SassyKiwi

Wow yeah women take notes... try to be on the same phone plan with your man and help out with sorting the credit card bills and stuff or like help set up email alerts for credit card activity and disguise it as making sure yall can catch fraudulent charges. That's my future approach tbh. Stay woke and armed in subtle helpful ways ^_^

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Posted by SassyKiwi
I'm still a virgin. If I happen to lose my virginity, that means I got married ?

For some reason ever since I was a kid the idea of dating to pass time never appealed to me. It only made sense to date if courtship was involved. Besides back in grade school dating meant sexually exploring like a nub. I even had some crazy friends who got knocked up by middle and high school. I find all that very sad.

As I got older and began getting more and more repulsed by the casual hook-up culture, I somehow started romanticizing the idea of being me and my future husband's firsts, each other's one and only. Super easy for me since I can't even begin to think of sexually getting involved with someone without emotionally and mentally falling for them. My uranus and saturn energy is very stubborn on this matter.

I have faith I'll find him.

I thought you were like with an older dude during college or something? Maybe that was someone else, but I swear you were with a divorcee. lol

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Looool I was never with a divorcee. I've had weird encounters. They are buried in a grave. I have blossomed into a wise lotus since ?

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Posted by SassyKiwi
I'm still a virgin. If I happen to lose my virginity, that means I got married ?

For some reason ever since I was a kid the idea of dating to pass time never appealed to me. It only made sense to date if courtship was involved. Besides back in grade school dating meant sexually exploring like a nub. I even had some crazy friends who got knocked up by middle and high school. I find all that very sad.

As I got older and began getting more and more repulsed by the casual hook-up culture, I somehow started romanticizing the idea of being me and my future husband's firsts, each other's one and only. Super easy for me since I can't even begin to think of sexually getting involved with someone without emotionally and mentally falling for them. My uranus and saturn energy is very stubborn on this matter.

I have faith I'll find him.

I feel the exact same way! What sign and house is your Uranus and Saturn in?

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Uranus in Capricorn 3rd house
Saturn in Pisces 4th house

They're meh. My overall chart has significant Uranus and Saturn energy. But I'm fire dominant and Plutonian. Girl it's all that Aqua energy. I've come across plenty of Aqua suns and moons who are saving themselves until marriage.

I'm still a virgin. If I happen to lose my virginity, that means I got married ?

For some reason ever since I was a kid the idea of dating to pass time never appealed to me. It only made sense to date if courtship was involved. Besides back in grade school dating meant sexually exploring like a nub. I even had some crazy friends who got knocked up by middle and high school. I find all that very sad.

As I got older and began getting more and more repulsed by the casual hook-up culture, I somehow started romanticizing the idea of being me and my future husband's firsts, each other's one and only. Super easy for me since I can't even begin to think of sexually getting involved with someone without emotionally and mentally falling for them. My uranus and saturn energy is very stubborn on this matter.

I have faith I'll find him.

Posted by Senorita_LL
When it comes to relationship? Like those stupid mind games, if you know what I mean.

I'll go first.

Aquarius - Annoying AF, I have to be unavailable, in order to get their attention.
Sagittarius - Ha ha ha...
Pisces - Xanax is a must, if I want to date them.

Bro all of them are 10000x better than Geminis, Aries, and Cancers

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Posted by Dreamyboy
What's your sign OP?

Did I mention we're in our late 30s?

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Wtf that sounds like petty butter teenagers deal with, how does that not scream NEXT

When you wanna fit into an xs with huge boobies ?

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Posted by pisceanloves
I don't like cancer mars, maybe because don't know how to deal with it.

Why do people always say this

I've dealt with so many cancer mars and they're just super cuddly and soft with this tough exterior but that dun fool me

I don't know how to respond their passive agresiveness.The guy im into has that placement, when he's upset he would shut down completely leaving me confused, not talking out loud. Just would ignore me and leave relationship open without saying anything. Now he does the same and it's just killing me, why it has to be like that, we are both grown ups, we can talk about stuff and not take everything seriously. I apologized but still he won't talk to me. I don't even know how do I make him come back. How do i make him talk, I'm sad. I don't have anything against cancer mars except I don't understand them, I'm trying tho. They are super reserved whilst I'm more open. I don't know ?

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It can be hard to get them to open up about personal stuff. They're really sensitive so when they're hurt they really hold it against you (I'm a fire mars I will literally forget and move on quickly) so I will poke at them with my thoughts and kind of nag them until they tell me tbh. They're adorable and really do keep you around if you match their effort. You need to be vocal about your expectations, how you both need to be able to openly discuss things because you're both adults like c'mon. Ask him does he not expect the same of you, etc. Get him in your shoes. Also remind him why you're into him, just be genuine. But wait. He's a Libra sun, Libra moon. From my experience, people with too much Libra suck as a person tbh. Libras will make it obvious if they're into you, so if they don't blatantly try, ditch them.

Posted by pisceanloves
I don't like cancer mars, maybe because don't know how to deal with it.

Why do people always say this

I've dealt with so many cancer mars and they're just super cuddly and soft with this tough exterior but that dun fool me

Hahah yaaa I have this. It's all true. Even the anger-cries. Am a baby?

Same.... didn't understand why I woke up with this profound wave of something out of nowhere. It's had me on this weird edge. I totally forgot about how it could be the eclipse. It tightly hits stuff on my chart too.

How's a jeep grand cherokee?!

When u get this strong desire to cook him anything he asks for as perfect as u can even tho u don't eat it cause it gross

Posted by TaurusBull1977
How did you try hard to do those things....

With a venus in Aries... this is how it works....

"I was thinking we should do something fun and interesting. "


"Here's what we're going to do, you're getting dressed, and we're about to have some fun... and I'm coming to get you in an hour."

Ok what if my earthy venus just wanna chill and cuddle and not always have to put up with something exciting and new? Are aries venus ever into that? They don't sound like they are and that's like really exhausting and unrealistic. You guys aren't good for long term commitments like marriage huh

Venus in 2nd house

https://vestalyn.wordpress.com/2014/01/25/venus-in-the-2nd-house/

Everything is true. I do cling to things I adore

Tauruses are classy treetrunkboys do not let that gentlemen/geek demeanor fool you

People who clearly had some heavy spiced curry food stinking it up thinking they can get on the cardio machine next to you when there's pleeeenty of others, why must you? It is upsetting my rose smelling aura

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Posted by SassyKiwi
I don't like sharing. Period.

It all MINE.

Lol can't argue with that.

What about sharing bothers you?

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My leo placements want me to have all the attention from my SO. It's like crucial for my overall well being.

I'm the type who would be so okay with polyandry but not polygyny ?

But I find one person time consuming enough... I have other areas in life I want to focus on apart from complex relationships. Stories about consoling your wife over her breakup with her boyfriend like lol, what are yalls occupations.

My hopeless romantic side believes in monogamy, everything that comes with it like sacrifice and unconditional love to the best of one's ability. But then my practical side is like okay if one's marriage is on the verge of someone needing to cheat or something clearly it needs some heavy spicing up and in that case I think it'd be okay to keep an open mind and discuss some swinging/poly options if needed rather than go through with betrayal. Ideally I don't ever want it to come to the latter because it all MINE.

I don't like sharing. Period.

It all MINE.