Posted by SoulPosted by UnusualVaginalDischargePosted by Soul
It would definitely keep me around longer. I could accept more of her flaws I dislike if there are actually reasons why she likes, or even needs me in in her life.
What traits would you like to hear that she likes about you?
I've heard it all tbh. Women have told me everything under the sun, good and bad.
This is me personally, but what I honestly want to hear is nothing. I want to just trust and respect her enough to the point we evolve to where I can just feel her aura, and know the vibes are perfect without the constant use of words.click to expand
Posted by stillstillwater
You've come to the right place.... I've dated Pisces, Gem, and Virgo. One Capricorn with Scorpio Moon.
Scorpio Mars is my least fav placement because they're easily made jealous and suspicious and they're unforgiving... for a while at least. So depending on your Moon and Mars you can identify whether you're the type to trigger their jealousy.
All my Scorpio in Mars ex's were like that and I have a tendency to make people jealous so it was never a good match for me.
However, they're also very devoted when they feel safe. I used to have major issues with the Virgo because I used to give out my number to guys (it was at work and I was in hospitality with tip-based-pay so it just helped me grow my customer base) but of course there had to be schmoozing involved (never cheating). (SiM does not understand that emotionally even though logically he understood!) But also when him and I were just talking, I was talking to someone else too and they found the texts because they snooped. (Eye roll - curiosity killed the cat). So he held on to that perception which was treetrunked up because we weren't official or even close to official. They won't break up with you over trivial things but it will just stay with them and haunt them making things difficult for you here and there. It's possible to rebuild from their jealousy and trust issues but you have to be a reassuring person which I'm not. I'm pretty emotionally dense when it comes to others so i'm like la di da di da if we are together it means everything is okay.
Another Scenario was my Pisces with SiM ex, who saw a text of mine to another ex and pretty much went crazy after that even though he stayed with me. The text to the ex wasn't anything significant from his PoV but his intuition was correct because I still had feeling for my ex. I was trying to get over him though and could've had potential with the Pisces but just him seeing that ruined it for us. We stayed together because I wasn't cheating or anything but it just became a nightmare after that. For example, one time when we went out, I went to use the restroom and ran into a good friend of mine. Being girls we started talking butter and taking pics which obviously took some time. When I came back eh accused me of cheating on him in the restroom. I'm like wtffff oh ok you're crazy. We never bounced back from that because we both had very different ways of dealing with issues. He needed reassurance and I thought he was just overly jealous.
So they have VERY strict views on flirting/intimacy/etc.
The Cap with Scorpio Moon was least jealous/possessive (because he also had Sag/Aqua placements) but even with him once I joked about some intimate thing and he's like "you don't want me to get jealous, trust me! If that ever happens I will be calling your work to see if you're actually there and I will start asking you to check in with me at different times". I was like dammmnnn, ok never mind. I don't want to push those buttons then.
If you have water placements such as Cancer which is very reassuring and nurturing it will be okay. So just ask yourself if you have strict views towards intimacy as well and that you know how to build trust/reassurance. My romantic mode at the beginning is "shock factor" so it's hard to build trust right away with me because I like to test people too on some level.
Posted by Arielle83
Everyone calling the cancer a moody brat, but the OP claimed she wanted to be alone and got him to move out...
Then she wants him back 3 days later...
And he’s not going back. He’s getting his groceries he paid for.
The OP thinks she can say things and get ppl to jump when she wants.
Everyone projecting their man hating on here, yet again.
Op don’t get ppl to move it all out then get upset when they refuse to come back.
You acting like a scared beaten wife now too?!!
Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it.
Cancer doesn’t like your flip flop disrespect.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Btw. I scanned your post history and it looked like your boyfriend is a Libra. Appearance and Libra are best of friends. Your post history tells me one thing: cut your losses and move on already.🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by lilyofthevalleyPosted by mwsxPosted by lilyofthevalleyPosted by BiboroonPosted by mwsx
I mean if he's jealous and possessive mb you should have taken action to reassure him. If he was suspicious it was probably because he sensed you weren't trusthworthy ?
Yeah reassurance goes a long way
The problem was it was impossible to reassure. He blew up over anything, when Id reassure he wouldn’t believe me, and then his anger would eat me until Id say something he REALLY had to be jealous about, such as “I wish I had never left my ex” etc. The he’d use everything I ever said when he pushed me off the edge against me in the next fight to prove I’m a just like me who doesn’t love him. The cycle was just psychotic. I couldn’t live it anymore
I mean idk about others but i can feel people's true intentions. If you try to reassure him to calm him down it's not gonna happen with words but intentions/actions. Sometimes people are persuaded we don't know something (i play a lot on this to see how far they'll go)so they keep lying more and more until they identify themselves with the lie to a point where they even get upset that you prove em a+b that they are liers. ;p
This. Is. The. Thing. My ex was CERTAIN I was lying. He was CERTAIN about his judgment of everyone. But he build nonexistent worlds from his thoughts alone. He had a million extremely plausible and perfectly worked-out scenarios about how I was hiding everything and lying to him. And the scary thing is, if you were someone listening from the outside, you’d probably believe him that I’m lying. His made-up scenarios were sooo convincing. Sometimes I even doubted myself! “Maybe my intentions aren’t good?” I’d ask. His mind could twist the truth in an absolutely terrifying way. And once he created that story about me, he was sure it was the real one. And here I was, the most transparent and honest-if-it-hurts-me Libra in the world (Cap moon, Libra mercury) and he made me even question myself. He MADE me start lying about everything, even the simplest stuff, to try to avoid the damning scenario he was “sure” was true. All mixed in with his smothering love... taking care of all my needs.. almost being a slave to me. Imagine this. It was seriously some crazy-making
My dad’s a Scorpio Mars and he’s a bit like that but not to that extent. He likes to think people are always trying to pull one over him and tries to pull these ‘gotcha’ moments on us. He likes to think he knows peoples real intentions but he doesn’t. All he does is focus on the times he was right about people and ignore the times he was wrong. That way, in his head, he’s an expert. I’m willing to bet that’s why mwsx thinks he’s good at feeling other people’s intentions. He probably isn’t.
But to answer your general question. Don’t be scared, they are lovely people. Very protective, do anything for you, proactive when it comes to your needs and wants.click to expand
Posted by greylaternPosted by lilyofthevalley
I not too long ago ended a relationship with a Libra who had Venus in Scorpio. The entire relationship was filled with abuse, gaslighting, unreasonable jealousy and never-ending fights and accusations. All this was done in the name of his possessive “love”. And while there was good that came from his obsession to take care of me, I still count the two years I spent with him as two of my worst.
I’m now interested in a Capricorn who has a Mars in Scorpio. Just the mention of Scorpio anything freaks me out now, even though I know a Scorpio Mars could be completely different than Scorpio Venus..
In your experience, what attributes does a Scorpio Mars male have? Could he be called possessive and jealous?
I understand you hesitation about anything that reminds you of that man and relationship. However unless you genuinely do not get along with that archtype, your losing out. Don't let this man and his bad manifestation of this placement ruin others for you.
Scorpios, if you can get along with them, are pretty awesome in there own right. I've gotten serious with a libra with Scorpio Venus and capicorn moon. There is nothing like Scorpio love. It's a shame things didn't work out.
Don't let this guy continue to haunt and ruin your life like this.
To answer your question. A good Scorpio mars will take there time and question you alot. They are be pretty set in there likes and dislikes. What they are comfortable with in a relationship and not. Any time you deal with a Scorpio just be honest with yourself and then them and they lighten up and pretty easy going. If you are not honest with yourself or them the contradiction will cause issues in the relationship. Another words be honest and genuine.click to expand
Posted by Black-Mamba
okay but why did you delete the last topic on the same subject and now do it all over again?
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by SkeletonPosted by Ram416Posted by IMightBeElle
lol....why are people fighting
What happens when you put a bunch of women in a room and there are no men in there for them to pick on.
.... Wait Phantom is a female?
Is it really not obvious? Lolclick to expand