That the nights were mainly made for saying things that we can't say tomorrow day

Posted by PVJamz
Posted by AntiSocial
I kinda like these 2 Pisces girls & 1 is my gf already & the other 1 is my side bae, how can I keep both of them or is that even possible, they don't know each other , can they work it out ?

As always I'm thankful for any advices.


Tell them that you're iVirgo.
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Wait he's not a taurus?
So this sumner my focus has been on self improvement. Part of that has been eating better in general to avoid possible future health risks. So lately I've been throwing vegetables into most of my dishes and avoiding fried foods(mostly of the potato variety) even though I love them.

But lately I've noticed that fried foods.....don't taste good anymore. Anyone else notice this after altering your diet? I'm assumingthat it's somewhat normal, but I have an urge to discuss it. Specifically what makes it happen? I've only been eating better for about 3 1/2 months, and I haven't made huge changes to my diet.

Also, most importantly how do I keep my love of fried oreos alive?
Posted by EtherealTraveler
Posted by Shadowcat
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Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by EtherealTraveler
Hot in porn sometimes, situationally hot RL.

But I mean everyone's gonna jeer at some non-white person dating a white person anyways nowadays, so there's that really. Racism still exists.


Yeah no.


Most people don't care tbh. Racists aren't a majority.


The obvious ones aren't. The subtle ones are.


Not even.


Read what I sent tcta about the example of subtle racism.
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Your example was one of bias not racism and even then, that doesn't go for all cases. Racism is not a default setting, it is not /normal/.
Posted by EtherealTraveler
Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by EtherealTraveler
Hot in porn sometimes, situationally hot RL.

But I mean everyone's gonna jeer at some non-white person dating a white person anyways nowadays, so there's that really. Racism still exists.


Yeah no.


Most people don't care tbh. Racists aren't a majority.


The obvious ones aren't. The subtle ones are.
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Not even.
Posted by EtherealTraveler
Hot in porn sometimes, situationally hot RL.

But I mean everyone's gonna jeer at some non-white person dating a white person anyways nowadays, so there's that really. Racism still exists.


Yeah no.


Most people don't care tbh. Racists aren't a majority.
Posted by CrimsonGirl
Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by CrimsonGirl
Don't think there's anything wrong with it and it shouldn't make a difference. Some of the best couples I know are interracial. Although for whatever reason I used to get offended when white guys I knew would be all about black women. It made me jel. But I got over it. From what I hear, black women can be really jealous too when black dudes go out with white women.


It's connected to how black women are made out to be undesirable.


What part of my post are you referring to exactly? Them being mad at black men for dating white women?
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Yes, sorry just saw this
Posted by NINETYNINE
Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by NINETYNINE
Posted by Shadowcat
Absolutely. The teenage brain is immature. And people that go after people that young are imo, lacking in the moral department.


I'm 27, i said i always am attracted to 30+ year old females, but now i'm hooked on this 20 year old.

How does your view work now?



18 isn't the same as 20, but even then I still find it morally sketchh. The fact is, that the brains of people that age are immature.



Mine still is in many ways, are you trying to say i have no morals?

My morals are pretty on point, my mind don't work like yours clearly, it's like your mind has to see negativity with this, you perceive the man wants something from this younger soul that has nothing to save themselves from.

Narrow view to have, just saying



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It's a morally grey area. It's not about minds working a certain way or not. The fact is, that their brains are immature. Their decision making abilities don't operate on the same level as yours.


This comment isn't personal, if you want to date someone that's twenty, that's fine. I really don't care. I am far more focused on men that try to chase teenagers(i,e 13-19). I will say that I find it sketchy because of aforementioned brain issues. But the lives of adults are none of my business, it's just my opinion that it's sketch.
Posted by NINETYNINE
Posted by Shadowcat
Absolutely. The teenage brain is immature. And people that go after people that young are imo, lacking in the moral department.


I'm 27, i said i always am attracted to 30+ year old females, but now i'm hooked on this 20 year old.

How does your view work now?

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18 isn't the same as 20, but even then I still find it morally sketchh. The fact is, that the brains of people that age are immature.
Absolutely. The teenage brain is immature. And people that go after people that young are imo, lacking in the moral department.
Posted by Jayceon
Posted by twowaycap
Posted by Jayceon
Pisces & Cancer. I don't connect with caps. I find them to be very conceited at times.


I don't think they really mean to be conceited, maybe you didn't know them close enough for them to trust you and open up
No they do mean too, but sagittarius are more conceited then caps.

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In what way are caps conceited?
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by CrimsonGirl
Don't think there's anything wrong with it and it shouldn't make a difference. Some of the best couples I know are interracial. Although for whatever reason I used to get offended when white guys I knew would be all about black women. It made me jel. But I got over it. From what I hear, black women can be really jealous too when black dudes go out with white women.


It's connected to how black women are made out to be undesirable.


Undesirable, how? Cause most the black chicks I see, got ass for days, and I think they are hot.
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So the black community in general has four major issues about attractiveness

One if colorism, which is basically the idea that the lighter you are, the more attractive you are.

Two is hair. African american hair is very different from caucasian hair. Not only is the texture inherently different, but it's generally shorter in appearance at least. Our hair follicles are similar to a spring/coil, so shrinkage tends to happen. Needless to say, our hair has been a source of mockery both inside and outside of the community.

Three is black facial features. They're compared to animals by a ton of racist people, both in and out of the black community.

Four is attitude. The angry black woman stereotype. The idea that black women are inherently more difficult to handle.


All four of these have been used to push the rhetoric that black women are unattractive. And in many cases, those images are reinforced by the media.
Posted by CrimsonGirl
Don't think there's anything wrong with it and it shouldn't make a difference. Some of the best couples I know are interracial. Although for whatever reason I used to get offended when white guys I knew would be all about black women. It made me jel. But I got over it. From what I hear, black women can be really jealous too when black dudes go out with white women.


It's connected to how black women are made out to be undesirable.
Posted by Deedee86
Posted by Wonderlesswave
Why does everyone on dxp keep asking about interracial relationships? thats what the treetrunk i wanna know

Because they all want one, whether they admit it or not.
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Why do you think this?
Posted by tcta
Posted by Scorpio123
Real question is, why are we STILL discussing this in 2017? 🙄


thank you - my thoughts exactly

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Saw a post from CC, was bored, thought topic was interesting, posted it.
Posted by SpreadLies
Posted by Shadowcat
Posted by SpreadLies
Usually 1 of the party's in the relationship is a sellout

Not all of the time, but most


define sellout


Tom Cruise as the last samurai
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?
Posted by pisceanloves
Posted by Am_Cloudy
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Posted by hydorah
Posted by pisceanloves
he's black, but he claims he's Puerto Rican. I swear he's black, physical appearance, color, huge lips. Hair. I don't know he thinks I'm stupid or he really believes he's Hispanic. Don't care

are you really that retarded though?


The treetrunk you want? In the mood to mess with someone else? Wrong address. treetrunk off


Porto Rican is not a race, retard.
There are Porto Ricans of all colors. How can you be so proud to be ignorant?


Such a donkey. When I asked if he was black he stated that he's Hispanic from Puerto Rico. Understood now? Somehow I can see the difference between Latinos and blacks. Get lost now
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