Posted by Vainth
STAY AWAY. They are so attractive and intriguing to us Taurus, but they are BAD NEWS. Flaky, inconsistent, one day they randomly act like they don't even know you.
Yes, I am butthurt over it
Posted by scorpgal76
Just be yourself. We can tell from a mile away if you are pretending. She already likes you or she wldnt waste her time so you can quit worrying so much lol. Have a great time
Posted by LunarMaidenPosted by LunarMaiden
This should have been your first post. Reminds self to not respond after first post as it never never tells the full story. But I'm glad I responded the way that I did, because it flushed out more info. The fact that she said she wanted no strings attached makes this easier. You didn't think of your ex first because it was just about the sex. Just remind Leeb that you guys had a no strings night of sex and that's it. You are neither seeking romance nor a relationship. I think Leebs appreciate the direct approach. However, I get the feeling you want some nice cushy sex from time to time. I would suggest you state that you only want no strings with any girl you date from now on, until you are over your ex. Did you leave anything else out?Posted by taurusman
No thats about all i can think of. I will tell her what you pretty much just said. I really am not looking for a relationship right now but the girl did catch my interest but im just not ready to let another girl in my heart atm.
You are welcome. You really do need to give yourself time to heal. And the reason I say to be upfront about where you are emotionally with relationships is because it helps keep some uncomfortable moments at bay for you and the other person. Particularly with women who use the "no strings" as an opening for a deeper relationship. Best of luck Bull.click to expand
Posted by robyn808
I'm not saying your douchey... I don't know that, I'm just saying you kinda look it. I'm really not trying to insult you. I'm just giving a perspective, that you could be projecting a certain image attracting a certain kind of person, that in a funny twist will put you in a position to act like a douche, pushing you to treat her exactly the way she thinks she deserves to be treated.
idk, it could just be slut psychology.
Posted by robyn808
ok so this is just a theory so lets humor me for a sec, as I venture down this road but...
The images your sending to the world here, are how do i say it... very douchey. I mean the whole shotgun beer and affliction t's, well I think it attracts a certain caliber of women.
The leeb, yeah shes sounds like a real mess. Big red flags there.