I can't say I am overly sensitive in traditional sense. But I know that I overthink stuff wayy too often and drive myself insane that way
I made whole video about how we Pisces act when we are over someone or not interested. And sadly I think she genuinly likes you nothing more than a friend.

From my experience it doesn't matter how busy we are (I remember when I was in university and working and being all around busy) I would still find time to answer the guy I liked. Because when we genuinly romanticaly like someone we will make that person more important than most stuff. Even if we will have to sacrifise sleep or other stuff.
But on a flip side is that if we do not like someone romanticaly but we care about the person as a person we will try to let them down gently. "I am busy" is the best excuse to do so since it seems like tottaly not personal. Other excuses are: I need space to figure myself out, life is hectic I need to find balance and it would be unfair of me to keep you here when I don't know what I want from life. Or I don't even know myself so I can't be with you because it wouldn't be fair to you.

And if we genuinly ignore you that's it. Because Pisces are not shy when we like someone and person is showing interest too our shiness goes away really fast.
While if you push us for more we just remove ourselves from situation since we don't want to hurt your feelings. At the same time she may be keeping you for the sake of just having you if nothing else comes along (sadly at young age sometimes Pisces do that). And actually at that time we don't really understand that we are doing it.

Also as a side note you intend to marry her??? I will say that's tiny bit creepy considering that you said she herself said she doesn't like you in that way.
Anyhow like I said I made video way way back about this and actually you basicaly have the situation I described:
She may like you, I doubt she will share personal stuff with you if she wouldn't. I know that when I was still in university I had few male crushed but never had the courage to show my thouights because I thought the guys should do it first (maybe I am kinda traditional in that sense). Granted if she does have a boyfriend maybe she is trying to be respectfull, and sadly when pisces are in love with one person others are nothing more than close friends. So she may see you as person who is warm and nice to talk to, good friend. Since the only actual legit "active" romantic interaction hapened when both of you were kinda drunk I wouldn't take it as a sign.

But the fact that she is opening to you does mean you are somewhat special to her maybe just the timing is wrong.
As someone who supposed to have tiny bit of every sign I would not vote off anyone it's like getting rid of something that makes me me
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How to get him to leave me alone?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He keeps messaging, I finally responded to say my peace, and he thanked me for that. Now keeps messaging me every few days. Wants more details. Like treetrunk, it's over, move on!!!!!!!!!!


I don't know about the man part but I know that the worst thing someone can do to me is leave me in a place that I don't know something. So if you respect him answer about those details and than say directly that that is the last thing you are telling him and that both of you need to move on.

If he doesn't stop just block him
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Posted by Jayceon
do you Pisces men think he will come back to me? Yeah he'll come back and is coming from a Pisces man.


Hi..do you really think so?
It's been 3 1/2 years since we met BUT there have been so many obstacles in the way of us being together. It's been agony for both of us.

The one thing I forgot to mention in my original post, but said it to another person on here is that as soon as I let down my guard and let Pisces guy into my heart - and also kissed him for the first time - my husbands mother got terminal cancer. This happened in the SAME WEEK!

By the time I had kissed him, me and Pisces had been talking and getting to know each other for about a Year. We had been meeting in my fitness classes and talking afterwards when everyone had gone home.
That way we didn't have to lie to our partners to see each other. We were at the gym and he would come to my class once a week.
It took this long because in the beginning when he started coming to my class, I had only just come back from maternity leave. I only went off for 3 months. I hadn't been back long and suddenly one day he turned up in my class!
It was a class his partner didn't go to because it was an early morning one at 6.30am.
So I was very surprised to see him. He only started coming to my class once i had my baby. Having just had a baby and only been back teaching a short while, there he was in my class
I was a bit confused to see him because I wasn't sure how he would feel having a relationship with me now I have a baby. But he kept coming back.
It was tricky because my head was full of my baby etc. So that's why it took about a year for the flirting to start. And oh boy did we flirt!

BUT then my husbands mum became ill.
I was just going to tell my husband it's over between us seeing as I had just kissed Pisces guy, but I found myself stuck and couldn't leave my grieving husband.
So with my husband grieving back then, I only realised in the last month that I had failed to tell Pisces that I can't leave my husband. So I have unfortunately left Pisces hanging, wondering why I'm not leaving my husband. And because of leaving him hanging I have seriously hurt him!

I was so caught up in the unhappiness in my marriage, while looking after my little girl who is now going to be 3 in 10 weeks time, while trying to be supportive of my grieving husband that I never told Pisces why I can't leave!
He must have been so confused! As well as hurt!

Her funeral was July this year. So its been 6 months since.
We are talking again and he now knows why I couldn't leave. I now feel as if I have woken up from a nightmare.
I just hope that my dream will come true now.

Sorry for the long post again!
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Can I give you small advice. Don't do kissing and so on to him if you are not free. You are just braking persons heart further. I know that you are in pain too, but remember when you love someone you don't drag them through hell over and over again. Fix your life, make your own life more balanced and only then try again. It's really really unfair for you to act as you act even though your actions are driven by deep inner emotions.
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Thanks! I have another question. I know there's this girl just broke his heart not too long ago before we met.
After we met, I think he didn't talk to her as much. She didn't want a relationship.
What do you think he'd do if she decided that she changed her mind and wanted to date him now?
I suspect that she didn't want to date him because she knew he was very into her (too much for her). Now that he's not giving his full attention, maybe she'd want to date him now.

That's a tough one and male/female might view things differently. Also break his heart? How is that possible when they weren't even dating?
If someone wanted me back suddenly because they weren't getting my attention I wouldn't be interested. I don't need anyone, I want them. If I feel it's not reciprocated I'll walk away. I'm at an age where I won't settle for less than I deserve.



Mmmm I don't want to be negative but really all will boil down to who he likes more. Because Pisces are usually forgiven, so if she broke his heart while not being in actual relashionship he might think that it was his own fault that he let his emotions get the best of him and as a result could give her a chance. But on a side not if he is spending time with you and you can see that your and his conections are getting deeper he will pick you not only because of his feelings but also because of genuine respect. I know in the past I had few times when I had to say to old flames that reapeared in my life that sorry I am not available our time passed or haven't come yet So you should just be you and be with him. If he will feel genuine care and love and warmth from you I am sure he will be with you
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Posted by Roana
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends


So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.


He did tell me that he kept sevearl girls in his life because he wanted to continue helping them... He told me that even though it hurts him to keep them, he still wants to be there for them because they want him in their lives... I guess this matches the doctor-patient relationship you described... He told me his ex gf was very angry about the situation, but he could never drop those people for her.
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Yeap, that does seem very similar to what we do. Granted if you two would be in a relashionship for a very long time (couple of years) than I am sure he would push them out of his life one way or another. Just don't push him to do it, because that will push him away from you
Aries moon It gives me nice balance to my pisces sun also makes me grounded which I am very thankfull for!
Ohhh Pisces and Aries a no no no. Friends yes! Since both can provide each other different perspective, but not as a couple.
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Posted by Roana
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends


So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.


I agree with a lot of that. If I'm seeing someone my tone changes when talking to others and I make it clear that I'm not available.
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Yeah the same with me I think usually us as pisces we let other people know that we are not available in one way or another. But I rarely cut people out of my life if they don't push over the line that I show them
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Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice

... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...
If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.

But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.

Most likely your Pisces man has noticed this. There might have been times he had false hope, or times he was opportunistic himself. what should a people of service axis do, when he sees you have no main job for him, only little side jobs? what happens when they cannot keep the inner lie which covered their opportunism? they do not and cannot care anymore. this earth is so full with needy clients that the Service/Healing Axis (Virgo-Pisces) stays never alone or unrequested. they are on the short numbers.


I'm sorry I just didn't understand a word of most of your post.
I do however find it odd that your are questioning my username!?! Who cares what my username is?? I don't care what anybody else calls themselves, or what you call yourself for that matter!
It was just a stupid name that a LONG time ago my husband would sometimes say to me as a joke. I'm not going to justify this anymore because I think it's pathetic that my username is being questioned.
To be honest I created an account quite quickly and just couldn't think of what to call myself. I instantly regretted it once it was done. And Now suddenly it's a big issue for other users on here! I mean seriously! Who cares!
Your post means nothing to me except that you have not understood my situation.


Also I will try to explain why people are talking about your username or more precisesly about the explanation of how it came about. It might give you inside look into how Pisces see the world. We see the issue, than we see the broader issue, than we see overall picture. So everything in our minds is conected. So when you make a post about how you love Pisces man and want him back, yet choose the nickname that your husbaind gave you shows how in your mind (maybe subconsiously) is more prevelant than the Pisces man. Because if pisces man is truly the one that you care about you could have picked the nickname that is conected to him instead of your husbaind. Now you may say: "ohh but I just picked first thing that came to my mind". Exactly! And first thing that came to your mind was something that was connected to the man that you want to seperate from, and not the man that you say you love. And we pisces pick up on those things all the time. So if during relashionship with Pisces man you were doing similar things (that you may have not even noticed) he picked up on them and that piled on top of all other stuff. As pisces we pick up on such a small details that you don't even notice and once we pick up on enough of them we create whole big picture, and once we do we make our descisions.

I decided to explain you that just because I wanted you to be able to see how we see the world, in our eyes everything is important. And stuff that people say without having time to think of say much more to us than the stuff that they say when they have time to think about. Because the stuff that you just say in the moment or do in the moment comes from the heart, while stuff that you think off is filtered and manufactered to convey certain idea that YOU want us to see, that sometimes might not be reality


Once again I just thought this might help you in the future if you will get in touch with Pisces man


You explain us Pisces so well.
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Ahh thank you I just try my best, even though English is not my native language so I make horrible mistakes along the way. I am glad I am not misrepresenting stuff I just try to share what I think is pretty common for our sign
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...".And stuff that people say without having time to think of say much more to us than the stuff that they say when they have time to think about. Because the stuff that you just say in the moment or do in the moment comes from the heart, while stuff that you think off is filtered and manufactured to convey certain idea that YOU want us to see, that sometimes might not be reality."

Good gracious. Get out of my head!!!! This is so true for this Pisces.


cha cha NOOOO WILL LIVE HERE FOREVER MUAHAHAHAH jk jk but yeah it's something that is very common for Pisces
Ohh... as I said before I live in one of Baltic countries (Lithuania), I am 26 almost 27 and my father is a Lithuanian diplomat. So I will say from very very well informed perspective (not based on emotions, and just being scared overall) none of Baltic countries will be invaded. At least not in upcoming 3-6 years.

Ukraine was different because:
a) They were not part of EU so all EU countries were not pushing too much, also they didn't had preplaned military forces.
b) Russia from technical aspect is weak (they have numbers but they don't have quality and proper upkeep). Yes they do have tanks and so on but the issue is the countries economy is spread to thin already so they don't have enough resources to keep everything up to date. If they mange to have technical difficulties when they are doing the bigest parade of the year where they already hand pick the best stuff that they have that shows how bad the situation is.
c) If Russia would invade Baltic countries remember we already have military stationed here. So in order for Russia to take over the countries they would suffer heavy losses. Sure they would take over us. But as a result now they would be deeeper in the hole. On top of that now they would be treetrunked since officialy they would be on different terms with Nato and EU. And even if nor Nato nor EU would say WE are at war further econimical and political restrictions would criple Russia even more. Putin is bad but he is not stupid. He knows that further issues in economy front would push people withing his own country to rise up and that would make his own country crumble from within.

Do you know why all of us managed to gain independence? Partialy obviously is our countries never giving up but also because Soviets were spreading to thin and abusing their own people who started rioting in their own streets. Putin knows very well that right now they need to use alot of bravado and stabilise economy before anything new can happen.

So I think that Russia will use usual tactics of testing the limits? Scare tactics and so on? Yes. But he will not occupy any of Baltic countries. At least untill their own stuff is in better balance.


War or occupation is not only about military strength it's also about what who is worth. And sadly by occupying Baltic countries he would only gain access to Baltic sea that would not give him anything good because whole Europe now would have different outlook on him. War is a pricey thing, you don't start one when you are already in a low and your own people are on edge.
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Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice

... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...
If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.

But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.

Most likely your Pisces man has noticed this. There might have been times he had false hope, or times he was opportunistic himself. what should a people of service axis do, when he sees you have no main job for him, only little side jobs? what happens when they cannot keep the inner lie which covered their opportunism? they do not and cannot care anymore. this earth is so full with needy clients that the Service/Healing Axis (Virgo-Pisces) stays never alone or unrequested. they are on the short numbers.


I'm sorry I just didn't understand a word of most of your post.
I do however find it odd that your are questioning my username!?! Who cares what my username is?? I don't care what anybody else calls themselves, or what you call yourself for that matter!
It was just a stupid name that a LONG time ago my husband would sometimes say to me as a joke. I'm not going to justify this anymore because I think it's pathetic that my username is being questioned.
To be honest I created an account quite quickly and just couldn't think of what to call myself. I instantly regretted it once it was done. And Now suddenly it's a big issue for other users on here! I mean seriously! Who cares!
Your post means nothing to me except that you have not understood my situation.
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Also I will try to explain why people are talking about your username or more precisesly about the explanation of how it came about. It might give you inside look into how Pisces see the world. We see the issue, than we see the broader issue, than we see overall picture. So everything in our minds is conected. So when you make a post about how you love Pisces man and want him back, yet choose the nickname that your husbaind gave you shows how in your mind (maybe subconsiously) is more prevelant than the Pisces man. Because if pisces man is truly the one that you care about you could have picked the nickname that is conected to him instead of your husbaind. Now you may say: "ohh but I just picked first thing that came to my mind". Exactly! And first thing that came to your mind was something that was connected to the man that you want to seperate from, and not the man that you say you love. And we pisces pick up on those things all the time. So if during relashionship with Pisces man you were doing similar things (that you may have not even noticed) he picked up on them and that piled on top of all other stuff. As pisces we pick up on such a small details that you don't even notice and once we pick up on enough of them we create whole big picture, and once we do we make our descisions.

I decided to explain you that just because I wanted you to be able to see how we see the world, in our eyes everything is important. And stuff that people say without having time to think of say much more to us than the stuff that they say when they have time to think about. Because the stuff that you just say in the moment or do in the moment comes from the heart, while stuff that you think off is filtered and manufactered to convey certain idea that YOU want us to see, that sometimes might not be reality


Once again I just thought this might help you in the future if you will get in touch with Pisces man
From a Pisces female who by the way has quite few Pisces male friends (because for some reason I just tend to pick up Pisces people into my life) I will say this based on my experience and my male friends experiences through their relashionships:

1) Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? Make him know I'm sorry? And make him know I truly am in love with him?

Though out intuition and empathy does show us how you feel and what you are going through and maybe we will even understand that you are sorry, as well as acknowledge that you are truly in love with us. There is a point when we just make conscious decision to separate from situation that is hurting us. Imagine yourself and your emotions, now add other persons pain and emotions and than you will feel what we feel. Being torn by basically avalanche of emotions every day can destroy us. If we are old enough we know that there is a point where we just have to cut ties with person in order to be able to be happy. So the question is not in the lack of knowledge but more In our need to live normal life. We can give a lot. But if certain line is crossed we will snap and once we do getting us back with words is not possible.

2) Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back? To speak to me even? What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?
I am not a man but I will say what my male friends said to me and I agree with them. He will not speak to you or come back, because the time for words is over. Now it’s time for actions. If you truly love person you need to sort your life out, leave husband and prove your feelings with actual actions. If you won’t and you will just continue with words it will look like trying to manipulate us through our own emotions. And trust me once pisces see that you are manipulating us we cut ties with people for good and after that no action or no word will get us back to you.
So instead of writing to him and so on take actual action. Fix your life. Become actually available and than inform him about it once you will be free (not prior).

Also remember Pisces are healers when you cheat with us we will feel the pain for the person who you are cheating on, so add that on top of our personal feelings, your feelings and so on. And you can destroy pisces man. If you love that person you should not cause that much pain. If we see that you are hurting us because of your own needs that will push us away (pisces are not selfish, so selfish people makes us to not want to have them in our life). So Fix YOUR life, and ONLY THAN once all is over and you are free tell him about the fact. Otherwise your intentions might be misunderstood and your words will have opposite effect than you wish for.
But I will say this as a side note (that I hope won’t happen to you): if you draged him through too much that may not help you. If he blocked you everywhere but phone you may have crosses the line of no return. So good luck to you.
hysical, mental, spiritual etc. whats the thing that makes you "love" the other person?

Physical: Taller than me, eye color doesn't matter, shortish hair (for some reason never got into the long haired types), darker hair (though ironicaly 60 percent of guys I dated were blond ). Manly with strong arms.

Mental/spiritual: strong willed but with urge to learn things and accept new ideas, goal oriented, practical but but flexible in a sense that they don't see the world as just black and white. Caring and protective maybe sliglty jelous (I don't know why but there is nothing more attractive than your boyfriend who is slightly jelous just enough so you would know but not as much so it would become like actuall issue). Active and kinda spontaneous (but not in a uncomfortable way ). Someone who would not judgme for talking about topics that are marely theories and so on and most importantly playfull and sarcastic I damn love when a guy can tease me in a nice irritating but respectfull way
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends


So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
I think the calmness depends on the person
Me and my best friend are both pisces but we are like polar opposites. Where she seems like constantly chill and calm, better listener than talker, I am energetic and chatty.

Granted we do share some qualities: if we listen we genuinly listen, if we say I understand you that means we truly do (since usually we are very very empathic, sometimes like painfully empatic).

So I guess we are like healers looking at you and trying to help as well as kinda help you relax and sort through chaos. Give that moment to take pause in life.

But ohh god if pisces are hurt... Or wronged... Sometimes even without our own knowledge will strike to the most hurtfull places. We are not open wariors who are just swinging our swords, we are like assasins who might make only few attacks but you will feel the pain for months

I guess as RemixGeneralFishy said there is nothing softer than water......if you can withstand the raging flood or if you are not afraid to be drowned
In any case just wanted to say thank you to everyone who took time and read my post and offered advice. I really really needed it and all of you truly helped me! This is amazing forum and I will hang around just because so far people in here seem so genuine!