Hello all! What's the steps?

Step 1 have conversation and ask her out? If sex in the early stage they pull back a bit and test her? Or they will texting her all the time after that?
I texted him last night and I just tried to have a fun talk with him and he was as well, at the end he said sth like then you should come to find me, then I replied you should come instead (we live far from each other) then I said a good night but he didn't respond for that, I can't read him I can't tell what is it in his mind... he sometime slightly flirt with me but not that much and me the same

I wanna know how they will act to the person they like to move into a relationship?
As we known each other from tinder I'm extra insecure... i know I shouldn't slept with him that early but too late. Maybe if he doesn't text me anymore more then that is an answer? It hurt. That's not how Scorpio treats someone they like right?
Should I just wait him to text me or should I text him again? I actually text him once just letting him know I got home and he did reply in short
Hi all, last weekend was the second date with my Scorpio, he asked me to join his frd's birthday, I felt that he always create some chance to get close to me and next to me the whole night he asked me questions seems wanted to know me how I think about something and also we had fun time after that we slept together we had a great time and then the next day he walked me to the train station he kissed me before we split, but then he didn't text me after that, I'm a bit confused cos when we talked he said sth like next yr we could go somewhere together seems (before sex) and before we split he still gave me a kiss but he doesn't text me after that? Seems like nothing happened..

Is he just wanted to sleep with me that's all? I feel sad as I think we do had a great time
He is totally gone, he changed 360 all of a sudden....
Just an update:

He has been texting me everyday since after we met(2weeks), fun, jokes, compliments, telling me how much he misses me and will come to find me soon, but since yesterday he seemed stop saying much, I never text him first but every time I reply to his text and keep it fun.

I'm just a bit worry when he changes 360... hopfully he is just busy. He replied to my msg but didnt say much like before, literally just replied to what I said
That's it? Any others good news?
I wonder any Sag man out there married over 10 years and still in love???
so what are the signs that sag man in love with loyalty with someone? e.g. report everything to you,,, message you everyday,, always want to spend time with you?
I'm older than him 2 yrs and im not serious about him now just always make fun of everything whenever we talk so maybe that's why he likes me a lot? He report to me on everything and text me all the time,

now I'm thinking should I just back off.. I don't want to develop deeper with him if he is not loyal
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I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.


may i ask what happened at the end?




We're still good friends but he was emotionally abusive and I got tired of it. I don't like mind games and constant testing. For example, he would say things and then later when I asked him why he said it, he would say he was only joking or didn't mean it.



so he didnt cheat? the loyalty is important to me and it seems like is hard to find this on sag men?!


No, surprisingly. He was very loyal. Even in the end when we weren't getting along, he accidentally emailed his journal and he wasn't cheating. That being said, he has cheated on every other girl he's dated since we broke up, even the one he says he loves and has been with for over a year. Be very careful. It takes a lot to keep them loyal.
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you must be very spacial to him! it sounds so tiring to keep him loyal then.... sad, he seems so interested in me i think b/c of the different culture or i joke about things around sometimes but sometimes im so quiet and i enjoy silent sometimes as well...
Posted by confusedlibra78
Posted by Virgo_m
Posted by confusedlibra78
I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.


may i ask what happened at the end?




We're still good friends but he was emotionally abusive and I got tired of it. I don't like mind games and constant testing. For example, he would say things and then later when I asked him why he said it, he would say he was only joking or didn't mean it.
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so he didnt cheat? the loyalty is important to me and it seems like is hard to find this on sag men?!
Posted by confusedlibra78
I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.


may i ask what happened at the end?


what??? they will never go into a serious relationship with anyone?
thank-you all replying me!!
Hmmm... i think there is very small chance that he tries to use me, cos he is not poor he has a great career in his country and he actually invited me to go to his country but i rejected him.
i dont know should i trust him, it is unreal for me. how can someone fall that hard in a very short time?? saying want to marry me and have kids and he has been asking me lots of questions that he seems really want to know me more, also he has been texting me all the time since he left my country, even though he had to work right away so tired but still keep texting me.

is this normal for a sag man? what he acts it will fade out soon right?
i think he is just being curious of me in the initial stage that's all? he is not being serious about me right?
What r the signs when sag men ready for a serious relationship? How will they treats a girl?
He just said that he will come back to me next month, I think what he is doing is crazy b/c we are far away from each other, I can't see our future
Hi all, I just met a sag few days ago and he already saying he wants to marry me, it sounds like he is so easy could say this to any girls.. we spent those few days everyday while he was here, I felt like he wanted to spend all his time with me he even put his work behind, and he has been being sweet to me always care of my feeling.. but he just came to my country for work and now he left but he still keep texting with me and said that he love to see me again and will try to come to my country soon again, also he asked me to come with him to live together..

I would like to know that does sag men just doing this for fun or what?
What are the signs that a sag is serious about a girl?