don't mess with the angel

Posted by DickButt
Posted by starwars
Posted by DickButt
Posted by starwars
some people don't know how to react, maybe it really does give her anxiety and she just cant deal

I know few people who are like that include my pisces dad, he won't look at you and it might seem like hes ignoring you when you're being all upset and sookie

but thing is he cant stand watching any of us cry/upset so he rather not deal with it, wait until we get over it and come around to throw some jokes

or it could be that she assume that you wanna be left alone

if she's always the one to come for advice, that means she doesn't know how to give any hence it seem like she doesn't try to be there/comfort you


But at the end of the day though we all have nurturing aspects. So even if she gets some type of anxiety it is up to her to still be there for her friend, especially if her friend was there for her before. She doesn't even have to be there the whole time, but at least show up.


I never look at things with what I've done vs what someone have done to me.

1. if you're known to be supportive and the one your friends run to whenever life gets hard, chances no one knows what to do when you reach that point is huge

2. I don't expect someone who look for support all the time to be good at giving it in the way that would appeal to the strong person when they're feeling down.

3. if the one person you run to and see as strong going through tough times and is being vulnerable that can create anxiety and some people rather wait until the "phase" is over

from what ive read her friend explained herself so I don't see how she's not a good friend only because she can't be there the way shes expected to be


No one should treat a friendship like a business deal, but from what you make it sound like what's the difference between a friend and an acquaintance then?

1. if you're known to be supportive and the one your friends run to whenever life gets hard, chances no one knows what to do when you reach that point is huge


So just because you're supportive it means you have a burden to carry now? In this like we figure stuff out as we go so it's no excuse to say i don't know how to help you because you're the one always helping everyone. It makes the person that's always supporting feel extremely isolated.

2. I don't expect someone who look for support all the time to be good at giving it in the way that would appeal to the strong person when they're feeling down.


Yeah but she gave her no support though....at least show up. This is one of her closest friends right? There's levels to how much we let people in. For us to not expect even something so minimal as to just being there and showing up from someone who we deem close is basically making yourself a doormat. You're my closest friend, you show up. When you show up and you can't help THAT'S OK. What matters is that you at least came even if it was once. That shows you care. And if your anxiety took you away then i understand. But to no show up and say you couldn't deal with it. Come on.

3. if the one person you run to and see as strong going through tough times and is being vulnerable that can create anxiety and some people rather wait until the "phase" is over


My good friend who is a social worker has one of the most severe anxiety i've ever seen in a person. But when his friends are in need he shows up, does what he can. And if he can't he is still there in one capacity or another. I understand people deal with anxiety differently however, to say you can't deal with the issue your friend is going through is basically saying i just don't want to deal with it because it makes me stressed out. You show up. Whether you can contribute or not is a non-factor what matters is we mutually chose each other to be in such a close circle, and if i can show up then you should too. Also the person who is always the strongest is not immune to anxiety or being hurt either, let's not make one side totally a victim here. It takes a lot for someone to be there for someone else and at times it's inconvenient but we do it because thats what the code of friendship is. People you care for, you're there for regardless of if you can handle it or not.

Sure she apologized after the fact but thats like running over someone then sitting into car for an hour cause you are in shock and then getting out and saying sorry, meanwhile that person already bled out. That's now how friendships work. There's a distinct difference batwing being a friend and being an acquaintance.
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If I was M I wouldn't see her friend as butterty friend, because for someone who doesn't let anyone just in, If you consider someone a "close friend" that means you're past the evaluation phase, you already have a bond and they've proved to be great friends in some way or another, otherwise they wouldn't have been in your life. whatever they do after that won't be used to determine their worth/the friendship worth, it will be a matter of accepting each other differences and mainting the bond you have.

I'm not saying to be doormat and let people take advantage of you, but some people can't just be everything you need and its not because they're selfish but because they don't know how. she did apologize and explained herself, she just can't give her the type of support she's looking for, she explained herself, so its on M to whether accept that and appreciate the effort or look at it as not a good enough of a reason to not be there. I'm sure her friend is a good one and was supportive somehow otherwise she wouldn't have been there for her non stop, and it doesn't have to be that type of support she's looking for right now but something else that she values that her friendship with that person fulfill.

my scorpio friend ghosted on me for 1 month straight to only come back and tell me she was going through tough times and didn't feel like talking to anyone. did I feel offended? of course because I felt like she should've trusted me, but it wasn't about trust and how worthy the friendship is at that point (since we already established that when we let each other in) its matter of what one person feel comfortable/uncomfrtable doing and whether the other accept-respect the way the other live and deal with life.
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Scorpio will not be there for you when you need them, they will be there when they need you.


not true in my case

Posted by DickButt
Posted by starwars
some people don't know how to react, maybe it really does give her anxiety and she just cant deal

I know few people who are like that include my pisces dad, he won't look at you and it might seem like hes ignoring you when you're being all upset and sookie

but thing is he cant stand watching any of us cry/upset so he rather not deal with it, wait until we get over it and come around to throw some jokes

or it could be that she assume that you wanna be left alone

if she's always the one to come for advice, that means she doesn't know how to give any hence it seem like she doesn't try to be there/comfort you


But at the end of the day though we all have nurturing aspects. So even if she gets some type of anxiety it is up to her to still be there for her friend, especially if her friend was there for her before. She doesn't even have to be there the whole time, but at least show up.
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I never look at things with what I've done vs what someone have done to me.

1. if you're known to be supportive and the one your friends run to whenever life gets hard, chances no one knows what to do when you reach that point is huge

2. I don't expect someone who look for support all the time to be good at giving it in the way that would appeal to the strong person when they're feeling down.

3. if the one person you run to and see as strong going through tough times and is being vulnerable that can create anxiety and some people rather wait until the "phase" is over

from what ive read her friend explained herself so I don't see how she's not a good friend only because she can't be there the way shes expected to be
Posted by Damnata
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Posted by GetMisted
Btw..

@VirgoGent

This is the 3rd (or 4th now I believe) straight game you have, or attempted to kill me.

Seeing as how we never converse with one another..

Which of these women have you wrapped around their little finger?


😂😂😂


He just can't deal with Virgos always knowing what's up with him
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♍️✏️♏️
some people don't know how to react, maybe it really does give her anxiety and she just cant deal

I know few people who are like that include my pisces dad, he won't look at you and it might seem like hes ignoring you when you're being all upset and sookie

but thing is he cant stand watching any of us cry/upset so he rather not deal with it, wait until we get over it and come around to throw some jokes

or it could be that she assume that you wanna be left alone

if she's always the one to come for advice, that means she doesn't know how to give any hence it seem like she doesn't try to be there/comfort you
Posted by GetMisted

Or is clicks and money all that really matters to you?


bish prolly have cap moon 💸
Posted by GetMisted
Btw..

@VirgoGent

This is the 3rd (or 4th now I believe) straight game you have, or attempted to kill me.

Seeing as how we never converse with one another..

Which of these women have you wrapped around their little finger?


😂😂😂
Posted by MagicMona
virgos. they are trash. i will forever hate a part of myself for being virgo moon.


projecting again i see
Posted by TheTinMan
@starwars I'm gonna say this again. We gets banned because of a loser and manhater like Alicia for example is usually the prime suspect. Amongst other haters of course. We Geminis don't go around making trouble. Trouble usually comes to us.

Don't worry. I know you still dont understand and I know deep down somewhere in your little heart you hate Geminis. I wouldn't advise you to approach one.


times up
Posted by TheTinMan
Posted by starwars
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
you don't wanna drive cap moons to that point



Actually i do. But i don't think you need to drive crazy anywhere


I'm about to drop you if you're going to defend that



why did she ban you and gemitati


No user here can ban nobody. Only the lord Duncan can do that.

Even I've been banned before like one time that I know of and I'm thinking it was from my own kind, a Gemini that reported me.



probably cuteboy


No. You not dumb. At least I hope you not. You know what I mean. And you know I wouldn't report myself. Another Gemini had me reported and this for a fact I know. This gem even put ideas in my head and implied it. I know how to put two and two together. And whoever the two clowns liked your post is probably just as stupid as you.




non sense since Geminis are #thebanned


I'm not a hundred percent sure exactly what you mean .

If any Geminis gets banned its because of a loser and a manhater like Alicia for example is usually the prime suspect. Amongst other haters too of course. Nobody really likes us which is why we are seen to most as hated.

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and this is exactly why you geminis get banned, so you can have time to ponder and wonder why y'all are the most hated
@ priest

5/5 from me

keep it up

don't do butter for the town

👏
Posted by DickButt
Posted by starwars
Posted by LillyPetal
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Posted by starwars
lmao @ seraph banning everyone

she's so joining the dark side


Seraphlight is gone. Shashka has returned.


Too bad, I liked her a lot. She was genuine in her weirdness. I respected her for that. Everyone else is just a wannabe.


Does that include you with your Spanish speaking?

Lol


I KNEW you were sore about that! LOL!

No, I don't want to be South American or Spanish. My community is becoming more and more Spanish speaking. So, I take it as my responsibility to pick up the language to better support my community (unlike some people who think, "I refuse to learn any Spanish! THEY should learn English because they are in OUR COUNTRY!")

I'm not interested in that arrogance. Language is for the world, and part of being a global citizen is humbling oneself to care enough to try and communicate in someone else's language. The wanting to learn sexy-talk is a fun part of that because I've already picked up some swear words. 💁🏽 Everyone's support on that thread was awesome!

*takes Miss America trophy and sits down*


I sí..


I sí what you did there.

#JokeStolen #PunBandit
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oui funny
Posted by LillyPetal
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Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
Posted by starwars
lmao @ seraph banning everyone

she's so joining the dark side


Seraphlight is gone. Shashka has returned.


Too bad, I liked her a lot. She was genuine in her weirdness. I respected her for that. Everyone else is just a wannabe.


Does that include you with your Spanish speaking?

Lol


I KNEW you were sore about that! LOL!

No, I don't want to be South American or Spanish. My community is becoming more and more Spanish speaking. So, I take it as my responsibility to pick up the language to better support my community (unlike some people who think, "I refuse to learn any Spanish! THEY should learn English because they are in OUR COUNTRY!")

I'm not interested in that arrogance. Language is for the world, and part of being a global citizen is humbling oneself to care enough to try and communicate in someone else's language. The wanting to learn sexy-talk is a fun part of that because I've already picked up some swear words. 💁🏽 Everyone's support on that thread was awesome!

*takes Miss America trophy and sits down*
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I sí..
Posted by TheTinMan
Posted by starwars
Posted by TheTinMan
Posted by starwars
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
you don't wanna drive cap moons to that point



Actually i do. But i don't think you need to drive crazy anywhere


I'm about to drop you if you're going to defend that



why did she ban you and gemitati


No user here can ban nobody. Only the lord Duncan can do that.

Even I've been banned before like one time that I know of and I'm thinking it was from my own kind, a Gemini that reported me.



probably cuteboy


No. You not dumb. At least I hope you not. You know what I mean. And you know I wouldn't report myself. Another Gemini had me reported and this for a fact I know. This gem even put ideas in my head and implied it. I know how to put two and two together. And whoever the two clowns liked your post is probably just as stupid as you.


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non sense since Geminis are #thebanned
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
you don't wanna drive cap moons to that point



Actually i do. But i don't think you need to drive crazy anywhere


I'm about to drop you if you're going to defend that



why did she ban you and gemitati


I called her a moron after she ruined my abortion thread that was meant to be funny

Than acted like a victim..

She's got loose screws

Anyways good luck with her

Im blocking her



lmao should've watched your profanity


What? Calling someone a moron is profanity.

Please stop talking to me.
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Posted by TheTinMan
Posted by starwars
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
you don't wanna drive cap moons to that point



Actually i do. But i don't think you need to drive crazy anywhere


I'm about to drop you if you're going to defend that



why did she ban you and gemitati


No user here can ban nobody. Only the lord Duncan can do that.

Even I've been banned before like one time that I know of and I'm thinking it was from my own kind, a Gemini that reported me.

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probably cuteboy
Posted by Soul
Posted by starwars
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
you don't wanna drive cap moons to that point



Actually i do. But i don't think you need to drive crazy anywhere


I'm about to drop you if you're going to defend that



why did she ban you and gemitati


You're so much cooler and down to earth then CC. Idk why you even care.

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means a lot coming from tier 9 ♡

I like cc she's real
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
you don't wanna drive cap moons to that point



Actually i do. But i don't think you need to drive crazy anywhere


I'm about to drop you if you're going to defend that



why did she ban you and gemitati


I called her a moron after she ruined my abortion thread that was meant to be funny

Than acted like a victim..

She's got loose screws

Anyways good luck with her

Im blocking her

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lmao should've watched your profanity
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by Cancan26




2 for 2 lol
oh man ...well I hope you had fun with the leo while you were away .....


This bytch went full vengeful crab on us.

@Gemitati


Honestly... I am surprised! I thought she just whatever strange and a lot dense but never minded her like if she wasn't even here...
Here she was! 😂
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banned in 3...2...1
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by starwars
you don't wanna drive cap moons to that point



Actually i do. But i don't think you need to drive crazy anywhere


I'm about to drop you if you're going to defend that
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why did she ban you and gemitati