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So I recently went on a week long vacation with a solo female travel company, and this Pisces guy who was the founder, was also our trip manager and accompanied us. All through the trip he gave me compliments, teased and flirted quite a bit, however, I took it easy considering he was generally sweet and funny to everyone on the trip. One evening, he sat next to me on the bus, and asked me after a long silence, whether I thought me and him had a vibe, and whether I could consider a casual relationship with him. He explained how and why he was not looking for something serious, due to nature of his job and previous experiences. Also, we had a long discussion on relationships, and our individual views, experiences in love, etc.
Me being a traditional Cap, I was a little taken aback, so there was an awkward silence from me, which I feel unnerved him. But I gently told him my view on relationships was much different, that I wanted something serious, and that he barely knew me. In my mind, it was a red flag that he’d ask me out like this. I also wondered if he just wanted a one night stand or something like that, but he mentioned going on dates, meeting each other friends, doing chill things together, etc beyond the trip too, just without the commitment tag. It was a little too unconventional for me, so the conversation ended with him letting me know that i should give it another thought and if I ever changed my mind, I should let him know.
I wasn’t angry or upset,just surprised. Later he did ask once again whether I had given it any thought, and I said I hadn’t, as even though he’s dreamy and thoughtful, I like stability and was done with casual relationships going nowhere.
After the trip ended, I wrote a glowing positive review for this vacation and his company on an online forum. And post that, he messaged apologising for his behaviour towards me on the trip, saying sorry and as he’d crossed a line which he shouldn’t have. Asked if we could stay friends.
I am a little confused by his behaviour. He wanted something casual, which I declined. But I was not holding him criminal for it. And neither had I expressed anything negative anywhere about him, the trip, or our conversation. So where does his unsolicited apology come from? Posted by poeticseraphim
Sounds more like gemini energy op
Do they have gemini in their chart?
Um, nope I have no idea about Gemini, if any, in his chart.Posted by Hypnotoad
They want you to give them a job.
Hehehehe 😅 na, he manages a bigger team than mine.Posted by Sooner_or_Later
Posted by ShyCappie24
Do Scorpios enjoy random phone calls? An old Scorpio work friend called me up out of the blue, just to catch up and congratulate me for getting a new team at work. Said he was happy for me. We had a good platonic conversation which was completely unexpected, since we have not really been in touch for over a year. So I was really surprised. Do Scorpios pop in and out of people’s lives like this?
If it helps, he’d asked me out more than once years ago, but I never agreed (as I was with someone else). I always thought he was a nice guy, and nothing really went wrong between us, just that we dated different people and never exactly kept in touch. Hence his call which lasted around 20 minutes, was a bit of a shock. I honestly feel I’m overthinking it, but just that a personal phone call to simply congratulate and let me know they’re happy for me, is a lot of effort for someone you haven’t been in touch with for over a year. I was happy but I wondered if it could possibly mean anything more than a friendly call. Any insight?
Hmm...I think this just means he's been thinking about you. Being a Scorpio - we don't do anything out of the blue. Everything we do is usually planned, or we've thought about it for a while. I wouldn't say Scorpios are that spontaneous. Scorpio men in particular - I've known a few that do these things to provoke a reaction and see what the response will be. I'd say he's testing the waters or trying to start a conversation.click to expand
Yes, okay, testing the waters. I’ll keep it friendly and cool. I want to see if it is really anything, since I’m usually never wrong about my instincts. Thanks for your input.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by ShyCappie24
Posted by leolovestaurus
Posted by ShyCappie24
Do Scorpios enjoy random phone calls? An old Scorpio work friend called me up out of the blue, just to catch up and congratulate me for getting a new team at work. Said he was happy for me. We had a good platonic conversation which was completely unexpected, since we have not really been in touch for over a year. So I was really surprised. Do Scorpios pop in and out of people’s lives like this?
If it helps, he’d asked me out more than once years ago, but I never agreed (as I was with someone else). I always thought he was a nice guy, and nothing really went wrong between us, just that we dated different people and never exactly kept in touch. Hence his call which lasted around 20 minutes, was a bit of a shock. I honestly feel I’m overthinking it, but just that a personal phone call to simply congratulate and let me know they’re happy for me, is a lot of effort for someone you haven’t been in touch with for over a year. I was happy but I wondered if it could possibly mean anything more than a friendly call. Any insight?
outside of a Scorpio’s point of view, any guy who calls you up to congratulate you on a job you didn’t tell them anything about obviously likes you . Could be platonic could be more .
One way I’d find out for sure if it’s simply friendly would be to text him a few days after the call and say “hey I was just thinking about how unexpected that call was .. it was really nice to catch up and sweet of you to call.. /insert smiley face “ if he responds trying to carry on the conversation and lead it to finding out bout your day etc there’s your answer and if he doesn’t respond there’s your answer too. He was being friendly. Either way you know.
Thank you for your thoughts. I will try and find out what’s on his mind.
I can sum up his mind with one gif...
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Hahahaha! Is it? I don’t even know if he’s single or looking. My Cap soul will not believe this at first go, unless he does something again 😁Posted by Lunamara
Posted by LuxePurrDo Scorpios pop in and out of people’s lives like this?
Yes they do. Don't think too much of it, go with the flow. If it leads to something romantic, why not give him chance? That is, if you're both single.
I could assure you this is what he’s hoping for lolclick to expand
Hahaha! It’s nice if I assume it to be that. But it’s been a while, and the conversation was like a friendly chat ? so I’m not fully sure. 😁Posted by LuxePurrDo Scorpios pop in and out of people’s lives like this?
Yes they do. Don't think too much of it, go with the flow. If it leads to something romantic, why not give him chance? That is, if you're both single.
Oh I will definitely give him a chance
but if it doesn’t lead to anything, it’ll still be good. Alright won’t be day dreaming then. Thank you!Posted by Lunamara
Posted by ShyCappie24
Do Scorpios enjoy random phone calls? An old Scorpio work friend called me up out of the blue, just to catch up and congratulate me for getting a new team at work. Said he was happy for me. We had a good platonic conversation which was completely unexpected, since we have not really been in touch for over a year. So I was really surprised. Do Scorpios pop in and out of people’s lives like this?
If it helps, he’d asked me out more than once years ago, but I never agreed (as I was with someone else). I always thought he was a nice guy, and nothing really went wrong between us, just that we dated different people and never exactly kept in touch. Hence his call which lasted around 20 minutes, was a bit of a shock. I honestly feel I’m overthinking it, but just that a personal phone call to simply congratulate and let me know they’re happy for me, is a lot of effort for someone you haven’t been in touch with for over a year. I was happy but I wondered if it could possibly mean anything more than a friendly call. Any insight?
It is not a lot of effort for someone we like n hope to build something on. But let’s see if he calls more regularclick to expand
Thank you! Yes I will be more in touch, to see if he’s really interested in anything further. However, I won’t be chasing.Posted by leolovestaurus
Posted by ShyCappie24
Do Scorpios enjoy random phone calls? An old Scorpio work friend called me up out of the blue, just to catch up and congratulate me for getting a new team at work. Said he was happy for me. We had a good platonic conversation which was completely unexpected, since we have not really been in touch for over a year. So I was really surprised. Do Scorpios pop in and out of people’s lives like this?
If it helps, he’d asked me out more than once years ago, but I never agreed (as I was with someone else). I always thought he was a nice guy, and nothing really went wrong between us, just that we dated different people and never exactly kept in touch. Hence his call which lasted around 20 minutes, was a bit of a shock. I honestly feel I’m overthinking it, but just that a personal phone call to simply congratulate and let me know they’re happy for me, is a lot of effort for someone you haven’t been in touch with for over a year. I was happy but I wondered if it could possibly mean anything more than a friendly call. Any insight?
outside of a Scorpio’s point of view, any guy who calls you up to congratulate you on a job you didn’t tell them anything about obviously likes you . Could be platonic could be more .
One way I’d find out for sure if it’s simply friendly would be to text him a few days after the call and say “hey I was just thinking about how unexpected that call was .. it was really nice to catch up and sweet of you to call.. /insert smiley face “ if he responds trying to carry on the conversation and lead it to finding out bout your day etc there’s your answer and if he doesn’t respond there’s your answer too. He was being friendly. Either way you know.click to expand
Thank you for your thoughts. I will try and find out what’s on his mind.Posted by colors
Do you see each other in any setting, work etc.? What did he say while ending the call. Talk to you soon, will call you again, or just bye? It could mean anything. But good news is he knows how to reach you if he wants to. And you can reach him too if you want to.
No, we don’t really interact in a team setting, we manage different teams. We used to work together 2 years ago at the same office. Then he moved out to a branch office aane company, in a different city and we gradually lost touch.- Do Scorpios enjoy random phone calls? An old Scorpio work friend called me up out of the blue, just to catch up and congratulate me for getting a new team at work. Said he was happy for me. We had a good platonic conversation which was completely unexpected, since we have not really been in touch for over a year. So I was really surprised. Do Scorpios pop in and out of people’s lives like this?
If it helps, he’d asked me out more than once years ago, but I never agreed (as I was with someone else). I always thought he was a nice guy, and nothing really went wrong between us, just that we dated different people and never exactly kept in touch. Hence his call which lasted around 20 minutes, was a bit of a shock. I honestly feel I’m overthinking it, but just that a personal phone call to simply congratulate and let me know they’re happy for me, is a lot of effort for someone you haven’t been in touch with for over a year. I was happy but I wondered if it could possibly mean anything more than a friendly call. Any insight? - I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever. So, how do I break up with him without too much drama? I respect him but do not have the same feelings anymore. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
- I have been dating a Libra since a year. Major cons for me: Sometimes all the love can get suffocating. Indecisive, as wants to only make the best decision. He's overly concerned with appearances, his own that is. Spends truckloads of money on clothing etc to keep himself looking good. Flirts without knowing it (this is very annoying to me as a Cap). Can lie about/hide little things just to keep the peace or to not 'ruffle' you (but my Scorp Venus always finds out :p). Gets scared easily. Kind of childish and playful forever.
- A Cap woman gives the cold shoulder knowingly when they feel disrespected or ignored. And unknowingly when they have other family or work issues. Did anything happen that might have made her feel this way? I say just take two steps back and wait and give her some space.. you asked her.. now it's up to her. If she told you about her problem she does trust you :-)
