Posted by DonnaLibra
Get a man who's phone isn't controlled by someone else. Actually this sounds like an excuse he's using to not talk to you.
Yes, his phone is controlled by his familyPosted by TheClassy
How old is he that parents takes his phone? Sounds like exuse tbh
He told his friend about this. And he said he was busy to me and sorry. Sounds genuine that he shares everything with his friend. He always talked with me with so caring responses but after his family found out about this, I was getting ignored on calls, messages, etc. And when I made his friend ask him he told that his phone isn't with him and his parents are not giving him.- Will he consider me as a future partner or leave me?
- I am in a situationship only. Not a relationship. I have crush on him too. He just don't know yet
- So here is a Virgo man who use to love me a lot. He had a huge crush on me earlier. His family noticed that he is talking with me and grabbed his phone so that he shouldn't talk to me and when I'm calling his phone a lot, they're not giving him nor lifting the call. No responses to my heartfelt messages, calls, anything. I'm emotionally broken. He said they are not giving him the phone and took away from him nd told him to focus on his studies first. And he said sorry to me for ignoring my messages as his phone wasn't with him. He is not contacting me with any other means. No responses for my simple questions. I asked him Is it over? Still no response. What is happening? And will he ever call me or text me or still not give up on me or will he listen his family's words and not talk to me?
Posted by hydorah
long distance relationships aren't real
anyway you can check the call history or the blocked numbers list duh
Let's assume, you don't know that your father kept her in your blocklist because you just thought he might have deleted her number and you're expecting for her message- If you love a girl, and that girl loves you too. You both chat a lot, let's imagine. She gets closer to you and you both love each other but not yet in any relationship yet. You were in situationship. And your father, one day while going through your WhatsApp found out that you were chatting with this girl. And he told you not to talk to her. He grabbed your phone and he deleted her contact and blocked her let's guess. You don't remember her number since you have a bad memory let's guess. Your father told you to complete your exams, till then no phone. So you completed them, and checked your phone taking back from your father. But unfortunately you found out that there is no way for u to get her number since he deleted all of your important contacts so that u can't get back with her. Now what you will do? Will u try to get back with her or leave her for your father's words? Or If she comes back to you asking that she wants to be with you, Will you take her back?
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Posted by pisceanloves
@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.
Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.
I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my life
Did you reach out so you can see him in person?? Lunch? Also virgos put up with your butter if they are invested which takes months and months but if its early on they won’t hesitate to ghost you.....click to expand
yes, it's too earlyPosted by Gem03
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@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.
Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.
I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my life
Did you reach out so you can see him in person?? Lunch?click to expand
No. We are just connected with each other on social media. He made me unable to reach him outPosted by pisceanloves
@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.
Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.
I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my lifePosted by pisceanloves
What is maddening is that I certainly misunderstood the fact him chasing me over the months was anything more than that. I walked away twice and he still kept trying. I did invest all my emotions and I got attached, I just can't believe someone can fake connection and tenderness. I can't believe that. Why go out of your way only to hurt another, why do that? he knew me, he knew real me, inside and out. I don't get it honestly but I don't care. I don't understand nothing and don't wanna know more than that. It's not rejection that hurts, it's being lied to. Done deal whatever
Thanks @LadyNeptune I have to agree. Won't be deleting the thread in case anyone wants to get anything out of it.
Who approached first? You or him recently? I'm curious to know. My Virgo man too cutted me off without telling me a reason. I'm afraid to ask him why. Should I wait for him to talk to me or I should talk myself to him? Even mine was a situations hip similar to you. I can't get guts to ask him the reasonPosted by LadyNeptune
Posted by pisceanloves
What is maddening is that I certainly misunderstood the fact him chasing me over the months was anything more than that. I walked away twice and he still kept trying. I did invest all my emotions and I got attached, I just can't believe someone can fake connection and tenderness. I can't believe that. Why go out of your way only to hurt another, why do that? he knew me, he knew real me, inside and out. I don't get it honestly but I don't care. I don't understand nothing and don't wanna know more than that. It's not rejection that hurts, it's being lied to. Done deal whatever
Thanks @LadyNeptune I have to agree. Won't be deleting the thread in case anyone wants to get anything out of it.
And its certainly possible that he didn't fake the connection. It was very real for him, in that moment.
But people change. And we aren't talking about over 2 months, it was 2 years so there is certainly enough time for his feelings and motives to change.
Perhaps it was the distance that eventually dampened his enthusiasm. Perhaps it was meeting someone else... idk.
But I don't think he was deceiving you from the start. He was definitely interested... or else why continue to give you his energy and time for 2 years. But at some point his mind changed and that's ok too.
What isn't ok is how he chose to cut you off without an explanation or sense of closure. He's a coward and took the easy way out to preserve himself with little regard to your feelings.
So really you dodged a bullet.click to expand
Even my Virgo man cutted me off without closure! So, Is this the reason that he don't want me? Or else someone else blocked me from his phone?- I love him, we started dating. I was showing him lot of interest and he suddenly cutted off all contact, blocked me on social media, disappeared out of my life. I don't know what to do now. Is he done with me? He don't want me? What happened to him? Should I ask him or leave him alone? Will he ever comes back?
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Posted by Arieslesbian
Honestly I think Virgo men are way too good for Pisces. They’re super manipulative, fake and insane in general.
Are Virgo men manipulative?
No but pisces are...
That's why pisces and Virgo don't work out...
Yes
Mhmm hmm 😒click to expand
If love is true, both can understand each other and can workoutPosted by ELIGAB
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Posted by Arieslesbian
Honestly I think Virgo men are way too good for Pisces. They’re super manipulative, fake and insane in general.
Are Virgo men manipulative?
No but pisces are...
That's why pisces and Virgo don't work out...click to expand
YesPosted by Arieslesbian
Honestly I think Virgo men are way too good for Pisces. They’re super manipulative, fake and insane in general.
Are Virgo men manipulative?Posted by bwe200
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Is it a good pairing?
A virgo man cutted off all the contact with me suddenly without telling me a reason, What the reason might be? And will he ever come back? Or should I contact him through other numbers and ask him for the reason?
Depends how close you were.
If you were very close, then maybe he needs some alone time. If not, try to contact him.
Virgos do tend to come back, because of our overanalyzing nature, we don't take failure in relationships lightly.click to expand
We were not that close, it's just a few days of closeness, which have ended in a fight, after few days he blocked me. What possibly the reason? Will he ever comes back from a Virgo perspective?