SugarandSpunk
joined January 14, 2017
female from USATaurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
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    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
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    @TheTinMan can you relate to this?







    Love should remain magic















    When i heard that from the gem i thought he is more airheaded than me πŸ˜…







    How long does it take you to open up? Get more in depth














    Haha love should remain magic aye. Does that means love should magically come to us? In that case I say yeah I can relate. But I never says that to my significant other tho.













    It takes me a very long time to open up to anybody. It seems I can only open up in 2 ways. In consolitary confinement and i got to get to know you which thats gonna feel like an eternity so its best to choose consolitary confinement for quick results if ya want me to open up. click to expand






    πŸ˜… Yeah magic not only in how it comes but also that something which gives you the feeling of happiness and all-things-good just because.





    Very loooong time... or solitary confinement... dang. Also, how can you get to know a person if you dont start to open up? It is a two way street. Slow unraveling of each other. Hmm maybe this is where Libra and Gemini dont work well together 😯 we expect 1:1... if you wait until you exhaust all info you can extract (ie completely get to know us) before you start to open up, maybe we'll be out the door by that time 😢 waaa










    Well you can't expect quiet shy people to not take a very long time to open up. You got to have very good patience with my kind. Yes it takes hard work but there are some people who can work at it. You not gonna get fast results by coming on strong. Naw naw. It don't work that way with me. I'll likely ignore you and walk clean away. I thought libras is suppose to be mentally slow and don't like rushing into anything. Maybe I'm not a Libra rising after all who knows. From what I read from you it really do seem like Scorpio and Taurus women are more compatible with me. And what do you mean by 1:1? click to expand




    Libras mentally slow??πŸ˜… you obviously havent tried Taurus lol. In work environment, i work well with gemini because of our mental agility.



    1:1 like i do 1 move, then we expect you to match it with 1 of yours.






    Wow incredible. How nice. Gemini mentality is too fast even for me I'm not gonna lie to you on that. I think I tend to work best with Taurus and Scorpio. At least we have similar frame of mind. I would even go far as to say cancer but their emotionality wears me down. click to expand


    What is your Venus Tin man?


    Cancer. I don't know if that's something to be proud of.

    Yes, I love that placement in Gemini men... my boyfriend has that as well.


    What are his other placements? Do you know? And is he shy and quiet too? Like wouldn't talk unless it's necessary to talk?

    I'm curious about this seeming I'm the only Gemini in the world who doesn't like to talk. And I find that to be strange for a Gemini who doesn't talk or even care about talking.

    And does cancer Venus got a little something to do with that?


    You're not the only one. I'm in a long distance relationship with a Gemini man with Cancer in Venus, Sag moon and he has moments where its more about the vibe than the talking if that makes any sense. He prefers to talk when it's necessary. Some days we have 20 min convos only and then other days we'll talk on & off for 2-3 hours in the day.

    It's funny, I was having this exact same convo with my Gemini bestie last night and she's afraid that this long distance thing might not be the best for me if my emotional needs are not being filled. First of all, I'm the Taurus here, I use logic among other things since I over-analyze and overthink absolutely everything in life. I love my Gemini bestie but y'all have enough things to deal with as it is with your sign, advice on a deep subject like this might not help me lol. I've been with this man for 9 months now. We talk almost every single day. Granted, it's not the 8 hour a day convos I used to have with my Aries ex who always surpassed my emotional needs but that was different, Aries man was able to see me 3-4 times out of the week. The situation I'm in involves PATIENCE. Not only patience because Gemini man lives so damn far from me, but patience because is a reserved AF Gemini. At the end of the day, it's MY choice on what I decide to do. If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't. My Gemini bestie was just concerned because she knows I'm an emotional person and am sensitive and affectionate and I require those things in return. Gemini bf of mine isn't cuddly 24/7 but he has his "moments" and when he does, it certainly fulfill my needs and I communicate that to him. I tell him, I'm like a cat, give me affection (and some D lol) and then I'll leave you alone for a bit, come back a few hours later and will need some again. He just laughs and has no problem with that, that he doesn't mind my minor neediness lol. I'm only needy temporarily because we only see each other for 1-3 weeks every 5-7 months. Until he moves to me in 1-2 years which he was going to whether we met or not. I have Venus in Gemini so I'm always hot & cold and hold back a lot emotionally due to past relationships so sometimes I'm ok with him taking his time to open up a little more about himself. However, I also wish he could say the L word to me already so I can feel special 🀣

    Not going to lie, it sometimes irks me when it comes to a reserved Gemini because y'all are hard to read sometimes but I try my best to base it on vibes myself. The only thing I can't stand about y'all is the aloofness, especially since I'm a person that needs stability to function and he's more of the "figure it out when it happens".


    Yeah I can pretty much relate to everything here. It's not so much that I don't like talking which I really don't because to me it just don't make any sense to constantly talk all the time just to hear yourself talk. My confidence level really ain't too good. I don't like to draw attention while I'm talking to someone one on one. Everytime I talk everybody looks as if I'm some kind of alien that not suppose to talk. That's how it makes me feel when I draw unwanted attention. That's why I'm strictly a confidential person that likes solitary confinement and feel comfortable talking one on one being concealed. To get away from all eyes on me.
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    I totally understand. I mean my bf is a jokester and we can go back and forth with our sarcasm. I do love y'all Gemini's bluntness and appreciate it very much. I probably won't appreciate it if it's to put me in my place, but after my stubborn ass relaxes a bit, I'll be thankful later on. So he does "talk", just when it's used in a positive or playful situation. He stays far away from negative things and he likes to keep things as reserved and private as possible, especially with social media. I used to upload a lot of pics,etc in my past relationships, but with him I either have posted 1 or 2 things or mainly post them on "stories" that expire in 24hrs ig/sc so that's an improvement lol. He doesn't like the center of attention on him either or the limelight and that's fine with me, everyone is different. I think he fronts on his confidence level sometimes. Not saying he doesn't have any. He portrays as if he has a huge ego sometimes and yes Gems are confident, but hearing from his cousin (my leo best friend) and his mother (libra), he was so nervous as to how he was going to approach me, talk to me, etc. Granted, he's a very attractive man and can probably charm any other woman with his wit and humor, but why be nervous with me?
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    I'm prideful so if you're childish enough to "ghost" me then you're too childish to have in my life. I like to have grown adults in my circle and in my life, not people who are going to disrespect me.
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    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
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    @TheTinMan can you relate to this?







    Love should remain magic















    When i heard that from the gem i thought he is more airheaded than me πŸ˜…







    How long does it take you to open up? Get more in depth














    Haha love should remain magic aye. Does that means love should magically come to us? In that case I say yeah I can relate. But I never says that to my significant other tho.













    It takes me a very long time to open up to anybody. It seems I can only open up in 2 ways. In consolitary confinement and i got to get to know you which thats gonna feel like an eternity so its best to choose consolitary confinement for quick results if ya want me to open up. click to expand






    πŸ˜… Yeah magic not only in how it comes but also that something which gives you the feeling of happiness and all-things-good just because.





    Very loooong time... or solitary confinement... dang. Also, how can you get to know a person if you dont start to open up? It is a two way street. Slow unraveling of each other. Hmm maybe this is where Libra and Gemini dont work well together 😯 we expect 1:1... if you wait until you exhaust all info you can extract (ie completely get to know us) before you start to open up, maybe we'll be out the door by that time 😢 waaa










    Well you can't expect quiet shy people to not take a very long time to open up. You got to have very good patience with my kind. Yes it takes hard work but there are some people who can work at it. You not gonna get fast results by coming on strong. Naw naw. It don't work that way with me. I'll likely ignore you and walk clean away. I thought libras is suppose to be mentally slow and don't like rushing into anything. Maybe I'm not a Libra rising after all who knows. From what I read from you it really do seem like Scorpio and Taurus women are more compatible with me. And what do you mean by 1:1? click to expand




    Libras mentally slow??πŸ˜… you obviously havent tried Taurus lol. In work environment, i work well with gemini because of our mental agility.



    1:1 like i do 1 move, then we expect you to match it with 1 of yours.






    Wow incredible. How nice. Gemini mentality is too fast even for me I'm not gonna lie to you on that. I think I tend to work best with Taurus and Scorpio. At least we have similar frame of mind. I would even go far as to say cancer but their emotionality wears me down. click to expand


    What is your Venus Tin man?


    Cancer. I don't know if that's something to be proud of.

    Yes, I love that placement in Gemini men... my boyfriend has that as well.


    What are his other placements? Do you know? And is he shy and quiet too? Like wouldn't talk unless it's necessary to talk?

    I'm curious about this seeming I'm the only Gemini in the world who doesn't like to talk. And I find that to be strange for a Gemini who doesn't talk or even care about talking.

    And does cancer Venus got a little something to do with that?
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    You're not the only one. I'm in a long distance relationship with a Gemini man with Cancer in Venus, Sag moon and he has moments where its more about the vibe than the talking if that makes any sense. He prefers to talk when it's necessary. Some days we have 20 min convos only and then other days we'll talk on & off for 2-3 hours in the day.

    It's funny, I was having this exact same convo with my Gemini bestie last night and she's afraid that this long distance thing might not be the best for me if my emotional needs are not being filled. First of all, I'm the Taurus here, I use logic among other things since I over-analyze and overthink absolutely everything in life. I love my Gemini bestie but y'all have enough things to deal with as it is with your sign, advice on a deep subject like this might not help me lol. I've been with this man for 9 months now. We talk almost every single day. Granted, it's not the 8 hour a day convos I used to have with my Aries ex who always surpassed my emotional needs but that was different, Aries man was able to see me 3-4 times out of the week. The situation I'm in involves PATIENCE. Not only patience because Gemini man lives so damn far from me, but patience because is a reserved AF Gemini. At the end of the day, it's MY choice on what I decide to do. If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't. My Gemini bestie was just concerned because she knows I'm an emotional person and am sensitive and affectionate and I require those things in return. Gemini bf of mine isn't cuddly 24/7 but he has his "moments" and when he does, it certainly fulfill my needs and I communicate that to him. I tell him, I'm like a cat, give me affection (and some D lol) and then I'll leave you alone for a bit, come back a few hours later and will need some again. He just laughs and has no problem with that, that he doesn't mind my minor neediness lol. I'm only needy temporarily because we only see each other for 1-3 weeks every 5-7 months. Until he moves to me in 1-2 years which he was going to whether we met or not. I have Venus in Gemini so I'm always hot & cold and hold back a lot emotionally due to past relationships so sometimes I'm ok with him taking his time to open up a little more about himself. However, I also wish he could say the L word to me already so I can feel special 🀣

    Not going to lie, it sometimes irks me when it comes to a reserved Gemini because y'all are hard to read sometimes but I try my best to base it on vibes myself. The only thing I can't stand about y'all is the aloofness, especially since I'm a person that needs stability to function and he's more of the "figure it out when it happens".
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    I was a hot mess during that time. It was bad emotionally the past 2-3 days. I started feeling like myself again today. Baby steps
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    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    As a Taurus, I hate change and adapting to certain new things in life trigger me. However, I'm feelin DXP's new layout. It no longer looks like a full on site from the 90s. So in this case, minor change is good. smile
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    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
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    There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.

    Points of consideration:
    Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
    Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars

    Yeah we are cautious and slow πŸ˜‘


    Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems πŸ’— such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them πŸ˜†


    She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!


    That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say


    I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol


    Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. πŸ‘


    Yes. My bad. Should've been more clear about that. Sad


    NP. Thank you for sharing your story 😊 so i have a reference now. Although we have different situations. He teases me sometimes eg.said: be careful i think we might fall in love soon. I said i dont think we will, not too soon πŸ˜‰
    I dont think i will truly fall in love this time without the security of emotions, commitment, all the stuff that binds. Lets see.


    How long has this been going ok for? One thing I can say about Gems is they are very blunt and I appreciate that very much. So if you're curious about something in the future, just ask away when you feel ready to. I know it's easier said than done, but what have you got to lose?


    Thank you. Less than a month πŸ˜… so im not ready. Im just enjoying this for now. Good vibes, he makes me happy.
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    Well every situation is different and not everyone is going to act the same based on their sign so don't worry about it and let it flow and see what happens as time goes on. For me I wasn't looking for a bf b/c a capricorn played me so I was ready to just live life and do me. Was introduced to Gem man along with other people in a group chat by my best friend (his cousin) and the moment he saw pics of me; in his eyes, I was his target and his goal was to take me off the market. Took him two weeks to get the job done LOL! Anyways, enjoy each others company, get to better know each other and if the vibes are still good, go for it smile
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    I'll feel like a million bucks when the weekend is here and I can sleep in and wake up at noon Big Grin
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    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    Who eats a half bag of cheddar popcorn at 11:30am? I do. Needed something to munch on since I'm hungry and lunch time is only 30+ mins away lol
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    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
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    There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.

    Points of consideration:
    Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
    Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars

    Yeah we are cautious and slow πŸ˜‘


    Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems πŸ’— such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them πŸ˜†


    She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!


    That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say


    I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol


    Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. πŸ‘


    Yes. My bad. Should've been more clear about that. Sad


    NP. Thank you for sharing your story 😊 so i have a reference now. Although we have different situations. He teases me sometimes eg.said: be careful i think we might fall in love soon. I said i dont think we will, not too soon πŸ˜‰
    I dont think i will truly fall in love this time without the security of emotions, commitment, all the stuff that binds. Lets see.
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    How long has this been going ok for? One thing I can say about Gems is they are very blunt and I appreciate that very much. So if you're curious about something in the future, just ask away when you feel ready to. I know it's easier said than done, but what have you got to lose?
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    Posted by fishcrabscale2
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    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by fishcrabscale2
    There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.

    Points of consideration:
    Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
    Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars

    Yeah we are cautious and slow πŸ˜‘


    Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems πŸ’— such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them πŸ˜†


    She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!


    That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say


    I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol


    Oh you are exclusive and all the other good stuff just without the L word. πŸ‘
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    Yes. My bad. Should've been more clear about that. Sad
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    Posted by fishcrabscale2
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    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by fishcrabscale2
    There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.

    Points of consideration:
    Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
    Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars

    Yeah we are cautious and slow πŸ˜‘


    Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems πŸ’— such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them πŸ˜†


    She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!


    That sounds great aww 😍 ...but almost a year and you havent said the L-word? You are patient. Hmmmm if it comes down to that maybe i will entertain other options coz it is not exclusive who knows hmm but it is too early to say
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    I hear it takes a very long time for a lot of gems to say the L word but their actions speak very loudly when proving they care about you. He was swift with taking me off the market and making it exclusive. When I last visited him 4 months ago since we are in a LDR, I stayed with him and his parents. I'm the first gf that he has brought home to his parents and introduced to his family. Granted his cousin is my best friend so I had met part of his family already but I was just known as just the friend. Also was known as a friend he was secretly interested in and only his parents and cousin knew about it lol. He's incredibly reserved so he didn't even introduce his last two relationships (one of 2 years and another of 1-2 years) to his family so that alone spoke volumes to me. It's a little ass backwards since these actions have happened. His mother spoken to my mother, his family has me on Facebook, etc but no L word yet lmao. It's fine because I have Gemini in Venus so I'm a hot/cold mess. I'm currently in the starting to fall in love phase but also holding back. Also, I don't want to say it first lol
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    Posted by Moonbutter
    Posted by fishcrabscale2
    There is attraction and flirting between us, but we havent taken the deep dive. Im comfortable about the fun, friendly, no-pressure vibes of this combo, but also wonders when/how you guys decide to really try it out with a Libra.

    Points of consideration:
    Me: Cancer moon, virgo venus and mars
    Him: cancer venus, virgo merc and mars

    Yeah we are cautious and slow πŸ˜‘


    Awe cancer Venus men, esp Gems πŸ’— such loveable softies... they take their time to fall but once they do it’s a done deal. Unless you bore them πŸ˜†
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    She's right about the Cancer Venus = lovable softies. I'm currently with a Gemini man with a Cancer Venus. He has a Sag moon but still affectionate at certain moments, not all the time. The taking their time to fall in love part is also true. It'll be 1 year for us in July and we still haven't traded the "L" word yet -__- I'm used to firey Aries men where they fall in love with me in 3 months. This is a first for me and at first I was a little offended but I realized that Gems have enough trouble being emotional and opening up due to trust and past life experiences so I understand and adapted to being patient. However, from what I hear, once they fall in love, it's a wrap, they are yours forever, till you hurt them/bore them to death. I've seen him when it comes to family, he loves his family very much and he adores babies. He recently posted a video in his status of him being super affectionate to a baby that his cousin recently had. My uterus skipped a beat LOL!
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    Nothing against you Gems since one of my best friends is a Gemini and my bf is one too. However, if I had to pick something to dislike about them, it would have to be the damn flighty-ness. It's a little irritating. No one is perfect that's for sure but I've learned to accept that about him. And maybe another thing I dislike is that they are not as emotional as I am but I know emotions are a tough one for Gems. Other than that, gemini people are fun to hang out with and we see eye to eye on the sarcasm smile
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    My Gemini bf always has ideas on how he can make more money. I feel like his mind is creative AF with new ideas bubbling up all the time. I like my stability & structure so it's definitely opposite from his mindset & sometimes may be a little overwhelming compared to my norm of pace of things. However, I'll be supportive to his goals. Y'all are very smart, I'll say that.
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    Me every week.
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    LOL!
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    From personal experience, as soon as my Gemini bf saw me, he wanted me to be his woman & his only. So he asked his cousin who's my best friend (leo) some things about me & asked for pics of me. He didn't know how to initiate a private convo between me & him. From what his mother (libra) says, he was incredibly nervous when it came to me. However, he played the "cool guy" off well in front of me. He went for the kill and was able to sweep me off my feet with deep intellectual convos & great sense of humor.
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    I will admit to one thing I hate about being a Taurus; the O V E R T H I N K I N G. Especially when certain things in life are going so well, too well maybe LOL!
  • SugarandSpunk
    Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ
    female from USA
    Idk what kind of Tauruses you've met but that's unfortunate. It's enough that I hate asking people for help and rather suffer and handle stuff on my own, you think asking to borrow stuff would be my thing too? lol, nope! Tongue

    If anything, I hate people touching my stuff. Yes I do have expensive taste most of the time but at least 90% of the things I own were bought with my own money, not borrowed. That 10% is gifts from loved ones. The only people I allow to touch my make-up and etc are friends I trust.