There are so many diff types of cancer and so many treatments they will all have totally different needs. So just take them one at a time. A lot of them will be fed up and cranky. This whole hospital world will feel alien to them. And they will feel like they are in a battle with not only cancer ..but with bureaucracy.
What i am saying is ...they might be grumpy...please don't take it to heart...because i assure you they will be eternally grateful for your kindness for the rest of their life.
But your reward has got to be kind of unspoken. If you know what i mean.
Be calm. Read their mood etc be light but not glib. Be understanding.
But give space ...particularly family space. It's a very intrusive time. You are never really a part of it as not being a member of the family etc.
Posted by Virgirl So I’ve known this Pisces male from ab Facebook group and we’ve been talking on and off since may. He’s very closed off and doesn’t reveal much. We fight when we’re on , because he doesn’t open up. I know he’s struggling with addiction, and he has a very laborious job. But we always seem to come back to one another and it’s usually left with me wondering where we stand. He has said “I love you” random times out of nowhere and Idk what to think about this. He has been very nasty to me in the past and said some awfully verbally abusive things. But he’s stopped that he knows I won’t stand for it anymore. But what’s with the “I love you” but not even knowing where we stand?? Is he just stringing me along.? Also he’s like 11 years younger than me, and it’s LDR he’s all the way across the country from me. What is going on. I’m a Virgo btw. Please help me!!! Thanks in advance !
that's very pisces they love everyone! They have this jesus like idea of themselves ...love everyone etc ...but it's very shallow and impersonal...there is a sweetness to the evolved ones in this tho...
The negative ones ....will succumb to negative emotions etc ..and can be abusive.
They mean what they say from there point of view ..but only in a very abstract way. Whereas you virgos mean it in a more concrete way.
Pisces is loving ..in general ...Virgos are not ..they love only someone ...