Posted by Redoctober2000Posted by TaurusMarine
I'm Taurus myself. It has been a long time since I dated a taurus man.
Recently I met a guy, born on April 23. I thout he might be Aries...but NOOO! He's Taurus....
He seems to be interested, but I'm quite prejudiced against Taurus guys.
Tell me please who tends to be these men and what to expect from them... I mean typical characteristics of a Taurus man...as I believe these guys are dull and slow-motion!!!
Depends on the chart.
Mine has four fire placements and two air placements... Not slow at all.. Likewise I am a Taurus and i have three fire placements and air placement and very firey and on the move... Having said that, both my Taurus and I are slow to get into relationships.
I feel the ones with more earth and water (could) be slow and dull...click to expand
Posted by cornflower2
I can totally relate to you. I've only known and dated 2 cancers men so far, so I do not want to generalize all cancers here. But both guys were very much alike. The first one pretended, he wanted to get to know me as a person, even build a life with me. But much later I found out, he was mostly looking for sex and started dating again, right after we had our first argument.. he never fought for me, just moved on with no feelings at all....
The second cancer guy was soo polite and nice during our 11 hours first date. But he never made a move on me, so I also stayed cool. Later he told me by email, that he really wanted to kiss me. So I gave him a second chance, invited him for dinner, telling him that I really look forward to get to know him better, but that I do not do sex or spending the night on a second date. After that, he cancelled the date... Cancers are soooooo not for me!!!!!!
Posted by jojo39
Let me start by saying I have read a lot of the post on her in regards to cancerians and their relationships/interactions with people. I've found myself identifying a lot with some of the post and in awe. I started talking to a Cancer male about five months ago. I'm a Sagittarius and true to my sign. I knew from the beginning there would be some struggles with this match because I like to read up on what I'm getting myself into. I have several cancer female friends and so I thought I had some guidance lol. It started off great and then the past month he went into his shell it appears. He went from wanting to go out and communicating ok (which was not all that great by month 3) but if he said we were going to do something or he was coming to hang out he did. All of a sudden he went missing and I felt like I was in a relationship by myself. I didn't see it coming. Last week I decided I would walk away after it took him almost two weeks to even say hello. He kept saying â€œI wouldn't understand and that I couldn't understand what he needed to do!" He couldn't say it was over and didn't want to me end it but be a convenience for when he had time to date. I had offered him the same friendship several weeks before he decided to go into his shell and he refused it saying he wanted the relationship. I see know from this forum he wanted things his way. I was upset and in typical Sagittarius fashion I didn't spare his feelings and told him what I thought. It hurt me to do this because I was really into this guy and tried my best to work through things with him but like many of you shared they won't let you in.
I sent an email apologizing for a few things but it had gotten to the point where I didnâ€™t know what to believe from this guy anymore. I couldnâ€™t understand how someone wanted to be with you but could go missing for periods of time and could change at the drop of a hat. He kept telling me to stay until he worked things out but then said eventually I'll want time he couldn't give me (ass hole) he couldnâ€™t tell me what I was staying for either. Thank you all for sharing it really helped me. I see that he might come back and if he do Iâ€™ll be ready. These are truly sweet guys at least he was, just emotional and didnâ€™t know what he really wanted. I know their insecure and have a hard time making decisions. But to string people along is simply not cool. Emotionally I'm usually able to get over guys fairly quick. This has been a tough one because I didn't want to walk away but I did't know why or how long I was gonna be treated like this either.
Posted by K_1018
I think cancer(both men and women) are extremely emotional and they don't know how to handle those emotions without going to extremes and pushing others away. In my experience, you have to be a special kind of person to deal with them. ðŸƒðŸƒðŸƒ
Posted by thinktoomuch
Not stuff like "oh honey, I love you and only you, and I was a fool" and blah blah blah. Not words to try and get you back. But to explain.
I donÂ´t know, how I would feel about that myself even.
Posted by aquanib