Even before the relationship phase...the pre-dating phase when both parties are clear they are interested in eachother but are not around eachother enough to consume the fatal attraction that's been going on for over a year...for me as a woman I feel that it has made my heart grow fonder...but what is it like for men? I haven't heard or seen my heart throb for more than a month .
That's very true to an extent...in a way I know deep inside that the reality could never be as good as the love affair I replay in my head...NEVER, our imaginations are better than any motion picture much less reality..haha. It feels like I"m trapped inside this soap and every season you want to cry out 'get together already!' but things that start as a slow flame tend have less tendency to crash fast, if you know what I mean. I have resilient pacience and have done things right....not pushing, remaining mysterious, and just giving a simple 'green light' message.
As I've been making it a hobby to understand the Taurus mind...I find that almost every piece of reading material includes that they are Slooooww when making love decisions about someone. I'm patient but not stupid if this guy doesn't make a move in the next few months I'm going to start to detox.
Ever since the fall of my face on the concrete for some guy AKA fatal attraction...the phrase itself has taken new meaning for me. It was a Taurus...correction it IS a taurus the attraction has never faded...which brings me to:
Principle #1 The attraction doesn't fade...I mean even if things suck between you, you still feel his energy from the other end of the room and your skin tingles at the feeling of him brushing by you.
Principle #2 It can start off as physical but a really bad fatal attraction reach es deeper than the physical realm...I mean you feel a CONNECTION...even if you barely know them. You can't get them out of your head and not just becuase you want to jump their bones...you wanna do that and walk hand in hand by their side while everything else around you disappears.
Principles #3 Fatal attraction is usually an energy that surges your body from it's core and it's gotta to be thrown back and forth in some way in order for it to survive....I guess it's possible to have a one sided attraction but it's miserable if the other person is not bouncing of some of the energy you are throwing...its playing ball by yourself ...it looses it's charm pretty quick...so my theory is in some way if you feel a fatal attraction and the other person doesn't seem to correspond to it, it is possible inside their mind they know there is some sort of connection they just don't want to explore it at that point in time..
P.S. I have been trying to get rid of the fatal attraction with my taurus for more than a year...I gave up and learned to live and let live....and after 10 months of not seeing him...I met up with him again and for the first time I saw a yearning in his eyes that he had not allowed me see before and it was evident after all this time that the feeling was mutual...The only barrier... another girl in his life , not the most functional relationship but....(when they are loyal they are loyal) so that being said. I've learned alot about my fellow taurus men, they will make you fall.
I just want to say there is something about you Taurus men...I just LOVE you! Hung out with 2 yesterday had such a blast...and they do tend to be charmed with scorpio and me (virgo)...my date just melted in my hands after I ended the night with a little massage on shoulder...you guys just love that don't you
Worry not...all feelings tend to reside with time..it has just taken me an eternity and remember feelings tend to be irrational sometimes and when we are more emotional than logical it can torment us to no end... Fortunetely I had more answers come my way in regards to my taurus...I met someone who knew him and pretty much confirmed that by his actions he must have had feelings but he too was dealing with his significant other and who knows what was the ordeal although he was honest with me from the start....and I think out of respect for his girlfriend he had to cut all ties....hohumm...
I recently found out he was single from another source and I was going to have this friend try to arrange something but I decided I don't want to manipulate anything that deals with love/relationships in my life.... Yes, this taurus captured my heart like no other. Yes, from every objective view point we were perfect for eachother. And yes, my attraction and longing for this dude was a feeling I wouldn't mind having with someone for a very long time. BUT, all things that are meant to be will come to us without our intervention, I really believe that...so it may time, but time will reveil our destiny..(ooo, kinda deep even for me)
Final thought, my friend who's aunt specializes in reading charts and relationship compatability according to b-day's said things that blew me away..
She said this man is viewed as a prince by many (oh dear including me) but in reality he's just a chariot driver. He will never lack for female attention becuase of his good looks and that we are not very compatible after all. I have to becareful with settling becuase I adjust easily...this comes from a person who doesn't know me from adam. I found it interesting!
I second that....It has to be the ideal situation for me....also raised Christian so unless a man manages to take from me my sexual inhibitions with just but a look, the ideal would be marriage...so old fashion I know.
Its' cool don't worry mercyinaries, it' s always gotta be the aries starting trouble eh?
"So what did you do when you saw him? please tell me you made a move or something...this was your chance girl!!!!"
Listen I was ready to sit down, and say "put me out of my misery and reject me now!" but my better judgement told me not to act on impulse instead cease the moment to have me place me on the map again if he had forgotten of my existence, I was friendly but not to friendly...it went smoothly actually...he greeted me asked about my life...and said I looked good...I gave a half compliment...not too pushy but friendly enough....and then I went off to do what I needed too and on my way out I said...."wow, it's like you never left....you miss it here? and he said 'yes, I really do" and right before I could spill my guts out someone came into the office and our conversation had to cease....so that was the goodbye and maybe divine intervention didn't allow me to get that opportunity, maybe not the right timing....at any rate if anyone would believe in fate, they would say there is something to this story...I don't know I do.
I just saw him tonight...by some freak accident he had to come back to where he used to work...thank God for flooding rain...he was cordial and pretty nice...after all it's been a while...........I don't know how weird is it that i havent' seen him since last October!
I agree....my suggestion run away while you can if it's uncertain...taurus men will get you hooked..I can't get over my crush and it's been a year...and I never knew if he acutally ever liked me........but its' true they don't initiate contact unless they REALLY like you...but let's face it how can they until they give you a chance to know how great you are right? I wonder at times if I had led mine by the hand it would have worked out different...ugghh sigh we'll never know now.
I came back and saw 23 replies and thought to myself Gosh I have some good feedback well not really more like chatter box central...it's cool guys...bite me will you yeah it may be a school girl fantasy type crush...its true, but remember we women tend to be irrational with our feelings at times...it's unlike me but having felt this strongly for someone makes me feel more normal more human...it just didn't work out how I wanted and I tried to play with the few cards I had....heres the old post from back in 10/2006...the whole story if your interested.
"I will try make this short becuase I need to get as many of you taurus men to help me out here....
I've had many crushes, but NEVER this bad....I mean this taurus I know is toxic for me, but I can't get him out of my head...but he has no idea what I feel and he works at the place I frequently go to...He comes across as very serious and almost intimidating but his reserved proffessionalism is what I find so sexy.....ahhh...seriously I wonder how chemistry this bad can be one sided.
Anyway in the last 6 months we've only become acquaintences...he's flirted with me very briefly, suggested we should go out for drinks sometime, but never made the move to plan...he stepped away and I started to really notice him, so I stepped in to help him after time passed and try to plan to go out, and it seemed to backfire, ahhh why are you taurus men so into challenges and games....to make the long story short, he started to ignore me so, we didn't talk for 3 months and finally he broke the ice and said he thought I had been mad at him....(this is so juvenile, I know but can I help how feel? nooooo)....I being the one to seek harmony with all my fellow men, made peace with him, and he started to compliment me again like he had done in the beginning.....
Now, I still like him but I don't know how to act he's so hot and cold.....ahhhhh it's frustrating but i know that if I try to befriend him he will pull back again, what do I do???
By the way he was in the middle of a break up with his girlfriend of many years....so not an advantage for me I know....life is never easy is it? HELP, I like him!!"
P.s. the real reason I came back, I feel like my friends think I'm insane and this place just seems like it has people dealing with what I"m going through and understand so thanks for the support....
P.S.S. the girlfriend who wants to hook me up is going to dig into his personal life so lets see...
I wrote a post on 10/22/06 about Virgo meets Taurus...if you have the time you can go and read it...if not in a nutshell...I met a taurus about a year or so ago, at the place where he use to work...he grabbed my attention like no other man,we almost went out but it never worked out. I have not seen him since he left last October of 2006...tell me why I my heart palpatates when I hear his name or why the brief memory of our interaction still lingers in my mind, I mean I had it BAD and I can't forget about him....and we never got a chance...he was just not that into me I guess...recently, someone we know mutually said they would pry into his personal life and see if he's available...what should I do? Its too hard to pass up....and at this point a rejection would feel better than the damnation to wondering what if....HELP!!!
why not to worry? sounds like he's slipped through my fingers already!!... you think a year huh? If I had any indication that there was something to look forward to I would sit back and relax but besides what I stated nothing...give me something to work with DA^&it!