Posted by Antiphates One of the things I read was that you completed the theme of that house in a previous lifetime or something. Don't know how it's interpreted within concepts that don't care about the past life idea.
check the house and and lord,Then check the lord(star)touch which star in which house and sign.
You can check the composite chart for you 2 from astrology web,to find if the sun touch mercury/juno or not from composite chart. From you said that he is cap rising,venus aqu,moon gemini,you will get to know he is cancer 7th house,moon lord, moon in gemini,so he loves the girl who is the nature of gemini and aqu character. from your rising i can know you love the aqu(aquarius) person.