scorpio1108
joined April 03, 2017
Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Most: Capricorn or Aries
    Least: Pisces or Gemini
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by ScorpioTruth
    Since it’s been over a year and since he’s had time to build some trust in you, I think it’s possible. I agree with others that caps are typically kinda reserved.. they show interest and will court you/pursue you, but will do so in a very passive/gentleman type way. However if he’s known you for a year and hes comfortable with you, he might just be letting his guard down. The cap I’ve been with for 10 years is EXTREMELY affectionate, even in public, which I know they also say isn’t typical of caps. He wasn’t always that way.. it took him probably a good two years to relax a little. Lol now he doesn’t hold back at all, he’s very affectionate with both words and actions. My cap has a cancer moon though, which I believe softens him up a bit.


    Ya he has a Venus is Pisces and I figured maybe that was part of it to. He's definitely an anomaly to me haha
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    That's pretty much what I thought to.. he was pretty reserved until we both admitted we had always had an interest in each other... then it was almost like no holds bar for him. Straight onto flirting hugely.... extreme compliments (and not just about my looks, but my intelligence and such as well).

    Side note: He was also asking me about how loyal I am, and if we ever went to the bedroom he doesn't share and has the expectation that we'd be exclusive. I also asked him if he was just interested in fooling around and he said no, there's more there for him then just that. Just not entirely sure as it seems very sudden for a cappy guy to "pounce" like that lol for me in my history anyway.
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Well this is a new one for me... I've known him about a year and a half. He recently expressed interest in me and is flirting like crazy. He's on vacation and still texting me (in the Caribbean I might add). I have many caps in my life but never one whose been this direct and flirty before. Anyone ever have this happen to them?
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    WTF is going on lately... I swear in the last week I've had 4 people "pop" back up into my life. Two of which I haven't spoken to in over a year. One's a cappy who I adore even though he has commitment issues, says he still has feelings for me. My sag came crawling back he wants to talk. I'm ignoring it and all of his messages. I did politely say to leave me alone but he's not. And of course a random text from the ex husband two years later apologizing (he's a scorp as well).

    Anyone else dealing with an ex attack?
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by hippiecrite
    Posted by magma2
    Posted by hippiecrite
    Posted by magma2
    Posted by hippiecrite
    He likes you.

    I’m Cappy sun, with Scorp moon and rising. He’s Virgo sun, with Pluto in the First. I’m also a Virgo stellium, so we have that in common, but I’d not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto. And maybe you guys have some Saturn aspects. Saturn aspects hold you accountable to one another.

    Anyway.

    Earth signs are always considered to be slow, but we were monogamous super early. When we know, we know.

    Anyway again. The parallel that has me responding to you is that, very early on, he was invited to a wedding. It was a weekend long affair and he’d RSVP’d before we were a thing, and so I didn’t go. He wanted to spend the morning with me, before he left. He let me know, numerous times, that they were gonna be in the boonies. If he didn’t respond to a message, it was the service, and not him ignoring me. He messaged me when he was on his way home, to let me know he’d love to hang out with me when he got back...

    You’re being included. That’s a good thing. Don’t exploit it, but definitely take it in the spirit it was meant: he likes you. he wants to keep in touch with you. he thinks you’re worth it. If you think he’s worth it, don’t let him down.

    Good luck. 😊


    Hi Cheeky! Been awhile, I hope all is well.

    You said: "...with Pluto in the First...I'd not be surprised if your guy has some prominent Pluto." Are you saying that prominent Pluto is devoted, likes a lot of communication, or something else? Asking for a friend. Winking



    Hey, you. 😊

    Just a hunch, going off OP being a Scorp. They’re supposed to be a decent match for you guys. For me, being Scorp heavy, I’ve noticed a favorable trend with people who have Pluto in the first. Scorp moon or sun and there’s too much distrust there. We’re so much alike that all we see are the potential negatives in one another. Pluto in the First has a depth of understanding the emotional stuff and can hang with it, regardless of sun sign, but doesn’t usually have the other negative hangups. It’s an awesome balance.


    So you were speaking to their compatibility, not his behavior? *slaps friend*



    Ha. Yep.

    She seems a little astonished that things are moving as quickly as they are and sort of doubting his sincerity. I’m trying to give her some stuff to look for in his/their charts to give her an idea of why I think he’s legit.

    *slaps magma’s friend*
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    That's exactly it, I figured he'd want to move slow... He wanted me to "spend" the night last night and we only just shared I first kiss. I was a good little girl and went home haha

    Our Saturn aspects are really good I checked them out a couple weeks ago lol
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Jules-ll
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    Posted by Jules-ll
    Posted by Earthgoddess
    Posted by scorpio1108
    He left Thursday and we talked then. I haven't heard from him since then. I figured I'd just let him get a hold of me.


    Wrong make move

    If it were me I’d think
    Ok so I asked her to call she never did guess I know her interest level

    I agree totally, it's flattering that he wasn't shutting her out while on boys weekend...


    I ended up texting him and he called me right away lol told me alllll abut his guys weekend including the pregnant stripper hahaha

    LOL, what???

    I can't speak for virgo men, but as a virgo woman I'm not aggressive when it comes to flirting/letting potential love interests that I'm piqued. So you should take it as a great sign that he is communicating well with you...Big Grin
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    He's actually been super shy and awkward but calls himself out on it haha its kinda cute. Did the whole yawn and arm reach over to get me to cuddle bin... Then proceeded to fall asleep at the movie theater last night.
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Jules-ll
    Posted by Earthgoddess
    Posted by scorpio1108
    He left Thursday and we talked then. I haven't heard from him since then. I figured I'd just let him get a hold of me.


    Wrong make move

    If it were me I’d think
    Ok so I asked her to call she never did guess I know her interest level

    I agree totally, it's flattering that he wasn't shutting her out while on boys weekend...
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    I ended up texting him and he called me right away lol told me alllll abut his guys weekend including the pregnant stripper hahaha
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    You'd think with my Virgo moon I'd maybe know more about things but ended up meeting his little boy last night... whose freaking adorable btw. He mentioned that he usually goes for the gusto right off the bat (since all we've done is hug) but respects the fact that I'm not like that. Totally call my bullbutter on this but I thought virguy's liked to move slow and have a friendship first?
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by scorpio1108
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    I attract earth signs to a high degree. Blows my mind.


    I wish I could more. Best relationship I ever had although short was with a cappy.


    Caps are so reserved, though. I've been working on a cap guy for 4 months now. lol.
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    I like the steady pace of a cap, to much to fast makes me run for the hills. But I will say totally worth it when you win one over, they are amazing people. The cappy I dated is still one of my closest friends to this day, totally solid guy who would do anything for anyone.
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Seleukos
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    Posted by Seleukos
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    Posted by Seleukos
    Scorps, Caps, Geminis and Sags.

    Edit: occasionally a Libra.


    Only went on one date with a gem he was aweful... I've never met a ruder person in my life lol


    I've only experienced the opposite.
    I also just realized that this is in the Scoprio forum.
    Sorry, just forget what I said while I'm seeing my Aqua sun out.
    Mea Culpa, truly, didn't mean to intrude Scorpio territory.


    Haha no worries I find it all intresting. My dad and one of my bff girlfriends is a gem, my dad drives me bonkers though haha


    Any specific reason for that or just the usual chattiness?
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    My dad is very two faced, he'll say something to your face then something completely different to someone else. I call him out on it all the time.

    As for that date? He was straight batbutter crazy... grabbed my faced and squeezed it wihile saying I WILL be sleeping with him... Excuse me while I junk punch you good sir LOL... My girlfriend is awesome though haha.
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
    Posted by scorpio1108
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
    Taurus sag cap Scorpio leo and Virgo but I hever say my sign lol


    I eventually ask their birthday haha never hurts to have a small heads up


    Lol some of them do ask but I don’t give em any info lol
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    May I ask why
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    I attract earth signs to a high degree. Blows my mind.


    I wish I could more. Best relationship I ever had although short was with a cappy.
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by NelsonSacramento
    Honestly hard to say since im not the social type.


    I get it, I'm very quiet until I trust people. Makes it hard to get to know people.
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
    Taurus sag cap Scorpio leo and Virgo but I hever say my sign lol


    I eventually ask their birthday haha never hurts to have a small heads up
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Seleukos
    Posted by scorpio1108
    Posted by Seleukos
    Scorps, Caps, Geminis and Sags.

    Edit: occasionally a Libra.


    Only went on one date with a gem he was aweful... I've never met a ruder person in my life lol


    I've only experienced the opposite.
    I also just realized that this is in the Scoprio forum.
    Sorry, just forget what I said while I'm seeing my Aqua sun out.
    Mea Culpa, truly, didn't mean to intrude Scorpio territory.
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    Haha no worries I find it all intresting. My dad and one of my bff girlfriends is a gem, my dad drives me bonkers though haha
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Seleukos
    Scorps, Caps, Geminis and Sags.

    Edit: occasionally a Libra.


    Only went on one date with a gem he was aweful... I've never met a ruder person in my life lol
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Ellygant
    Posted by scorpio1108
    Posted by Ellygant
    I attract water signs a lot. Occasionally a fire sign and Virgos as well.

    I only have dated water signs though. For all the fire signs and Virgos I attract, we normally don’t have enough to get past initial flirtations. Normally because of patience. Fire signs aren’t patient enough to wait for me to reciprocate. I’m not patient enough for Virgos to wait for them to reciprocate lol.

    Water signs tend to get the flow best.


    Only just attracted my first Virgo and Aquarius. I blame it on my Virgo moon and Libra mars/Venus. Both are flighty creatures lol I'm not keen on the disappearing acts although I enjoy our independent natures.

    Although I'm water dominant I don't know why I can't handle cancer and Pisces attachment process. One date and they are planning a wedding and naming our future children lol


    Haha. Well Pisces I attract but I have never dated. I never feel a strong attraction back to them. I’m a notable cancer fan girl though.

    Never attracted an Aquarius. Virgos I don’t find flighty. I think they just like things on their terms which I can relate to actually. However how they treat my emotional and passionate nature doesn’t agree with me. I take them trying to make me less emotional too personal. That’s normally when they pull back. By the time they come back around and wanna reconnect, I’m not into them. This my being impatient ha
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    Ya I can understand that, I'm horribly impatient to lol
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    Posted by Ellygant
    I attract water signs a lot. Occasionally a fire sign and Virgos as well.

    I only have dated water signs though. For all the fire signs and Virgos I attract, we normally don’t have enough to get past initial flirtations. Normally because of patience. Fire signs aren’t patient enough to wait for me to reciprocate. I’m not patient enough for Virgos to wait for them to reciprocate lol.

    Water signs tend to get the flow best.


    Only just attracted my first Virgo and Aquarius. I blame it on my Virgo moon and Libra mars/Venus. Both are flighty creatures lol I'm not keen on the disappearing acts although I enjoy our independent natures.

    Although I'm water dominant I don't know why I can't handle cancer and Pisces attachment process. One date and they are planning a wedding and naming our future children lol
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    Scorp Sun/Asc Virgo Moon Venus/Mars Libra
    I'm always attracting fire signs.... Tired of being burned haha... Water signs tend to be to clingy for me.

    So ♏ what do you suck into your vortex lol