SassyKiwi

It must be that season where Taurus men are shit threads pop up en masse. I try to always warn people about them. Pisces are pretty crappy too. Who would’ve thought it’s never a good idea to date your ex-spouse’s best friend… I know your shit ex-husband cheated but you kinda dug your own grave here too in trusting someone who’d go after their best friend’s ex-wife. Like damn no loyalty on multiple levels.

My advice is to press charges on your ex-husband, get alimony, child support, dry him up financially, and focus on self-healing before you get in another relationship (which should be with someone completely new and not from your past married life).

Girl Taureans like to chase… let him bring up rescheduling, not you. You’re definitely coming off way more interested than him. You need to control yourself and back off and let him come to you whenever he decides… if he doesn’t, he’s just not into you and you need to move on if you believe you deserve someone who should be begging for your time.

Well I disagree with everyone else, I think he could very well be the love of your life! I suggest you continue to fight for your place in his life 👍

I am so past to-do lists

I’ve got like 20 descriptive alarms on my phone to remind myself to do shit. Most of them getting put on snooze repeated times

Beat that

Oh yes, thankfully they were banned from ever getting on my romantic partner list. Astro discrimination at its finest.

OH OK at least he clarified it's not a toxic type of intensity though. Phew.

It low-key means leave while you can.

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The love of the young and unemployed is an experience itself and something more pure. There’s plenty of time later to wonder if women or men are pursuing you because of your financial status/potential.

I was gonna say that the older generation answear is obvious, and would like to know the newer generation opinion
Well there is you but you always say things idealistic based that feels generic
So what about YOU? Did you experienced anything like this?
Lets remember i am talking about having a gf not only hooking up in a car backseat

I personally thought it was pointless to have a boyfriend when I was going through my ambitious phase during uni. But I was never like my peers who were always boy/girl obsessed since like grade school. It always felt like I learned more from their failed/toxic young relationships than they themselves ever did. Not sure why but I was just always more mature that way. Shortly after uni I gave serious dating a shot only with the prospect of courtship since I never believed in dating to pass time. Since I myself had high expectations of what I wanted to become, I had high expectations from my potential suitors. A lot of personal stuff went on during this time but I ended up married at 23. My husband was 28. We had both saved ourselves for marriage which was a huge personal value for me that I treasured given how our generation is. I also greatly admired how he utilized his time to academically excel and be stable in a good career. It wasn’t always rainbows and sunshine but I don’t regret any of my decisions and feel very grateful because eventually everything fell into place how I always wanted. I also give credit to doing extensive inner spiritual work during this time.

So
You dated him (after) he was already with his career

Yeah because I wasn’t interested in dating to pass time, I was looking for someone ready to settle down for marriage with the prospect of starting a family soon after. A guy not stable in their career was out of the question.

Thanks for a much more legit answear
You should do this more

I thought I do?? I’m also a hopeless romantic and encourage all kinds of love stories.

Men in my position dont have love stories
Love cost money too
Last time i was invited to be a lover to a married libra woman
Not a love story
Just a toy
And for free, bitch didnt even offered me anything

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Awwwww. For real tho, she could’ve at least gave you a meal 🙄

It’s true tho, I’ve seen love cost money more often than not. I had an ex that went on hundreds of dates… with dozens of different women. His type was everything I wanted to avoid but at the same time also similar to what I wanted.

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Posted by SassyKiwi
The love of the young and unemployed is an experience itself and something more pure. There’s plenty of time later to wonder if women or men are pursuing you because of your financial status/potential.

I was gonna say that the older generation answear is obvious, and would like to know the newer generation opinion
Well there is you but you always say things idealistic based that feels generic
So what about YOU? Did you experienced anything like this?
Lets remember i am talking about having a gf not only hooking up in a car backseat

I personally thought it was pointless to have a boyfriend when I was going through my ambitious phase during uni. But I was never like my peers who were always boy/girl obsessed since like grade school. It always felt like I learned more from their failed/toxic young relationships than they themselves ever did. Not sure why but I was just always more mature that way. Shortly after uni I gave serious dating a shot only with the prospect of courtship since I never believed in dating to pass time. Since I myself had high expectations of what I wanted to become, I had high expectations from my potential suitors. A lot of personal stuff went on during this time but I ended up married at 23. My husband was 28. We had both saved ourselves for marriage which was a huge personal value for me that I treasured given how our generation is. I also greatly admired how he utilized his time to academically excel and be stable in a good career. It wasn’t always rainbows and sunshine but I don’t regret any of my decisions and feel very grateful because eventually everything fell into place how I always wanted. I also give credit to doing extensive inner spiritual work during this time.

So
You dated him (after) he was already with his career

Yeah because I wasn’t interested in dating to pass time, I was looking for someone ready to settle down for marriage with the prospect of starting a family soon after. A guy not stable in their career was out of the question.

Thanks for a much more legit answear
You should do this more

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I thought I do?? I’m also a hopeless romantic and encourage all kinds of love stories.

Posted by LoveDeathAndPhones

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Posted by SassyKiwi
The love of the young and unemployed is an experience itself and something more pure. There’s plenty of time later to wonder if women or men are pursuing you because of your financial status/potential.

I was gonna say that the older generation answear is obvious, and would like to know the newer generation opinion
Well there is you but you always say things idealistic based that feels generic
So what about YOU? Did you experienced anything like this?
Lets remember i am talking about having a gf not only hooking up in a car backseat

I personally thought it was pointless to have a boyfriend when I was going through my ambitious phase during uni. But I was never like my peers who were always boy/girl obsessed since like grade school. It always felt like I learned more from their failed/toxic young relationships than they themselves ever did. Not sure why but I was just always more mature that way. Shortly after uni I gave serious dating a shot only with the prospect of courtship since I never believed in dating to pass time. Since I myself had high expectations of what I wanted to become, I had high expectations from my potential suitors. A lot of personal stuff went on during this time but I ended up married at 23. My husband was 28. We had both saved ourselves for marriage which was a huge personal value for me that I treasured given how our generation is. I also greatly admired how he utilized his time to academically excel and be stable in a good career. It wasn’t always rainbows and sunshine but I don’t regret any of my decisions and feel very grateful because eventually everything fell into place how I always wanted. I also give credit to doing extensive inner spiritual work during this time.

So
You dated him (after) he was already with his career

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Yeah because I wasn’t interested in dating to pass time, I was looking for someone ready to settle down for marriage with the prospect of starting a family soon after. A guy not stable in their career was out of the question.

Posted by LoveDeathAndPhones

Posted by SassyKiwi
The love of the young and unemployed is an experience itself and something more pure. There’s plenty of time later to wonder if women or men are pursuing you because of your financial status/potential.

I was gonna say that the older generation answear is obvious, and would like to know the newer generation opinion
Well there is you but you always say things idealistic based that feels generic
So what about YOU? Did you experienced anything like this?
Lets remember i am talking about having a gf not only hooking up in a car backseat

click to expand

I personally thought it was pointless to have a boyfriend when I was going through my ambitious phase during uni. But I was never like my peers who were always boy/girl obsessed since like grade school. It always felt like I learned more from their failed/toxic young relationships than they themselves ever did. Not sure why but I was just always more mature that way. Shortly after uni I gave serious dating a shot only with the prospect of courtship since I never believed in dating to pass time. Since I myself had high expectations of what I wanted to become, I had high expectations from my potential suitors. A lot of personal stuff went on during this time but I ended up married at 23. My husband was 28. We had both saved ourselves for marriage which was a huge personal value for me that I treasured given how our generation is. I also greatly admired how he utilized his time to academically excel and be stable in a good career. It wasn’t always rainbows and sunshine but I don’t regret any of my decisions and feel very grateful because eventually everything fell into place how I always wanted. I also give credit to doing extensive inner spiritual work during this time.

The love of the young and unemployed is an experience itself and something more pure. There’s plenty of time later to wonder if women or men are pursuing you because of your financial status/potential.