I often have lunch at my office with a sweet and wholesome cancer and an awfully brash Aquarius. The Aquarius loves to challenge our opinions and i'm all for an occasional healthy debate. However, without recognizing it, this Aquarius makes, rude and "unnecessarily honest" comments mostly towards the cancers, appearance or soft love parenting style and my problematic brand of feminism. Recently however she went after me when I made a joke about her fiancé and she in turn insulted my intelligence.
Her office bullying became worse when a more intelligent and competent, scorpio lawyer started working with us. In group dynamic in order to re-establish herself as the smartest most logical one, she puts down the cancer we work with. I was not going to let her continue to bully the cancer and make these judgements about me, so I decided to confront her.
I pulled her into my office at the end of the day and spoke to her about her mico-agressions and cruelty tourettes. She immediately got defensive and told us that if we didn't want people to call us out on our appearance or life style choices, we should change the way we are. But after calming her down and letting her know I was coming from a good place, she became more receptive.
This failure to accept responsibility though for her bullying is something so typical of air signs. Air signs are bullies, look at Trump, look at Jordan Peters. And they refuse to apologize! I cannot surround myself with them because of their superiority complex. Capricorns have a superiority complex as well, but at least they hate themselves so that makes them more relatable.
The fist Cap sun and Taurus moon and I had amazing chemistry, we couldn't get enough of each other. But I was distrustful of him. Now that's not because I'm not an "emotionally insecure" woman. Scorpio's intuitions are usually hundred percent correct. He was hedging his bets and seeing other women. Our relationship fell apart because we couldn't communicate or trust one another. We do however still see each other every month or so, to have dinner and lusty sex.
I thought Cap's just might be too emotionally distant for me but then I met another who became my everything. Cap sun and Leo moon, he gives me all his time, is genuine, humble and one hundred percent honest. A multi-millionaire, but not at all flashy like my previous Cap and has little interest in the "player life." Our conversations are dynamic, intelligent, humorous, everything I could ever want... I could see myself marrying this person but we don't have a sexual connection! Oh well, hopefully I find another cap soon.
I have facebook, Instagram, twitter, snapchat, linked in. Everything.
I rarely post on Instagram. I hate trying to project an image that my life is cooler than it actually is. I'll leave it to virgos and leo's to do that. I do like using Instagram to message B or C list celebrities.
I have fights about politics and misogyny on facebook and twitter.
On facebook I post a lot of sexy selfies with self-deprecating descriptions. If I just posted a selfie I would probably feel basic and embarrassed for myself.
I'm forcing myself to post more on linkedin because I need to build a personal brand for myself.
I can be the most loyal partner. But if you are projecitng butter onto me, saying I could be adulterous... overtime i'll push you away and become your worst nightmare. I hate having to explain to someone how much i love them. If you go over and above for someone you're dating, they shouldn't harbour thoughts like "she will eventually turn me into a cuckhold."
Someone whose paranoid about cheating is probably themselves a cheater.
I went out with him on the weekend and am reminded about how difficult capricorn men can be. Too much earth in his chart, means the only emotion he allows himself is melancholic self-recrimination over a lack of perfection. He was in a bad mood at the begining of the night talking about his failures. He sensed I was in high spiritis so is first impulse was to bring me down to his level. That gave him a sense of control and power. So sadistic.
But at least he was happy and warm after we had sex. Only think cap men are good for. Lusty sex.