SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus

Posted by Sagiluv27
Love moves mountains!!!
Love surpasses obstacles!!!
A Sagittarius in love is the most romantic loyal lover!
Find you one and you'll see.

When that arrow of love strikes its over!!
We're not going anywhere.
Stubborn Sagittarius puts all pride aside and is ready for the challenge.

The Sagittarius in love only has eyes for that 1 person, period. end of discussion ! - no ands ifs and buts.

Consider you lucky if you can have a Sagittarius love you this much!! Our love is s gold mine.

I'll be back for you in 3years love! 🔐❤️🏹❤️🔐

We don't fall in love easily but when we fall and it's true love it's for the long haul...

Beware but once the love is gone, it's gone for good.


I was like that with my first bf, a Taurus. He was great to me but his bad habits were there to stay. I left.

Nowadays, I'm more practical about life and the realities that come along with it.


Posted by Blairjones512
Sag male has broken up with me twice. Dated for a year and 2 months then broke up for 4 months and dated again cause of him for another 5 months. We have been broken up again for 4 months almost and he’s been saying he missed me so much and hasn’t been with anyone and I’m the person he respects the most that he has ever met and all that you know the deal. He has been messaging me randomly and has been trying to see me. Is he just lonely you think or is he regretting it? I thought sag males didn’t look back and had no problem moving on?


Possibly bored as well. We are a restless bunch.
Likes:

- energetic
- friendly
- generous
- leadership qualities

Dislikes:

- huge ego
- bossy
- too dramatic
- exaggerates
- vain
Yes!!

Sagittarius' weakness (IMO) is being too positive which could explain her rationalization of lies.

I also find that my memory sucks for butterty behaviour because I rarely dwell on things or hold grudges. I often ask my Virgo friend questions about people's motives because he's great at discerning that. For feelings, I'll probably talk to my Scorpio mom. It's just unnatural and even unhealthy for me to be negative and dark. It's behaviour that I don't really understand.

However, I don't think Sagittarius is a push-over. Our positivity gets us far and with our intelligence, you can be sure we won't stick around for bullbutter very long.

How old is your friend?



I was at a casual get together for a co-worker who is leaving town. To simplify, we all work for the same person but at different locations. I don't know the Cap, just met once very briefly, and she's not the one leaving.

There were 2 Virgos, 1 Gem, 1 Cap, 1 Sagittarius.

After the dinner, the Cap says to the person that we all work for that I "seemed quiet".

This comment is inaccurate as I talked a lot to the Virgo and Gem (the one leaving). Actually, the Cap seemed quiet and anti-social - going out for cigarette breaks by herself and coming back smelling like smoke while people were still eating. It was kind of rude tbh.

What is the deal with this comment? Am I obligated to talk to her? Why doesn't she talk to me if she wanted to have a conversation?

She is a Jan 18th Cap.
Posted by medusax94
Been feeling depressed, went through a break up this summer. Feeling unmotivated, how do you get your flame back??


Good question.

I like going for long drives and planning for the future. Treat yourself well, get healthier and maybe start dating when you're ready.
At this point in my life, I discern if this person is full of butter or not before I respond.

If they are just bluffing then I don't bother to waste time entertaining it. No need to be rude but don't engage.

If they know what they are talking about, I'll pay attention.
Thanks for the replies.

I feel so anxious compared to my water friends. It's like their calmness reflects how restless I am lol.

Must remember to slow down when I'm around them.
I have a couple of water male friends and it's always intense hanging out with them. Just wondering what water can teach fire and vice versa.

Thanks!
Posted by Butterfly22
Hey guys, I'm currently seeing this Capricorn supposedly just for benefits. We agreed on the typical friends with benefits terms together since the very beginning. However I obviously caught feelings, being the waterball that I am (Scorpio stellium, Pisces moon, 12 house stellium). I was honest with him about myself catching feelings. I tried my best to leave him many times by telling him that fwb does not work for me but he always calls or texts me after a couple of weeks, asking me to meet him.

He seems like he genuinely cares about me, and he's never rude to me. But a couple of days ago when we met, he made it very very clear that he is, in his words "not monogamous, I just want to focus on my career."

He told me that I should try dating others, but I said I didn't feel comfortable dating more than one person at a time.

He also sometimes gets mad when I mention other men.

He tells me that he likes me a lot, and is attracted to me, but that his career is his priority.

So I felt really hurt and wanted closure, so I asked him to repeat that he never wanted to see me again. But he refused several times.and I asked why that was, he didn't answer.

I asked him what he felt for me, and he said he didn't want to talk about it.

So when we were leaving the hotel room, he left me in the room, but then he came back saying he wouldn't leave without me there, and asking me to call him if I ever needed a friend to talk to and that he always wanted to see me happy.

I have high functioning autism and I'm really bad at reading social cues. Please let me know what this man is about. Thanks.


My Cap has venus in Pisces too.

Well, seems to me that this guy is clear with where he's at. You're a good fwb, but he doesn't want more. Not only did he mention career but also that he's not monogamous.

He isn't supposed to be rude and uncaring. That should be expected. You're sleeping with him.

So my Cap got really drunk and told me that before he met me, he slept with a girl who picked him up at a bar. Problem is, she had a boyfriend (she told him) and he knowingly went ahead with it.

He said it was because he didn't really see a future with her and didn't care..aka. horny imo.

Is this a red flag? What does this say about him?
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Posted by SunMoonStars


Is being with a Cap guy akin to seeing the negative in almost everything? Like if we were on a beautiful beach somewhere with 5 star service (insert your dream vacation), there will still* be something wrong.



Yep. Some of the most pessimistic people I know-Men and women. Which is ironic because in a group setting they're the life of the party and full of energy, but alone time with them is pretty different. When my cap ex began to open up more, it became a bit draining. And no matter how much I've tried to reassure positivity within a situation or outcome he resorts to a "meh" mentality. That is one example of many caps I know. Sometimes I wonder if it's a tactic to have their ego stroked.


It is, they want you to kiss ass
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Thanks for the reply.

How did you handle your Cap?

Posted by lnana04
Y'all are describing very self centered Caps, which most are BTW.

Caps are complainers. Between my Cap friend and I our whole conversation everyday is us complaining about work.

I'm not sure if its a thing with details or not, but maybe that's why things seem so petty. The tiniest thing can irritate us, and I mean tiny.

IF you are going to deal with Caps like this, the best thing to do is be yourself, and ignore the Caps energy and complaints. Its not your job to try to cheer us up, or even listen lol. Don't try to be positive, just be positive if that's you. Eventually it will rub off. Caps ARE draining. Well, my female friend more so than my male friend. I honestly don't know how people deal.


Thanks for your honesty.

The tiniest thing does irritate him and causes tons of cancelled plans/ruined evenings. For example, he is running behind to meet and still has things to do, so I offered to meet him later than we had planned. Instead of saying thanks and sorry, it becomes about HIM being tired and blah blah. So what does he actually want? A last minute cancellation?

I said, we can meet later than planned, but canceling completely is not a compromise. He basically said fine, but he'll be "inhospitable" later.

To me that is SO SELFISH.
Posted by Virgorean
Posted by SunMoonStars


Is being with a Cap guy akin to seeing the negative in almost everything? Like if we were on a beautiful beach somewhere with 5 star service (insert your dream vacation), there will still* be something wrong.



Yep. Some of the most pessimistic people I know-Men and women. Which is ironic because in a group setting they're the life of the party and full of energy, but alone time with them is pretty different. When my cap ex began to open up more, it became a bit draining. And no matter how much I've tried to reassure positivity within a situation or outcome he resorts to a "meh" mentality. That is one example of many caps I know. Sometimes I wonder if it's a tactic to have their ego stroked.
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I wonder that too sometimes.

It's like everything becomes about him, his moods, his likes/dislikes, etc. It seems so petty to me some of the things he complains about. A trip to the grocery store can be filled with negativity from how long the line is, how long someone takes to pick their item (blocking him from picking), stuff like that.

I end up being the positive one and tip toeing, not wanting to talk about my own problems or set him off. It's exhausting.
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Posted by Rindaroo
Maybe you should think about what he really would love to do. It sounds like he thinks it was what you wanted & he wasn't all that interested in it. I mean if you're making up for something, you should think in terms of what he likes.

Yes, they are moody & negative at times. Not all the time. I went with my ex-bf (Cap when he was still my bf) to Mexico for a week & we had a fabulous time. Speaking to your on a beautiful beach comment.

I so agree with this...the picnic suggestion was two years ago in a different phase of your relationship I'm assuming..relationships evolve. Think of what spins his wheels!! ?
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Thanks for the message.

We talked about it last weekend though.

I just don't get people who seem to constantly complain about something petty (this is petty imo).
Posted by Rindaroo
Maybe you should think about what he really would love to do. It sounds like he thinks it was what you wanted & he wasn't all that interested in it. I mean if you're making up for something, you should think in terms of what he likes.

Yes, they are moody & negative at times. Not all the time. I went with my ex-bf (Cap when he was still my bf) to Mexico for a week & we had a fabulous time. Speaking to your on a beautiful beach comment.


Thanks for the feedback.

Glad to know that you had a good vacation with your ex-Cap.

He's the one that plans things in terms of what we both* like. Isn't that hypocritical of him to give me this kind of negative reply when I do the same? He suggested the picnic.

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Posted by pinkbird03
Sounds like he wants you to plan it. But are u sure he even wants to go on a picnic?


Thanks for the reply.

I am planning it - driving and bringing the food. He's just choosing the location. I can choose a location no problem was trying to be nice by giving him that option.

He actually suggested the picnic like 2 years ago, and we never did it, so I'm quite sure he wants to do it.

The previous topic about it being hard to love a Cap hits the mark for me.

My Cap and I have been doing better lately, but his personality just makes it so hard for me to fall in love with him.

Example ---

We had plans to hang out this long weekend (4 days). He forgot that one of his best friends is having an anniversary party, so he might be busy for 2 of those days. He still hasn't confirmed what's happening there, so I'm kind of left hanging.

On my end, one of my employees cancelled last minute, so I need to cover for 5 hours on one of the days. I told my Cap right away, and offered to make it up by letting him pick any destination for a picnic next weekend ( I will drive and bring the picnic too). He just has to choose the place he wants to go, as he often says he hasn't been here or there. We had talked about a picnic last weekend, so I figured it's an appropriate idea.

Any problems there? Can you think of anything wrong with my offer?

His response?

He said - I'm the one who wants to go for a picnic with "no decision making" so how is that making it up to him? Bad sell. -

Is he for real? I'm so turned off by that response. It shows me he is almost impossible to be happy with.
Is being with a Cap guy akin to seeing the negative in almost everything? Like if we were on a beautiful beach somewhere with 5 star service (insert your dream vacation), there will still* be something wrong.











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Thanks everyone.

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