Posted by ragingfirelove
Sagittarius was the best. It got really chaotic at times. We're both fire signs so when it's bad IT'S BADDD . But honestly helped me to become a stronger person in many aspects. Best physically too. So spontaneous and wild.
My 1st love was a Taurus...Meh
Posted by Harukka
What do you think of sag women ?
I never met leo man..that's why I'm asking
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Hey, you never answered my other other question
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Oh no.....not these threads again.
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Do you eat a lot? I mean like 2 plates worth
Posted by Satcorn
Do you stare at yourself in the mirror? Are you hypnotized by yourself in the mirror? Do you stop to fix your hair whenever you pass a mirror?
Posted by CopperDove
What is falling in love like for you? What is your moon sign?
Posted by fishinamaize
I certainly believe that you never meant to make her feel that way, and I'd even believe if there was nothing you could have really done to avoid it. Other than not being successful when she wasn't- and that's not fair at all.
Well, you could have treetrunking married her before it got to that point. I mean, unless she told you she would under no circumstances marry you- and that's when she should have known it wouldn't last forever.
But if she told you there were reasons not to get married but not that she never would... that meant she always had doubts that you would last. And when you started doing better at life than her, it made her feel like she wasn't your equal. And she didn't want to be with someone who she'd feel like she was holding back. And also, jealousy. So it confirmed her doubts that you two weren't meant to be together. And she's also upset about things going poorly in her life. There probably isn't anything you can do to fix it at this point, because anything YOU DO will only make her feel more inadequate. And even if she got everything she wanted, on her own and overnight... her heart probably wouldn't be in it. Cause at this point, she feels you can't relate to her.
I do feel bad tho. I don't really have any advice to suggest but that's just how the situation looks to me.
Could be 100% wrong
Posted by fishinamaize
oh. well why didn't you do that?
Posted by MissFisk
You never fought because she internalized everything in hopes some day you will see and understand how she felt. She loved you and probably still does. But I think at this point she is weighing out her hopes and needs versus what is currently happening in your relationship (and whatever else maybe happening outside your relationship). 14 years is a very long time. She should have spoken up and really stood her ground. It might have caused a fight, but at least she voiced what she actually felt instead of slinking away and letting things go on.
That "her parents gave her whatever she needed" vs "I worked for mine" makes you sound like things that were you had done for her were conditional. What I did for you vs what you did for me. IMO, internally keeping tabs isn't a good thing... and she probably did the same thing. In result when things go sour, it can fester into resentment.
I think there is a huge disconnect in the communication when it came to being in the same page about the future. She's probably dissatisfied with where she is in her life, whether that be regarding career, marriage... family. And it's just now starting to surface.
Posted by missnia08
Ok, so let me get this straight. It's all about how you talk to a Leo huh? So why is it that they feel like they can come at people and talk to people any kind of way but we're supposed to talk to them respectfully and with extra care just so we won't hurt his precious little pride? Wtf?! HELL NAW! That's not happening. I'll give him what he gives me. Really don't give a damn if he gets upset either. Leo men are drama kings with a capital D (Although they never see it that way) and in order to keep him around, you have to be just as strong and vocal as him. He needs to knows that you're not gonna take his butter. Once he knows that he can't play you, HE WON'T! But he will definitely try. I think they secretly like drama and they like it when a woman stands up to them. But if he doesn't, that's just too damn bad. I have a awesome Leo friend. Although we disagree and argue like crazy, and we don't speak, we always come right back to each other. I really think it's because he likes my strong personality. I'm not weak and he knows it so that makes me more interesting. We have each others backs.