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Posted by HeartofTopazz
Bcuz itz nun o’ yah bidness

Lol, yes it is. She just said it's getting serious. If you get involved with someone romantically you HAVE to let them in on anything relevant to... You know... A committed relationship?

Especially with men, it's scientifically proven that the better looking a guy is(and subsequently his kitty game by extension). The more likely he is to cheat.

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I don’t know why I’m defending but to be fair, nothing relationship-affirming was talked about. It’s just the things he did that made me assume he also saw this as more than a fwb/hookup sitch.

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Posted by ScorpiogrlllYeah that’s what I thought too but why would he suddenly not want to answer when he used to do it so readily?

What kind of Scorpio degrades theirself by dating a dude who was busy treetrunkin other chicks while she was practically right in front of him the whole time?

Dude is a playa, don't set yourself up for a failed relationship. I thought that was Pisces M.O?

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It’s just so good I’d look past the other chicks to keep this going, feel like I’m not gonna find someone I have this much chemistry with that easily. Like he’s the first person I’ve actually felt ‘sparks’ with. I’m definitely overattached.

Posted by MademoiselleFisk
"a few" is not a number, though. He's tactfully answering your question because he probably thinks it's really none of your business. His answer will probably trigger your insecurity and judge him.

Yeah that’s what I thought too but why would he suddenly not want to answer when he used to do it so readily?

We used to have a purely hook up situation happening, but I feel like now it’s at least something more. I casually asked him how many other people he had slept with, and he kept laughing awkwardly and avoiding the question. I had to keep prying before he told me ‘a few’, and did I think he “was a Casanova?”

My question is - do you think he was making the numbers up out of pride because he thinks I’m sleeping with other people too? Why would he be so reluctant to answer my question when he used to answer it so readily?

Posted by Majin
What's the difference?
An honorable Taurus man delivers on a promise. He's more action oriented. No words are necessary. The strong silent type.

Well said TaurusBull1977, that also describes me exactly.

The dishonorable ones should be avoided at any cost to spare yourself some headache.

Define action oriented, in a fwb context?

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Posted by Scorpiogrlll
We’re currently just FwB, but he’s told his family about me and that I was his girl. He also kept talking about me having his babies, and asked me if I was sleeping with other people. He always talks about how nice it is spending time with me too. Things like that makes me think he’s interested in something more, but then he tells me he’s still on tinder.

I can’t tell what his intentions are. Was he just joking and messing around, or did he mean what he said? The fact that he’s still on tinder is majorly throwing me off.

I can't stress this enough.
Know who you are, and know what you want.
This will draw the best Taurus men into your life, and will keep the worst Taurus men away from it.

Why is he mindf% &king you?
You don't have a leg to stand on. You have no idea where you stand in this relationship. You don't know if you're coming in or going.

Have you actually met his family members?
Something tells me you didn't.

His agenda?
To hold on to his sidepiece, while he continues to keep his options open. He just needs to be reassured that your options are closed.

Remember our mantra..."I have"...this applies to ALL Bulls, whether or not our intentions are candid or disingenuous.

Friendships, marriages, relationships, homes,cars,businesses, sidepieces, mistresses....It's all ours!

Not all Taurus men are honorable men.

The 'jacked-up' ones can be deceptive, because it's easy to lure in their suitors with that stable, grounded Earth energy. So you don't really see past the soothing energy, nurturing and stability vibes they give off. Trust me, the messed up Bulls exist.

What's the difference?
An honorable Taurus man delivers on a promise. He's more action oriented. No words are necessary. The strong silent type.

The dishonorable Taurus man will 'talk' his way out of delivering promises. How is this accomplished? He will give you the illusion that it's headed towards committment by throwing subtle words here and there. "My girl." "Babies." "I told my family about you." When you do decide to hold him accountable to everything he has told you. He will quickly revert back to reminding you, that the both of you never had this discussuion....and it's not a relationship.

How to hold this 'fixed' sign accountable?
Remind him.
When he throws innuendos, tell him save it for the pigeons, feed them that bread and butter, you're simply not interested, it's a FWB and nothing more. Don't allow him to fill your head with nonsense fairytales.

Let him know you're a grown ass woman.

If he wants commitment, show and prove!

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Thank you so much for this. I ignore all that BS he’s spewing my way now lol

Posted by AgentP911
OP, you've written about this guy before.

What is it that you want?

As in, what do you want from your life right now? What position are you in? Are you looking for someone to just have a FWB situation? Perhaps because you don't have the time right now for a relationship, work or studies are occupying your time. Maybe you just want some uncommitted fun right now as you're not emotionally available or something. Are you looking for a committed relationship? To date, to get to know someone well, to filter out the unsuitable ones, to find someone you match with and who matches with you, who wants the same things etc.

What is it YOU want?

I just want things to be status quo. He keeps buttering me up and it’s throwing me off

Posted by FknMeow
Be like, you say you want all these things but you're talking to other girls on tinder so wtf. It'll probably give him a boner.

Ahahahahaha that made me lol. What if it scares him away cos he was just joking about it tho

Posted by FknMeow
Maybe he's checking to see if you're still on there.

Nope he’s definitely still on there

We’re currently just FwB, but he’s told his family about me and that I was his girl. He also kept talking about me having his babies, and asked me if I was sleeping with other people. He always talks about how nice it is spending time with me too. Things like that makes me think he’s interested in something more, but then he tells me he’s still on tinder.

I can’t tell what his intentions are. Was he just joking and messing around, or did he mean what he said? The fact that he’s still on tinder is majorly throwing me off.

Thanks everyone. General consensus is that I shouldnt have tried to make him jealous. Super glad I cleared the air afterwards.

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Posted by Skeleton
And why do you want to know that?

I was texting a Taurus guy about going out with my male friend amongst other things. He ignored everything related to me going out with him but replied to every other thing. I was just wondering if he was ignoring from jealousy or he just didn’t care enough to reply that.

Did it warrant a response?

What exactly did you text?

Did you text about your male friend in order to elicit a response from Mr Taurus?

You seem disappointed you did not get one.

I would go with the 'noted' theme. Taurus aren't dumb. My taurus fella is exceptionally perspective. It helps not to play games, be straightforward, be honest, don't lie about anything - even little white lies.

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Yeah I Guess I kinda was trying to elicit a response. Regretted it afterwards tho, just added extra info about how my friend bats for the other team so he wouldn’t think I was up to butter.

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Posted by Scorpiogrlll

Posted by Skeleton
And why do you want to know that?

I was texting a Taurus guy about going out with my male friend amongst other things. He ignored everything related to me going out with him but replied to every other thing. I was just wondering if he was ignoring from jealousy or he just didn’t care enough to reply that.

if anything it's likely it has been 'noted'.

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Define ‘noted’

Posted by Skeleton
And why do you want to know that?

I was texting a Taurus guy about going out with my male friend amongst other things. He ignored everything related to me going out with him but replied to every other thing. I was just wondering if he was ignoring from jealousy or he just didn’t care enough to reply that.

Both in person and when texting you?

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Posted by Scorpiogrlll
We (May 8, 1993 x Nov 3 1997) hooked up a couple of weeks back. Didn’t expect to see him again but he texted a week later and now we’ve slept together four times. The third time we met, he cooked for us and asked me to wash the dishes and it felt so domestic. We always spend a ton of time talking and cuddling after we bang and it just feels so different from a usual wham bam thank you ma’am hookup. Do you guys think he feels the same, that this feels like something special too? He’s still on tinder tho, I accidentally saw it running in one of the tabs on his phone.

What do you mean by "special"?

I think his feelings are in check and he's just being a gentleman.

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true, I guess the food sharing and cuddling just threw me off :\

I’d sense the sudden lack of communication and try to get your attention back again if i cared. I wouldn’t really take my time to reply if I liked you tho. It’ll take all my self control to not reply to someone I like the second I receive a message lol

If you need more info re: birthchart lmk