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Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.
That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...
I've missed out on a lot of opportunities simply because I didn't pursue them. At the back of my mind something told me that person wasn't right for me, but another thought was they're not strong enough.
Whether that is in my head or reality is what I'm not sure about.
I can totally relate. My ex of 8 years was strong enough to handle me but over time I just felt like we lost the quality of our connection due to circumstance. He was a Cap with an Aries moon. He was very into his career and therefore for a while I think we made it because he let me have my own life and he had his. He wasn't very emotionally demonstrative but I always felt his love for me through his actions and responsible nature. We were so independent but solid.
Now I'm single again and comparing everyone to him and it just seems like no one is measuring up. I'm sort of into a Cancer with a Pisces moon but his emotions are so fragile I think I will only end up hurting him in the end. We've already had a huge fight and we've only been talking for three weeks... it would be long distance too, I just don't think it's going to happen...
I've not knowingly been out with a Pisces moon, but I know two well. You find the men can feel emotions on a psychic level to the point where it is like telepathy but they won't express it or tell you what they know.
I find they can be masochistic and cry a lot. Then you have this faux martyrdom where "they are trying so hard but nobody appreciates me". And people accuse Arians of acting childishly!
I think it's the one moon I would be reluctant to start a relationship with. Believe it or not I don't think it works with my scorp moon.
With Aries Venus do you usually attract masculine men or is it the other way round and you attract more feminine men?
When I was younger I used to attract Tom boys. Now I seem to attract outsiders who are unfortunately often a bit broken.
Yeah, when we had our fight, he literally went on and on for days complaining about how he was feeling and how I had hurt him. I mean, we aren't even a couple yet and he's acting this way. I thought to myself, "what a crybaby. Get over it." I need to be with someone more masculine.
I actually seem to attract men who look masculine but are more "progressive" on the inside if that makes sense. I am attracted to "bad boys" like crazy and always go for those that I can't have. ATM I'm wrapped up with a Sag who's in an open relationship and we're long distance. But our synastry/composite compatibility is off the chain. I'm not sure if it's because I'm an Aries/Taurus Cusp and he's a Scorpio/Sag cusp but damn... We have so much fun together and it feels so deep and addicting..
A friend of mine is Libra sun Pisces moon and he bottles up his emotions, but I can feel them. I can see why it's different for a cancer sun. Cancer suns in general take things to heart.
I would have been Aries\Taurus cusp "the cusp of power" if I was born a day or two later. With fire signs for me it's 50\50 in terms of sexual chemistry, friendship chemistry and having a good time it's always 100% as we just understand the need to be top dog and prove ourselves.
TBH I've never attracted barbie girls which would maybe be the feminine equivalent. I understand what you mean I think the bad boy who has a softer side or is open minded is many female's ideal.click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by alexscariesPosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by alexscariesPosted by taurusgirl9000
Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.
That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...
I've missed out on a lot of opportunities simply because I didn't pursue them. At the back of my mind something told me that person wasn't right for me, but another thought was they're not strong enough.
Whether that is in my head or reality is what I'm not sure about.
I can totally relate. My ex of 8 years was strong enough to handle me but over time I just felt like we lost the quality of our connection due to circumstance. He was a Cap with an Aries moon. He was very into his career and therefore for a while I think we made it because he let me have my own life and he had his. He wasn't very emotionally demonstrative but I always felt his love for me through his actions and responsible nature. We were so independent but solid.
Now I'm single again and comparing everyone to him and it just seems like no one is measuring up. I'm sort of into a Cancer with a Pisces moon but his emotions are so fragile I think I will only end up hurting him in the end. We've already had a huge fight and we've only been talking for three weeks... it would be long distance too, I just don't think it's going to happen...
I've not knowingly been out with a Pisces moon, but I know two well. You find the men can feel emotions on a psychic level to the point where it is like telepathy but they won't express it or tell you what they know.
I find they can be masochistic and cry a lot. Then you have this faux martyrdom where "they are trying so hard but nobody appreciates me". And people accuse Arians of acting childishly!
I think it's the one moon I would be reluctant to start a relationship with. Believe it or not I don't think it works with my scorp moon.
With Aries Venus do you usually attract masculine men or is it the other way round and you attract more feminine men?
When I was younger I used to attract Tom boys. Now I seem to attract outsiders who are unfortunately often a bit broken.click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by alexscariesPosted by taurusgirl9000
Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.
That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.
Yes. I'm an Aries Venus too. So I'm constantly fighting against the impulse to go too fast. I'm very passionate and it's been hard to find someone that can match my intensity...
I've missed out on a lot of opportunities simply because I didn't pursue them. At the back of my mind something told me that person wasn't right for me, but another thought was they're not strong enough.
Whether that is in my head or reality is what I'm not sure about.click to expand
Posted by alexscariesPosted by taurusgirl9000
Mars in Scorpio here. I get very deeply interested in them, stalk them online as much as possible, but play it cool face to face. I sit back and observe how they behave first, let them show me who they are, before I make a move... I could wait a long time if I really want someone.
That's one of my problems waiting too long, but if you are anything like me you want to make sure there is compatibility and whether they can handle you at your worst.click to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Impulsv
What does getting “ bored” mean
Aren’t you responsible for your own boredomPosted by pisceswoman123
The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.
My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.
For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.
With bored I mean that I need the relationship to keep moving. I don’t like it when it gets too predictable. I need change and lots of fun and passion.click to expand
Posted by tctaapPosted by taurusgirl9000Posted by tctaapPosted by taurusgirl9000
Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?
I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.
I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually. But unattainable. And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.
What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...
I'm Taurus with VIA - what happened in the committed relationship of 8 years ? I would ditch your current unobtainable thing going on but keep that in mind if you do find that VIS is a good match for you. I wouldn't rule any other Venus out and just keep on your path of more self discipline.
My ex was a workacholic (Cap) and wasn't tending to our relationship after a while. I stayed probably three years longer than I should have... Trying to work it out...
why was he a workaholic - due to finances, or just the way he was ? that ironic - and I'm sorry, I do know how that is - I always tried harder than most as well and gave it my best shot but when it came down to end, I was "done" ... because basically the other party wasn't understanding and doing something about it so if the relationship didn't mean anything to them, then so be it - I was goneclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123
The Venus I am attracted to relates more to my sun.
My aries Venus is in the 7th house and I have always been lucky in love.
For me the biggest problem was getting bored easily and if I didn’t get what I wanted I looked for it somewhere else.
Posted by tctaapPosted by taurusgirl9000
Any other Venus in Aries ladies out there?
I feel like I cannot maintain a relationship and am getting very tired of the pattern I'm seeing in my love life. I want a partner more than anything. Last year I went on a few dates, really liked a couple of guys, and each one didn't work out. Before this, I was in a committed relationship for 8 years... But have been out of that for 3 years now.
I have met someone recently that I really like and fell for over the last 6 months. But he lives in another country and is in an open relationship. He's a Venus in Scorpio. He matches my need for intense, passionate relating... He's perfect actually. But unattainable. And it is so frustrating. I keep seeing him because I don't want to lose that connection. For me it's so hard to find. But each time we say goodbye for another couple of months, it's starting to really hurt.
What other Venus sign goes well with Venus in Aries? I feel like right now I need to go in dating time out and learn to make better choices...
I'm Taurus with VIA - what happened in the committed relationship of 8 years ? I would ditch your current unobtainable thing going on but keep that in mind if you do find that VIS is a good match for you. I wouldn't rule any other Venus out and just keep on your path of more self discipline.click to expand
Posted by r_mactavishPosted by taurusgirl9000
My mom is an Aries. Sometimes I feel hurt by her insensitive way of putting things. I would say that's the biggest issue between Aries and Taurus. And she thinks I'm too sensitive.
Most of the time what Aries people is just impulsive bs. They themselves don't know what they're saying...You need to let a of things slide by when dealing with an Aries, and you'll both be just fine.click to expand
Posted by LethalFantasia
I feel you in-terms of what your needs are and how you express and want to receive love! As an Aries Venus, I totally relate. Sometimes I think we can be a little too passionate and let's face it, dramatic at times. I think it's because Aries is like the "baby sign" and a Fire sign and like, we just want what we want and know what we want and if we don't feel like we're getting that we can make very compulsive decisions without even giving the other person a legitimate chance.
Honestly though, I don't care and I don't really see it as much of a problem. Like I'm 25. I know I'm very young but I'm not a teenager anymore, you know? And I come from a backround where people settle down WAY younger than me. I think having this Venus placement (especially if it's in a stable house with some stable Saturn aspects, thank you gosh) can be super beneficial in terms of just knowing what you want and not wasting yours or anybody's time.
I would say it's okay to become infatuated with someone or have these huge crushes or whatever with this placement, and I mean, it is inevitable with VIA, it's kind of our passionate, fiery, loving nature - but it's also important for us to stay grounded and realize these crushes for what they are and not get too invested if you can't ever see it going anywhere.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Erm if its long distance there is prolly a time change difference in play which is prolly why there are long lapse in his response time cause he is catching zzz'ssss