Posted by AgentP911Posted by thewateryram
Welp, I went ahead and stopped ignoring him because I needed closure. I did it through text because I didn't want to see him or talk to him. Call it immature, I don't care.
I simply told him how bad he hurt me, and that I know he cheated no matter how much he denies it, and I respect myself enough to walk away. Then of course he flooded my phone with texts trying to guilt trip ME. Trying to make it seem like I did something wrong and saying I'm making a mistake by throwing everything away, and I never really cared if I leave. HA!
I ignored this for 2 hours until he said "So relationship wasn't that important I guess..." I told him that he should speak for himself because I'm not the one who cheated. Then the truth comes out. He told me he cheated on me with his ex and said it was hilarious.
Anyway, I'm done, and I told him I'm done with everything. I feel like a weight has been lifting off my shoulders, and I feel AMAZING. I'm pretty sure he's gonna keep texting me later but I'm not gonna answer.
To everyone saying Venus in Gems are known for cheating need to read Hotbeefy's thread. I have very similar placements as my ex: Taurus Sun, Venus Gem, Cancer Mars, and I am extremely faithful, and would never cheat!!!!
Good for you! Sometimes you just need that closure and then jog on without him! He sounds like an arsehole!click to expand
Posted by AL4813
that venus gemini
Posted by RainDancer88
It will probably drive him bonkers to not even get an explanation lol.
Posted by Urania99
It's probably specific aspects in one's birth chart instead of a sign or even a whole element that can be linked to low self esteem and depression. Personal planets in hard aspect with Saturn or Pluto for example have a tendency to do this. In my case my Venus squAre Saturn weighs heavily.
Even just having a chart with a lot of tough aspects, squares and oppositions, can create inner tension that requires a lot of deep soul work to transform in a positive way. And squares or oppositions in fixed signs in fixed signs are the worst/ most difficult.