well as missmorals would say, each to there own. If you want to be blinded by an illusion and a lie and not to hear the truth then something needs to hit you and toughen you up more, you say i have stinging words when I said so little. you and everyone else is asked thats why its a message board where you post your opinions about people's questions. but I am no longer looking to convise you. You dont have to be in my life to answer a question.