Taurus Sun/Rising - Cap Moon - Aries Venus/Mercury - Pisces Mars

so you have no morals, no empathy

what is it you do have then because most people like other people because they are nice

I'm not sure I could like anyone who had no morals and/or empathy - it would make for a very cold individual who most like   Read more
just not enough puss to go around lol
Posted by 2Moon
Posted by tcta
Posted by 2Moon
Ex Taurus dumped me, couple months ago..

She sent me a message last week, I don't know what to say or what to do...

Good question op



what did she say ? have ou spoken to her ? I mean you didn't depart on bad terms so why not be friends ?




" Hey "

Couple days later:

" Do you remember me? "


I replied yes..

We stopped seeing each other on good terms, it was friendly...

well I mean not good nor bad....

We just stopped talking...
So yeah.... I don't know what to say or do.. and I don't know what she wants...

Probably wants to trtrk together or continue the relationship..

I don't wanna be friends with her tho... That could hurt me.
and she never said " let's just stay friends " or something like this...
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could be that - you gotta look out for yourself first and foremost

turmeric supreme for the inflammation will help

I've been taking it for my knee which sometimes swells - not sure what it is but I treat it with heat, ice and inflammatory herbs/supplements

go see a doctor ? who said that ? they will only get you hooked on some new medicine that will most likely kill you from the side effects much less help your arthritis - and I work in a hospital
omg I can only imagine
lol yeah she's a buzz kill lol
ewwwww - I woulda barfed
what's with the little wing nibs on her shoulders lol - she ain't gonna fly away with those hunking ear pieces

I love the color of her dress tho
lol I keep seeing this - I noticed how mother cat just walks away from the idiocy lol
Posted by MondayMorning
Posted by tcta


Totally made me cry!



what made you cry ? the things he said to you or the fact that you believed all his ooze and fell for it until you saw his pictures were updated ?

he's a douchebag and you are free thank god to move on and find someone real

some people when they are caught try very hard to turn things around at the person who "caught" them - some sort of pathetic defense mechanism on their part

get over it - it won't take long



It was that I believed all the crap that made me cry I am pretty much known for believing what people say which is why I act with caution and monitor people's actions to check they measure up.

I can handle getting abused and insulted, but coming from this person who'd spent time being so gentle and loving to me it was jarring.

You're right, I will get over it quickly. To be honest even without the other stuff, who wants to date someone who handles a breakup like that. I mean, he's 39 years old and within 10 minutes he'd deleted me on everything. Total teenage weirdness
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for sure - total weirdness

next time be more cautious in believing someone who professes so much so soon - it takes a long time to really get to know someone to the point that it is decided to commit with real love - for the first few months it's just a chemical smoke screen and warfare lol





so cute lol
Posted by MondayMorning
@librasetting He's 39.

@libraloveshim Ach, I know my temper is quick to be suspicious, and I should have reacted in a calmer not accusatory way - but at the same time - there is not that much to regret because it was over from the moment he did that. Once aroused my suspicions aren't going to go away

What I want is a guy who's only interested in me and only me from day one. I know this might be a lot to ask, but we all want what we want huh? I know I give a lot in return to people I care about and offer them the same back.

During an actual relationship I am really not a jealous or suspicious woman. Never looked in a guy's phone or checked his email and actually have never been cheated on when in a committed relationship but during those early phases I am judging the guy closely for whether or not I want to invest my emotions into him.

Am I a little over zealous? Yep! But you know I have also never been wrong and my guy is pretty much dead on accurate with this stuff. I look back on my good relationships and you know, the guy was never updating his pics on a dating website.

I am a bit believer in monogamy from day one. you date one person, for a day, a week, a month and day by day you are with that person and I find is really disrespectful and a huge turn off if someone doesn't treat me with that same respect. That way of dating is not for everyone, sure, but with this guy I was pretty clear on my expectations and he'd gassed to me about how he'd never do that stuff so he lied.

I feel a bit like he either got mad at being caught out OR he has a little kids ego.


you got it - we can feel it when something is wrong but it might take a little time to "show" ... it sounds like either empty words, or he just wanted to keep you on the hook, or whatever it was he is gone now and you know how he is - not man enough to own up to his own crap and that's not what you want anyway


Totally made me cry!



what made you cry ? the things he said to you or the fact that you believed all his ooze and fell for it until you saw his pictures were updated ?

he's a douchebag and you are free thank god to move on and find someone real

some people when they are caught try very hard to turn things around at the person who "caught" them - some sort of pathetic defense mechanism on their part

get over it - it won't take long

just call them all "babe" and be done with it - at least when you want a second helping - or not ...


Jesus wtf



I take it the weddings' off


"I wouldn't take no for an answer so I hit them with my car"

I wouldn't even know how to look at someone who told me that lol out of my depth


IKR
I hope he got some jail time and professional help but yeah, not only is that traumatic for the female but he is pretty much f'd in life - do you think he was a Scorpio lol



Lol well in this one he's a Gemini, but the Taurus always told me her worst, most obsessive and limp encounter was with a Scorpio man



maybe he has Scorpio placements lol - yeah, that Libra #2 turned out to be Scorpio (so mysterious he couldn't even tell me the right sign, finally told me his birthdate which I'm not sure if that was true but would not tell me the year he was born) and I just had to end it - he could be nice when he tried but he could also be way too overbearing - ain't nobody got time for that - especially a mature Taurus woman lol so I had to let him go