I see nothing wrong with what he did
He's just showing u how much he cares about you
I know everyone's moody, so no need to state the obvious.
Posted by sierra_
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by sierra_
like constantly doing it pushes the universe to "punish" you somehow even if you have good intentions in doing so.. say, you lie or keep things to yourself coz you don't wanna burden the person or make them think that you're using how you feel against them..or like trying to make them feel guilty and being an obstacle to what they want or will make them happy

example:

someone suggests an activity that you don't really like but it's not the worst thing in the world and the person seem really interested in it so instead of saying "no" you think: "I can work with that."

then this keeps on going and going and going until it ultimately turns into:

"I can live with that."

then years later you just can't with it anymore and you become more honest with what you really feel and they're so shocked and hurt.. and ask you stupid questions like: "Why didn't you say so?"

and again you stupidly feel like lying again coz you don't want them to feel bad and think they're at fault somehow.. coz you panic and spiral into another lie..

a vicious cycle of trying to protect people yet end up hurting them

and making yourself miserable throughout


You are such a Pisces


i am a virgo!
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I know. It's just that we are both virgos but so different. Just giving u a hard time
Posted by sierra_
like constantly doing it pushes the universe to "punish" you somehow even if you have good intentions in doing so.. say, you lie or keep things to yourself coz you don't wanna burden the person or make them think that you're using how you feel against them..or like trying to make them feel guilty and being an obstacle to what they want or will make them happy

example:

someone suggests an activity that you don't really like but it's not the worst thing in the world and the person seem really interested in it so instead of saying "no" you think: "I can work with that."

then this keeps on going and going and going until it ultimately turns into:

"I can live with that."

then years later you just can't with it anymore and you become more honest with what you really feel and they're so shocked and hurt.. and ask you stupid questions like: "Why didn't you say so?"

and again you stupidly feel like lying again coz you don't want them to feel bad and think they're at fault somehow.. coz you panic and spiral into another lie..

a vicious cycle of trying to protect people yet end up hurting them

and making yourself miserable throughout


You are such a Pisces
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Posted by solidsnake
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by hollyhock
Cancers don't take accountability for themselves. At all. They will blame you for everything.


No.


Yes


No.


K


No.
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Bye
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by hollyhock
Cancers don't take accountability for themselves. At all. They will blame you for everything.


No.


Yes


No.
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K
Posted by GC02
Posted by solidsnake
I day dream about being butt naked in bed with all of the cancer girls on DXP. While they rub their hands across my baby chest hairs throwing half melted BonBons into my mouth from the master bathroom.





Lmfao! 😂
Thats a nice dream.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by hollyhock
Cancers don't take accountability for themselves. At all. They will blame you for everything.


No.
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Yes
I day dream about being butt naked in bed with all of the cancer girls on DXP. While they rub their hands across my baby chest hairs throwing half melted BonBons into my mouth from the master bathroom.



Posted by nano
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by nano
Lately I’ve been thinking if marrying for money would be that terrible of a thing. I’m getting tired of the whole “love” thing, it’s exhausting and goes bad most of the time, based on divorce statistics and the people around me anyway. I don’t like the idea that someone you’ve given everything to, can destroy you. Why do we set ourselves up for that? Been there, done that.

I don’t think human beings are meant to love another for their entire lives, because we evolve and our needs and desires change throughout our lives.

The idea of marriage which was once appealing, romantic, and exciting, is now perverse and archaic - why do people do it?


I don't think it was the money that kept Fred & Rosemarry west together.
I think it was the ability for them to see eye to eye with unwavering psychopathy that made this relationship work.


I honestly don’t see how marrying for money is much different than those “arrangements” made in the 40s/50s, or really all marriages up until the end of the 1900s... it always been some sort of arrangement, where the husband works and pays for things, while the wife stays behind the scenes and runs the household, cooking, cleaning, etc. Its like, does anyone believe she didn’t want a husband that made good money? Lol. I would even say that most of the time, it wasn’t a passionate kind of love, but more of a slow burning learn-to-appreciate-each-other-because-we-have-to kind of thing.

As for Fred and rose, well, I don’t know what to say. I guess they found what worked for them lol. Crazy begats crazy.
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I guess for the average person the saying "love at first site" is measured within there own social & economic constraints. Maybe there was a better love at first site on the other side of the world somewhere. Maybe the love at first site was an illusion to begin with because you got caught with your head down & ur hands in your pocket. Idk. I guess it's just up to how the person in the situation perceives the relationship & how far both are willing to go to be 1. If it is "love" of whatever
To me Love is love
Money is money
If Im with someone I don't love & they have money maybe I'll try to take it & go away
If I love someone that dosent have money
I'll help them make money or do whatever to help

I like money for what it can do
The love for a person or animal is deeper than money or what someone can do 4 u

I don't even know what I'm talking about anymore lol
I tried
Posted by nano
Lately I’ve been thinking if marrying for money would be that terrible of a thing. I’m getting tired of the whole “love” thing, it’s exhausting and goes bad most of the time, based on divorce statistics and the people around me anyway. I don’t like the idea that someone you’ve given everything to, can destroy you. Why do we set ourselves up for that? Been there, done that.

I don’t think human beings are meant to love another for their entire lives, because we evolve and our needs and desires change throughout our lives.

The idea of marriage which was once appealing, romantic, and exciting, is now perverse and archaic - why do people do it?


I don't think it was the money that kept Fred & Rosemarry west together.
I think it was the ability for them to see eye to eye with unwavering psychopathy that made this relationship work.
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Things that make me jealous:

Anything and everything. 🙄


Is that sarcasm or do you feel the need for an intervention


It's sarcasm.

Obviously, for example... if I had an s/o or a love interest and they told me they were just going to catch up with a longtime friend who happened to be a woman, then of course, that's fine. But if that became a repetitive, regular thing that happened too often, I would start to get a little snarly.


Hypotetically speaking

What if you were with a group of a people. Could be a mix of guys & girls. Let's say there was a hot girl who was funny & had your significant other having fun laughing. Say you felt he showed interest in her, would you feel or react in this situation as a whole?


Feel vs. react? Is that your question?


Both


I mean, logically, if my hypothetical s/o were laughing at the funny things this hot girl was doing/saying, I wouldn't be bothered. But if he entertained her/paid attention to her for an extensive period of time, then yes, I would get jealous. But I wouldn't confront my feelings until a time where I'm alone with my s/o to talk about it quietly. As for what I would do in reaction to the situation at the time, I would leave my s/o alone to do as he pleased and observe from there.


Sounds reasonable.
But now for the curveball

Would you be jealous of the girl who grabbed ur s/o attention? And how would u describe the feeling & reaction to this?


If she got his attention just by being entertaining to anyone (i.e. no one specifically), then no, I wouldn't get jealous. But if she specifically tried to grab my s/o's attention by making him laugh or whatever, then I would feel threatened. I think what I would do in response would just be friendly and try to socialize with the girl, talking about things my s/o and I have done together often enough to just make her aware that my s/o is mine.


So you don't feel it should be his responsibility to let her know where you & him stand


Well if he doesn't do it, I would definitely do it.


So dominatingly motherly of you.
Speaking for him & stuff


Somebody's gotta do it. If he won't do it, I'll just do it and get it done. But yes, I would expect him to take care of it.
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I would rather just choose a diff partner
But that's just me 😊
Posted by Chuckcem
I never understand people's fascination with making Leos jealous, it never works out in the long run.


I don't think anyone walks outside with the intention of making them jealous. It's kinda something that just happens when you deal with them. I have the attitude that I get what I put out, I feel shouldnt demand or feel entitled to attention not given to me that I didn't put the work in for. And even then I don't care about others attention. If people come, then they come because I'm doing something right. Not because I feel entitled
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Things that make me jealous:

Anything and everything. 🙄


Is that sarcasm or do you feel the need for an intervention


It's sarcasm.

Obviously, for example... if I had an s/o or a love interest and they told me they were just going to catch up with a longtime friend who happened to be a woman, then of course, that's fine. But if that became a repetitive, regular thing that happened too often, I would start to get a little snarly.


Hypotetically speaking

What if you were with a group of a people. Could be a mix of guys & girls. Let's say there was a hot girl who was funny & had your significant other having fun laughing. Say you felt he showed interest in her, would you feel or react in this situation as a whole?


Feel vs. react? Is that your question?


Both


I mean, logically, if my hypothetical s/o were laughing at the funny things this hot girl was doing/saying, I wouldn't be bothered. But if he entertained her/paid attention to her for an extensive period of time, then yes, I would get jealous. But I wouldn't confront my feelings until a time where I'm alone with my s/o to talk about it quietly. As for what I would do in reaction to the situation at the time, I would leave my s/o alone to do as he pleased and observe from there.


Sounds reasonable.
But now for the curveball

Would you be jealous of the girl who grabbed ur s/o attention? And how would u describe the feeling & reaction to this?


If she got his attention just by being entertaining to anyone (i.e. no one specifically), then no, I wouldn't get jealous. But if she specifically tried to grab my s/o's attention by making him laugh or whatever, then I would feel threatened. I think what I would do in response would just be friendly and try to socialize with the girl, talking about things my s/o and I have done together often enough to just make her aware that my s/o is mine.


So you don't feel it should be his responsibility to let her know where you & him stand


Well if he doesn't do it, I would definitely do it.
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So dominatingly motherly of you.
Speaking for him & stuff
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Things that make me jealous:

Anything and everything. 🙄


Is that sarcasm or do you feel the need for an intervention


It's sarcasm.

Obviously, for example... if I had an s/o or a love interest and they told me they were just going to catch up with a longtime friend who happened to be a woman, then of course, that's fine. But if that became a repetitive, regular thing that happened too often, I would start to get a little snarly.


Hypotetically speaking

What if you were with a group of a people. Could be a mix of guys & girls. Let's say there was a hot girl who was funny & had your significant other having fun laughing. Say you felt he showed interest in her, would you feel or react in this situation as a whole?


Feel vs. react? Is that your question?


Both


I mean, logically, if my hypothetical s/o were laughing at the funny things this hot girl was doing/saying, I wouldn't be bothered. But if he entertained her/paid attention to her for an extensive period of time, then yes, I would get jealous. But I wouldn't confront my feelings until a time where I'm alone with my s/o to talk about it quietly. As for what I would do in reaction to the situation at the time, I would leave my s/o alone to do as he pleased and observe from there.


Sounds reasonable.
But now for the curveball

Would you be jealous of the girl who grabbed ur s/o attention? And how would u describe the feeling & reaction to this?


If she got his attention just by being entertaining to anyone (i.e. no one specifically), then no, I wouldn't get jealous. But if she specifically tried to grab my s/o's attention by making him laugh or whatever, then I would feel threatened. I think what I would do in response would just be friendly and try to socialize with the girl, talking about things my s/o and I have done together often enough to just make her aware that my s/o is mine.
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So you don't feel it should be his responsibility to let her know where you & him stand
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Things that make me jealous:

Anything and everything. 🙄


Is that sarcasm or do you feel the need for an intervention


It's sarcasm.

Obviously, for example... if I had an s/o or a love interest and they told me they were just going to catch up with a longtime friend who happened to be a woman, then of course, that's fine. But if that became a repetitive, regular thing that happened too often, I would start to get a little snarly.


Hypotetically speaking

What if you were with a group of a people. Could be a mix of guys & girls. Let's say there was a hot girl who was funny & had your significant other having fun laughing. Say you felt he showed interest in her, would you feel or react in this situation as a whole?


Feel vs. react? Is that your question?


Both


I mean, logically, if my hypothetical s/o were laughing at the funny things this hot girl was doing/saying, I wouldn't be bothered. But if he entertained her/paid attention to her for an extensive period of time, then yes, I would get jealous. But I wouldn't confront my feelings until a time where I'm alone with my s/o to talk about it quietly. As for what I would do in reaction to the situation at the time, I would leave my s/o alone to do as he pleased and observe from there.
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Sounds reasonable.
But now for the curveball

Would you be jealous of the girl who grabbed ur s/o attention? And how would u describe the feeling & reaction to this?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by LadyNeptune
Sharing the spotlight



So I guess if someone with a more Infectious personality comes around they'll be jealous because they aren't Influencing others or being paid to.
Sounds so Sad if this is true


No such thing
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Yea rite
Can we come down to earth for 1/2 second Pisces
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Things that make me jealous:

Anything and everything. 🙄


Is that sarcasm or do you feel the need for an intervention


It's sarcasm.

Obviously, for example... if I had an s/o or a love interest and they told me they were just going to catch up with a longtime friend who happened to be a woman, then of course, that's fine. But if that became a repetitive, regular thing that happened too often, I would start to get a little snarly.


Hypotetically speaking

What if you were with a group of a people. Could be a mix of guys & girls. Let's say there was a hot girl who was funny & had your significant other having fun laughing. Say you felt he showed interest in her, would you feel or react in this situation as a whole?


Feel vs. react? Is that your question?
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Both
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Posted by solidsnake
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Things that make me jealous:

Anything and everything. 🙄


Is that sarcasm or do you feel the need for an intervention


It's sarcasm.

Obviously, for example... if I had an s/o or a love interest and they told me they were just going to catch up with a longtime friend who happened to be a woman, then of course, that's fine. But if that became a repetitive, regular thing that happened too often, I would start to get a little snarly.
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Hypotetically speaking

What if you were with a group of a people. Could be a mix of guys & girls. Let's say there was a hot girl who was funny & had your significant other having fun laughing. Say you felt he showed interest in her, would you feel or react in this situation as a whole?
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Things that make me jealous:

Anything and everything. 🙄


Is that sarcasm or do you feel the need for an intervention