SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus

Posted by aquarius_man
The Sags I know have luck. Makes me wonder, are you always lucky? Jupiter, the great benefactor? Do you suck up all the luck from other people, like in the movie Intacto?

I know 3 Sags involved in one way or another in car accidents - with fatalities - and they escaped unharmed.

What gives?


With Scorpio in Saturn, it feels like I have to go through "deaths" to evolve. Once I do, and when the timing is right, I am lucky. When it's not the right time, even if I want something, it doesn't happen. I'm not ready?

I think a lot of Saggy luck can be attributed to remaining positive and persevering when times get tough. I definitely bring "luck" and uplift my family and friends.

It's been a tough few years. Had my Saturn Return in Scorpio and then Saturn in Sagittarius.

Curious to know what my fellow Saggies have gone through, and learned in this time!
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Posted by SunMoonStars
I have a male Scorp friend. We seem to be well matched in some ways (interests, finances, assets, ambition). He has broken up with his gf because he told me he was thinking about doing it the last time we hung out. He was quite unhappy with the state of his relationship.

He wants to catch up this week and I think he's interested in me. I really have no experience with Scorp men, so wondering:

1. Are they loyal? Last time, he drank way too much tequila and jokingly propositioned a kinky s&m thing to me.

I said "no, i'm sure we wouldn't want to hurt our people." I have an undefined thing with a Cap and it's going badly. Scorp blamed it on the alcohol and asked me not to judge him. Seems like a red flag?

2. How do I subtly let him know that while I'm a supportive friend, I'm definitely not a rebound chick and have high standards.

3. Any tips on dealing with Scorp men in general?

Thanks!


He just wants you in his bed, that's all.
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Really hope not... if that happens, I'd be upset because I told him last time that I'm not looking for casual hook ups. At this age, I'm looking for something long term and "the one". I made that pretty clear.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Just say this to him that you wrote above

"while I'm a supportive friend, I'm definitely not a rebound chick and have high standards"

If he is a true friend, he won't take offence


True, thanks. The last time we hung out I expressed that at this stage of my life, (I am 34, he is 37), I'm not looking to mess around. I'm looking for the real deal and long term.

I'd be kind of offended if he tried something sexual.
Posted by Sofia87
U don’t have to subtly let him know anything.. just don’t hook up with him or sleep with him right now, he’s still in a relationship or just freshly out of one .. keep it platonic for now


Definitely, I'm going to advise him to rest and consider what he's looking for.
I have a male Scorp friend. We seem to be well matched in some ways (interests, finances, assets, ambition). He has broken up with his gf because he told me he was thinking about doing it the last time we hung out. He was quite unhappy with the state of his relationship.

He wants to catch up this week and I think he's interested in me. I really have no experience with Scorp men, so wondering:

1. Are they loyal? Last time, he drank way too much tequila and jokingly propositioned a kinky s&m thing to me.

I said "no, i'm sure we wouldn't want to hurt our people." I have an undefined thing with a Cap and it's going badly. Scorp blamed it on the alcohol and asked me not to judge him. Seems like a red flag?

2. How do I subtly let him know that while I'm a supportive friend, I'm definitely not a rebound chick and have high standards.

3. Any tips on dealing with Scorp men in general?

Thanks!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AerialView
In my experience, they always need money💸😂😂 be honest girls.


We make 70cents to each dollar a man makes. Of course we need money!
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And they don't have to deal with "hidden" barriers to the top like we do!

Posted by NotInterested
Girls, is important for your man to have money?
What Im getting at is if you can choose to have a wealthy husband (isnt the man of your dreams but is rich and you live a wealthy life) or the man of your dreams but you guys live practically dirt poor. What would you choose?

Boys, do you think financially it's more important to take care of your love than spending time with them and supporting them emotionally?

State your Sun, Moon, and Venus (:


If I'm still quite young and the dirt poor guy was exceptional in intelligence, ambition, character, etc...
I might choose him if I had good evidence in his ability to make it.

However, if he was all talk and no action, or has major bad habits...hell no!!

Life is hard because we need money to buy everything. Money is very important. It also depends on the phase in my life and what I'm looking for. If I'm looking to settle down, or about to retire it makes a difference as well.

How old are you?
Posted by chickenatiel
Leo moon. Their egos are way too sensitive


In teens - early 20's, I had a sensitive ego. Not because I thought I was so great, but just didn't like looking "bad". Now in my 30's, I'm better and have way thicker skin.
Posted by marina_
Hey,
i am first time at this forum but i have already checked some threads and answer so i hope you'll help me.

I am 26 and finishing my studies. I am a 'good' person.
I am a woman.

The problem is i have never been an 'a__sshole', i have never cheated i have never taken someone for granted. Some of you may think i am an ideal,some of you may think i am boring.

I am zodiac Aries. Ive always had the nature of organising things, being at the company , leading people. Not in a rude way but people wanted to listen to me. I had good vibes.

The more I see the world outside the university walls the more it scares me. Friends from my university or from my high school that have already graduated some years ago changed.
They became very selfish, self oriented, egoistical. They play with people emotions when it comes to professional issues, business as well as private affairs, relationships.

And now i do not understand.
I can divide being professional from being private. I do not need to have a mask that prevent others hurting me. I used to be very confident even some years ago but then i met some of my old friends and they made me feel very bad.
Like some of them have cut my wings.
I know that next year my saturn will move out from my 5th house and actually in december it 'll akso change sign for the other in general.

i feel better now, more open again.

but i have encountered the feeling like people even friends from high school use people and only befriend them to have some profit. and it scares me.
i do not know whom i need to feel like a private or professional friend.
it is so weird.
i know that i have changed as well but i can not make business with friends.
even your close friends can stick their noses into your business , taking you for granted or taking the most precious things from you that you actually told them with trust.

and i do not know that it is the REAL WORLD.
or am i being too childish ( still)?
i try do do my own things i am trying to focus only on myself now andproject and people that i work with now but there are others that i know wait for someone's moves.
people that do not take you personally but are always mercenary.


is it the world like it is?
or do i need to grow up and be more mature, have bigger mask that prevent others hurting me?

what do you think?


ps. my ex comes from a business family. he is very rich. he picks up girls that are very ambitious and he helps them gain success, be famous and be the 1st in the business. with him they can take the pressure.
i liked him but in a normal personal way. he didnt want to be with me because he saw i am also interested in him personally not in a business way. after me he already had 4-5 new chicks that he 'helps'. being with him means gaining success and money.
i am not like that.
i am not in the company anymore.


people think i didnt take the pressue , that i was too weak that i was not matured enough, more delicate to take the pressure and rules in the company.


but maybe the company was bad?
should i only count on people on a business manner? should i only work and test people and then when they 'pass' my tests being friends with them?

its not cool... when i like someone, i do not care if he or she is black, white, asian, rich, poor... really. i like because i like.

and i have been tested and changed so many times. whenever i gained success THEY were always coming back like i would have proven something to them.


it is not the way its supposed to be...

or maybe it is?

is life like that???



thank you,
confused aries woman



Yes, life IS harsh, difficult, competitive, shallow, dangerous, and filled with people who don't have it as good as you. Life's circumstances, bad habits and poor choices lead some people to become desperate.

As you get older, you'll also realize that it's about what you can do for people and vice versa. Sometimes it's subtle, other times it's so obvious.





Ladies, this is what men can be like.

Keep your options open too until you find the one that you want.
Sometimes when people have a more to lose (financial or otherwise), they are more protective of who they consider real friends.
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
Umm, how about just talking to him about his and your future plans. See if you're on the same page?


Thanks, I will.

I'm very inexperienced with dating (as you can probably tell).

If a guy seems too good to be true, how do I know he's not just saying all the right things to get me into bed?
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Posted by SunMoonStars
...and how do you show a man that you want to settle down?


He tells you? He talks about future plans?
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Thanks, I will.
...and how do you show a man that you want to settle down?
Posted by Sagiluv27
Love moves mountains!!!
Love surpasses obstacles!!!
A Sagittarius in love is the most romantic loyal lover!
Find you one and you'll see.

When that arrow of love strikes its over!!
We're not going anywhere.
Stubborn Sagittarius puts all pride aside and is ready for the challenge.

The Sagittarius in love only has eyes for that 1 person, period. end of discussion ! - no ands ifs and buts.

Consider you lucky if you can have a Sagittarius love you this much!! Our love is s gold mine.

I'll be back for you in 3years love! 🔐❤️🏹❤️🔐

We don't fall in love easily but when we fall and it's true love it's for the long haul...

Beware but once the love is gone, it's gone for good.


I was like that with my first bf, a Taurus. He was great to me but his bad habits were there to stay. I left.

Nowadays, I'm more practical about life and the realities that come along with it.


Posted by Blairjones512
Sag male has broken up with me twice. Dated for a year and 2 months then broke up for 4 months and dated again cause of him for another 5 months. We have been broken up again for 4 months almost and he’s been saying he missed me so much and hasn’t been with anyone and I’m the person he respects the most that he has ever met and all that you know the deal. He has been messaging me randomly and has been trying to see me. Is he just lonely you think or is he regretting it? I thought sag males didn’t look back and had no problem moving on?


Possibly bored as well. We are a restless bunch.
Likes:

- energetic
- friendly
- generous
- leadership qualities

Dislikes:

- huge ego
- bossy
- too dramatic
- exaggerates
- vain
Yes!!

Sagittarius' weakness (IMO) is being too positive which could explain her rationalization of lies.

I also find that my memory sucks for butterty behaviour because I rarely dwell on things or hold grudges. I often ask my Virgo friend questions about people's motives because he's great at discerning that. For feelings, I'll probably talk to my Scorpio mom. It's just unnatural and even unhealthy for me to be negative and dark. It's behaviour that I don't really understand.

However, I don't think Sagittarius is a push-over. Our positivity gets us far and with our intelligence, you can be sure we won't stick around for bullbutter very long.

How old is your friend?