Posted by SupesPosted by sugarwittedPosted by SupesPosted by sugarwittedPosted by SupesPosted by MiaouPosted by Supes
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
Nope.
It's more than just complimenting...
What is he doing on a dating website if he's dating op?
What is he doing exchanging snapchats with a random girl ?
He's not respectful of their relationship.
Ok
I agree that he was not being respectful of my relationship. I've forgiven him, but if it happens again i don't think i'll be staying with him.
Don’t be digging through his stuff. I’d have done something like that just to piss you off
immature 40 year old.
Lol. You’re the one invading others privacy and you are calling me immature?
Grow up already. Insecure teeny bopperclick to expand
Posted by 29LeoPosted by sugarwittedPosted by 29Leo
As a Leo woman, I wouldn't care too much because it's pretty harmless. It's social media and having a good network is good for everyone. Through his actions of not trying to hide the fact that he does have
other girls on SC, I can understand that messaging them can come with that.
BUT if he has the discipline to not use SC to hit on girls, that's the kind of guy I want in my life. If a guy has to use social media to hit on a girl, while that guy is in a relationship already, sends big red flags everywhere. He's still a boy. Bye boy.
Ask yourself, why does he have SC?
Why do you have SC?
If the way he is using his SC bothering you, ask yourself if you trust him.
If you do, then don't complain.
If you don't trust him, it's better to get out of the relationship. Don't settle for less, There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
Thanks,
I did trust him until this, all of the trust i have for him isn't completely lost. I feel like the trust can be rebuilt, it's just up to him to initiate it. I'm mostly just hurt and i feel like i'm sulking right now :/ I'm so hurt because I know the we both care and love one another deeply so why would he risk it all.
He wants you to be okay with it, just make sure that he understands that it's OK if you do it too. Check out other guys, flirt with them, get their phone numbers ECT using SC or not.
If he wants to be in a relationship, he should not be hitting on other woman... using SC or not.
It is NOT okay. if he wants to act like he's single then make him single.
I've been w/ virgo ex for 7 years. I was an enabler...because that's how Leo's love. But he took advantage of that by expecting me to be okay with the things he did while I could not. I look back and wondered why I cave in instead of running away, fast. If you decide to cave in, then get mad when he does it again, you set yourself up to get mad. Just speaking from my experience.click to expand
Posted by SupesPosted by sugarwittedPosted by SupesPosted by MiaouPosted by Supes
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
Nope.
It's more than just complimenting...
What is he doing on a dating website if he's dating op?
What is he doing exchanging snapchats with a random girl ?
He's not respectful of their relationship.
Ok
I agree that he was not being respectful of my relationship. I've forgiven him, but if it happens again i don't think i'll be staying with him.
Don’t be digging through his stuff. I’d have done something like that just to piss you offclick to expand
Posted by 29Leo
As a Leo woman, I wouldn't care too much because it's pretty harmless. It's social media and having a good network is good for everyone. Through his actions of not trying to hide the fact that he does have
other girls on SC, I can understand that messaging them can come with that.
BUT if he has the discipline to not use SC to hit on girls, that's the kind of guy I want in my life. If a guy has to use social media to hit on a girl, while that guy is in a relationship already, sends big red flags everywhere. He's still a boy. Bye boy.
Ask yourself, why does he have SC?
Why do you have SC?
If the way he is using his SC bothering you, ask yourself if you trust him.
If you do, then don't complain.
If you don't trust him, it's better to get out of the relationship. Don't settle for less, There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
Posted by SupesPosted by MiaouPosted by Supes
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
Nope.
It's more than just complimenting...
What is he doing on a dating website if he's dating op?
What is he doing exchanging snapchats with a random girl ?
He's not respectful of their relationship.
Ok
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SupesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Supes
Every man on this planet has told another woman a compliment while he was seeing someone. That’s just a fact. All these people saying stuff like disrespect, are hypocrites.
Now, if he starts going beyond a simple compliment and talking about specific things (tits or ass) then be alarmed.
It wasn't just a harmless compliment tho. He signed up for a dating app and is complimenting females. That shows intention to cheat.
If you read what she wrote, it was very early on when he did that and already had the app. Do you delete all that stuff after the first date?
Oh, I forgot that you’re perfect
Did he already have the app? Op please clarify. Also please clarify if 'at the beginning' means when you first started dating or at the beginning of the relationship.click to expand
Posted by MiZLeo
I'll give you a very important tip my bestie gave me a long time ago for you to meditate on:
Just because you are ride or die for him, does not mean he is ride or die for you.
You don't have to put up with someone who isn't 100% with you. There are so many other men out there.
Posted by Chuckcem
Your boyfriend is openly disrespecting you and you're allowing him to continue doing so by validating his behavior. Putting your trust in someone who is untrustworthy will only bring you more pain. You need to start understanding your value and stop condoning this type of behavior.
You're young, so you may not see it now, but this relationship isn't worth defending. Your boyfriend knows what he did was wrong. He is using your pity and empathy to avoid the consequences. It is up to you to stand up for yourself and know when to not accept hollow excuses.
Posted by nightowlPosted by sugarwittedPosted by Miaou
Who's the girl?
What was the message about?
He messaged this girl on a app called blitter, (it’s like Twitter) I felt betrayed because he went out of his way to give her his Snapchat so that I wouldn’t be able to see there messages but the messages end up saving. So I read them they were just talking but he was calling her beautiful, basically he was entertaining her (if you know what that means)
The first incident (when we first got together) i caught him trying to message a girl on POF. But she never responded.
then he's playing field and not ready to commit or be your ride or die
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Posted by piscesmoon2
Beginning of the end. Save yourself some time... it maybe a good lesson for you though... this is why a lot of girls then go for an older guy... however you need to learn to judge the individual over a period time.
Piscesmoon
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
you're a treetruking idiot, he just texted another girl that she's beautiful, and you're telling him you're his ride or die
no wonder virgo/leo relationships fail.
urfffffffffffffff in my case leo moon and all other leo placements
look dude.
with virgos ..never mind
i won't share my secrets with Thirsty ASS leos
peace
Posted by MoonshineLeo
I would let it go and not look at his stuff anymore. At this point he knows what he should be doing and not doing.
Posted by nightowl
Dont see the problem, he seems understanding
Posted by Miaou
Who's the girl?
What was the message about?