I wish people would adopt pets! They're already spayed and neutered and they need homes and it really sad how many are destroyed because people just don't care!
Why buy one from a mill there are so many good ones that really need someone!
My ex-boyfriend had a girlfriend and she was not well and abandoned her animals. My sister and I went every week for over a year to feed them some 30 miles away. They went semi wild and you couldn't get them in the car! One of them was a puppy and as sweet as could be. She stayed with us but was so aggressive from having to fend for her food that she was fighting with my others at the house. I had to take her to the ASPCA, and boy that was hard! I called and wanted to find out if she was ok daily, and they said I couldn't keep making calls down there bothering them. Weeks had gone by and I thought of her everyday feeling very guilty!!! Then I was at the Home Depot watering my plants (I was a merchandiser), and I turned to leave to go home and there she(the pup) was in line. They were holding a DLH/parvo/rabies clinic in the parking lot of Home Depot and she was there with her new owners!!! They were a young couple that just loved her. If I had left any sooner, I would not have seen her. That was one of those blessings that makes you just say thanks!!
You sound like your heart isn't in it all the way! If it was, you wouldn't have all the questions! You gave out a whole lot of information, but what I picked up on the most was, that you are both playing games and expecting each other to figure them out. Like read each others mind. If I were you, I would maybe ask him over for dinner or go out, and see if you can both come to an understanding about how you feel towards one another. See where the relationship is going. This back and forth is just tying up your life and is wasting time and energy! Find out for sure and then you can start living!
Good Luck and hope it turns out the way you wish!!!
I am a Capricorn woman and I was chatting with a Sagittarius man for about 10 months. We talked on the phone all the time I mean everyday a few times a day for hours at a time. He was living in NY and took a summer trip with a group touring part of the Country. Then he moved across the Country with friends. We didn?t date anyone because there was such a connection we wanted to see where this might lead. After he moved he started acting funny. I asked him if he met someone? He said no and finally said there was a girl from work who needed a place to stay so he let her move in with him and his roommate. He said she was sleeping on the couch. Then he said she was sleeping in his room and in his bed but he wasn?t ?sleeping with her?. I?m really not stupid. I told him if that?s what he wanted then that was fine with me but I was really hurt that we never did meet to see what might have happened. I was also hurt that he didn?t tell me for a long time. I think he wanted me not to date while he was. He wanted to keep me as a back up. Well I started dating again and he flipped out. Calling me yelling at me. I couldn?t take it anymore so I stopped answering my phone when he would call. We didn?t speak for about 5 months and he started calling again. This lasted for another 3 months and the last time we spoke everything was fine he was back in NY for a family emergency. He said he would call me and let me know what was happening. Never heard from him again.
Friday I came on-line and seen his screen name. I debated weather to send him an im or just leave it alone. I had stopped coming on-line for a long time. After an hour of yes?no?.I sent him a message I just said it was nice to see him on-line and I hoped he was doing well. He responded and we chatted off and on all day. He asked for my phone number again, he said he had been going crazy looking for it. I gave it to him and after we both got home from work he called and we talked for eight hours.
He was living with a girl and he had been in my city for work about 2 months ago. After he got here his girlfriend he was living with called him and told him she couldn?t take it any longer and was moving out and was gone before he got back. I think that?s why he was looking for my phone number. This was the second girl he lived with since we stopped talking in the last 14 months.
He asked me what I had been doing and I told him. I have never lied to him and am not about to start now. I had been dating a few men. One was pretty serious for a while but since then I have just dated a few men. Now I have an 11 years old son at home and I don?t let anyone around my son unless I know the guy will be around. I don?t want my son to get attached to a guy if he?s not gonna be around. He said he was sorry he messed up with us and he missed me and still loves me. As much as you can love someone for just talking.
He said it was strange that after all this time we were talking again and it felt like we had never stopped and maybe there is a reason for this. Everything was great when we got off the phone.
Saturday he called me and flipped out. It was all about the guys I had dated. He acted like I was cheating on him. I tried to tell him that I was just dating them and yes the last date I had was a week prior and that really seemed to bug him. I tried to explain that I never lived with anyone like he had. Big difference?.he wouldn?t accept it so then he had to hurt me. He told me there was a women across the street from where he lives that is married but he was going to sleep with her before x-mas. I told him to do what he needed to do and that we just needed to be friends and he could see whoever he wanted to see and that I would do the same. He didn?t seem to take that every well.
Well he was on-line yesterday and I sent him a message that just said hi, how was your day. He waited for half an hour b
What do you consider a good first date? Where would you like to go? Would a barbecue joint or pizzeria be fine or would you want something upscale? I think on a first date it really doesn't matter where you go, except the drive through at McD's, it is about getting to know someone you like! What do you think? Your thoughts on this would be appreciated!
There is my baby, 12! OOps I am not trying to hit on you! That is a compliment. That means, I like what you have to say! I respect you!!! Twin souls and soul mates are never simple and can be rough on a person! Like you said, when you do happen on to them, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND!! Try and take it slow and easy and enjoy the ride!
To really know the difference between the 2 check out www.astrostar.com/twinsouls.htm
Go to the "message boards".
We really need to seek our "other halves"! They are out there and we EACH have one. This web site has made me laugh, made me cry but most of all has given me peace of mind AS WELL AS HOPE knowing that others out there can relate to what I know!
But to respond to your question. Lust is just that...LUST. It's WANTING SOMEONE and nothing else :o(
Of course it all depends on where and what you're looking for in your life at any particular time. If consciously you're just looking for sex at that time in your life than you will attract lust. So enjoy! :o)
Love on the other hand CAN GROW out of friendship and can be eternal according to the above web site and that will be your other half? To me it'll come down to what I feel inside. One WILL JUST KNOW when they have found the OTHER ONE who was meant to be with them for all eternity! It's a beautiful feeling!
I have always been searching for my "other half" and know in my heart that I have presently found him. All my other relationships have been "learning experiences" leading up to this one as far as I'm concerned. What a difference your "true" other half will make in your life. It's like no feeling in the world. PURE BLISS IMO! But ohhhhhh what a roller coaster ride it can/will be? Time and patience ARE A MUST in these cases!