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RooSagicorn
joined October 26, 2017
  • Entertainment and I actually learn things here. I have met some fun people, and nice ones too.

    Plus it’s a good distraction when i need one.
  • X bf was a bartender. Depends on how good you are, most of his income was tips. As I understand it, higher end places would net more. But also remember it depends on how busy they are too.

  • Ummm I have had 3 deep connections in my life. Emotion & Psychological are a big part of the connection.

    The love languages are more showing it. But these connections are all still there, the relationships are not. All began a long time ago.

    I’d also put a best friend into the deep connection category. Emotions & Psychological.. it’s about the support and the being there for you unconditionally.

    I am Cap Venus/Cap Mars
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    Ok I feel better.. apparently we had tix to a show Saturday. He just asked me properly 😁 when I asked about the weekend and it was obvious I didn’t remember lol

    Being supportive Sag may have helped this week & I told my Cap bits to calm the hell down. Ok trying to do what I feel like instead of cap Venus going noooooooo!!!!



    yep it'll forever go ... nooooooooooooo


    Lol!! Imagine me & the Cap both with Cap Venus omg!! The Libra somehow has me making effort 😁 at least part of the time.


    hehe well because he's asking for that effort rather than pretending he doesn't care...that always helps.
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    Lol yes!
  • Posted by stillstillwater
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    Ok I feel better.. apparently we had tix to a show Saturday. He just asked me properly 😁 when I asked about the weekend and it was obvious I didn’t remember lol

    Being supportive Sag may have helped this week & I told my Cap bits to calm the hell down. Ok trying to do what I feel like instead of cap Venus going noooooooo!!!!



    yep it'll forever go ... nooooooooooooo
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    Lol!! Imagine me & the Cap both with Cap Venus omg!! The Libra somehow has me making effort 😁 at least part of the time.
  • Ok I feel better.. apparently we had tix to a show Saturday. He just asked me properly 😁 when I asked about the weekend and it was obvious I didn’t remember lol

    Being supportive Sag may have helped this week & I told my Cap bits to calm the hell down. Ok trying to do what I feel like instead of cap Venus going noooooooo!!!!

  • I’m aqua moon and emotional but I hold it in unless it’s safe to show. Damn hard to control most people don’t want to see those damn emotions.

    Now that little Scorpio kid of mine ( she’s 17) knows how to make my emotions flow 😡😍🤷‍♀️
  • I have a first house stellium (Venus/Mercury Cap & Moon/Saturn Aqua) & I have a Cap soft stellium (Venus/Mercury/Mars Cap) plus Cap Rising.

    I’m Cap dominant & Sag sun 12th House .. really seem to be a combo of the two. Cap more when I was younger, Sag comes out more as I’m older. Plus that whole traveling along the nodes thing has mellowed me a bit too, allowing Sag to express itself. Cap/Cancer nodes
  • I’m more of an ambivert I think. More one on one not groups after I’m comfortable... okay Cap Rising. But I always surround myself with extroverts Big Grin I absolutely love the energy! Some people have issues with it but ya know everyone’s different. Some people ask me why I’m so quiet. It makes people uncomfortable too. Lol. You can’t make everybody happy! Just be you!!!!

  • I hope it all goes well and negative results. I had a biopsy done Monday for cervix. So waiting on that too.

    Ah it’s nervewracking when they start talking in those terms. Will they know something right away? 🤗
  • Posted by stillstillwater
    @roosagicorn but i don't like when people get all upset over lil things. It makes me super uncomfortable I don't know why.
    It’s just that there are such bigger things to worry about in life. I tend to let things go unless they are important. If I have a strong opinion, hell yes i’ll Make a decision and now, but if I don’t have a strong opinion then I’m flexible. Idk mutable? Lol. I did like he gives me choices, it just i tend to act in a “let’s decide together way”. He resists that completely. He wants me to decide but then sometimes he vetoes it if he doesn’t like it. It’s just a different way. Because if I asked, it means it’s important to me. He offer to do something last week that he knew was in my important list.. just to make me happy. Awwwww.

    Well we shall see how important The relationship is. Do you work through things or not? Both sides of course. Oh boy he’s getting my fire all revved up lol
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    I hold myself back all the time. I try not to repeat the patterns, so it’s so hard making sure you don’t treetrunk up again. Holding back doesn’t seem to work so well though. Then they think you don’t like them, and you do! Wth.. lol

    I do know I refuse to walk on eggshells anymore, I need to be myself and you probably need to get my attention to get me to pay attention to you. I know I suck lol.

    Live and learn. Take the lessons with you. It’s a lifelong process but there’s always hope Big Grin





    Well the thing is though I've made my intentions REALLY clear like cant' get more clear than that. ANd he just kind of went "skurrrrrrrrrrrrr" like dismissive curve.

    But ends up flirting and telling me they miss me...i'm just like "NOPE, not today satan!"

    This is a cool line though: I need to be myself and you probably need to get my attention to get me to pay attention to you.


    What the hell is with that? Maybe Its commitment phobic guys, emotionally unavailable? That sucks! Like push & pull...

    The Libra is acting weird now.. he doesn’t like that line much. I think it’s my sag sun, always a little oblivious lol. Or 12th house lol. But the guys I’ve been in long term relationships always did that. So is it being a Libra you want it to be equal or you just are losing interest? Or getting butthurt? Think my Cap bits are so hesitant. Like show me you want to be here. And he’s acting like he doesn’t know if I want to be there, same as the Cap did.. I seem to scare them all away except the freaking Leo who has no right to try and be there.

    I figure I have no choice but to be me, you know? Personal growth and this is where I am? Ugh I’m getting tired. We were having so much fun too..


    Oh no! butter... we need that answered. Like Libra board needs to step up and have answers for these weird ups and downs.

    My issue is still with that Libra dude too.

    What makes you think you're scaring him away? I did read this book that said guys get really close to you then they like to distance themselves because they don't want to feel their happiness depends on you. And during this time you just need to ignore it and be happy without them. But when they come back welcome them back with open arms?

    But it's a little early on for him to be distancing himself, no?? This should be a honey moon phase.

    I've never had a guy want to distance himself from me within the first year of dating. Are men confusing? Or just Libra men?



    Well we keep having an issue with him wanting me to make decisions like so he knows what to do.. and him thinking he knows what I should do, and not agreeing with how I function 🙄 we are both compromising and we do communicate through the miscommunication. But then he gets all butthurt thinking I’m thinking something bad about him when I’m not! He seems to want me to show him I want to be there, but then he acts all sensitive. Like it’s okay if he teases me, but I can’t?

    He has not wanted distance, we went out Saturday & he texts me morning texts and we’ve been texting everyday. So I don’t know if he’s going to figure it out or disappear at this point. It definitely is a different vibe in the last two weeks, like he’s butthurt about something.



    I guess I'd like it if a guy let me make the decisions!


    Lol!! I always ask him what he wants to do. Probably from long term marriage to an Aries 😳 but you know I don’t really give a treetrunk if he makes me scrambled, over easy or over hard eggs for breakfast!!! And why is that such trauma just make the damn eggs.. so when I ask if he wants help there’s a fight about I didn’t make a choice? That I got distracted by the conversation we were having & he didn’t tell me he wanted an answer NOW.. oh and well sometimes I didn’t know the choices because he didn’t tell me. I was just suppose to notice what he was unpacking from the store? Like how did I know what things we’re options for breakfasts& what was for later 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. He didn’t say a word.. just was having a convo about something important like medical tests. ( eggs fight was a different Sunday morning).

    How can little things be so huge?


    hhmmm i guess because he cares about pleasing you? So the little things matter.
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    I know he cares about pleasing me & I want him to be happy too. We function differently & so we need to compromise to figure this out if we can operate together. I think we are both getting stronger feelings and maybe that’s why he’s getting sensitive and I’m reacting to that. I hope we can figure it out.
  • Posted by stillstillwater
    @roosagicorn may be let him think it over and come to you when ready to discuss?


    Yeah. Well right now I was trying to be supportive after a procedure he had. So that might be postponed a little.
  • Posted by stillstillwater
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    I hold myself back all the time. I try not to repeat the patterns, so it’s so hard making sure you don’t treetrunk up again. Holding back doesn’t seem to work so well though. Then they think you don’t like them, and you do! Wth.. lol

    I do know I refuse to walk on eggshells anymore, I need to be myself and you probably need to get my attention to get me to pay attention to you. I know I suck lol.

    Live and learn. Take the lessons with you. It’s a lifelong process but there’s always hope Big Grin





    Well the thing is though I've made my intentions REALLY clear like cant' get more clear than that. ANd he just kind of went "skurrrrrrrrrrrrr" like dismissive curve.

    But ends up flirting and telling me they miss me...i'm just like "NOPE, not today satan!"

    This is a cool line though: I need to be myself and you probably need to get my attention to get me to pay attention to you.


    What the hell is with that? Maybe Its commitment phobic guys, emotionally unavailable? That sucks! Like push & pull...

    The Libra is acting weird now.. he doesn’t like that line much. I think it’s my sag sun, always a little oblivious lol. Or 12th house lol. But the guys I’ve been in long term relationships always did that. So is it being a Libra you want it to be equal or you just are losing interest? Or getting butthurt? Think my Cap bits are so hesitant. Like show me you want to be here. And he’s acting like he doesn’t know if I want to be there, same as the Cap did.. I seem to scare them all away except the freaking Leo who has no right to try and be there.

    I figure I have no choice but to be me, you know? Personal growth and this is where I am? Ugh I’m getting tired. We were having so much fun too..


    Oh no! butter... we need that answered. Like Libra board needs to step up and have answers for these weird ups and downs.

    My issue is still with that Libra dude too.

    What makes you think you're scaring him away? I did read this book that said guys get really close to you then they like to distance themselves because they don't want to feel their happiness depends on you. And during this time you just need to ignore it and be happy without them. But when they come back welcome them back with open arms?

    But it's a little early on for him to be distancing himself, no?? This should be a honey moon phase.

    I've never had a guy want to distance himself from me within the first year of dating. Are men confusing? Or just Libra men?



    Well we keep having an issue with him wanting me to make decisions like so he knows what to do.. and him thinking he knows what I should do, and not agreeing with how I function 🙄 we are both compromising and we do communicate through the miscommunication. But then he gets all butthurt thinking I’m thinking something bad about him when I’m not! He seems to want me to show him I want to be there, but then he acts all sensitive. Like it’s okay if he teases me, but I can’t?

    He has not wanted distance, we went out Saturday & he texts me morning texts and we’ve been texting everyday. So I don’t know if he’s going to figure it out or disappear at this point. It definitely is a different vibe in the last two weeks, like he’s butthurt about something.



    I guess I'd like it if a guy let me make the decisions!
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    Lol!! I always ask him what he wants to do. Probably from long term marriage to an Aries 😳 but you know I don’t really give a treetrunk if he makes me scrambled, over easy or over hard eggs for breakfast!!! And why is that such trauma just make the damn eggs.. so when I ask if he wants help there’s a fight about I didn’t make a choice? That I got distracted by the conversation we were having & he didn’t tell me he wanted an answer NOW.. oh and well sometimes I didn’t know the choices because he didn’t tell me. I was just suppose to notice what he was unpacking from the store? Like how did I know what things we’re options for breakfasts& what was for later 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. He didn’t say a word.. just was having a convo about something important like medical tests. ( eggs fight was a different Sunday morning).

    How can little things be so huge?
  • Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    I hold myself back all the time. I try not to repeat the patterns, so it’s so hard making sure you don’t treetrunk up again. Holding back doesn’t seem to work so well though. Then they think you don’t like them, and you do! Wth.. lol

    I do know I refuse to walk on eggshells anymore, I need to be myself and you probably need to get my attention to get me to pay attention to you. I know I suck lol.

    Live and learn. Take the lessons with you. It’s a lifelong process but there’s always hope Big Grin





    Well the thing is though I've made my intentions REALLY clear like cant' get more clear than that. ANd he just kind of went "skurrrrrrrrrrrrr" like dismissive curve.

    But ends up flirting and telling me they miss me...i'm just like "NOPE, not today satan!"

    This is a cool line though: I need to be myself and you probably need to get my attention to get me to pay attention to you.


    What the hell is with that? Maybe Its commitment phobic guys, emotionally unavailable? That sucks! Like push & pull...

    The Libra is acting weird now.. he doesn’t like that line much. I think it’s my sag sun, always a little oblivious lol. Or 12th house lol. But the guys I’ve been in long term relationships always did that. So is it being a Libra you want it to be equal or you just are losing interest? Or getting butthurt? Think my Cap bits are so hesitant. Like show me you want to be here. And he’s acting like he doesn’t know if I want to be there, same as the Cap did.. I seem to scare them all away except the freaking Leo who has no right to try and be there.

    I figure I have no choice but to be me, you know? Personal growth and this is where I am? Ugh I’m getting tired. We were having so much fun too..


    Oh no! butter... we need that answered. Like Libra board needs to step up and have answers for these weird ups and downs.

    My issue is still with that Libra dude too.

    What makes you think you're scaring him away? I did read this book that said guys get really close to you then they like to distance themselves because they don't want to feel their happiness depends on you. And during this time you just need to ignore it and be happy without them. But when they come back welcome them back with open arms?

    But it's a little early on for him to be distancing himself, no?? This should be a honey moon phase.

    I've never had a guy want to distance himself from me within the first year of dating. Are men confusing? Or just Libra men?

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    Well we keep having an issue with him wanting me to make decisions like so he knows what to do.. and him thinking he knows what I should do, and not agreeing with how I function 🙄 we are both compromising and we do communicate through the miscommunication. But then he gets all butthurt thinking I’m thinking something bad about him when I’m not! He seems to want me to show him I want to be there, but then he acts all sensitive. Like it’s okay if he teases me, but I can’t?

    He has not wanted distance, we went out Saturday & he texts me morning texts and we’ve been texting everyday. So I don’t know if he’s going to figure it out or disappear at this point. It definitely is a different vibe in the last two weeks, like he’s butthurt about something.

  • Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by RooSagicorn
    I hold myself back all the time. I try not to repeat the patterns, so it’s so hard making sure you don’t treetrunk up again. Holding back doesn’t seem to work so well though. Then they think you don’t like them, and you do! Wth.. lol

    I do know I refuse to walk on eggshells anymore, I need to be myself and you probably need to get my attention to get me to pay attention to you. I know I suck lol.

    Live and learn. Take the lessons with you. It’s a lifelong process but there’s always hope Big Grin





    Well the thing is though I've made my intentions REALLY clear like cant' get more clear than that. ANd he just kind of went "skurrrrrrrrrrrrr" like dismissive curve.

    But ends up flirting and telling me they miss me...i'm just like "NOPE, not today satan!"

    This is a cool line though: I need to be myself and you probably need to get my attention to get me to pay attention to you.
    click to expand


    What the hell is with that? Maybe Its commitment phobic guys, emotionally unavailable? That sucks! Like push & pull...

    The Libra is acting weird now.. he doesn’t like that line much. I think it’s my sag sun, always a little oblivious lol. Or 12th house lol. But the guys I’ve been in long term relationships always did that. So is it being a Libra you want it to be equal or you just are losing interest? Or getting butthurt? Think my Cap bits are so hesitant. Like show me you want to be here. And he’s acting like he doesn’t know if I want to be there, same as the Cap did.. I seem to scare them all away except the freaking Leo who has no right to try and be there.

    I figure I have no choice but to be me, you know? Personal growth and this is where I am? Ugh I’m getting tired. We were having so much fun too..
  • Why do you want to be warned? That doesn’t sound very positive going into it.
  • Typically INFP, occasionally ENFP
  • Your unhappy in your marriage & you want kids? You let this jerk boss back in every time? Walk away, get another job. Please don’t have kids until you learn how to take responsibility for yourself.

    Kids are not about.. oh I just want them. Kids are about them not you.

  • Posted by Ram416
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    Posted by Victorious
    You should go for a sag. Coz you know, that's how this goes. We recommend a sign then the universe gives you one.



    Exactly. You know how it works.


    I agree with Vic. Sag sun with either Gemini moon or Aqua moon.
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    I do agree. I think Sag would be good. Of course, I’m Sag Sun aqua moon and dating a Libra Big Grin