tiziani

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Women in suits are super sexy!

Your story is confusing. No one likes ambuigity, it will just eat away at you. Just follow through with what you said was best for you. And if it wasn't then avoid writing letters putting the onus on him to make it ok for you. You sound like the one who needs to make a decision, be clear on what decision is right for you and follow through with it.

I dunno kind of miss the power suits of daytime television back in the 90s. But probably for all the wrong reasons.

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Posted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.

#emotionalcheating

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my whole life was a lie

Posted by Sag898

Posted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.

that's because it is babe

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When was the last time you did?

Posted by VenusAquarius

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shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.

How bout shoulder crying while getting deep dick.

Like the commercial, "Priceless."

LOL

damn that seems kind of tragic to be real.

I dunno personally I just don't think I could get over someone shoulder crying to someone else, whereas sex doesn't affect me like that. But I'm a low sexed person in general.

I'm sure you seen in a movie Tiz.

But, I agree... neither affect me. LOL. It'll probably be.... hmmm, a loss of respect. Then, you have to wonder what you did. Or, is she neurotic? Neurotics are exhausting. Seen some movies where the man just doesn't give a damn any more and would just close the door... which makes her more neurotic.

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Like Metatron I'm actually feeling a little insecurity popping up over her shoulder cry count now

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.

How bout shoulder crying while getting deep dick.

Like the commercial, "Priceless."

LOL

damn that seems kind of tragic to be real.

I dunno personally I just don't think I could get over someone shoulder crying to someone else, whereas sex doesn't affect me like that. But I'm a low sexed person in general.

“A shoulder to cry on becomes a dick to ride on “

That’s a quote straight from a Libra 🤷🏼‍♀️

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LOL

maybe I'm just awkward but if people try to cry on my shoulder I feel like they're better off with a therapist. I don't want to get off on that foot with anyone.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.

How bout shoulder crying while getting deep dick.

Like the commercial, "Priceless."

LOL

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damn that seems kind of tragic to be real.

I dunno personally I just don't think I could get over someone shoulder crying to someone else, whereas sex doesn't affect me like that. But I'm a low sexed person in general.

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Posted by tiziani
shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.

Well, Aquas don't cry so im arid in that department too.

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LOL

shoulder crying seems deeper than sex to me.

Posted by nikkistar

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Posted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "

You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.

Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.

That's just real life.

If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a cookiemonster. You are lying to yourself.

I guess hope and trust are kinda similar in this context....And I agree with most of this, especially the bold part. But I would never "take the chance" or even have the desire to, no matter how drunk. I think emotional, mental, or even physical chemistry being present, can actually be kinda fun as long as there are boundaries. I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle. Ultimately this is why I think its better to bring opp. sex friends into the fold, and not have them as outliers that you or your SO always hang out with separately. Once that happens, that risk looks much less appealing. You don't just damage your own relationship, but the dynamic of the entire group if you decide to cheat - if the group works well as is, there's a certain respect for that, and desire to preserve it. If an opp. sex friend doesn't fit in there, probably less likely that I'd be hanging with them when in a committed relationship, just out of respect for my partner.

"I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle."

Yeah this is what I was saying to Nikki yesterday.

And we decided that I only keep attractive women around for their nudes.

#ItsNotCreepyCuzNikki

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var sendnudes
var dxper
var Nikkistar


if dxper = Nikkistar

then sendnudes = 1


else sendnudes = 0

print "that's creepy!"

Posted by Metatron

Posted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "

You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.

Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.

That's just real life.

If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a cookiemonster. You are lying to yourself.

I guess hope and trust are kinda similar in this context....And I agree with most of this, especially the bold part. But I would never "take the chance" or even have the desire to, no matter how drunk. I think emotional, mental, or even physical chemistry being present, can actually be kinda fun as long as there are boundaries. I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle. Ultimately this is why I think its better to bring opp. sex friends into the fold, and not have them as outliers that you or your SO always hang out with separately. Once that happens, that risk looks much less appealing. You don't just damage your own relationship, but the dynamic of the entire group if you decide to cheat - if the group works well as is, there's a certain respect for that, and desire to preserve it. If an opp. sex friend doesn't fit in there, probably less likely that I'd be hanging with them when in a committed relationship, just out of respect for my partner.

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"I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle."

Yeah this is what I was saying to Nikki yesterday.

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "

You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.

Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.

That's just real life.

If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a cookiemonster. You are lying to yourself.

LOL Wut

Not everyone lives in a realm of ulterior motives.

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You just wouldn't curl up and cry on a guy friend, that's the real beef here!

Posted by Sag898
It comes down to just " hope "

You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.

Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.

That's just real life.

If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a cookiemonster. You are lying to yourself.

lmao

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Posted by tiziani
I'm about to get engaged end of this month. Just wanted to sort out the living situation first. Having said that ours is not a typical marriage arrangement, which I don't think either of us would have been entirely satisfied with anyway to begin with. So as for the "institution" itself, I've no idea.

Ooh congratulations! What kind of special marriage arrangement will you two have?

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Thank you. Well that's between us as she's private on boundaries. But I mentioned it just to say I guess the modern idea of marriage doesn't apply to us, so maybe you have a point.

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Posted by tiziani
I'm about to get engaged end of this month. Just wanted to sort out the living situation first. Having said that ours is not a typical marriage arrangement, which I don't think either of us would have been entirely satisfied with anyway to begin with. So as for the "institution" itself, I've no idea.

Awwww Congrats! I'm happy for you! So an indecisive Libra ended up making a decision after all huh?

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LOL when I hit 30 it changed nothing, weirdly. But then hitting 31 I became decisive af, almost cutthroat. Quite proud of myself actually (brushes shoulders off) but thank you

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I can relate to everything you said....in many ways, life does feel like a fall from grace, or innocence in the sense that I've now done so many things that I've always had these self-righteous judgmental stances on towards others....Even further than what you shared, I thought I was a super loyal dude most of my life, and experience has definitely taught me otherwise....I just try not to be too hard on myself....I'm learning to let go of guilt....I think its important to be remorseful for specific things when they happen, but you can't just walk around feeling disappointed with your self constantly....Most people are dishonest hoors to some extent, in my experience, and if you hang around them long enough, you find that out....

If you accept/forgive the things about your self that you dislike - times you were dishonest, the jealousy, etc., I think the behaviors are actually less likely to occur....The more positive your own self-view is, I think the less envious you will be of others, and the less you have to hide from others through deception for instance...

"There's always going to be a part of me that's sloppy and dirty, but I like that. With all the other parts of myself. Can you say the same about yourself, treetrunker? Can you forgive? Are you any good at that?"

hahahaha....you crack me up dude...I love that movie, and that scene....JLaw's character reminds me of an ex.

That film is so rewatchable, time after time.

Weirdly enough the lines of her character remind me of me lol or more realistically butter I wish I'd said years ago.

it really is....will probably buy it if Netflix ever drops it....both Lawrence and Bradley Cooper are also in American Hustle, and David Russell directed and co-wrote both, and its the same for me with that movie - can watch it again and again....love the dialogue, the humor, etc. And yeah, I agree on her character in Silver Linings as well - a little honesty/vulnerability covers over an abundance of crazy....

I haven't seen American Hustle but if it's the same team then I'm on it.

bruh...do it!! let me know what you think after....I love Christian Bale in that; he plays this inadvertently funny/adorable aging con artist, unlike any role I've seen him in.... theres a scene where he brings home a microwave, calling it a "science oven" and gets into an argument with JLaw over it....whole scene is so great; makes me laugh so hard every time....also got 10 Academy Award noms as well....

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LOL I love con movies, my favourite genre so you've sold me

I'm about to get engaged end of this month. Just wanted to sort out the living situation first. Having said that ours is not a typical marriage arrangement, which I don't think either of us would have been entirely satisfied with anyway to begin with. So as for the "institution" itself, I've no idea.

Posted by Metatron

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by Metatron
I can relate to everything you said....in many ways, life does feel like a fall from grace, or innocence in the sense that I've now done so many things that I've always had these self-righteous judgmental stances on towards others....Even further than what you shared, I thought I was a super loyal dude most of my life, and experience has definitely taught me otherwise....I just try not to be too hard on myself....I'm learning to let go of guilt....I think its important to be remorseful for specific things when they happen, but you can't just walk around feeling disappointed with your self constantly....Most people are dishonest hoors to some extent, in my experience, and if you hang around them long enough, you find that out....

If you accept/forgive the things about your self that you dislike - times you were dishonest, the jealousy, etc., I think the behaviors are actually less likely to occur....The more positive your own self-view is, I think the less envious you will be of others, and the less you have to hide from others through deception for instance...

"There's always going to be a part of me that's sloppy and dirty, but I like that. With all the other parts of myself. Can you say the same about yourself, treetrunker? Can you forgive? Are you any good at that?"

hahahaha....you crack me up dude...I love that movie, and that scene....JLaw's character reminds me of an ex.

That film is so rewatchable, time after time.

Weirdly enough the lines of her character remind me of me lol or more realistically butter I wish I'd said years ago.

it really is....will probably buy it if Netflix ever drops it....both Lawrence and Bradley Cooper are also in American Hustle, and David Russell directed and co-wrote both, and its the same for me with that movie - can watch it again and again....love the dialogue, the humor, etc. And yeah, I agree on her character in Silver Linings as well - a little honesty/vulnerability covers over an abundance of crazy....

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I haven't seen American Hustle but if it's the same team then I'm on it.