Taurus Moon/Taurus Sun- My sign is a Taurus - NJ

The two Aries men I dated; one for 6 years and the other for 2 years both "looked" calm when we went our separate ways. It was after the break up that had me in tears (of laughter ofc). They were both petty AF smh. I'm trying to move on with my life after trying to get closure and they would just talk butter about me on social media sites. Like really? Y'all are grown, act grown.
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Scavenging the beach, smoking weed, dog snuggles, PC games, DXP, Netflix..


What PC games do you enjoy?


Mostly Hearthstone & Diablo 3.. LOL


I remember playing Diablo 1 back in the day, great game.



You haven't played D3 before? The graphics are exceptionally better!

What do you play mostly?


Nope, Diablo 1 is the only Diablo game I've played. I used to be a big fan of the Command & Conquer and Dune games, and some of the classic Point & Click adventure games.

These days I mostly play the Batman Arkham titles, or FPS games like CO Modern Warfare 3, Battlefield 4, Metro: Last Light, and Mass Effect 3.

Games I've bought but haven't played yet:- Tomb Raider, Starcraft 2, The Settlers 7, and Assassins Creed IV Black Flag. My PC is a 2013 i7 that has 8gb ram and GTX 660 gfx card, but I'm not planning to upgrade it, it does what it needs to do and I can still enjoy some of the older games on it, lol. I've just recently bought myself a Nintendo Switch, so Zelda: Breath of the Wild and Mario Kart 8 Deluxe have sort of taken me away from the PC for a bit, lol.



Don't judge me, but I like League of Legends. A game that allows me to test the many levels of rage I carry.

I prefer shooter type games and survival games.


Why would I judge you? I hear League of Legends rocks.

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lol I was kidding on the judging. Well most of my friends hate that game. They prefer Dota or Smite
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Scavenging the beach, smoking weed, dog snuggles, PC games, DXP, Netflix..


What PC games do you enjoy?


Mostly Hearthstone & Diablo 3.. LOL


I remember playing Diablo 1 back in the day, great game.



You haven't played D3 before? The graphics are exceptionally better!

What do you play mostly?


Nope, Diablo 1 is the only Diablo game I've played. I used to be a big fan of the Command & Conquer and Dune games, and some of the classic Point & Click adventure games.

These days I mostly play the Batman Arkham titles, or FPS games like CO Modern Warfare 3, Battlefield 4, Metro: Last Light, and Mass Effect 3.

Games I've bought but haven't played yet:- Tomb Raider, Starcraft 2, The Settlers 7, and Assassins Creed IV Black Flag. My PC is a 2013 i7 that has 8gb ram and GTX 660 gfx card, but I'm not planning to upgrade it, it does what it needs to do and I can still enjoy some of the older games on it, lol. I've just recently bought myself a Nintendo Switch, so Zelda: Breath of the Wild and Mario Kart 8 Deluxe have sort of taken me away from the PC for a bit, lol.

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Don't judge me, but I like League of Legends. A game that allows me to test the many levels of rage I carry.

I prefer shooter type games and survival games.
Talking/Chatting with friends, catching up.
Two of my best friends are leos. Lawd help me. LOL. One is guy, he's like a brother to me, friends for over a decade now. The other one, she's like a sister to me, a sister I want to right hook sometimes. Friends for 3 years now
Doubt I have any haters on here.

If so, how you doin?
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Ha ha, I'm amused once again because I feel the same way about this guy - that we're each other's male/female counterparts, more so because of our differences than because of the similarities!

When one of us is child-like, the other becomes the adult.
When one of us is too silly, the other acts serious.
When one is cold, the other is sensitive.
When one's angry, the other is even-tempered.
When one misses, the other calls!

Ha ha! You said you're still in the early stages. Here, it seems to have gone past 'the early stage'.
Less butterflies, silly laughter, and calling/talking because ..."nothing", and more serious talks and discussing the distance factor and differences.
I suppose this is what they call the 'conflict stage'.

I told him, "If this is true love, we'll overcome this struggle and get back together.
If we don't, probably this love isn't as true or we're not that good a match, maybe."


Yes. This is why I take things day by day. We both are still building trust for each other, you know the normal thing couples do. However, he is a Gemini so he does have a rebellious twin, but when he's around me physically, he's like my shadow, he follows me everywhere and is ready to serve me lol. His family on the other hand is a different story. He only trusts 2 people with all his heart and is reserved as hell with everyone else. His cousin thinks I may be the woman to calm him down and bring him peace. Pretty funny since he has told me, I'm the first person that he met that he felt "at peace with" from jump which is why he pursued me so fast. Like I said, take it day by day, baby steps and no need to rush things. Although he "jokes" about marriage and having kids, he doesn't get wishy washy about it. He says he has "faith" -__-. Although I find it quite humorous instead of "freak out" when he talks like that, I do like a guy that says one thing and STICKS to it. Not hot & cold and no flaky-ness. I have little patience for that.
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I'm Agnostic. And I also stopped reading up to the religion part. The gemini I'm with thankfully has Venus in Cancer which keeps him stable emotionally LOL. He was the one the pursued me and made it his full intentions to take me off the market asap since he knew my worth. He is a Christian (Sigh). So when we first started talking to each other and heard him talking about how he believes very much in faith, I asked him if he judges people, he said no. When he said that, that's when I decided to be open and tell him that I was born Catholic but have been Agnostic for many years now. I accept everyone and respect their religions as long as they respect mine. He said he respects it. Sometimes we joke around and he'll say I'm an alpha male, you're going to be "my christian" someday. I respond with, you do realize you're speaking to a Taurus who's an Alpha female right? Good luck with that b/c you're going to need it. He says "I don't need it, I have faith lol". I just laugh but now, the next time I see him in a few months (long distance relationship), I'm going to want to have this discussion face to face when our feelings have gone a little deeper to see if we can be grown adults and not let religion get in the way. I will admit, sometimes I butter talk in a joking manner about Christians, especially the ones I know, because supposedly they're stricter than Catholics but they "sin" a lot, like have sex before marriage, drink, etc. I don't want to get into a religious debate, just wanted to throw that out there since I only do that to people I'm cool with. He has that Spanish alpha male persona which is a +++ for me However, I wonder if deep down inside, he really thinks he's going to try to convert me. Would I do it? I don't know. It would have to be because me, myself and I "believes" again, and not because of a man.


When I read the "sigh" in the brackets, lol, I could figure out what you'd to say!
In our case, he's just not used the term "alpha female" yet, but he's described me with all that describes "alpha". He's told his friends, his peers and seniors that I'm an independent woman with my own identity and values, and he's told me that he adores me for how I'll never be submissive to anyone ever and all that. So he knows not to play with Fixed Fire.

When he brought up the religion talk seriously the last time, which is after all the "we should marry? - maybe we should wait" talk, he told me really politely, "See, dear, according to our faith ..." and I told him after listening to him, "Yes, if you put it like this, saying 'According to our beliefs/faith', I'll gladly listen but if you're gonna make firm, strong statements like your belief is the only right belief, then I will stop listening that moment. I don't talk or make firm statements about 'no God' or Atheism to you, do I? That's mutual respect and that's what I expect."

He understood. Not only in the are od religion, even in other areas, I've proved to him so far that I'll goo along only till everything's mutual and both feel equally respected and happy. It's not like he's entirely bad or this relationship is always one-sided - if that's the case, I wouldn't have stayed this long.

BTW except after really bad arguments (when he'd feel so guilty and low) and on super busy days or some "deep thinking" days (lol, he spends hours doing that sometimes), he can't go 24 hours without talking to me. Is that the case with your Gem, too? Even last night, late in the night, he gave me a call for "nothing" and half way down the call, I could only hear his breathing sound! The twin puppies were half/fully asleep - LOL, he does this often! It's qualities like these that make me stay, forgive him and like him loads!


Well me & my gem are still freshly new in the relationship, so talking daily is normal. Last night was the first night we didn't chat/talk nor say goodnight to each other and I'm ok with that. I'm not the typical possessive Taurus so I'm fine with space. We did talk yesterday afternoon and I'm ok with that too. His cousin who's my best friend of 3 years told me what he was doing. Only reason she did was because it involved their family/cousins. Now some females would be like, well it takes 2 seconds to text, wtf lol. He'll reach out to me when he's ready. I already have him as my significant other and he has me as his, so that alone calms me down and doesn't make me stir crazy. Before last night, when we go 1-5 hours without chatting, he'll hit me up and say something silly like "you don't care about me anymore" lol. Obviously he's kidding and then he'll say, just wanted to know what you're doing and I miss you (I adore his cancer venus).

I personally wouldn't be able to have the full on patience to deal with someone who changes their mind 24/7 on future things. If a man pursues me, know wtf you're getting into. That I'm the type that is in for the long haul, not just someone that is for the season. I was first hesitant into even getting into a relationship with him because of the distance among other reasons but he was persistent and made it clear that he wants to give it a try especially since he likes me and that there's nothing to lose in trying and taking a risk. He's moving to my city anyways in 2 years because of his family living here and other reasons so regardless even if I never met him this year, I would've met him 2 years from now because of my best friend who's his cousin. Things happen for a reason sometimes I guess. If I was in your shoes, I would want to sit down in person like adults and come up with a proper decision on things. Relationships are a two way street. You're supposed to be a team. Communication is extremely important. Since me & him are both alpha's, an argument is bound to happen at some point and he's hard headed and I'm stubborn so for now I'm playing it by ear and see where it goes.


"Communication is extremely important" - I totally agree. That's what I like best about us, too. The first and most important commonality I like between he and I is this - we're both highly communicative - he's talkative and I'm expressive, lol, he can beat about the bush or talk about something silly for hours, whereas I can kid around, too, but I'm more direct in my communication when he's doing his beating around the bush for long.

After all the crazy things he said and did, last week I lost my patience and gave him a Really loud roar! I told him clearly to stop saying "I'm confused" and tell me clearly - "what exactly is confusing you?", "can we meet next week or not?" (to which he replied "no" after too many "maybe's" - he's got some important official stuff to attend to and he doesn't get to schedule those meetings), "how can you even think about being open to some other woman after saying things like "you are my life" blah blah?" (to which he replied that I'm still the only woman he has ever loved like this, he can't meet anyone like me ever, and he's thinking about the things that are confusing him), again back to square one:

"what's confusing you?"
- "That's something I can't tell you over phone; I have to come over to your place, meet you and discuss with you personally."
- "Tell me clearly when can you come?"
- "I can't tell you clearly. My work is like that. I need some time."

Any woman or any individual can understand why I roared! So communication was awkward for a few days. I didn't ring him up after that, the whole of next day. He called me late in the night and I told him that I was really happy because that's the truth - I had a great day. No contact for exactly 48 hours (I loved that 'exactly'; I'm sure it was a coincidence; he doesn't play games like that! Lol) and he called me last night and I told you - the twin puppies dozed off.

A lot of people would advise "Stay away from the phone; don't contact him; let him miss you" etc. but "Communication is key", right? So I called him now and discussed about my future plans with regard to my career. He was patiently listening and then said "you should also consider your marriage, right?" in a deep voice. Ha ha, I said, "Yes, but career is the most important thing now. If I get better opportunities elsewhere in the near future, I may have to take that up." and he just nodded.

Me right now: If he's willing to take up our relationship seriously, I'm willing to do the same because we match well on so many levels; but if he's gonna play Mr. Flaky Fifth-grader for long, I'll make sure he regrets it by leaving him so that he'll at least learn to treat the next woman in his life better!
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Correct.I have another best friend in my life and she's a Gemini. She may have her crazy twin side but I love and accept that b/c she will F up anyone for me at my request lol aka my ride or die and I would take a bullet for best friends like that. One thing I adore about Gemini's, they are blunt AF without any remorse, sort of like me. And he's like that as well. He warned me in the past that he doesn't hold back and will say whatever is on his mind, if anything that turned me on even more lol. As if he's the male version of me which can be a good thing but also a scary thing in the sense of our tempers. We both admitted to having tempers, we'll see what happens when the time comes with that one lol. His cousin had told me a few stories here & there about his rebellious side when it comes to his temper and so forth, and the stories have me in tears and laughter because I behave the same
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I'm Agnostic. And I also stopped reading up to the religion part. The gemini I'm with thankfully has Venus in Cancer which keeps him stable emotionally LOL. He was the one the pursued me and made it his full intentions to take me off the market asap since he knew my worth. He is a Christian (Sigh). So when we first started talking to each other and heard him talking about how he believes very much in faith, I asked him if he judges people, he said no. When he said that, that's when I decided to be open and tell him that I was born Catholic but have been Agnostic for many years now. I accept everyone and respect their religions as long as they respect mine. He said he respects it. Sometimes we joke around and he'll say I'm an alpha male, you're going to be "my christian" someday. I respond with, you do realize you're speaking to a Taurus who's an Alpha female right? Good luck with that b/c you're going to need it. He says "I don't need it, I have faith lol". I just laugh but now, the next time I see him in a few months (long distance relationship), I'm going to want to have this discussion face to face when our feelings have gone a little deeper to see if we can be grown adults and not let religion get in the way. I will admit, sometimes I butter talk in a joking manner about Christians, especially the ones I know, because supposedly they're stricter than Catholics but they "sin" a lot, like have sex before marriage, drink, etc. I don't want to get into a religious debate, just wanted to throw that out there since I only do that to people I'm cool with. He has that Spanish alpha male persona which is a +++ for me However, I wonder if deep down inside, he really thinks he's going to try to convert me. Would I do it? I don't know. It would have to be because me, myself and I "believes" again, and not because of a man.


When I read the "sigh" in the brackets, lol, I could figure out what you'd to say!
In our case, he's just not used the term "alpha female" yet, but he's described me with all that describes "alpha". He's told his friends, his peers and seniors that I'm an independent woman with my own identity and values, and he's told me that he adores me for how I'll never be submissive to anyone ever and all that. So he knows not to play with Fixed Fire.

When he brought up the religion talk seriously the last time, which is after all the "we should marry? - maybe we should wait" talk, he told me really politely, "See, dear, according to our faith ..." and I told him after listening to him, "Yes, if you put it like this, saying 'According to our beliefs/faith', I'll gladly listen but if you're gonna make firm, strong statements like your belief is the only right belief, then I will stop listening that moment. I don't talk or make firm statements about 'no God' or Atheism to you, do I? That's mutual respect and that's what I expect."

He understood. Not only in the are od religion, even in other areas, I've proved to him so far that I'll goo along only till everything's mutual and both feel equally respected and happy. It's not like he's entirely bad or this relationship is always one-sided - if that's the case, I wouldn't have stayed this long.

BTW except after really bad arguments (when he'd feel so guilty and low) and on super busy days or some "deep thinking" days (lol, he spends hours doing that sometimes), he can't go 24 hours without talking to me. Is that the case with your Gem, too? Even last night, late in the night, he gave me a call for "nothing" and half way down the call, I could only hear his breathing sound! The twin puppies were half/fully asleep - LOL, he does this often! It's qualities like these that make me stay, forgive him and like him loads!
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Well me & my gem are still freshly new in the relationship, so talking daily is normal. Last night was the first night we didn't chat/talk nor say goodnight to each other and I'm ok with that. I'm not the typical possessive Taurus so I'm fine with space. We did talk yesterday afternoon and I'm ok with that too. His cousin who's my best friend of 3 years told me what he was doing. Only reason she did was because it involved their family/cousins. Now some females would be like, well it takes 2 seconds to text, wtf lol. He'll reach out to me when he's ready. I already have him as my significant other and he has me as his, so that alone calms me down and doesn't make me stir crazy. Before last night, when we go 1-5 hours without chatting, he'll hit me up and say something silly like "you don't care about me anymore" lol. Obviously he's kidding and then he'll say, just wanted to know what you're doing and I miss you (I adore his cancer venus).

I personally wouldn't be able to have the full on patience to deal with someone who changes their mind 24/7 on future things. If a man pursues me, know wtf you're getting into. That I'm the type that is in for the long haul, not just someone that is for the season. I was first hesitant into even getting into a relationship with him because of the distance among other reasons but he was persistent and made it clear that he wants to give it a try especially since he likes me and that there's nothing to lose in trying and taking a risk. He's moving to my city anyways in 2 years because of his family living here and other reasons so regardless even if I never met him this year, I would've met him 2 years from now because of my best friend who's his cousin. Things happen for a reason sometimes I guess. If I was in your shoes, I would want to sit down in person like adults and come up with a proper decision on things. Relationships are a two way street. You're supposed to be a team. Communication is extremely important. Since me & him are both alpha's, an argument is bound to happen at some point and he's hard headed and I'm stubborn so for now I'm playing it by ear and see where it goes.
I'm Agnostic. And I also stopped reading up to the religion part. The gemini I'm with thankfully has Venus in Cancer which keeps him stable emotionally LOL. He was the one the pursued me and made it his full intentions to take me off the market asap since he knew my worth. He is a Christian (Sigh). So when we first started talking to each other and heard him talking about how he believes very much in faith, I asked him if he judges people, he said no. When he said that, that's when I decided to be open and tell him that I was born Catholic but have been Agnostic for many years now. I accept everyone and respect their religions as long as they respect mine. He said he respects it. Sometimes we joke around and he'll say I'm an alpha male, you're going to be "my christian" someday. I respond with, you do realize you're speaking to a Taurus who's an Alpha female right? Good luck with that b/c you're going to need it. He says "I don't need it, I have faith lol". I just laugh but now, the next time I see him in a few months (long distance relationship), I'm going to want to have this discussion face to face when our feelings have gone a little deeper to see if we can be grown adults and not let religion get in the way. I will admit, sometimes I butter talk in a joking manner about Christians, especially the ones I know, because supposedly they're stricter than Catholics but they "sin" a lot, like have sex before marriage, drink, etc. I don't want to get into a religious debate, just wanted to throw that out there since I only do that to people I'm cool with. He has that Spanish alpha male persona which is a +++ for me However, I wonder if deep down inside, he really thinks he's going to try to convert me. Would I do it? I don't know. It would have to be because me, myself and I "believes" again, and not because of a man.
An old-school reserved guy (open up to me ofc) with decent morals and a good head on his shoulders. Basically a good man that likes to act bad with me and me only. As I always say; business man in the streets, animal in the sheets
I like caps but just as friends after my last situation with a cap man that ended up playing me. Luckily Tauruses are masters at cutting people off without warning and remorse. He still stalks me while I deleted him off of everything which has me laughing

Anyways, I have 2 male best friends that are caps. Have known both for 3 years. Both are similar but also different in a few ways. They always keep it 100 with me and they're easy to talk to about anything. I usually am the one that reaches out to them more than they do to me and that's ok, I don't mind. They both go MIA for a while. When they come back, is as if time has never passed.

If you truly care/love someone, being faithful is easy. No ands, ifs or buts. Temptation occurs in our lives from time to time, but it's how you carry yourself in the end that determines if being faithful is easy or not.
Friday needs to come your way asap after the day you've been having.
Without stability in my life I go ape butter emotionally, mentally, etc. I mean who wants to ride an unstable roller coaster and not know if you'll make it out alive? So yes, stability is a must in my life whether it be a friendship, relationship, career, etc. I like knowing where I stand in life. I don't need all the answers in the world but I would at least like to know that I'll be ok in the end of it all if that makes any sense.
No. When I want something, it is because I really wanted it from jump, not because of a memory or anything of the sort.

Sun- Taurus
Moon- Taurus
Venus- Gemini
Mars- Capricorn
Hangovers on a Monday sucks
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You calling me an marker????.....................

Yeah, you right. LOL! I'm only an a-hole(or cookiemonster better said) when necessary. Other than that, I'm as sweet as candy if I trust you


🤣 Taurus' definitely have markers tendencies! And i love y'all for it!
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B/c we'll always keep it 100 with you if we like you. For me, I'll always keep it 100 even if I don't like you just so you can gtfo out of my face.
You calling me an marker????.....................

Yeah, you right. LOL! I'm only an a-hole(or cookiemonster better said) when necessary. Other than that, I'm as sweet as candy if I trust you
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Hmmm....

can't say I love running into them unless I'm in love... I might pull back to control my emotions, as I hate losing control and my anxiety will be on overdrive. I hate feeling extremely anxious.... but once that's settled...

you'll have all of me



I'm the same way too. I can be hot & cold sometimes only to protect myself from rejection or being hurt/played. Once I'm in deep with someone in love, it's a wrap. It'll be my time to shine and make my man feel like royalty.


Yup! I am like that too... I tend to be a bit distant and in because I'm trying not to fall hard too soon. But once I am, expect to have meals sent your way... and nice sensual massages lol #taurusmars
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Yeah same here. Since I have Venus in Gemini, I gotta control myself sometimes from falling too deep too soon. I'm with a Gemini now who has Venus in Cancer and I know in due time, I'll fall hard but for now, taking it day by day and controlling it. And Yasss! And me spoiling you materialistically like if I see a shirt, I'll be like "here babe, thought of you when I bought you this shirt". Or spoiling the man physically #taurus