Posted by TabathaDaPisces96
The key to a Virgo's heart is to fully surrender your feelings to him. Not some "I like you" or even "I love you" there must be depth to your emotions. The hardest part of any relationship is being open and honest. Fearing you might say the wrong thing or being overly invested will negatively effect the relationship. In the game of love, what do you have to lose if the relationship ends and you never see him again. You want to make impact on a virgo, dig deep into your heart and express your hearts content. They are very mental beings logic and rational. Love is what stirs them up emotions are uncharted territory which is why they tend to be affluent in that area. Be the captain of his ship, the compass of his soul and led him into the realm of love. Sounds like a lot of work yep but Virgos are worth it



So virgo men like to be lead?
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Posted by SirHorns
...has been the perfect girlfriend for me so far, like damn.

I can not find anything to seriously cookiemonster about on the boards. Hell if she knew I was written about her like this, her reaction would just be more fun to watch.

/sadist cap smirk

Though seriously though, The virgos that have come in and have been in my life have been nothing short of being blessings so to rest out there who get stuck with the unappreciative folk, know that there are people out there who DO like you for who you are and what you do for others.

Now if you excuse me, I have to mentally stimulate my virgo~ ;D


So.. how long til the doubt and self sabotage kicks in?

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My virgo self sabotaged our relationship lol

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We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.

He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.

I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.

And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?

He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.


What is his age?


24

So this is all you have to add to the discussion? No other thoughts or epiphanies?


I don't understand?

You posted a thread for feedback. What is the outcome? Did he text? Is he dumping you? Etc etc



He texted me this morning.
But that's it. At this rate I don't think I'll get another text for 6-12hours.
Not a big deal to some, but a big deal to me.
I hate the feeling of being ignored, and that's what it feels like. Whether it's intentional or not.
Like I said. Only takes 30 seconds to send a text.

I'm a bit confused though as the other night, I mentioned to him that maybe we shouldn't continue seeing each other. As dating stresses me out (I stress myself out) and because he's travelling at the end of the month, and I want him to be able to have fun.

And he sent me back a message (3 hours later!!)
That he thinks I'm over thinking things. And if that's what I want, then okay. Because he doesn't want me to be stressed out.
And that maybe we could just take it easy and see what happens.

We're all good now. As it was just a little bit of an anxiety attack on my end. And the lack of texts has nothing to do with it, as it began before that.
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When's his bday?
Posted by Pisciesperson
We've only been seeing each other for like a week now.
Still extremely early days.
However I have a lot of issues that stem with texting.
I've noticed a pattern in my love life where if there's a sudden drop in texting. It always ends up meaning they're over me.
So I'm a little eh right now.

He went from texting me every few minutes to texting me maybe once every 6 hours.
After I text him of course.

I will say he's been extremely busy at work these last few days, but at the same time it takes 30 seconds to reply to a message.

And isn't this the period where you're wanting to talk and get to know each other?

He said after our first date that he was interested in getting to know me more to see if he wants a relationship with me.
Not sure if that makes any difference.



Did you have sex yet
Posted by Lilianni
Be nice to him.
Include him in social situations.
Invite him to places! Text him first! That shows you care and is a huge plus.



Thanks you
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I actually get Virgos and Libras in real life mixed up sometimes. I think they're more alike than they think they are.


We our so much alike that's why we bumped heads and he couldn't put anything past me
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Story of my life
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A player can change but not a cheater.


Players are cheaters


What's your moon?
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I'm not sure my dob aug 29

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@Virgonique29

Some Virgo men would self-sabotage like that but some are probably just not interested in that person.


What if the person don't leave after self-sabotage and continues to talk to the virgo


You continue to talk to a Virgo that actively ignores you?

Is he more polite?

But more quiet?
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He never misses a phone call nor text ...

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A player can change but not a cheater.


Players are cheaters
Posted by yupvirgoo
@Virgonique29

Some Virgo men would self-sabotage like that but some are probably just not interested in that person.


What if the person don't leave after self-sabotage and continues to talk to the virgo
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@Virgonique29

you can always say it jokingly lol

also, do you have leo placements?


I'm not sure im aug 29

Posted by aj123
Hi,
I work in a lab based job (I am a Taurus Sun, Aquarius moon), female, early 20's in age.
She is a Virgo Sun Leo Moon, female, in her 40's.

She is not too good with English as she only moved to the country about 2 years ago and often asks for help, etc. whereas, I can speak and write English to native ability.

We were both hired for the same position at the exact same time. She had met with our boss before applying (boss is from the same country she is but boss' English is a lot better as she's been here longer, is more qualified etc.).

Often times, I've noticed my Virgo colleague being very competitive. Despite her English not being the best (most people struggle to understand her and I've often helped her with English when she's asked), she often uses charm and friendliness to gain popularity with everyone and is very smiley and polite. However, if she thinks I'm performing better than her, she'll almost throw a tantrum within herself and get very irritated (whilst still acting all smiley). She also envies me for having the same job title as her, despite being almost half her age even though we are very similarly qualified and I have enough relevant experience to do the job tasks properly.

She always talks to our boss in her own language and has often tried to gain manager-level responsibilities. Even though the boss is nice to me also, it is so obvious that she prefers the virgo girl as the boss is one of those people who favour her nationality people (out of the 200 or so people who work there, there are 4 people of her nationality and our boss only talks those 4 people for extended periods.. with everyone else, it's just 1-2 small talk). Sometimes, our boss has allowed the virgo girl to go for certain training but not me - without being able to give me a proper reason for why I wasn't included. It always seemed our boss almost subconsciously fears that if I progress higher than the virgo girl, it's almost an insult to their nationality (!?) which makes things difficult for me. If the virgo girl was the same nationality of e.g. a fellow colleague, it wouldn't be so bad. When it's our boss, it makes things difficult in my career progression..

but anyway, I notice her trying to take managerial responsibilities on a project "X" (maybe she's being promised a promotion if she can demonstrate manager level skill?) and it's very easy for her as she gets direct guidance on what to do step by step from the boss in her own language. I don't see why I shouldn't also be allowed to contribute equally to project X, since we both worked on it about a year ago (it was put on pause before being resumed again). At that time, we were both new starters at the job so we just did the labour work and all the admin/data management/recording was done by a more senior girl. Now, the senior girl has left so virgo girl thinks she should take this responsibility (I think we should both share it as we are both equal - she reluctantly agreed to it..but:

The job includes about 5 various tasks. She has told other collegues, including me, doing the labour work to hand in the sheets when completed to her for her to "sign it off, make final edits etc." (1 of 5 tasks) as if she's a manager. I said I could gladly edit and sign off my own sheets.. she wasn't happy about this but she agreed as she couldn't exactly say no but all our colleagues hand in the sheets to her as they either started before/after us and/or work in different work areas so are not too bothered in competing. Even then, she signs off her name below mine on my sheets saying she made further changes/edits (when she had not) just so she can say she signed off all sheets, presumably..

Task 2 is periodically printing out new datasheets for a lab process. She's done quite a few of them (with guidance from our boss in her own language) and sent out a big email to the entire team basically boasting about having printed off the sheets ready for use by me, her and our colleagues - (she did make it seem like she sent the email as guidance but why send it to everyone in our department.. rather than just people involved in the project, if not to show off?!)

The other day, there came time to prepare more of the sheets. She was busy with another task so I looked at previous examples (since I don't have the privilege of boss' guidance like she does) and created the next few sheets and put them in the folder. 15 mins later, I was busy in the lab, she walks past me, whilst forcefully stabbing the corner of an tray right into the middle of my spine, painfully JUST for contributing to a task that wasn't even allocated to her. I knew she did it on purpose as she didn't say sorry and walked past stony faced (usually she is very smiley) (she seemed so angry to physically assault me for simply doing a job task - she doesn't own the task! but I guess she was annoyed that she couldn't say she created ALL the sheets for the project..

I've noticed in the past also, if we are doing a physical sorting task and I happen to be going faster than her, she'd keep nudging/bumping/brushing past me to distract me so I'd slow down and not finish before her..

I don't know what to do - it seems so unfair that she's hindering my progress at work just because of her jelousy and the fact she thinks I'm not entitled to be at the same position/salary as her as I'm a lot younger than her (which is totally unfair as I worked hard to get to where I am).

She is also very overly confident (probably due to her leo moon) and thinks she's the most amazing, talented person in the world and gets frequently annoyed if people don't understand what she means (due to her struggle with English but she thinks it's the other person being stupid).

Otherwise, I would not mind as it would be a fair battle but it really isn't as she holds the affections of our boss (due to their shared nationality, boss treats her almost like she is her daughter) so if virgo girl says anything about this, I'm sure it would be me punished with fewer career opportunities or even worse, termination.

Also, virgo girl is about 6 months pregnant and due to go on maternity leave in about 2 months - which is why she's being extra fire-y and competitive and is already talking about being back at work as soon as possible after the birth despite it being her first, very much longed for child. Hard to believe someone could be so awful as to physically assault someone when they are pregnant for barely any reason at all..

What's the best way to deal with this all??


I think the problem is you , you talk too much and you're worrying about the wrong things. Stay in your lane
It's only the 3rd date ! Why would he cut off everybody for you if you've just started dating. Why would you cut off your options? You're dating there's no commitment yet. Never put all of your eggs in one basket
Posted by CapAquaGirl87
I am Cap/Aqua cusp he is Virgo. We exchanged number 2 weeks ago and since then, speak every day all through the day. There is no doubt in my mind he is interested in me. BUT he has stood me up THREE times now to get together. Always with some type of excuse. Him being tired, not feeling well, it being late, just some BS excuse right before it is time for us to casually get together. What the heck?!?! I for a bit thought he was trying to have me as a hookup partner based off of the things he would say, but now I don't even know what he wants at all! He takes all big, bad and confident right up until it is time to get together. Is this typical Virgo behavior? I almost feel he's afraid of me? I'm about to throw in the towel. The Capricorn in me is NOT pleased. I do not like rejection or my plans changed. Ggrrr.


He just wants to treetrunk just being completely honest and sounds like he already got what he wanted