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sagittariusxo
joined June 05, 2017
31 years old femaleSun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
Sun in Sagittarius
Moon in Capricorn
Venus in Scorpio
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    he is probably in his head as much as you are.
    wouldn't it be easier if he was direct with you? straight to the point on what his intentions are so that you have a change to agree or not.

    well he needs the same. so maybe you should do it,.
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    just remember your whys and try to keep focusing on you.
    if there is a purpose for the madness it will present its self sooner or later.
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by Boots1313
    Posted by sagittariusxo
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    Posted by sagittariusxo
    Posted by Boots1313
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    from what I understand

    SAG and BULL never work out.
    but im going on a year and half

    Never know, all about how one acts in a relationship. If you both want it, it will happen, complimentary signs or not.


    your right, I really need to change my mind set.
    maybe I see more of the negatives so much I believe that its doomed
    I need to put it out there to the universe that this relationship is one of kind, we can work on everything together as a team and im lucky to have someone love me so beautifully.

    That made my heart melt, awe!
    What's your moon and venus...im sure it's been discussed but I can't keep track of everyone on here lol.



    it*****HIsprinkle**
    Sun in Taurus
    Moon in Taurus
    Mercury in Aries
    Venus in Cancer
    Mars in Cancer
    Jupiter in Leo
    Neptune in Capricorn
    Uranus in Capricorn
    Pluto in Scorpio
    Saturn in Aquarius

    ******MINE*******
    Sun in Sagittarius
    Moon in Capricorn
    Venus in Scorpio
    Jupiter in Pisces
    Mars in Pisces
    Neptune in Capricorn
    Pluto in Scorpio
    Mercury in Scorpio
    Saturn in Sagittarius

    is there anything you can tell me about our mercury compatibility? communication is are hardest thing.
    everything is always such a misunderstanding because of lack of communication. the fact I cant read his moods and I don't trust his simplicity.

    I'm no expert and I too am trying to navigate communication with a Taurus sun, Aries merc man. From what I know they can get hot tempered fast, and are superrr blunt.
    You are a Scorpio merc, which means you are prob emotional and sometimes feel taken advantage of? And quite possibility a tad bit ma ipulative to get your way?
    However I see a lot of nice things in your charts that would be compatible.
    Again compromise and trying to make things work and WANTING to make things work is important.
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    I can agree with that and thank you for reading that.
    I wish I knew better how to read these charts and compare... but it also might be a good thing I don't.

  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    everyone in my office is on Keto and losing weight!!!

    anyone on the Keto bandwagon?
    im on 1200 cal a day plan, but wanna try keto. anyone have a Clean Keto meal plan they can share within macros?
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by Boots1313
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    Posted by Boots1313
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    from what I understand

    SAG and BULL never work out.
    but im going on a year and half

    Never know, all about how one acts in a relationship. If you both want it, it will happen, complimentary signs or not.


    your right, I really need to change my mind set.
    maybe I see more of the negatives so much I believe that its doomed
    I need to put it out there to the universe that this relationship is one of kind, we can work on everything together as a team and im lucky to have someone love me so beautifully.

    That made my heart melt, awe!
    What's your moon and venus...im sure it's been discussed but I can't keep track of everyone on here lol.
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    it*****HIsprinkle**
    Sun in Taurus
    Moon in Taurus
    Mercury in Aries
    Venus in Cancer
    Mars in Cancer
    Jupiter in Leo
    Neptune in Capricorn
    Uranus in Capricorn
    Pluto in Scorpio
    Saturn in Aquarius

    ******MINE*******
    Sun in Sagittarius
    Moon in Capricorn
    Venus in Scorpio
    Jupiter in Pisces
    Mars in Pisces
    Neptune in Capricorn
    Pluto in Scorpio
    Mercury in Scorpio
    Saturn in Sagittarius

    is there anything you can tell me about our mercury compatibility? communication is are hardest thing.
    everything is always such a misunderstanding because of lack of communication. the fact I cant read his moods and I don't trust his simplicity.
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by Boots1313
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    from what I understand

    SAG and BULL never work out.
    but im going on a year and half

    Never know, all about how one acts in a relationship. If you both want it, it will happen, complimentary signs or not.
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    your right, I really need to change my mind set.
    maybe I see more of the negatives so much I believe that its doomed
    I need to put it out there to the universe that this relationship is one of kind, we can work on everything together as a team and im lucky to have someone love me so beautifully.
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by edgelord
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    from what I understand

    SAG and BULL never work out.
    but im going on a year and half


    i wouldn't mind dating a sag tbh. assuming they had some earth/water to tone the fire down a little bit. could be a really good match for us. smile
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    what about that mix intrigues you?

  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    possessive is the trait of a Taurus
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    from what I understand

    SAG and BULL never work out.
    but im going on a year and half
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    "he has some psychological problems "

    im out.
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    personally I think you did what you could.
    you recognized you liked him, you told him you liked him.
    he said he wasn't interested, but he is still friendly which appears to be what you hope for after all.
    I think he never considered you liked him until you said it, he most likely just was completely professional and it never crossed his mind. he is as well in school which can be very challenging for anyone trying to start a "relationship" and If I know bulls, they are focused on ONE thing at a time. and his focus is probably on his career because they are also stability motivated. his career gives him stability and that is his focus not on establishing a relationship. he just doesn't want to pull more to this plate. so I would say although you are aggressive for sure (which I love and he might unknowingly love as well) keep reaching out on occasion. just don't reach out obsessively. take no for an answer, allow him time to get to know you more on a less professional level. if it happens allow time to play its part but continue to live your own life, don't let this mask other great things. all in all if it doesn't happen at least you can be cool
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by Shey8888
    Thank you! Ya I know I let my emotions get the best of me! I’m an Aries woman 😂

    However I did finally message him and told him the truth of what I did and apologized for attacking him!! He responded so wonderfully and told me he was the one that has to do the apologizing and said he also couldn’t imagine how it looked and didn’t realize it. And said he wished he had been more upfront with me. Then just carried on and asked me how I was doing and said that he was so happy to finally hear from me. We told eachother we missed eachother. In my head I thought we were back on.


    Later I texted him saying “i want to see you” he replied “well f**** I cant tonight. Are you being serious?!?? I thought you didn’t?!?!”


    I replied with “ of course I still want to see you the only reason why I didn’t is because I thought you were involved with someone else.” Of course I said a few other things but it’s not important


    So I’m now waiting for a reply. I truly miss him he really made me feel somethings. And then I keep seeing Aries and Taurus don’t work out lol should I just give up now? My mind has really gotten the best of me this last week to where it’s made me sick to my stomach. I feel ashamed of how I went about things. In my defense a year ago I ended with my bf of 6 years and 2 kids. It was a very abusive relationship and he couldn’t be trusted so Unfortunatley sometimes I feel like everyone is being shady and no one can be trusted. I think I’m better off being single!!! Lol


    Anyways any advice on this Taurus guy? I already wrote out something for if he says he doesn’t want to see me anymore. Only because I’m irrational sometimes so I had to write something simple and nice to send him so I don’t regret it later




    well that's all sounds good.
    Sag and Taurus are "said" to not work out either.
    its definitely challenging but overall its a wonderful experience

    I would say to just be casual, ask if out on a date if you want to see him again. get the conversations going again.
    don't stop reaching out and giving him your time. but try to understand that he might have some reservations as well as his own things going on. so don't over think things and definitely to lash out on you "insecurities".

    I personally had to initiate all the development in my relationship with my bull, aside from the first time we met and talking to me. later in my relationship he admitted to me that he never knew what I wanted to he just stayed "casual" which was funny to me because at the time I was like "I cant read what he wants!" - it took me being brave and just blurting questions out to get to the root of my confusion. like "im so into you" "im falling for you" "do you want more" "do you see a future" - they are really good with answering question they are not good communication tho. and they are very smart people just oblivious to hints or what we would consider obvious things. very easy to please if your willing to express you feelings often as confirmation to their own insecurities that are a lot of time masked by a confident strong exterior.

    and I 100% suggest just researching his sign and applying that to his actions. I read my bulls traits often as a reminder of our differences and how I can compromise with them to better our relationship.

    very much thankful for the amazing bull I have regardless of those said "challenges"
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    oh man. you really fudged this one up girl.

    well you jumped to conclusions and didn't give him the benefit of a doubt. I know that is usually a No-No for Taurus signs. also you treated him like a possession, which you definitely don't own him and don't have any control who his friends are male or female. So to assume he is on a "Couple Trip" is an assumption with no proof. how would you like to be treated that way? you should of AT LEAST waiting to talk to him AFTER his trip to get the run down. I mean if you have questions for your Taurus, no doubt he has no problem answering them

    "I saw some pictures on your trip, looked like fun! how do you know all those people?" - BAM get all the details without looking jealous or insecure.

    but honestly you went and completely abused and took for granted all the great things he offered you prior.
    like his time and attention prior to his trip. like, did everything you got to know leading up to that trip mean nothing, you just jumped on that train to crazytown and never looked back.

    secondly. if you say your "out" to a Taurus they will take you for your word. so don't expect him to come running back, begging you know after he says "i respect you honestly" you kinda showed your colors and he accepted that.

    I say apologies, let him know you really liked him and got really insecure he was too good to be true. and you hope you can remain friends. I mean being honest is the best option. and maybe he will look past it?

    iv been with my Taurus for a year and a half, he is EXACTLY what his traits say he is. so wonderful honestly. i mean they do some pretty selfish things sometimes, but they don't consider themselves doing anything wrong. so when they are asked questions they answer them, and usually in that they will realize if they did something wrong or not. sometimes i win some times i lose.
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    there is no "HINT" too obvious. only the most obvious hints he MIGHT catch onto and only DIRECT COMMUNICATION he can comprehend?

  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    I don't think they are stupid, not at all. they are actually very smart.
    I think stupid implies jumping off a bridge because his friends did it and said he would die.

    I think they are just not thought provoking people, they don't think in-depth.
    I would say they can be a little airheaded, things can fly over their head a little easier.
    I think they are not socially aware of the things that occur because its not their focus at the time.

    I was at the grocery store yesterday and a family with a very cute baby was in front of us in line eating teddy grams.
    I was making silly faces, because tiny human are so little and cute, and so was my boyfriend for a second..... the father of the child walks over and says "be careful they are contagious...." and my boyfriend "Taurus" says "what, the teddy grams" - I laughed out loud because it was the best redirection of the subject ever, but my Taurus later mentioned how funny it was that he missed that obvious statement.

    just things like that are what you can expect from a Taurus. but they are very intelligent people when it involves their own interest.
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by Boots1313
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    I really like you Boots.
    I appreciate your advice to me, and I too struggle with my Taurus.
    BUTTTTTTT.... I think.... (unless there is some bad boyfriend backstory to your trust issues) that you are making more stress out of this then what really matters. its important to a Taurus they don't feel taken for granted. kitty food is no something that should lead to insinuations of disloyalty. I send loves song to my Taurus and on occasion caught him in the they lie that he never actually listened to it. did it sting for him to say he did when he didn't. Yes, am I going to look at him differently then the person I know he is to me, no way. and im definitely not going to question his love and loyalty that easy.

    with everything you need to pick your battles. and if your trust issues aren't because of him DO NOT TAKE THEM OUT ON HIM.

    hope you guys can work it out.


    yes I might have over reacted a bit, honesty is important to me and something in my gut just didn't like that he lied, no matter how insignificant it was. Also I was more upset about how he reacted to it instead of the actual lie...defensive and flipped the switch "I worked 12 hours and WAS looking forward to spending the night with you"..guilt tripping...no consideration that I was hurt. he did apologize eventually.
    I know him, but its only been 5 months there is still a lot to learn and i'm just concerned ill learn he's a habitual liar and will lie about bigger things.
    I WOULD HAVE JUST GOTTEN CAT FOOD LOL!
    he lied about something else in the beginning of our relationship, a little bigger than this.

    I do have trust issues, been cheated on by ALL my past boyfriends...I am annoying with my constant reassurance but lying to me just makes me FREAK OUT that a little lie can turn bigger.
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    I understand. we all have things to be considerate of and to work on to better situations.

    I think if you maybe do it for him. I know that sounds lame and mothering but I think Taurus men appreciate that in a person. next time give him options. "did you do that or do you need me too?"
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by Boots1313
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    I really like you Boots.
    I appreciate your advice to me, and I too struggle with my Taurus.
    BUTTTTTTT.... I think.... (unless there is some bad boyfriend backstory to your trust issues) that you are making more stress out of this then what really matters. its important to a Taurus they don't feel taken for granted. kitty food is no something that should lead to insinuations of disloyalty. I send loves song to my Taurus and on occasion caught him in the they lie that he never actually listened to it. did it sting for him to say he did when he didn't. Yes, am I going to look at him differently then the person I know he is to me, no way. and im definitely not going to question his love and loyalty that easy.

    with everything you need to pick your battles. and if your trust issues aren't because of him DO NOT TAKE THEM OUT ON HIM.

    hope you guys can work it out.


    yes I might have over reacted a bit, honesty is important to me and something in my gut just didn't like that he lied, no matter how insignificant it was. Also I was more upset about how he reacted to it instead of the actual lie...defensive and flipped the switch "I worked 12 hours and WAS looking forward to spending the night with you"..guilt tripping...no consideration that I was hurt. he did apologize eventually.
    I know him, but its only been 5 months there is still a lot to learn and i'm just concerned ill learn he's a habitual liar and will lie about bigger things.
    I WOULD HAVE JUST GOTTEN CAT FOOD LOL!
    he lied about something else in the beginning of our relationship, a little bigger than this.

    I do have trust issues, been cheated on by ALL my past boyfriends...I am annoying with my constant reassurance but lying to me just makes me FREAK OUT that a little lie can turn bigger.
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    I understand. we all have things to be considerate of and to work on to better situations.

    I think if you maybe do it for him. I know that sounds lame and mothering but I think Taurus men appreciate that in a person. next time give him options. "did you do that or do you need me too?"
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by Boots1313
    I get so lazy with shaving. It's such a chore. My boyfriend has to be able to deal with a little it of hair. Especially my legs. I keep my nether region trimmed up. Not hairless, that to me seem pedophileish.
    My under arms are always taken care of an bare though.
    I also have chin hair and a mustache that I have to pluck/wax almost daily



    get laser girl.
    best choice I ever made.
    takes 18 months per treatment. and when that is done you go on to the next area of choice. makes it more affordable but worth it
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    I really like you Boots.
    I appreciate your advice to me, and I too struggle with my Taurus.
    BUTTTTTTT.... I think.... (unless there is some bad boyfriend backstory to your trust issues) that you are making more stress out of this then what really matters. its important to a Taurus they don't feel taken for granted. kitty food is no something that should lead to insinuations of disloyalty. I send loves song to my Taurus and on occasion caught him in the they lie that he never actually listened to it. did it sting for him to say he did when he didn't. Yes, am I going to look at him differently then the person I know he is to me, no way. and im definitely not going to question his love and loyalty that easy.

    with everything you need to pick your battles. and if your trust issues aren't because of him DO NOT TAKE THEM OUT ON HIM.

    hope you guys can work it out.
  • sagittariusxo
    Sun in Sagittarius / Moon in Capricorn / Venus in Scorpio
    31 years old female
    Posted by Damnata
    I used to be really emotionally volatile when I hit puberty. Prior to that I was very melancholic and shy.

    My mother's way of dealing with this was to yell back and slam doors and cry and make scenes and I never was one for theatrics. Deep down I was ashamed of my own, let alone witness someone else. I remember looking at her and thinking "this woman is barely managing her own emotions, let alone doing anything in the way of discipline. nothing to respect here". To this day that behavior in people leaves me cold.

    My father on the other hand..he would refuse to engage me. He'd walk out the room and all I could get from him was silence or looking at me sad and sighing. I'd want the ground to open up and swallow me...that's the level of shame I felt. I'd get my act together quick.




    i have heard this before. and im not sure where i stand or how my son sees me.
    i think im emotionally stable but at times, not often i do lose it, i get very overwhelmed with him, and how he is treating me, how he is acting, ungrateful and disrespectful and i will go Hulk monster on him... just Yelling, throwing things away, i will slap his mouth or grab his arm and toss him (not abusively but aggressively) in his room. he will cry and he will say he hates his life.. i always feel terrible when this happens, that i let him get me so upset that much......and i usually always apologize when times settle (ill say that im sorry, that i hate when i get that way, that he made me so angry by doing or pushing me the way that he did. i tell him i don't want to be that way but i need his help. it doesn't happen often tho. but i can only imagine him getting older and that getting worse. and that scares me.

    my sons dad, although has been up and down with his abilities to be a proper man and able to be present has recenely turned his life around but welcoming a new son, and has establish a new relationship and family with someone my son does like so their relationship is a good one. and i stay positive for him in that aspect because i think its important for my son and his father to be friends while we raise him. so luckily i support my sons love for his dad and his dad is doing his best to be the best for our son. i don't know how that relationship is behind closed doors but he loves his dad and can talk to his dad and defends his dad unmeasurablity so i support that and i think that's good for my son.

    but i do feel very hurt that my son may want to leave me for the family his dad so QUICKLY establish and i move slowly into allowing that to be my life.