stillstillwater
joined June 18, 2017
Cap Sun
Libra Moon
Aqua Merc
Aqua Venus
Sag Mars
Aries Rising
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MidHeaven Cap
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Leo
Psyche Scorpio
Eros Capricorn
  • i'm in love with this lil odd ball. Just look at him all weird and cute.
  • He's a Prince and the Duke of Sussex though... and she merely had an acting career based on one show; hardly anything of significance. Plus let's be honest the entertainment industry is short-lived but her current title "Her Royal   Read more
  • Makes sense. She does seem uncomfortable like the type to try to fill in the silence and over exaggeration. I should have a pretend interview and video tape myself to see how I come off lol.
  • Posted by RooSagicorn
    Oh my second date. We got to know each other more & had a great time again! He put me in my car again so we’d be good. It’s so hard! We both talked about why & we want to wait. We want this to go farther & sometimes sex screws things up we planned date 3 in my town because if it was in his town we wouldn’t be good. 😂😂 woah. I take this as a good sign he is trying so hard to wait?

    Oh my so much laughing & giving each other butter. I did find out he’s a September Libra but not the day yet!!


    Isn't it awkward talking about "let's wait because we want to take this seriously"?
  • 12th house is Pisces, right? I find Sun in Pisces always comfortable and chill. what's going on here with the mars in 12th house?
  • She just seems so uncomfortable in her own skin like twiddling and constantly adjusting... like aren't you an actress? :S i'm confused lol
  • Megan Markle is so awkward in interviews. I don't understand why. She's a Leo with a Libra Moon.
  • omg what is this?
  • Banks is cool though. I agree with 90% of her opinions and best of all she has the balls to say it.
  • Posted by Jessss
    Soooooo guys I know this may sound silly but I’ve still not contacted him. This is massive for me but I really frickin miss him 😪 it clearly goes to show that he either doesn’t care about me one bit
    Or Is too much of a stubborn piece of butter.
    Love can be a horrible thing.
    I just still don’t understand why we are like this but as soon as he sees me, he is all over me and tells me how much he loves having me there..
    Anyway I’m trying to be strong. Won’t be seeing him for another 2weeks


    Why would he be stubborn? It’s not like you’ve done anything wrong.

    So clearly his attention is elsewhere. I’d leave him alone because you tried your best and you’re not in your ego. You almost begged the man to contact you. What more can you do?

    He has some other things going on could be someone else could be Work could be some legal situation. Whatever it is he isn’t making time for you. He could be in some kind of trouble but even if he was you can’t do anything about it but wait for him. Do you have him on social media ? Any way to know he’s actually ok? But if this is common behavior for him then it’s probably nothing.
  • No cap is for sleep.
  • Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Thank you both, yeah, I get that.

    I know him quite well by now and I usually stay calm and let him have his way when he acts like a spoilt diva, I'm no drama queen. I wish he could just be a little bit more relaxed at times. And it's annoying that little things can be so overwhelming. I'll never get used to that. 🙄


    I can’t deal with that. Wasting my time I’d leave.
  • Posted by exsqueezeme
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by Mr_Pinchy
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Also best case scenario would to be committed to the relationship but have some ground rules for open relationship for the physical part.


    I feel like that's earth sign thirst for the physical spectrum of enjoyment talking. Buy a ohmibod! click to expand


    Maybe. I just think it's so much healthier to be realistic and acknowledge those desires/needs. I'd be more concerned about my partner than myself because let's face it men value sex much more than women. I rather have an agreement than him cheating behind my back and I get caught off guard.

    I understand that at best sex is a forceful desire and a debatable NEED for men so I rather have that worked out knowing that we have set up our relationship for success rather than disappointments. Because being dishonest damages a relationship more and just creates negative energy on both sides. click to expand


    Lol at people who think men can’t control that sexual desire. You’re the reason men have excuses for treetrunking women over. click to expand
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    did i say that? wow relax.
  • Posted by pisceswoman123
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by Mr_Pinchy
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Also best case scenario would to be committed to the relationship but have some ground rules for open relationship for the physical part.


    I feel like that's earth sign thirst for the physical spectrum of enjoyment talking. Buy a ohmibod! click to expand


    Maybe. I just think it's so much healthier to be realistic and acknowledge those desires/needs. I'd be more concerned about my partner than myself because let's face it men value sex much more than women. I rather have an agreement than him cheating behind my back and I get caught off guard.

    I understand that at best sex is a forceful desire and a debatable NEED for men so I rather have that worked out knowing that we have set up our relationship for success rather than disappointments. Because being dishonest damages a relationship more and just creates negative energy on both sides. click to expand

    For men and men needs?
    I really don’t agree with that. Women have needs too. It shouldn’t be a difference gender wise. click to expand
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    it would go both ways obviously or it's not fair but i'm saying men value sex more.
  • Posted by Mr_Pinchy
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Maybe. I just think it's so much healthier to be realistic and acknowledge those desires/needs. I'd be more concerned about my partner than myself because let's face it men value sex much more than women. I rather have an agreement than him cheating behind my back and I get caught off guard.

    I understand that at best sex is a forceful desire and a debatable NEED for men so I rather have that worked out knowing that we have set up our relationship for success rather than disappointments. Because being dishonest damages a relationship more and just creates negative energy on both sides. click to expand


    Ya, you make sense but no. Not cut from such cloth.
    I would instantly loose trust in a SO that suggested such a thing primarily out of some sort of disappointment that i'm not seen as the only and special one.
    Call it idealistic or foolishly romantic but i'd take it as some sort of blank check to do whatever i please in the time we would be separated, including pretending to be single and looking for someone that would "pedestal" me so much she couldn't even think of some sort of open relationships.
    In PC words: someone who'd value and cherish my uniqueness. (i know, corny hahahahaha ) click to expand
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    lol i get that. it's not for everyone and similarly that blindly in love or idealistic love is not for everyone either.
  • Posted by DeleterNerd
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by Mr_Pinchy
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Also best case scenario would to be committed to the relationship but have some ground rules for open relationship for the physical part.


    I feel like that's earth sign thirst for the physical spectrum of enjoyment talking. Buy a ohmibod! click to expand


    Maybe. I just think it's so much healthier to be realistic and acknowledge those desires/needs. I'd be more concerned about my partner than myself because let's face it men value sex much more than women. I rather have an agreement than him cheating behind my back and I get caught off guard.

    I understand that at best sex is a forceful desire and a debatable NEED for men so I rather have that worked out knowing that we have set up our relationship for success rather than disappointments. Because being dishonest damages a relationship more and just creates negative energy on both sides. click to expand

    My agreement would be "dont ask dont tell" lmao bringing it back. I dont wanna know. click to expand
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    Yes exactly. I wouldn't be comfortable with sharing details or even the fact that it's happening and when like buddies because that takes away from that idealized image. Just knowing that if it ever comes up or something surfaces you can be like "yep, we knew that we made this agreement" and you wouldn't feel cheated or taken advantage of and can continue your relationship.
  • Posted by Mr_Pinchy
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Also best case scenario would to be committed to the relationship but have some ground rules for open relationship for the physical part.


    I feel like that's earth sign thirst for the physical spectrum of enjoyment talking. Buy a ohmibod! click to expand
    click to expand


    Maybe. I just think it's so much healthier to be realistic and acknowledge those desires/needs. I'd be more concerned about my partner than myself because let's face it men value sex much more than women. I rather have an agreement than him cheating behind my back and I get caught off guard.

    I understand that at best sex is a forceful desire and a debatable NEED for men so I rather have that worked out knowing that we have set up our relationship for success rather than disappointments. Because being dishonest damages a relationship more and just creates negative energy on both sides.
  • But maybe Geminis get a bad rap for non-committal. I've known few who once they find a partner who fits what they're looking for they're committed but it's the dating process that you'd have to have tough skin for because they do date around and have their options open until they make up their mind 100% . Isn't that all men though?
  • Also best case scenario would to be committed to the relationship but have some ground rules for open relationship for the physical part.
  • Yes I would date them and hopefully no wouldn't cheat on them. People put a lot of trust on their willpower but the truth is that environment has a bigger influence. So if you don't want to cheat don't be around temptation. That'd be my tactic.