I have this in synastry with someone I'm meeting soon and I thought it was very interesting. He is a Cap Sun and I'm a Taurus.

What do these contacts, between the moon and venus, signify?

Cap and Aries.

Any experience with this wacky combo?

Any experience with this wacky combo?

Posted by solidsnake
Gemini: too much confusion. Wishy washy. U need to be your own rock (stability)
Cancer: desperate clingy but selfish at same time.
Scorpio: they would be good at relationship if they werent always waiting around for things to go bad.
Saggitarius: terrible at choosing partners. Date unhealthy back to back
Capricorn: terrible at choosing partner. Get attached to unhealthy partners
Aquarius: aquarius is just aquarius. Need i explain more

Capricorn puts work first. That's the problem there.

Posted by Mr_Pinchy
lol, you said you dumped the aqua months ago.

I know because i've been on the fence with some taurus for years now and your posts really sealed the deal on the opinion of "unappreciative eartherners".

But tensions are high lately LOL, i might even ask her out one of these days.

Oh, leave the poor girl alone, would ya?

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Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Aquaman4848
Aqua and taurus.......Nooooooooo plzzzz Nooooo

Yeah, but there's more to compatibility than sun signs

No no no still no...... U will break that aqua 😑
What if he get to know u had sex with other guy, while he was still trying hard for u day and night...u were on his mind all the time...he had hopes...
But u are not worth, he doesn't know that...
So leave him with some nice letter or something🙃

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I told him I was seeing someone else once the Cancer and I got involved and the Aqua didn’t change his tune a bit. So, you’re wrong.

Posted by Metatron
@taurusgirl9000 where is your venus? that mirrored sun conj. moon (by sign) is very nice with the aqua....if I believed in astrology I'd lean towards that, espec. given how you describe the actual chemistry/emotions....if I were you I would just tell them both, given how rocky its been, that you don't want anything too serious or committed/exclusive, and then date both dudes....let things play out and time will reveal it....

My Venus is in Aries... I actually thought the other day that I should just be alone to really figure this out and tell them both to let me be for a while.

Posted by Aquaman4848
Aqua and taurus.......Nooooooooo plzzzz Nooooo

Yeah, but there's more to compatibility than sun signs

Me:
Venus: Aries
Mars: Scorpio

Him:
Venus: Gemini
Mars: Virgo

Off the charts...

Posted by Endless
you love the aqua, what's the problem here?

I'm laughing because I just re-read everything I wrote and that's definitely how it sounds... Thank you for your comment. I guess sometimes people can be so confused they can't think straight in these situations.

I am caught between a Cancer with an Aqua moon and an Aqua with a Taurus moon. I'm a Taurus with an Aqua moon...

The basics: I met the Aqua fresh after a breakup with my long term partner of 10 years. I fell for him madly. He made me feel safe and taken care of. My emotional unavailability at this time caused me to break up with him multiple times because I was still healing from that fresh breakup... What ended it for real was that the Aqua lied to me; he had been on a dating app but told me it was just to talk to someone about us (we were having problems at the time). I freaked out, said I could never trust him again, and ended the relationship. It lasted on and off for about a year (but we were living together by the end).

I then started seeing this Cancer, who at first pushed me away and didn't reciprocate my feelings. I fell for him really hard in the beginning, but his behavior left me cold. We had a huge fight because I think he realized he was losing me, he tried to patch things up, but I had already moved on emotionally from him, and he became extremely angry that he had taken a step forward only to have me slap his hand (so to speak).

In the aftermath of that breakup, the Aqua was still texting me every day, saying he loves me, asking to see me, asking how I am, even texting me good morning and goodnight every day, etc. When I became single, I started meeting up with him to do platonic things, basically rekindling a friendship, but all the while saying I didn't want a relationship with him. Of course eventually we got closer and it got to the point where he was in my apartment, we would order take out and talk and he would end up spending the night so he didn't have to go home so late at night... We would fool around sometimes and I'd regret it the next day because I felt like I didn't know what I was doing with him and I was being really unclear and unfair. It was basically like a push and pull constantly where we would get close, I'd freak out, he'd back away out of respect, then a few days would go by, and we were texting again and saying we missed each other...

We have a square between our Venus and Mars signs but we also have a trine between Venus and Mars... I've read that the square causes an on-off type of relationship that usually isn't lasting. I can definitely feel this aspect in our bond. I don't know if there is a way to overcome it.

Then the Cancer comes back around after months of silence and having me thinking he'll never talk to me again. I had written him off, deleted our texts and photos from my phone, and forgot about him. He confessed all of these really deep emotional things that he had been not saying out of fear. We ended up having sex after meeting again to "talk"; the sexual chemistry that we have is VERY strong (our Mars signs are sextile). I wasn't expecting the sex, but I think he was wanting to "seal" things in this way, and show me that he wanted me and really was attracted to me, etc.

The crazy thing is that I don't feel an emotional bond to him anymore like I did in the beginning. I immediately regretted the sex the next day... It's almost like I was in love with him once, and now I can't be again. I keep thinking it wouldn't hurt me at all if I never spoke to him again.

Meanwhile, the thought of not seeing the Aqua again is painful, even though I'm not sure we can be a couple, I feel so close to the Aqua emotionally; we have cried in front of each other and taken care of each other when sick, I have told him everything about myself and he accepts all the ugliness about me too, etc.

Even thought the Cancer and I have more common interests and are closer in age, I feel that the Cancer and I don't have this same closeness for some reason. There is a lack of "romance" between us I suppose. It's very strange. When I look into his eyes, I actually don't feel anything... The Cancer and I have that damn Venus Opposition Uranus in our synastry.... He also has it in his natal chart... We also have Sun Opposition Jupiter, which scares me.

When I look into the Aqua's eyes I sometimes get tears in my eyes because I can feel how much he loves me. I love to hear him call me beautiful, I love to talk to him and joke with him. I feel like I NEED him in my life in some way, I'm just not sure we can get it together to be a real couple again...

I am just here hoping for any advice you could give me... I am so confused and lost...

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Posted by Boots1313
tell us your experiences also...

Very very good. They were both really into foreplay and oral, but what I love about them is how surprisingly clean they were about it while also being extremely aggressive. Like no teeth and deep throating.



They also seem to like doing work and being givers. I'm usually the giver, so it's nice to sit back and enjoy the show. Very sensual with their hands, super intense eye contact, and the best part is constant need for more. Like you don't want to say no if there are more rounds, neither will they. Wish there were more taurus women by me.



I just think sex with earth signs generally, as a Taurus, is otherworldly for whatever reason, though Scorpios are great in bed too and may be the one sign that has outlasted me on one occasion. click to expand

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All true. Although there is something different about Taurus. I've been with Virgos and Caps as well and they weren't as sensual as I am. My needs for sex are on another level. My Cancer ex told me "you're in another treetrunking dimension" because I could literally have foreplay for hours and never get tired.

Posted by TaurusFlower22
They say Taurus and Cancer is a good match, but I beg to differ. The hot/cold/sure/unsure/vague stuff get old quickly, and truly is not worth the headache or heartache.

He'll probably come back. You sound like you might not be as done as you say. Either way, good luck to you.



I'm talking to a Cap now. It's a huge difference. There was no vagueness. I've known him for a couple years. Once he found out that I'm completely single, he told me he wants to court me. Clear. No bs games. It's refreshing.

I was with a Cap for 8 years. It began so easily and ended only because of outside circumstances beyond our control. I think Cap and Taurus is a great team. Glad you're moving on :x

Posted by LaBellaVita
Moon in Scorpio is hands down the worst Moon placement.

I came here to say the same thing. Scorpio moon is the most challenging emotionally to deal with.

I have posted a lot about this Cancer guy to the forum because he confused me so much.

Recently he flat out lied to me in an attempt to shift responsibility for his past actions. He told me that I had said and did things that I 100% did not. (He told me that I was the one that was unsure about a relationship, that he had waited and waited for me for over a year because of that, that I told him at one point I wanted to date other people [that's a hard "no" captain], etc.). He knows damn well that HE was the one that wasn't ready, that he never told me he was interested in dating me until JANUARY of this year, and that I NEVER said I wanted to date other people... When I confronted him about it, he backed off and admitted that he made it up...

"I don't understand. Why did you do that?" I said.

"I was angry and I just said things that weren't true," he said.

This all came about because I shared with him that I felt scared he would pull away from me again, and I wasn't sure how we should continue.

Uh, wtf? This is a first for me, I've never had a guy flat out lie like that, especially about something I could disprove so easily!... What really bothers me is shifting the blame and not accepting responsibility for his behavior. That is probably my number 1 no-no with people, because I have a family member that did the exact same thing to me.

In any case, not only are we DONE, I'm not even sure I want to speak to him based on how he treated me in this argument.... He keeps texting me apologizing and saying he's stupid, he's a jerk... I still haven't texted him back.

I would move on. I went through this long saga with a Cancer recently. I finally realized that it's in his personality to be hot and cold, on and off, and my emotions just couldn't take it anymore.

The man I was seeing has this natally and we have this in our synastry.

I am losing my patience. What has been your experience with it?

Basically, he seems to be hot and cold with his feelings for me, all the while expressing verbally that he's interested in seeing me (but what I feel from him doesn't match). It seems like when I feel ready to really go headlong and try, he backs up and hides.

Now he's finally come around and claims to want a relationship, but honestly, I'm scared. I don't want to give my whole heart again only to have him pull away...

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Posted by taurusgirl9000
Aquas are hot and cold until they are certain they are in love with you, in my experience. Then it's like you can't get rid of them! I broke up with mine six months ago and he STILL texts me every day, will say that he's still in love with me and wants to be together, etc. It's crazy because I tell him I don't want to be in a relationship with him again. Like I literally say it. And it's like he doesn't care what I say, he knows how he feels... It's really frustrating. Maybe it's good that your Aqua cancelled lol...

Hmmm now I get a good morning text again. I guess I’m experiencing the hot & cold... ah well whatever. I’ll sit back and observe him lol.

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I feel ya. Dating is hell. Especially if you're dealing with an Aquarius

Aquas are hot and cold until they are certain they are in love with you, in my experience. Then it's like you can't get rid of them! I broke up with mine six months ago and he STILL texts me every day, will say that he's still in love with me and wants to be together, etc. It's crazy because I tell him I don't want to be in a relationship with him again. Like I literally say it. And it's like he doesn't care what I say, he knows how he feels... It's really frustrating. Maybe it's good that your Aqua cancelled lol...