Posted by SofiaV87Posted by SeraphlightPosted by SofiaV87
Gems always come back .. Whether it's a friendship or relationship .. It never fails .. At least not with me
With something that was always a friendship is it more likely?
According to my track record I would lean more towards the friendship if they were to come backclick to expand
I hope so. I think we are both genuine peeps deep down. Life it's just a bit weird up and down sometimes
Posted by SofiaV87Posted by PootyButt
If you're speaking of confusing, undefined relationships under a year long, particularly among people in their teens and twenties, then yes, maybe sometimes. But if you mean really come back after a clear breakup, then no. I don't let go of a relationship with someone I love or have loved until I've exhausted all the options, so while I may remain fond of the person, there is nothing to go back to. A friend can almost always draw me back. If I'm honest that's because I don't depend on my friends for very much. I'm pretty self-sufficient and invulnerable to insignificant slights.
Yes one relationship of mine was undefined with a Gem, the other 2 were friends & the other one was an ex .. The ex wasn't coming back to get back together but rather to see how I was doing & asked me out to lunch as friendsclick to expand
I thought you were the gem. Sorry.
There is no how. You just know.
Posted by libralotusPosted by TheLibraMudra
I don't want to sway you from any decision you want.
But I work in a NICU. I've seen parents want to give up their parental rights. I've seen adoption parents come in as bio mom kisses her baby goodbye forever. It always ends in tremendous tears. I've even seen them back out of their decision, breaking the adoption family's heart. It's very, very hard.
No, I need to head various opinions so you're being very insightful. And I guess that's my problem with adoption. I feel like I wouldn't want to let go after nine months and it would forever be an open wound.
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Then maybe it's not for you.
I haven't been in your position no.
But think of it this way. It's not going to be your last chance to have a child is it?
I wouldn't sway you. It's totally up to you. I have seen single moms do a great job. I have single moms have an abortion to CONTINUE to do a great job for the one child they do have.
You can make whatever you want happen. So do what's best for you.
Only YOU know what you can do right now.