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What does being intense even mean?

We're just taking it slow and he said he's controlling his intensity by being extra chill/laidback. That intensity tends to only come out in committed romantic relationships for him.

He said it's not a toxic type of intensity though. So I don't know what he means now by "intense".

He's a Scorpio in Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus. So I guess it's not a surprise that he can manage to keep certain things under surface.

I was stalked for 10y from someone who had the same placements. Yeah intense. Proposed after 2 months.

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Krabss - how hot are you? You must be up there.

Don't ever disagree with them.

Let them have the food. They will eat most of it.

Needless to say, I am not a fan.

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Cancer men lol

Lol wow.

Posted by Ellen8765
Dated this Scorpio guy few years back. We were getting along but he ended it to date someone else, another Scorpio female. He said that he felt I like him more that he does. We kept in touch as friends without any drama. We decided to take trip together recently and we became intimate. He was holding my hand, cuddled me most of the day and told me that unlike before he is interested in a serious relationship(without me raising this issue).


In the end of our trip I asked him whether he feels we could give this a shot between us he said he feels I am too in love with him (I just like him did not imply I am in love) and that he actually does not want a serious relationship. I understand he is not interested in me but why did he show this change in behavior? Is it just he wanted to get me to bed and then decided to stop pretending ? He said he feels comfortable with me but nothing more.

A lot of nonsense in this thread.

It is really quite simple. He doesn't want to hurt you.

He is cool with hanging out etcetera, but that's it. He knows there is no future, and he doesn't want to hurt you. Hence "you are too in love with me."

I recommend you find someone else. Don't waste your time.

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The problem is Scorpio and cancers never work out.

yeah, i don't see that pairing ever.

I know two pairs, at least one married.

I know some too
One couple ... a dark brooding Scorpio
fisherman and a gentle nurturing Cancer woman

I love fishing.

The fella I know does it for a living. Out on a boat in all weathers ..... kind of dangerous and risky

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Professional fisher? Nice.

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The problem is Scorpio and cancers never work out.

yeah, i don't see that pairing ever.

The problem is trust. Both don't trust each other, lol. And cancer is more sensitive than Scorpio, at least with the three I've been with.

I have found the Cancer woman to be very honest. Sometimes a little too honest. Lol. No reason not to trust a good Cancer woman.

Cancers are very sensitive. This is true. But I find it endearing.

Cancers aren't easygoing in my opinion. That is also why you see so many Cancers divorced or unmarried. I think it takes a strong sign to understand them.

I think it has to do with Cancers being affected because of the way they feel. I think Scorpios have a hard time believing it because it's a skewed way of thinking.
Scorpios see the reality of the situation and Cancers have their own reality, based on how it affected them. So it's hard for a fixed sign to not see it as complete bullshit, but the Cancer is really bothered.

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I have no idea what you are talking about.

I understand the Cancer extremely well.

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The problem is Scorpio and cancers never work out.

yeah, i don't see that pairing ever.

I know two pairs, at least one married.

I know some too
One couple ... a dark brooding Scorpio
fisherman and a gentle nurturing Cancer woman

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I love fishing.

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The problem is Scorpio and cancers never work out.

yeah, i don't see that pairing ever.

The problem is trust. Both don't trust each other, lol. And cancer is more sensitive than Scorpio, at least with the three I've been with.

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I have found the Cancer woman to be very honest. Sometimes a little too honest. Lol. No reason not to trust a good Cancer woman.

Cancers are very sensitive. This is true. But I find it endearing.

Cancers aren't easygoing in my opinion. That is also why you see so many Cancers divorced or unmarried. I think it takes a strong sign to understand them.

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The problem is Scorpio and cancers never work out.

Are you a Scorpio man?

Scorpio sun sag moon

Are you self centered?

I'm independent. If that's what you call self-centered, then maybe I am, lol

Do you treat your partners well?

Extremely well

I believe you 😃

Lol, my brother is a dual scorpion, and he’s the total opposite. I'll say this tho I don't hate on cancers. I've dated three and one for five years. The other two for less than a year.

Dual as in Sun and Moon?
He treats partners badly?
Where is your Venus?

Capricorn and no he doesn't treat partners badly but he’s just total opposite of me.

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You're a Scorp man? I am, too.

What signs do you get along with the best - romantically?

I love the Cancer woman.

Not a fan of Aqua women.

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I won't exclude anyone, but there is a pattern of not liking Gemini Men and Taurus Women.

What's wrong with Taurus women?

Posted by Krabss
ok, so the new guy is a libra sun, venus and mars, merc scorpio, and a sag moon. after almost non existent communication with a scorp, he was really really refreshing. couldn't stop talking. turns out he lied about his age, which ofc i found out. he gave me too much info. he told me he is 41, like me and he is 6y older. which i don't mind. i mean the age! the lie i did mind. i confronted him with it, he was all apologetic, and was like i just started dating again after divorce, and his friend convinced him everyone lies about age these days. i was like, are you 15 to listen to that crap? especially since he claims he wants a normal rl. anyway i was really rude, and told him to get himself together, and be himself in the future, but we are done. maybe as friends one day.

after, turns out we have a mutual friend, really close one i trust - small world, but the friend is 100 times closer to me. who has nothing but awesome things to say about him. at the same time he mssgs me and ask me if i can maybe overlook his dumb move. i tell him about that friend, and i said ok. we can try. but remember that friend saved you!

anyway, i like everything about him except he is not that hot. but being mercurial, i love the brain more than anything. he is divorced, has 2 kids, and don't see me as potential incubator, servant, like that scorp did.

so libras and the rest, what you think about this chart? i have no idea. never been with a libra.

Lol @ incubator servant.

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Reminds me of this meme:

Too true.

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Scorpio man meets Virgo woman, charming first date goes on for about 7 hours and we go to one of her favourite spots by the water and there is a massive download about her life, family, friends, what we are both passionate about in work and life. A lot of chemistry throughout dinner, she's very sweet and through the evening does seem to open up and talk a bit about past experiences dating and in relationships. It's all quite sweet - there's a bit of touching, crossing the street and hands brushing past that type of sappy stuff - very easygoing and enjoyable first time out together, lots to laugh about and talk about.

All ends well but we don't exchange numbers and barely hug to say goodbye.

There's a lot of texting in the days that follow but a lot of it seems like subtle tests - references to high-status friends and mentions of frequently traveling for work. I am unfazed throughout and am focused on playing it cool and picking up on opportunities to ask her out again.

She does do this thing where she starts text conversations with me by recommending I check out a cool bar or restaurant she thinks I'd like. But when I follow up and ask if she'd like to go together, it's either a 'no i've been there' or some other form of no?

What gives? I've heard Virgo women aren't great with confrontation so I'm avoiding being too direct but am wondering if I should just call it out and ask if she's keen to continue dating or not.

Mutable woman.

You have to be very forward. They will follow your lead; it will surprise you. You are being too passive.

Virgo also talks too much. Don't pay attention to her words. Just lead and observe her actions.

Your North Node is your life's purpose. The lessons you are supposed to learn. Following your North Node will also bring you good fortune.

Discover it here:
https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php

Mine is in Aquarius.

"His path is to learn to be more impartial and less possessive in relationships and with creative projects. As he learns to let go of the need for a passionate chase, satisfaction will come to him naturally as he sees that he nevertheless gets what he needs. Relationships may suffer if he takes things too personally and expects others to follow a script that he has unconsciously written for them. He learns to moderate his desire for drama and attention, and then develops true friendships. Qualities to develop: detachment, impartiality, humility."

Share yours.

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Posted by Whorpio I am. I used to avoid relationships like the plague because I knew I’d end up cheating. Now I’m in an open relationship with a Gemini. He swings between being asexual, monogamous and polyamorous. I’m just a whore with commitment issues so sex with new/exciting partners keeps the void inside me filled. I guess I can also tell you I enjoy watching him with other women. He has a big penis and seeing him with other women reminds me of the first time I felt him inside me, how I came instantly, and I just like to vicariously re-live that pleasure through them.

Sagittarius moon
Scorpio Venus
Sagittarius mars

What is the void inside of you that needs to be filled?
Is any amount of sex and penis big enough for the hole?

I just need to be in a constant state of stimulation. Exciting sex can typically hold me over for a week; once the sex becomes mediocre that time span shortens until I no longer feel the benefit (unless financial) of hooking up with someone and move on to the next person to scratch that itch.

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Venus and Mars placements?