Posted by BlueStarPosted by SassyKiwi
While I agree sex is a transfer of material and spiritual energy, but not everyone is capable of handling a fully committed partner/spouse. Some are just better suited to live the gypsy life. *Cough aries venus gemini venus cough*
#notallgeminivenusclick to expand
Posted by WarAngelPosted by SassyKiwi
But successful men are usually very aware they're sought after so they're usually picky af. Which leave most women stuck with finding someone from the average pool. I've been seeing a lot of successful women end up with significantly less successful counterparts these days.
There is some truth to this. Once a person knows they're worth, the dating pool gets a lot bigger but the selection pool gets a hell of a lot smaller.
I don't think that's going to change for me quite yet.click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormal
Yep. Very true. I’ve been preaching this since I’ve been celibate these last two years. I was just talking to a friend about this very thing last week! I’ve experienced it firsthand and have only now been able to fully reflect upon the damage it did. I completely lost myself over years of relationship after relationship since I was 15 and now, in my mid thirties, am I just really coming to find myself. I’ve taken more than a few psychedelic trips to break through different plateaus I was at in life and I’m very grateful I did. I’ve become very introspective and more introverted. I think overly sexual people are running from something too. It’s easy to do the physical stuff because intimacy is hard and takes work. Anyone who disagrees with this sentiment, I’m hardpressed to hear a rational counter.