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waterbearer_fem
joined November 23, 2016
Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Definitely moon sign for me. All important men in my life (including my dad and brother) are Gem moons like myself. We kind of get each other instantly.

    In friendships Water suns work well.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by Pervert
    Posted by Mujer_latina
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    Posted by rejuvenatedheart
    Air


    but why?

    Because they don't have feelings


    they are afraid of feelings. they do have it

    meanwhile earth accepts them and controls them


    Feelings are in the head of an air sign. They don't feel it they just analyze and analyze and then react over it analytically. Comes out to be cold everytime. โ„๏ธ
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    Analyzing feelings implies having feelings in the first place.

    But I'd say Air, too.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by GemCurio
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    Posted by GemCurio
    I divorced this Aqua woman 8 years ago. Haven't spoken to her in 3 years. I received an email today from her saying she's found some documents of mine and would like me to come get them when I'm available. What is she up to? Previously years ago I asked her for something I really wanted specifically. It's been 3 years since that conversation and these documents weren't on my mind. Help please and thank you...


    Oh Dios Mio! What exact do you need help with?

    What was your response?


    What does she really want from me?? I told her I could meet her either Thursday or Saturday depending on when she was available and was friendly about it, but why wouldn't she just throw it away? I can assume, but I would just like to know what would make an Aquarius woman find a feeble reason like this to contact someone she hadn't spoken to in years??
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    Unfinished business. A sudden change in her life, that makes her looking back and reconnecting. We're not very nostalgic and are able to clearly separate past from present. I don't think she wants you back all of a sudden, but something's on her mind.
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Cancer Mars, Gem Venus can act super detached, but they're not safe to fall for you after a while. Same for your Pisces Venus... But have fun as long as it fits!
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Me: Cap Venus, Scorp Mars

    Best Chemistry: Gem Venus, Cancer Mars
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Cap and Gem Venus for me.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by BondGirl007
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by iridium
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by iridium
    Air sun Taurus moon, attractive and oblivious


    I feel Taurus moons are a bit clingy to be Heartbreakers. But yeah air sun. But I would go with an air sun and a gem moon.

    With some heavy Uranus aspects.

    I know two guys. I will get their chart and check.

    One is an Aries and the other one is a Gemini.

    Another one that I didnโ€™t mention: Aqua sun Gemini moon


    I'm an Aqua with Gem moon... No, I don't think so.
    Thank God you said that. Coz my man is an Aqua with Gem moon. I was about to leave him when i read what Iridium posted ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
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    Don't! We're dope! ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by iridium
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by iridium
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by iridium
    Air sun Taurus moon, attractive and oblivious


    I feel Taurus moons are a bit clingy to be Heartbreakers. But yeah air sun. But I would go with an air sun and a gem moon.

    With some heavy Uranus aspects.

    I know two guys. I will get their chart and check.

    One is an Aries and the other one is a Gemini.

    Another one that I didnโ€™t mention: Aqua sun Gemini moon


    I'm an Aqua with Gem moon... No, I don't think so.

    Oh donโ€™t worry youโ€™re an exception and so is everyone reading this
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    Lmao. Sure. What about Mars/Pluto aspects? Air Mars?
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by iridium
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by iridium
    Air sun Taurus moon, attractive and oblivious


    I feel Taurus moons are a bit clingy to be Heartbreakers. But yeah air sun. But I would go with an air sun and a gem moon.

    With some heavy Uranus aspects.

    I know two guys. I will get their chart and check.

    One is an Aries and the other one is a Gemini.

    Another one that I didnโ€™t mention: Aqua sun Gemini moon
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    I'm an Aqua with Gem moon... No, I don't think so.
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Guilt trap... I've got a male friend who tried to keep me close with that. ๐Ÿ™„ I've cut him off. Toxic sh***!
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Care less.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by tdang
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Posted by EvatheDiva52
    Posted by EvatheDiva52
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    I have Gem moon myself and I'm dealing with with a Bull/Gem moon and we're not flaky at all once we've made up our mind about you.

    If you need reassurance contact him, make plans for a meeting so you both have something to look forward to. If he tells you he's busy trust him. LDR need a good foundation. He seems to be a sweet guy, be confident. All the best!


    He's content with what he's found (a young chickie from the USA); he can now proceed with his life as normal knowing he has you. Wouldn't you think like he does in this sense? You gotta put yourself in his shoes. I'm Piscean; meaning I pick up a little of the 11 outta of the 12 zodiac signs and this is what I sense about him. Let's hope this doesn't kill you (not hearing from him); since, you decided to put an okay to this LDR. To me, like I said before, I don't do LDRs. I want to call my man if I see a chickenroach at my house and have him drive to my home within 20 minutes (just a metaphor). I want to touch the right side of my bed and feel his warm body next to me. I want to wake up w/him in the morning to kiss him good-bye while I jump in the shower myself and remind him, "To take out the blue recycle since today is TR (Thursday) for recycle day" AND actually hear him open the side gate of my home to roll out said bin. I want him to tell me, "I've made coffee for you, Babe, don't forger to turn of coffee maker" etc etc etc etc. But then again, you're not me, and I'm not you.

    cyber hugs!

    Love,

    Eva


    I'm don't do LDRs either, I never could and it's more to it than just my physical needs are not met... but to each his own.

    It just doesn't make sense to me to scare the OP bc of a notorious moon placement. We're not that bad!

    I always enjoy your little stories btw!


    Is it safe to assume it's just a combination of being busy/a little complacent rather than him just losing interest? Most of the guys my age are easy to reach which means them ghosting is very, VERY obvious but he's very much so a "don't really like texting unless I need to."

    Honestly my overly inquisitive, NEED to know mentality is going to be the end of me. I'm so sure of it.
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    He's the only one who can tell you for sure. If my bull tells me he's busy with work he gets in touch less as well. No need to worry. He'll come around.

    The guy already told you he doesn't like texting? He doesn't like texting. Do you talk on the phone once in a while? It's probably very important to maintain some kind of communication that works for both of you.

    I know exactly what you mean by overthinking things, but I can assure you it will settle with age and experience. If you wanna talk to him, go for it. Just don't take it too far by telling him all your worst case scenarios.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by EvatheDiva52
    Posted by EvatheDiva52
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    I have Gem moon myself and I'm dealing with with a Bull/Gem moon and we're not flaky at all once we've made up our mind about you.

    If you need reassurance contact him, make plans for a meeting so you both have something to look forward to. If he tells you he's busy trust him. LDR need a good foundation. He seems to be a sweet guy, be confident. All the best!


    He's content with what he's found (a young chickie from the USA); he can now proceed with his life as normal knowing he has you. Wouldn't you think like he does in this sense? You gotta put yourself in his shoes. I'm Piscean; meaning I pick up a little of the 11 outta of the 12 zodiac signs and this is what I sense about him. Let's hope this doesn't kill you (not hearing from him); since, you decided to put an okay to this LDR. To me, like I said before, I don't do LDRs. I want to call my man if I see a chickenroach at my house and have him drive to my home within 20 minutes (just a metaphor). I want to touch the right side of my bed and feel his warm body next to me. I want to wake up w/him in the morning to kiss him good-bye while I jump in the shower myself and remind him, "To take out the blue recycle since today is TR (Thursday) for recycle day" AND actually hear him open the side gate of my home to roll out said bin. I want him to tell me, "I've made coffee for you, Babe, don't forger to turn of coffee maker" etc etc etc etc. But then again, you're not me, and I'm not you.

    cyber hugs!

    Love,

    Eva
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    I'm don't do LDRs either, I never could and it's more to it than just my physical needs are not met... but to each his own.

    It just doesn't make sense to me to scare the OP bc of a notorious moon placement. We're not that bad!

    I always enjoy your little stories btw!
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    I have Gem moon myself and I'm dealing with with a Bull/Gem moon and we're not flaky at all once we've made up our mind about you.

    If you need reassurance contact him, make plans for a meeting so you both have something to look forward to. If he tells you he's busy trust him. LDR need a good foundation. He seems to be a sweet guy, be confident. All the best!
  • waterbearer_fem
    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Libra rising: how you approach love at the beginning, your ideal type

    Gemini moon: where youโ€™re most comfortable in a relationship, how you want to be nurtured and cared for

    Capricorn venus: your โ€œtrueโ€ venus and values in love

    Aqua mercury: how you express affection, how vocal you are about love

    Scorpio mars: how you approach sex, seduction, and flirtation


    Still not sure about my Cap Venus. Some kind of obstacle sometimes...
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    You're demanding. Who ended the relationship? I can't remain just friendly with my exbf's for whatever reason. There's always one part who didn't want to break up as much as the other. Are you sure he isn't still into you? Then he clearly doesn't want to be around you everytime you're asking, don't you think?
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by lisabethur8
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Thanks for your replies, what troubles me is that I've already told him twice that whatever he's projecting onto me, I'm not reciprocating. He doesn't seem to believe me for whatever reason. Everytime we interact (E-Mail or personally) it starts out as a professional conversation, then he bugs me with his private stuff.

    I'm not good at rejecting people who need help/advise at all (and he has real trouble going on), but I've never sent mixed signals. It was obviously wrong to offer him friendship in the first place.

    ๐Ÿ™„


    gurrll ur NEED to help him is overriding everything else professional...your boundaries are porous.
    fine if he's also giving out vibes of platonic, but naw...um.. he wants to get close.
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    I know! You're so right. Inner Aqua says I have to solve every damn problem of every undeserving individual around. ๐Ÿ˜–
    Except mine.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by exsqueezeme
    Throw him in the bin and run away screaming


    I would if I was scared. It's more like dafuq.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Thanks for your replies, what troubles me is that I've already told him twice that whatever he's projecting onto me, I'm not reciprocating. He doesn't seem to believe me for whatever reason. Everytime we interact (E-Mail or personally) it starts out as a professional conversation, then he bugs me with his private stuff.

    I'm not good at rejecting people who need help/advise at all (and he has real trouble going on), but I've never sent mixed signals. It was obviously wrong to offer him friendship in the first place.
    ๐Ÿ™„
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    I met the Scorp two years ago at work, we've had a nice conversation about literature and arts and exchanged numbers bc I offered him help with some editing. He is married and has a little son. He gave me some information about his struggling relationship and I was polite but distant bc I was already just falling for my Bull at that time. Every conversation was strictly work related to me.

    Nevertheless the Scorp started to call me in the middle of the night, trying to invite me for dinner, meeting for coffee etc. I told him I'd be listening if he needs somebody to talk to but that's it. He just doesn't seem to get it! I really like to work on his manuscript but he makes it difficult for me to talk to him at all. How should I handle this?