodiac sign male would date them? Other than Capricorns....


    All of them. Depends on the synastry and/or chemistry. Taurus and Libra like pretty faces, seen them with plus size. Cancers like big boobies, seen them with plus size. I've seen many a scorpio man eye Ashley Graham. Etc etc. What do you consider plus size? Here in the US it's about a size 14 and up. Now if you are using plus size as a euphemism for super obese, the area gets a bit greyer.






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    Technically the woman in the picture would be beyond what is usually considered the average plus size range. Moving towards super plus size. But I'm sure she could still get some play from some where. click to expand




    I'm not going to lie... even if I wanted to I'm not sure if I'd have the 'equipment' to handle the task, and I have a decent amount of equipment. It would definitely take a special someone, but I'm sure they're out there.



    On a side note... If the same woman we're in a different setting I don't think she'd be unattractive. click to expand
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    Sure you could. Just move the belly rolls out of the way with your hands and get in there. You got this. πŸ‘ŒπŸ½
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by TheTinMan
    Posted by RedemptionSong
    Posted by kitten_
    What zodiac sign male would date them? Other than Capricorns....


    All of them. Depends on the synastry and/or chemistry. Taurus and Libra like pretty faces, seen them with plus size. Cancers like big boobies, seen them with plus size. I've seen many a scorpio man eye Ashley Graham. Etc etc. What do you consider plus size? Here in the US it's about a size 14 and up. Now if you are using plus size as a euphemism for super obese, the area gets a bit greyer.






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    Technically the woman in the picture would be beyond what is usually considered the average plus size range. Moving towards super plus size. But I'm sure she could still get some play from some where.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by kitten_
    What zodiac sign male would date them? Other than Capricorns....

    All of them. Depends on the synastry and/or chemistry. Taurus and Libra like pretty faces, seen them with plus size. Cancers like big boobies, seen them with plus size. I've seen many a scorpio man eye Ashley Graham. Etc etc. What do you consider plus size? Here in the US it's about a size 14 and up. Now if you are using plus size as a euphemism for super obese, the area gets a bit greyer.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Ahh what the hell. Sag all the way down. What type of dark magick is this? And two of my exes combos showimg up as best match combos. Lies they tell!! Closes page.
  • RedemptionSong
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  • RedemptionSong
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    Posted by twinkletoes
    take that nerdy butter to the games forum.

    https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/games/



    and @firebunny, maybe you need to treetrunkin' find the treetrunkin' Personal Development boards.

    https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/personal-development/





    LMAO!! Your posts rarely make sense to me, but this one is right on the money. /Dead
  • RedemptionSong
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    Mood today.
  • RedemptionSong
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    Not really. 8th house is capricorn. I'm sexually attracted to cap mars but thats it. 7th house is where i feel the most sexual attraction, scorpio and sag energy intercepted.
  • RedemptionSong
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    @LittleStar pretty much articulated everything I was thinking. Stay woke.