@black773 the relationship was initiated by them which may seem hard to believe. However I agree, I believe she is very understand and will understand where I am coming from if I decide to maintain a friendship instead.
I am a libra and have been in a LDR with an Aquarius for a little over 3 months. Our relationship has been a lil rocky in the past couple weeks due to it and Covid travel limitations. I have drawn back and feel like our work schedules just don't work well. I have considered ending things because when asked what the issue is I said things aren't consistent and it has affected the relationship. I feel if I stay in this my trust will begin to be compromised and I feel trying to keep a friendship instead of ending things badly. I do feel like she wants things to work however I don't see it being realistic if we don't have more consistent times to FT and such more often. Seeking feedback, suggestions, or advice if I should try to stick it out or end things.
@Wildd_Flo - I like your perspective, I do think I need to keep busy so I am not allowing my Aries moon to rush things. We have talked about continuing to live our lives but making time for each other when necessary. We don't have any plans to link back up yet since I just moved, and we will both have distance for a long time with no specific window of time when we would be able to be together consistently.
@LittleStar_ I am hoping we are able to keep longevity long distance, we tend to flirt a lot and we do talk on FaceTime every so often. I think we had enough time prior to build a level of allureness for each other to the point we can still want to get to know each other despite the distance.
@aquarius09 - Keeping in consideration of placements I don't have intentions on controlling her, I told her I think she should still enjoy her time while she is still there. I plan to do the same, but have intention on keeping a place to build a foundation for something, Im not planning to stop living for the potential of it.
I have been talking to an Aquarius sun, Aquarius moon, Leo rising for about a month. I have recently moved away due to work and we will have distance for a long time. We have clicked pretty well despite the distance and have kept in touch via text and FaceTime. We have talked about our intentions and whether or not we are interested enough to invest in something long term. Do you think this is something I should invest in as a Libra sun, Aries moon, and Capricorn rising.
I find her very attractive and sweet, and will be willing to visit as needed. I know Aquarius are known to be detached, but can be loyal if we build a friendship foundation. Looking for feedback or personal opinions on if this is realistic and could this potentially work.
Your in denial, please heal from the situation and move on. This is how he may treat you when you date and things don’t go his way. Please be smart, use logic and not be blinded by your emotions. People are being helpful, especially other Scorpios and trying to tell you what it may be, but you continue to make excuses for the behaviors. Trust I’ve have had encounters with Scorpios too, you have to know when to accept that the behavior won’t change. It’s too early for these types of miscommunication.
He may have baggage locally, or a situation he is not communicating to you. Driving to you would avoid him opening up about something you may be okay with. (For example if he lives with a partner or potential risk some will see you two together). I would move on, Scorpio have potential to be wonderful ppl but their emotion cloud their logic, find someone who is understanding enough to know things don’t alway work in their time/terms.
@dilettante - appreciate the feedback. i personally feel she wanted to remain friends to have her cake and eat it too — i could be wrong, but having a friendship would not really be beneficial to my personal growth. we were karmatic partners and needed to go in different directions. this is why i was able to accept and mutually agree to ending things otherwise I would have tried to fight to keep the relationship while i was overseas. 3-4 months is a good time frame but unless she reaches out my way, I think it’s best to just keep our distance in this life.