Posted by LolaBelle
I was wondering about the fleeting and fickle Gemini love. I??ve heard that their love is fickle and that when they are in love (real love) and they know it then they will show it to the person and most of the time be loyal to that person. On the other hand I??ve read that many people that fall in mutual love with a Gemini and are told that they are loved by that Gemini the love still at times fleeting and fickle. This would be due to the dual personalities I assume since depending on their mood swing or personality shift their feelings change. The complaints across the board are the same when it comes to Gemini love that the Gemini makes the person feel like unsure of their love, they never know how they will behave, they are ignored without explanation, they lie, they don??t deal with emotional shows well. Love is the deepest emotion. Many people have the same experience with Gemini love coming and going. It may last years but the twin will come out and may not love the way the other does. Gemini??s say that when they love it is real but is it real for one of their personas or all? So that being said how can the love of a dual personality, fickle, emotionally uncomfortable Gemini that needs verity ever be a sure thing?
I have had experience with a Gemini male and he said he loved me. I didn??t get that he didn??t know how to be there for me emotionally when I needed him. It was hurtful but as usual I let it go. I gave him space. I rarely spoke to or saw him (saw him about once every two weeks and spoke 2 to 3 times a week through text) which made me feel like he wasn??t even in my life. He would ignore my texts and calls often but I let it go. On the flipside he is so warm to me when we are together. He can be so sweet and intellectually deep so we talk about anything. I just can??t always deal with his becoming cold and distant or ignoring me. Does this last forever? Will he balance out? I??m a Virgo by the way with a Gemini Ascendant. He is a Gemini with a Pisces Moon. Mentioned those because that seems to be why we don??t clash as Virgo and Gemini tend to do. I like my space too and I am very understanding when he says sorry for anything I let him back in.
I would love to hear from Gemini??s who have been in real love what it was like and what complaints did they get from the person they loved.
Posted by DG
Its only been two months people!! OMG, y'all got this guy cheating, lieing and playing games already.. Stop over analyzing butter. Every relationship in the beginning is a test of waters.
Chill cookiemonsteres. This girl gonna head for the hills.
Posted by DG
Oh, ok...here you are. Are you anymore enlightened then when you first got here?
Posted by LunarMaiden
Saggirlius, I suggest you take this post to the Relationships & Astrology board for more diverse feedback. You may also get more male perspective. I may even suggest the Gemini boards too to get Gemini male advice. Good luck to you.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
This won't help either, but I have a duty of disclosure......I know a Scorp married to her Gem for about 14 years.
He cheats but she won't leave because she wouldn't "have anyone" and would probably have to come back to work to support herself.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Just checked my worst Gemini experience.....he was Gem Sun/Moon/Mercury!!
Kept me on the Gemini-go-round for years.
Crazy thing is, he wasn't that good in bed anyway, but I thought I was in lurrrve so I stayed, dangling, waiting for him to sort himself out, for the time to be right etc etc.
DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU - with any guy. I may very well have missed my chance at meeting A Real Man while I was in this holding pattern. **bang head**
If a guy wants you he will man up. Whatever his sign.
*goes off to bang head again*
That's what I'm trying to avoid. I don't want to spend a lot of time figuring him out. I don't want to get to that point where I'm so attach and it's hard to walk away. It happened to me before when I was dating a pisces guy. I knew I should have walked away but cause I stayed longer I got so attached to him that It was so difficult to walk away. He emotionally drained me . Upto this point I still think he owes me big time for putting me through hell. My experience with him made me stronger and wiser tho. But it took away a lot of my time and we suppose to be a good match.
Posted by scorchedearth
it's typical push/pull bullbutter. he only wants her if she seems to not want him. she'd be better off spending all her time ignoring him then she'd probably end up with exactly what she wants.