did he lie to you at any point ? life is just weird sometimes.. sometimes things work out..sometimes they don't .. why not just except it for what it was, and what it is.. a story..an adventure.. with lots of feelings..there is no black and white..or right and wrong..don't think he meant to hurt his wife..or you or anyone.. maybe he was just trying to live life..
so...aries and second chances .. what's up with the aries who first chased me.. then after a couple months said he want it to be a relationship..then after 3weeks said he doesnt want me..then after a few weeks started contacting again..and now a few month later is seeing me again ??
i'm a gemini too, i had that , and i believe what he was saying was true.. but then one day out of nowhere he came and broke up
the way i see it .. we gemini sometimes put a bit too much emphasis on words.. like it means sooooo much..when to aries actually it just means exactly what the words say, in the moment they are said .. if that makes any sense
it could be a very very hurt gemini thing.. or at least a gemini who is sooooo annoyed at how some old stuff turned out , that he is given up on 'too fast,all at once' feeling and is taking it based on : fine..i ll try something different now..since all other stuff blew up in my face
@gemsandsugar : u might be on to something with that universe testing thing.. i was with a guy a year ago, then started seeing a second guy so after a while broke up with first.. then that second guy ran away..so i got together with the third guy..then he ran away and the first guy came back..so i got back to him..and now the third guy is kinda back again.. so all in all i am in the same situation from a year ago.. confused unable to figure out what i want..(not even trying to figure out what the guys want.. ) its hilarious...except not really.. llol
''What was the outcome with that guy? Did he ever come back? I don't know if i should hold on and wait but i don't want false hope ''
the guy kinda came back.. he started chatting to me a few weeks later.. first it was randomly like once a week.. now its almost every day.. but i dunno what he wants ..haven't asked him..and.. my life is kinda different now ...so..not sure what i want actually..
but what do u mean false hope.. go live your life .. if u dont want her anymore in a while.. then it wasnt worth in anyways.. and .. geminis are curious..so..she'll want to know what you're up..
yeah..after some time.. give her enough space to realise it's more sad to not be in touch with you then it is scary to be with you .. when i find someone i think is amazing, even if my head is stuck in a story telling me i can't be with someone.. i'd still wanna be friends with them ..
then again...maybe u shouldn't listen to me.. i was never 'nice enough' to tell someone what she told you..i usually have no problem using someone to get over someone else..
so.. maybe do that..give her time..don't contact for a while..then start contacting slowly as a friend..and u ll see where it goes .. (i 'm 28 too.. double gemini.. and kinda get you both..lol..a guy pretty much did to me the same what she did to u, but then again i kinda feel what she is saying to you towards someone else ..) what sign are you ?
How old are you guys ? or she ? it could actually be true .. all she says .. sometimes.. we just get caughtup with some story-theory- in our heads..
also.. over the years..i've learned for myself..that my feelings are often just late..very much in wrong timing with the happenings around me ..like..even right now..i am giving my feelings time .. to catch up with my head..but nooo they re still caught up on something.. but i ve seen it before..so.. i am dealing by waiting it out.. (as side effect i am not sleeping very well..but..ah well... and now i rambled off subject.. sorry =) good luck ! she might come around !
i m kinda the same.. there's pple i click with within first 10min..and then i ll talk for hours.. with the rest..no idea what to talk about.. and those that i click with.. its rare.. i wish it happened more often