Water dominant airhead

Posted by TaurusInShania
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Posted by MissM
My ex was a gemini moon and he could be affectionate but he wasn't good with verbalizing his emotions or even when he was angry at me. It was a very toxic relationship. We use to push each others buttons a lot. We were together for 3 years, it was very passionate but I think he did cheat on me. I had no proof but I caught him lying to me multiple times.


I have the same problem with expressing an emotion. When I get angry I can't say anything right. I just end up making noises like Arrrhgghh!! Even if I try to explain a good emotion. If it's intense, I can't explain. The biggest choke up I've always had with past relationships was answer the million dollar question a woman would time and time ask again and again "Why do you love/like me?" I always get blank and say I don't know or because I do.


SO HOW WILL I KNOW WHEN HE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP IF HE WONT EXPRESS IT?


You will know if he wants it. When there's an exceptional urgency, we will let you know. But don't expect verbal declarations of love or something, we can't do that. Funny, we must be the most eloquent moon sign and when it comes to emotions, we're suddenly choking on words. All the feels!


HAHAHAHA... that is so funny... mix it with his taurus sun and hell be a mute when it comes to emotions. i can so relate and thank you for clearing it up lol.
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I know what you're talking about, Taurus Sun/Gem moon is talkative, that might help communication in general... but they just can't respond properly to an affectionate message/sentence.
Posted by LadyNeptune
My sisters cancer boyfriend had a Gemini moon.

Dude was bad news.

Ended up STILL being married even though he swore his ex was his ex. He also lied to her about how much $ $ he had coming in each month. He was behind on his kid payments too (he had 3 children he hid from her). She also rushed into the relationship and living together so that was part of the problem.

It didn't end well.


He's just an marker! My cancer-ex is also a Gem mooner, he would have never ever cheated on me. We're better than our reputation.
Posted by TaurusInShania
Posted by Dreamyboy
Posted by MissM
My ex was a gemini moon and he could be affectionate but he wasn't good with verbalizing his emotions or even when he was angry at me. It was a very toxic relationship. We use to push each others buttons a lot. We were together for 3 years, it was very passionate but I think he did cheat on me. I had no proof but I caught him lying to me multiple times.


I have the same problem with expressing an emotion. When I get angry I can't say anything right. I just end up making noises like Arrrhgghh!! Even if I try to explain a good emotion. If it's intense, I can't explain. The biggest choke up I've always had with past relationships was answer the million dollar question a woman would time and time ask again and again "Why do you love/like me?" I always get blank and say I don't know or because I do.


SO HOW WILL I KNOW WHEN HE WANTS A RELATIONSHIP IF HE WONT EXPRESS IT?
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You will know if he wants it. When there's an exceptional urgency, we will let you know. But don't expect verbal declarations of love or something, we can't do that. Funny, we must be the most eloquent moon sign and when it comes to emotions, we're suddenly choking on words. All the feels!
Quick-witted, easily bored. Keep us entertained, keep us on our toes. I feel very comfortable in long term relationships, but it takes a lot (time, effort) to get me this far. Able to talk myself out of emotions, able to stray when I feel the slightest doubt. Gem moon 9th house (seeker).
I stay away. I need some "cooling time". Unfortunately I'm rather passive-agressive, but if I care about you, I wanna talk things out once I'm back in normal mode.
Posted by OrGasMe
How are Aquas feeling about this week?

This week has had a riculous amount of obstacles. Interesting how it's all happening at once.


Interesting, I've felt the same but approx. two weeks ago. I can still sense it though. I need a different approach. I need decent people. I need love. (Needy Aqua is unhappy Aqua).
You're excluding. It's mostly like: You are an Air sign? You have no idea! Gtfo.
Posted by DMV
I love Venus in Taurus but they just play games with my Venus in Capricorn


You can't play games with a Venus in Capricorn.

Posted by EvatheDiva
I'm really sorry to hear that! But why have you really dropped him, if you don't mind me to ask? It all sounded very balanced in the beginning, even communicating long distance... no Taurus trait.


Uh, you must be mistaking me for another; we don't have a LDR; we live 20 minutes from one another in San Antonio, TX. Let me refresh your memory: I met him on POF in July 2017. We realized we have the same mutual friend, Lucinda, and both Taurean and I went to Lucinda (& daughter's b-day party at Midnight Rodeo in 2015; 2 years ago, and we NEVER noticed one another that night). He introduced me to Bitmojies and that was our "communication". Bitmojies. No long texts, no long telephone calls, no, "Hey, I want to take you out Friday/Saturday night". I WAS the one that initiated the "invite"...he'd text, "I will let you know Saturday/Sunday". He texted me at 11:30 pm on Friday night (his son had a football game) and he asked if he could come over. He did. We only saw one another for one hour as I was sleepy and we kissed good-night (or good morning). NO SEX!!!

I keep making excuses as to his "distance" 1) since I didn't give him a piece of azz that's why he's "distant" 2) I have an 11 yr old and he has a 17 year old (maybe he doesn't wanna raise a woman's kid) 3) I make more money than he does, own my own home, and well, I make more money than he does 4) I am 8 yrs older than he is (maybe that's why he was distant) 4)......... 5)...... 6)...... 7). ...that's what I mean when I say, I'M DONE! I don't stay where I'm not wanted. I don't go for the bull*butter, "Give them time, they are slow, they analyze, they are looking for a "wife", they get depressed when they don't have $ $ , they are hard workers and "sleep", etc, etc. I am a BABE....next! (Meaning, since they say y'all don't understand a Piscean -- if he thinks I can do better than him; yeah, I can). Next! (plenty of fish in the sea).

cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: thanks for allowing me to VENT.

I see.. I can remember the Bitmojies though! I think I have the same problems with some typical Bull traits as you.

Patience is no virtue of mine, so I handed over the reins right when I met him just to see where he will get us from there. What I really can't handle well is that they're staying in their comfort zones until they HAVE TO leave it and I also know about the money/depression thing... not able to talk about problems, avoiding conflicts at all costs (I'm currently getting the silent treatment because I allowed myself to vent my anger about a trifle!). He is the first guy who makes me wonder if I should kiss him or slap him next time I see him.
Posted by lisabethur8
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Posted by lisabethur8
gemini in general is attracted to sagittarius (which is about freedom ironically)

and taurus is attracted to scorpio (opposite attractions) so, if you are scorpio dominant or have personal planets in scorpio that would help alot. lol



We both have Gem moons, he has Sag rising.
I am Scorp dominant, he has a Pisces Venus.

I've checked out the synastry before, out of curiosity.



i've never seen a Gemini moon Aquarius with another Earth sun with Gemini moon.


I've only seen a Gemini sun with a Gemini moon reverse with water suns.


how was the synastry?
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Synastry says we're the perfect match if we can make it work. I have a proclivity for Gem mooners, I already sensed he has one when I didn't know it. I guess it makes our Suns communicate with less effort, too.

Posted by EvatheDiva
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Posted by EvatheDiva
What would you suggest to keep him interested, if that's what I wanted? Not to mention that I have no idea what I want in the first place.

She hasn't answered. Why? She's rolling her eyes (dropped mike).

cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


Thanks for the input, I already got that. *rollingeyes* It's not that funny though, ladies!



It's felt even here in Texas Doll....think you have to do some "thinking".

cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I dropped my Taurean (no sex, not date, communication trickled down to doo doo, I did all the salutations/good nights, going home, etc, yeah, he texted back in a nano second; but I'm done!)
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I'm sorry to hear that! But why have you really dropped him, if you don't mind me to ask? It all sounded very balanced in the beginning, even communicating long distance... no Taurus trait.
Posted by EvatheDiva
What would you suggest to keep him interested, if that's what I wanted? Not to mention that I have no idea what I want in the first place.

She hasn't answered. Why? She's rolling her eyes (dropped mike).

cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


Thanks for the input, I already got that. *rollingeyes* It's not that funny though, ladies!

Posted by Sodapop
I would stop sleeping with him if that's what he's really like then. Sounds like a dangerous thing to play with.


It is. I was thinking about that right in the beginning, but shove it off. Now I got to bite the bullet.
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by waterbearer_fem
No drama, please.

Just for you hehe
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Dealing with a Bull, I've made my homework.
Posted by Ram416
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Posted by Ram416
I have a love/hate relationship with Scorpio mars.

I've encountered the worst and the best of Scorpio mars. That placement either annoys the treetrunk out of my moon, or gels well with my Mars (Cancer).


I love the dynamics with Cancer Mars.. but you're right, if it's bad, you're getting out the worst in each other. My ex-bf has this placement.

I agree with @AbbyNormal wholeheartely. You cannot kill a Scorp Mars, literally. We are the last (wo)man standing and we have all the time in the world.


Cancer mars are drawn to the mysterious scorpio mars. Speaking from experience


Not really. Speaking from experience.
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Of course! I'd go for a Cancer Mars male anytime... but without Gem Venus. That sucked.
Posted by Ram416
I have a love/hate relationship with Scorpio mars.

I've encountered the worst and the best of Scorpio mars. That placement either annoys the treetrunk out of my moon, or gels well with my Mars (Cancer).


I love the dynamics with Cancer Mars.. but you're right, if it's bad, you're getting out the worst in each other. My ex-bf has this placement.

I agree with @AbbyNormal wholeheartely. You cannot kill a Scorp Mars, literally. We are the last (wo)man standing and we have all the time in the world.
Close friends and family consists of:

Aqua female - There's so much mutual understanding, yet she's so cold.

Cap male - I take almost anything from him, he's hard but fair.

Pisces female - too self-absorbed atm, treetrunk off.

Aries female - always a reminder to follow my instinct and my heart, not my moods and my mind.

No ranking, just current thoughts.
There's my answer. Right there. Thanks again.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
It's not 'freedom' that a Taurus Sun/Gemini Moon seeks

(maybe a Mars or Venus in Gemini)

It's emotional structure.

My current man is a Virgo, my ex was a Scorpio...

Notice, neither of them are Air Signs.


If you continue with this no strings attached setup, then you will continue to remain in this cycle of conflict.