Posted by Librasetting
Posted by Librah
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?


lol of all of that I found the 2 cards to be the strangest. Now it makes sense...Kind of.

So for conflicts I can only speak for myself, but if I find the conflict to be petty I avoid it. If in my opinion the conflict can't be discussed rationally, I avoid it. For me it varies from person to person. I just don't like to waste the energy on it. This goes for conflicts that can turn into physical violence too. If I can walk away I will. Not worth my energy. The other part is if I told everyone what I was really thinking they wouldn't like what I have to say. So yes and no to voicing opinions. If I can voice my opinion in a tactful respectful manner I absolutely will. Keep in mind too that this is just one libra's take and I'm 36 so I've had plenty of trial and error. When I was in my 20's I was a loud mouthed ahole. I hope this helps you and any potential libras courting you sans 2 cards, wine, and chocolates.


Lol I use to be the silent type now I'm a loud mouth ahole. My own mother called me a evil ahole couple weeks ago 😈
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HAHHAAH so not all libra men are nice!:p??? This is interesting and good to know for information lol
I mean the website you guys use to upload a photo.
SOMEONe tell me how to post this damn chart please? This seems fun!
Posted by AerialView
Do you drink whiskey?


Thank god we never had a date lol
i have a libra girlfriend.

she's seeing an aqua man

and what i remember,

she was super super bossy

so i kind of stayed away.

lol


i also had a libra housemate

she was always super nice- and very easy going- i liked that

she is dating a libra man too- lol

Posted by Librah
We can take too long to make decisions and then can change our minds in half a second. That's a stereotypical generalization, but that's my sun and moon so it's true for me. Another somewhat true generalization is avoidance of confrontations/arguments. This is basically true, but it's like this for me; if I don't like something I weigh out the pro/cons of the hypothetical confrontation. So if the probable end result of the confrontation doesn't benefit me or the relationship I avoid it. I also despise mundane house chores. Not sure if that's a libra thing though.

That's a whole lot for a second date. Why 2 cards?


lol

1 card was when i was sick - wish me well card

2 card was when i was going away - wish me a happy holiday card

lol i feel so horrible coz after al that i didn't even let him in my house! omg

anyway,

ok so libra does't like confrontation or arguments?

how do they deal with conflicts then?

do they ever voice ANY opinion of what they truly think?

or they always go with the flow and always be so nice-?

Posted by Librasetting
Posted by saweetz1988
- don't surround myself much with libra men but I'm curious,

what are some of the cons mainly ?



Really depends on his chart.
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I guess I just wanna know the basic lol. I know they r sweet talkers n romantic. That’s it lol. One used to see me and brought me 1 bottle of wine, 2 cards, chocolate .. on a second date lol. That’s why I never seen another libra man lol
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by saweetz1988



found my answer...

omg.. so sad


LOL ---- so conflicting... pfff




if you only have the sun/moon square it's not so bad....

what if you had Oscar Pistorious's chart?


Aquarius Mars too, and Aquarius rising, square Sun and his Leo moon square venus and Sun.

there's alot of squares.

you have millions of people with sun/moon squares and live with it fine.
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Yeah, well I’m so new to astrology n only learnt about this placement of mine yesterday which explains a lot. I also have many other conflicting placements too not sure what they r at the moment. hehe I hope u r well. God u noe, I’m also interested in vedic astrology . Lol so I don’t noe which way to go
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
I was with one

Aqua sun
Scorpio moon



yike
how was that like ?


Do you really want to know ?

Lol


hahahah imao i do actually

maybe its the same experience lol


Oh no.....lol

Okay.....very charismatic....life and soul of the party.....loud and funny but very strange. Very romantic and sensual, but a compulsive liar

He begged me to move in with him after dating for a long time...I was hesitant but I did anyway and then he starts to push me away. When I left him he tells me "I had a death wish on you"" . He meant in as far as the push and pull thing was concerned. He had sexual issues.....good at it, a caring lover, but could not allow himself to let go. He drank too much and was a bit on the edge. Shortly before I left, I discovered he was a compulsive gambler.....slot machines. His sneaky Scorp moon hid that so well.

We went to couples counselling and the lady asked to see me alone after the sessions. She says to me that if I decided to stay it had the potential to destroy me as he was very messed up.....poor guy

After I left and went back to get some stuff, he offered me a spin back home and kidnapped me lol. Took me to a car park and wouldn't let me out. I had to persuade him to let me go, after what seemed to be forever......very scary

He was a mess. I don't for a minute think he didn't feel love for me....he was kind of obsessed in a detached way, but his Scorp moon was very addictive to me

Years later, at my Dad's funeral he was spotted hiding in a bus shelter looking across at the church. Luckily he didn't approach

Shortly after the funeral I got a letter apologising profusely for all the hurt he caused me and that letter only took him over 15 years to send lol, but I did appreciate it

I did go on some time later to be with another Scorp moon and saw a similar pattern....a huge attraction but in a dangerous way


Does that sound familiar to you at all ?
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OMG Dear, I’m so sorry you had to go through so so so much! Must b hard for you. From everything u have written , I see a lot of conflicting nature in him which I can relate but luckily I never let it get better out of me . Perhaps I have a lot of many goorcplacemnts in my chart to bring me out to light.... also, Scorpio moon can b very tricky...: im sure he loved u lots just didn’t know how to show uthose emotion properly. Very conflicting. I have a girlfriend who’s Aquarius sun scprio moon too and god she also has it hard too... ... did you have a kid with this man? Luckily my sun house is in the 8th house so whenever I bring myself to these crisis, they actually light me up and make me stronger and a survival. It says 8th house sun people do best in crisis like psychologist n therapist etc. like, they Renew me and make me stronger like a Phoenix lol.. so often I dig deep into pain and shine brighter from it every single time.. so when people see me, they never know how much pain I was in 1 hour ago, coz they see this amazing light shining from me. So thank god to that placement. Otherwise I will probably end up like that Man U described too I think ur Scorpio sun is very much into the Scorpio moon.! I can relate to this u wrote .++ he was kind of obsessed in a detached way,++ that’s def me when I’m really into someone ! Anyway, wish u luck in ur love life n thank u for sharing!
Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Koniuchaa
I know one and I like him very much

hehe awww thank you lol

i am well liked too, many many friends

but i find what i struggle with is very close love relationship at times-

when i have too much feelings-

it can be very confusing for the other person coz i always say something that i don't mean-

then self sabotage n blame the other person for it lol



I don't think that is to blame. I am not seeing that at all myself


how old is this person ?


36
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YEAH I think 36 is a wise enough age. see I have learnt so much. Esp this year. About my self and all so I try not
To let this placement confuse me too much... I’m haply for u!
Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Koniuchaa
I know one and I like him very much

hehe awww thank you lol

i am well liked too, many many friends

but i find what i struggle with is very close love relationship at times-

when i have too much feelings-

it can be very confusing for the other person coz i always say something that i don't mean-

then self sabotage n blame the other person for it lol



I don't think that is to blame. I am not seeing that at all myself
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how old is this person ?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
I was with one

Aqua sun
Scorpio moon



yike
how was that like ?


Do you really want to know ?

Lol
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hahahah imao i do actually

maybe its the same experience lol
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by AerialView
Posted by Klh1203
Posted by AerialView
Y'all women are so negative when giving advises 👎


Girls really are so damn negative when it comes to giving advice straight away they’ll be like “he’s trash leave him.”


Yeah. I don't think this guy is that bad. Hes just busy not some losers with no job.


nah- hes not bad

BUT if u r going to commit urself to a relationship

u def can fit a 30 mins coffee catch up once a month don't u think ? lol

she's 30 mins away lol

the minimum she shud be able to see him once a week.

if he's busy, and focus on his career too much then he's def NOT ready for any kind of committed relationship.


but i'm very curious-- are they publicly announced as a couple on social media?


Yes. We are a couple as far as I know. He asked me to be his gf in Sept. he’s never asked for a breakup. And he tells me he still wants me in his life. I told him to tell me if that changes. He said kk 😘


R u a couple on social media? Like Facebook?


No. I don’t have Facebook and he doesn’t have Instagram. We both have Snapchat
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mmmm has he got fb? I don’t know, as for me, it’s very tricky to trust these days. One man asked me to b his girlfriend. turned out he has a gf or even a wife. lol.. . he didn’t have fb or maybe kept it hidden. Just be cautious. that’s all.
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by AerialView
Posted by Klh1203
Posted by AerialView
Y'all women are so negative when giving advises 👎


Girls really are so damn negative when it comes to giving advice straight away they’ll be like “he’s trash leave him.”


Yeah. I don't think this guy is that bad. Hes just busy not some losers with no job.


nah- hes not bad

BUT if u r going to commit urself to a relationship

u def can fit a 30 mins coffee catch up once a month don't u think ? lol

she's 30 mins away lol

the minimum she shud be able to see him once a week.

if he's busy, and focus on his career too much then he's def NOT ready for any kind of committed relationship.


but i'm very curious-- are they publicly announced as a couple on social media?


Yes. We are a couple as far as I know. He asked me to be his gf in Sept. he’s never asked for a breakup. And he tells me he still wants me in his life. I told him to tell me if that changes. He said kk 😘
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R u a couple on social media? Like Facebook?

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Posted by AerialView
I'll pray for you 🙏


-- imao - its ok , if i stay single forever i shud b ok LOL
Posted by MyStarsShine
I was with one

Aqua sun
Scorpio moon



yike
how was that like ?
Posted by Koniuchaa
I know one and I like him very much

hehe awww thank you lol

i am well liked too, many many friends

but i find what i struggle with is very close love relationship at times-

when i have too much feelings-

it can be very confusing for the other person coz i always say something that i don't mean-

then self sabotage n blame the other person for it lol

Posted by rabidtalker
on the good side, it's one of those aspects that can lead to a lot of wiseness


DEF-

n my sun house is 8th - so I'm always discovering myself - self growth is important for me-- but sometimes this placement affect me when i'm not conscious of it...

- don't surround myself much with libra men but I'm curious,

what are some of the cons mainly ?