SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus
SagiSun, AquaRising, LeoMoon, LibraMars+Venus

Posted by SirHorns
...has been the perfect girlfriend for me so far, like damn.

I can not find anything to seriously cookiemonster about on the boards. Hell if she knew I was written about her like this, her reaction would just be more fun to watch.

/sadist cap smirk

Though seriously though, The virgos that have come in and have been in my life have been nothing short of being blessings so to rest out there who get stuck with the unappreciative folk, know that there are people out there who DO like you for who you are and what you do for others.

Now if you excuse me, I have to mentally stimulate my virgo~ ;D


Glad to hear things are working out well!

I have always thought Virgo and Cap are a great match.

Tell us non-Virgos why it works well...we could use the help haha
Posted by Damnata
Ways I knew my Virgo friend was into me:

- Paid attention/Remembered things about me. We were in this school camp once having breakfast and he knew how much I loved cheese so he would pick the cheese off his plate and put it on mine. That just made it beyond obvious to me lol.
- All in the eyes. Very affectionate gazes.
- Always around me.
- Always discussing something he noticed about me, criticizing some choice I made lmao
- Teasing and joking a lot
- Always around me.
- Questions on questions on questions. I would share something, I'd get questions about it. Real interest in my life.
- "Can I fix that?" "Oh let me do that for you" "Take my jacket, it's cold"
- Sending me stuff I might be into. Music/Movies/Pictures/Articles/Everything and anything
- Would not let days go by without me hearing from him
- Random thoughts and feelings communicated with me.
- "Let me show you my world and all I am about"
- Presents
- "I like you"
- Always around me
- "I'm falling in love with you"
- Did I mention always around me?

Seriously other than Aries men, Virgo men are so obvious.


Co-sign

My .02

- acts parental, "eat healthy", "sleep early" etc
- will teach you something
- will work with you or hire you
- will introduce you to his other friends
- yes...always aroubd you or available to you!

Posted by narleycharley94
I have a very close friend of mine that I've been friends with for about 5 years now. She is a Sag and I realized the other day no matter how long we go without talking and when I do my disappearing act she is always there. We have always flirted with each other and she loves when we hang out and talk on the phone for hours. It's only been platonic between us but I'm looking at her differently now. I think I'm starting to like this girl after all these years, she is very intelligent but I always thought we wouldn't be each other's type. She loves to go out a lot and most days I rather stay in and read lol
Should I just keep our friendship or take a chance and tell her I would like to take her on a real date?


Go for it, but she might turn you down. Be prepared.
IME, Virgo guys just don't do it for me
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by SunMoonStars
Posted by Gemitati
Because they are LAZY!
To the point when I tell him I need sex he says if you were smart you would find someone so I wouldn't know!!!

Surprised???


Wha..??!

Were you guys committed and in a relationship or fwb?



Yeas! Married for 23 years! Lo
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Were you going through a bad patch? what happened..how did things get there?
Is this the future with Cap guys?

Posted by Gemitati
Because they are LAZY!
To the point when I tell him I need sex he says if you were smart you would find someone so I wouldn't know!!!

Surprised???


Wha..??!

Were you guys committed and in a relationship or fwb?

Posted by Capri-sun
Because people lie so we stop (caring) giving a


Yea, I am experiencing the cold Cap thing and learned a lot... Caps are not into casual when they want you! That's what I can safely say. They need to know it's going somewhere. I think to him it's date a while (no more than 1 year maybe), title, future plan.

They DO like to know that your plans and thought processes include them. I think this is quite important, even little things.

On the other hand, if they are just playing (and they aren't above that either!), they will give excuses to why they can't be someone's bf/gf, and eventually break it off. I believe they won't lie and lead people on too long especially if the other person is trying to get serious and they don't want to.

Then there's the scenario where he'll try something on if he isn't sure, but there's "potential". However, based on my Cap's past relationships with a Libra and Leo, I don't think it works.

I suspect Caps know what they want and aren't that flexible...




IME, Virgo males are great about texting back quickly, and rarely text first.
Posted by tcta
Posted by SunMoonStars
What does Taurus respond to?

Tough love?
Kid gloves?
..?


interesting that you said "for their own good" ... lol ... YOU have decided this, not the Taurus and that is the problem right there!
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My examples are:

1. adult Taurus male who gambles instead of having a real job
2. teen Taurus male who is failing school because he doesn't do the work and copies whenever he can

They don't know each other but it's uncanny how they both have the mindset of what's "easier". It breaks my heart how lazy and entitled they are
Posted by tcta
and they are surely not going to change for a Sag!


Meaning?
Posted by Kikyy
From my own experience I can say that taurus people are very stubborn and they do things their way entire life, so it is really hard to change them. The more you push them, the less they care. I have a good male friend who is a taurus, so the only way to try to change their mind is to gently and carefully tell them your opinion and arguments. Then..MAYBE..they will think about it, but still, taurus people change their mind only if THEY decide it's necessary


Agreed!

Seems like they attempt to change when there is a threat of losing something or someone important to them... even then, it's not guaranteed.


What does Taurus respond to?

Tough love?
Kid gloves?
..?
What kind of partner does a Venus in Pisces need to flourish in a relationship?
Any recommendations?

Looking for something easy to get absorbed into. Thanks!
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol


How can I do that??
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me...

TY!



I was just joking lol it's either you let em be in control or you don't.


Haha

Why does it seem hard to believe that a Scorp (not you specifically) relinquished control to anyone?



lol who says I did? 😜 But I'll tell you this much I believe in equality so I do give her 50% of the control for the sake of avoiding issues/drama so in a way I really am just being generous 😜


You remind me of my Scorp guy friend dating a Sagittarius. He says he wants a partner who leads 50% of the time too. Did the Cap do this well? You said they are "boring", so I'm wondering, what's that elusive quality that Scorps want in a partner to keep things exciting?



Boring was just a joke lol for sure in bed they aren't 😜
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Yup, why do you think I keep trying with this guy??
Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by SunMoonStars
Do

- realize that sometimes Caps can dish it out, but cannot take it back!!

- drop hints about what you want rather than flat out say (unless they ask you)

- show them how serious you can be

- practice cultivating silence. I don't think Caps like chatterboxes or be used as a sounding board.


No, no, yes, yes

We can take it back lol, we just won't be happy about it.

I prefer direct rather than beating around the bush, reading in between lines, trying to decode what your hints mean.
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Yes, they're just not happy about it

Wish my Cap preferred direct communication!
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol


How can I do that??
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me...

TY!



I was just joking lol it's either you let em be in control or you don't.


Haha

Why does it seem hard to believe that a Scorp (not you specifically) relinquished control to anyone?



lol who says I did? 😜 But I'll tell you this much I believe in equality so I do give her 50% of the control for the sake of avoiding issues/drama so in a way I really am just being generous 😜
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You remind me of my Scorp guy friend dating a Sagittarius. He says he wants a partner who leads 50% of the time too. Did the Cap do this well? You said they are "boring", so I'm wondering, what's that elusive quality that Scorps want in a partner to keep things exciting?

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by SunMoonStars
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol


How can I do that??
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me...

TY!



I was just joking lol it's either you let em be in control or you don't.
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Haha

Why does it seem hard to believe that a Scorp (not you specifically) relinquished control to anyone?

You must have really respected those Caps!

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Oh yea since they like being in control make them think they're the boss even if they aren't. Lol


How can I do that??
Subtlety is a bit of a weakness for me...

TY!