SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus

Posted by youngali
i'm ready for change.








Good luck girl!

I left my job of 3 years (longest job I ever had) around this time last year. Now, I work for myself and for/with a friend. Not going to lie, it's stressful sometimes because when you do your own small business, nothing is guaranteed. However, it's much more stimulating and flexible than a FT job.

My advice is to give yourself a timeframe. IE, 6 months, 1 year, 2 years. If it's not worth it, then go back to what you were doing.

Give us more detail. Was the Sag an Ex, or a friend? What was the invite that was blown off?

I would imagine that Saggies would be like "No big deal", "moving on!".
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
they like Crabs with Leo moons. That i have no doubt of

how to keep them, i don't know, i guess treat them like crap


I find this to be true of most guys
Except maybe Scorpio?
Posted by NineAvenue
Posted by SunMoonStars
How to keep a Sag away? Be boring, wet blanket everything and negative.


Really looks like you want to keep him around. Fatal attraction.
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How to keep a Sag away? Be boring, wet blanket everything and negative.
Posted by Lush
I've done this recently, but it was with 1 Leo friend. I thought I was in the clear until 6 months later, out of the blue she initiated contact again, and she was a little aggressive about it. She called multiple times, emailed me, and then started calling someone else that was close to me to get in touch. Finally, I broke down and just sent her an email saying I needed sometime to myself.

I broke it off because the friendship seemed 1 sided to me. I always initiated contact. I always suggested getting together and most of the time she already had plans. I mean it took her 6 months to call me, after I stopped making the effort. Lol

I felt I needed a friend that reciprocated the effort, so I dropped her. Haven't heard from her since and happy about it!


What is your sign?
Thanks. I'm posting in Libra because I have Libra Mars and Venus. In the past, the deep desire for "fairness" and being liked has put me at a disadvantage.
We range from late twenties to early 30's.
Have you ever had a group of girlfriends that you no longer wanted to be close with? We have a group chat and I've started to respond less and waiting longer between messages.

I want to 'break up:

- I don't want to have a big confrontation
- For various reasons, I no longer see us having things in common
- A couple of them have shown themselves to be people that I don't want to spend time on/with anymore

One of them is getting married and recently invited us all to the wedding this summer. It's still months away, and she's asking us to save the date. I don't even know if I'll be available, or in town at the time. How should I respond?
Have you ever had a group of girlfriends that you no longer wanted to be close with? We have a group chat and I've started to respond less and waiting longer between messages.

I want to 'break up:

- I don't want to have a big confrontation
- For various reasons, I no longer see us having things in common
- A couple of them have shown themselves to be people that I don't want to spend time on/with anymore

One of them is getting married and recently invited us all to the wedding this summer. It's still months away, and she's asking us to save the date. I don't even know if I'll be available, or in town at the time. How should I respond?
Yeah, I think guys like the chase. I've never actually seen it work out well when the woman likes the man more. Somehow, the guy seems to sense it and takes advantage. Usually, it's when the man isn't that attracted to the woman and/or feels she's too dependent on him.

Ladies, never give up your power such as, financial earning abilities and looks.

Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by SunMoonStars
Posted by pinkbird03
I need to understand this. Because it keeps happening with the guys I date now and I don't get it at all!!

They don't want to be exclusive, but they want to have sex.... with more than 1 person!! The guy I'm dating right now says he's not ready to be exclusive, but he said he cares about me and doesn't want to stop talking! He also wants to have sex with me but apparently he has a friend who is in an open relationship with her bf and over the years when he's single, he hooks up with her.... he says he doesn't have feelings for her. Do you believe that?

Please explain this. Is it just me for thinking this is wrong?? Am I just too traditional for modern dating???


Cap Sun with Aqua moon?? Let me roll up my sleeves, I've dealt (still dealing) with mine for over 3.5 years now. Mine is more nearer to the Aqua cusp than this guy.

- I think this is wrong for you if you don't want that arrangement.
- You're not too traditional for modern dating. STDs are no one's friend. I've never met a guy who's tried to float that open relationship idea with me. treetrunk that noise.
- I personally don't think a Cap wants to share, or any guy who serious about the girl. Be the only one he wants!
- Is he ok with YOU sleeping with other guys too?

My advice is, don't do it! He might forever see you as an easy girl who's willing to settle for an arrangement like that. Notice that he said over the years when he's single he hooks up with her. So, why is he telling you that? If he's with you, he wouldn't be single right? Unless it's his way of saying he is still going to behave like he is single!

Trust me, Caps don't really like to share imo. This time around is the longest that we haven't seen each other (almost 2 months). He swears up and down "on his mom's grave" that he hasn't been with anyone else, and said if I had then he's not cool with it.







I don't think I am going to do it. I don't feel comfortable with any of this and it's really taking a toll on me. But what are the chances of anything changing now or in the future? I'm just curious. I wish I knew what he was thinking right now.
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You said he went off to "think" right? Let me guess, he didn't say how long it would take?
Posted by pinkbird03
I need to understand this. Because it keeps happening with the guys I date now and I don't get it at all!!

They don't want to be exclusive, but they want to have sex.... with more than 1 person!! The guy I'm dating right now says he's not ready to be exclusive, but he said he cares about me and doesn't want to stop talking! He also wants to have sex with me but apparently he has a friend who is in an open relationship with her bf and over the years when he's single, he hooks up with her.... he says he doesn't have feelings for her. Do you believe that?

Please explain this. Is it just me for thinking this is wrong?? Am I just too traditional for modern dating???


Cap Sun with Aqua moon?? Let me roll up my sleeves, I've dealt (still dealing) with mine for over 3.5 years now. Mine is more nearer to the Aqua cusp than this guy.

- I think this is wrong for you if you don't want that arrangement.
- You're not too traditional for modern dating. STDs are no one's friend. I've never met a guy who's tried to float that open relationship idea with me. treetrunk that noise.
- I personally don't think a Cap wants to share, or any guy who serious about the girl. Be the only one he wants!
- Is he ok with YOU sleeping with other guys too?

My advice is, don't do it! He might forever see you as an easy girl who's willing to settle for an arrangement like that. Notice that he said over the years when he's single he hooks up with her. So, why is he telling you that? If he's with you, he wouldn't be single right? Unless it's his way of saying he is still going to behave like he is single!

Trust me, Caps don't really like to share imo. This time around is the longest that we haven't seen each other (almost 2 months). He swears up and down "on his mom's grave" that he hasn't been with anyone else, and said if I had then he's not cool with it.





Could be good as you are both practical earth signs, but the trying to "perfect" you phase is gonna come. It'll be a problem if he tries to change you imo.

The critical and negative, or as they call it "realistic" part will come too. You might not mind the realistic thing though.
Yeah, the Cap I know had drink/weed issues, and a traumatic childhood too. It seems like he's constantly struggling in some way, it's always something... Sadly, I think it's too much headache dealing with his moods and likes/dislikes, but with not very much payoff for all the trouble.
I'm starting to really dislike the Virguy I'm working with.

- No spine, and flip flops based on what he thinks other people want to see/hear. FAKE. Like if I say I like something, he likes it too. If I dislike something, he'll dislike too. If I say I'm busy, he'll suddenly act busy too. Hell, even if I crack my knuckles, he'll do it in front of me too later. The mirroring is getting epic and so annoying.

- He also nitpicks and criticizes, but on small things that don't matter much. I wonder if this is to distract, so other people don't notice HIS many flaws

- Control freak, like if I'm already doing something, he'll narrate beside me what I'm doing. IE. "..yeah put that there", "yeah, make that". What the hell is that??

Has anyone ever worked with a Virguy? How do you deal with them?

This post is about MEN.

Earth sign men are drawn to me to the point that I don't even have any fire or air sign male friends.
I have 1 Scorpio guy friend who could be interesting to explore a relationship with some time in the future. Ambitious and intense.





You forget about this guy. He just wants sex.