Idk tell me if I should met walking my dog a hot man With his dog So happened as I was walking to a happy hour join he saw me walking n started talking a bit but he enter the joint he was stopped at. Should I go back n hit that bar?
I say because those good guys aren’t really good guys I mean what kind oof good guy treats themselves like butter putting up with disrespect and what not If they treated another like they treat themselves we’d question the good guy card
I like to be touched by my husband. I would hate for him to have to ask permission to touch my butt or something. When he does it in public it's usually sly and like a little secret between us. He always stops if I don't want him to do it.
It's good that he's willing to stop if you're not wanting that kind of attention. That's respectful
Does your partner not stop when you ask? If you don't like for cuddling or other touching to lead to sex, how do you guys get to sex?
I haven't asked him to stop but there have been times when I'll lay down to cuddle and relax and he'll ask me why I haven't removed my bra. That's my answer at times. He's been putting a lot of focus on my breasts and my face/hair for about 3 weeks now.
He and I will make love by kissing usually. But! There are many, many times, we kiss and cuddle without getting into sex or being naked. One of my love languages is affection, but because I'm sapio it's different for me.
You should have a talk with him. Him caressing your hair or face is a usual sign of a man in love. He is probably aware that for women to be completely relaxed, they usually take off their bra.
I’m not familiar with what sapio is, but if you think this is crossing boundaries that you have in place, then it will cause issues in your relationship. Both men and women want to feel wanted. He’s doing it his way, while showing you affection but it’s not being received well by you. So just have a talk with him, maybe keep the harsh sexual assault stuff to a limit though.
I never mentioned sexual assault to him. I simply explained that I noticed his attention to my breasts, and that it feels like groping, and it wasn't necessary. He caresses my face, hair, hands, feet, back, every damn place lol Very loving and sensual. But I don't want to be caught off guard because you can't keep your hands off my breast for a day. This man has given me orgasms just through a kiss to my lips or my breasts. As good as that feels, I still don't want my breasts touched every day. Just as I wouldn't walk up to him and grab his penis/scrotum or ass everyday. It's just not who I am. He's been showing great affection since we fell in love. Not sure why talking w him about this has him feeling like I've rejected him. It's crazy. I'm done talking. He knows how much I love him and how my body responds to him but even with all the passion I have for him, I respect his body.
Maybe he will come around. He has to come with grips that you don’t like what he’s doing on a consistent basis. It will just take open communication and compromise which you have started. As you can see, since you googled/researched it, it’s a pretty common thing in a relationship.
His feelings are just hurt right now. He’ll get over it.
Yes, he's hurt. So am I. But I won't force myself on him. Not sure he'll get over it. I'm already making peace with the fact that he may not.
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Human nature is to show what we want. He might be thirsty of affection himself why he over does it n keeps saying you have changed. Do you carees his face n hair? Hug him unexpectedly?