Posted by DonnaLibra
Get a man who's phone isn't controlled by someone else. Actually this sounds like an excuse he's using to not talk to you.
Posted by TheClassy
How old is he that parents takes his phone? Sounds like exuse tbh
Posted by hydorah
long distance relationships aren't real
anyway you can check the call history or the blocked numbers list duh
Posted by Gem03Posted by Gem03Posted by smiley_smilesPosted by pisceanloves
@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.
Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.
I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my life
Did you reach out so you can see him in person?? Lunch? Also virgos put up with your butter if they are invested which takes months and months but if its early on they won’t hesitate to ghost you.....click to expand
Posted by Gem03Posted by smiley_smilesPosted by pisceanloves
@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.
Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.
I didn't act as if I'm crazy but I was literally ignoring him a lot and he suddenly disappeared from my life
Did you reach out so you can see him in person?? Lunch?click to expand
Posted by pisceanloves
@smiley_smiles Virgo man doesn't like crazy and you certainly have come across like one. Calm and collected is the way to go. Be more rational and offer something of value, other than unstable emotions that truly serves no one and should be used for self expression in private only.
Also you are young and have lots of growing to do.
Posted by pisceanloves
What is maddening is that I certainly misunderstood the fact him chasing me over the months was anything more than that. I walked away twice and he still kept trying. I did invest all my emotions and I got attached, I just can't believe someone can fake connection and tenderness. I can't believe that. Why go out of your way only to hurt another, why do that? he knew me, he knew real me, inside and out. I don't get it honestly but I don't care. I don't understand nothing and don't wanna know more than that. It's not rejection that hurts, it's being lied to. Done deal whatever
Thanks @LadyNeptune I have to agree. Won't be deleting the thread in case anyone wants to get anything out of it.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by pisceanloves
What is maddening is that I certainly misunderstood the fact him chasing me over the months was anything more than that. I walked away twice and he still kept trying. I did invest all my emotions and I got attached, I just can't believe someone can fake connection and tenderness. I can't believe that. Why go out of your way only to hurt another, why do that? he knew me, he knew real me, inside and out. I don't get it honestly but I don't care. I don't understand nothing and don't wanna know more than that. It's not rejection that hurts, it's being lied to. Done deal whatever
Thanks @LadyNeptune I have to agree. Won't be deleting the thread in case anyone wants to get anything out of it.
And its certainly possible that he didn't fake the connection. It was very real for him, in that moment.
But people change. And we aren't talking about over 2 months, it was 2 years so there is certainly enough time for his feelings and motives to change.
Perhaps it was the distance that eventually dampened his enthusiasm. Perhaps it was meeting someone else... idk.
But I don't think he was deceiving you from the start. He was definitely interested... or else why continue to give you his energy and time for 2 years. But at some point his mind changed and that's ok too.
What isn't ok is how he chose to cut you off without an explanation or sense of closure. He's a coward and took the easy way out to preserve himself with little regard to your feelings.
So really you dodged a bullet.click to expand
Posted by ELIGABPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by ELIGABPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Arieslesbian
Honestly I think Virgo men are way too good for Pisces. They’re super manipulative, fake and insane in general.
Are Virgo men manipulative?
No but pisces are...
That's why pisces and Virgo don't work out...
Yes
Mhmm hmm 😒click to expand
Posted by ELIGABPosted by smiley_smilesPosted by Arieslesbian
Honestly I think Virgo men are way too good for Pisces. They’re super manipulative, fake and insane in general.
Are Virgo men manipulative?
No but pisces are...
That's why pisces and Virgo don't work out...click to expand
Posted by Arieslesbian
Honestly I think Virgo men are way too good for Pisces. They’re super manipulative, fake and insane in general.
Posted by bwe200Posted by smiley_smilesPosted by bwe200
Is it a good pairing?
A virgo man cutted off all the contact with me suddenly without telling me a reason, What the reason might be? And will he ever come back? Or should I contact him through other numbers and ask him for the reason?
Depends how close you were.
If you were very close, then maybe he needs some alone time. If not, try to contact him.
Virgos do tend to come back, because of our overanalyzing nature, we don't take failure in relationships lightly.click to expand