Posted by jeanePosted by Undine
I dated once a Pisces sun, Leo moon (Aries Venus). I'm Pisces sun, Aqua Venus, Aries Mars, so both of us have personal planets in common with your boyfriend.
What I've learned from our relationship, is that one of us (Leo moon in this case) was trying to live according to his own script. I was given a leading role in his script, because he fell in love with me, but any perceived deviations from it were punished with criticism. The script had a theme. Ours was "glamour on a budget" (we were both graduate students and piss poor, lol). It required long drives while listening to Frank Sinatra songs, parties, best seats at the cinema, class and style . His criticism was usually about some of my clothes, my age, and our dialogue.
Yours theme appears to be "fitness". I would recommend you do what I did, since at least will stop him from repeating the same criticism, and will eventually run out of things to criticize you for.
1. Do not get defensive. Do not apologize, unless you did something wrong.
2. Hold your ground (aka don't agree to do what he wants, at least not before serious consideration). This will teach him respect.
3. Strike back. Use quid pro quo. (Nobody and nothing is perfect. Pay attention to details. Or just talk nonsense).
Him: “it’s time for a haircut”.
You: "I'm letting it grow for now, it makes me feel more feminine. Look at yours...are you getting in touch with your feminine side as well?" Or:...insert anything you observe about his hair, haircut style . Be creative.
Him: “I think you need to work legs more than you do”
You: "During sex?" "Speaking of legs...you've got thunder thighs! Sometimes, when hungry, I imagine a couple of Parma ham joints as your thighs'"
Him: “not to do it because it’s stupid and not effective”
You: "But it gave me this shape you love!". Or "But I'm clever and efficient. So I need it for balance!"
Him: "oh what did you eat? Oh that’s not enough protein".
You: "I follow a balanced diet. Did you know that extra protein could make you age faster?"
i get that this might work (? dunno, taking your word for it) but treetrunk me, that sounds exhausting.click to expand
Posted by NemDeux
Have not shaved since november ...:3
Posted by NemDeux
No touchy touchy please.