Water dominant airhead

OMG! Thank you very, very much. That took me by surprise - at least a little bit.

I've met the bull last year in autumn and we both have had really bad break-ups earlier that year, so we weren't looking for something new. We've established a great friendship by now but we're still beating around the bush concerning our feelings. We're spending most of our spare time together atm and we have so much in common we're already finishing each other's sentences - it's weird, it's beautiful, it definitely has a lot of potential. Thank you for encouraging me not to be afraid when my airy aloofness pops up.
I could already sense that this might be huge.
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I'm gonna read the charts in my thread guys... If you need a reading from me, post them here




Have you seen mine I've posted a while ago? I'd be super-excited about your opinion..


I will read the charts from today... But I will follow the order tho 😊
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Thanks, I try to stay patient.

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I'm gonna read the charts in my thread guys... If you need a reading from me, post them here




Have you seen mine I've posted a while ago? I'd be super-excited about your opinion..
Posted by DiamondAce
Thanks for posting this. This describes exactly how it went with myself and the Bull I met. I wanted something deeper (not just physical) and I knew he had it but he never shared it so our conversations were very, very light unless I brought up deep conversations and his response would be a few words or an emoji and nothing extended. We got along great with no drama from me mostly. He would visit his child inside of his old house whom his ex wife lived in but I never questioned his trust. I think he liked the no drama part of me and was used to females reacting more dramatic. He had a quick temper that would flare here and there but seemed to get over it quick as well. He was way more judgmental than I was on physicality and sexual orientation and I knew that would be a huge problem as I was not that way but I knew not to debate about it because I can't change someone's view. Chemistry in bed was great, light conversations were great, we're both active (dating stage) but I think what would not work out is his love for mostly himself and the unforgiving nature vs my love for not only him but for many people that he would disagree with. I really wished it would've worked out but there were too many red flags. He also told me not to flirt with any guys around him but turned around and did it to me with no remorse. Red flag so I pulled back all of my emotions.


Thanks for sharing, I'm sorry it didn't work out. I recognise some similarities between your Taurus and the one I'm dealing with and they bother me tbh... would you mind sharing some of his placements (Venus/Mars, moon)?

Posted by MaxPower
Anyway, I do have a theory about how Scorpio-dominants decide they're being lied to when other people would not see it that way.

It's the fact that they are naturally so very careful, that they are calculating, that they do research (and some of that research is sometimes nefarious), that they hold back what they will say until they have all the facts...so they won't make a mistake. So they won't tell an "accidental lie." The other 11 signs are simply not so careful and calculating. If a Scorpio assumes they are, they are assuming the person is acting as they would have acted.


That's quite impressive, you put it in a nutshell... Truth is a big deal.

I'd also say that evolved Scorp/Scorp dominant/Scorp Mars people forgive loved ones dishonesty. We can hold grudges, but not for too long. But it would surely depend on the weight of the lie how we deal with it in particular.

Posted by saweetz1988
I am Taurus sun, have Aqua moon and lots of air in me.. he has sun in aqua n lots of water. Boredom is def not in us... prob a little bit too unpredictable from my side ..


Interesting, I am the watery Aqua in the unruly connection.. I'm no bored either, not a bit. Me and the Bull have both Gem moons, though.
Posted by OrGasMe
*Bump*

Aqua/Taurus sex experiences?


In general I think it takes a while to even recognise that there might be a chemistry between Aqua and Taurus sun. If you wanna get there the Aqua has to be even more intuitive/empathising and the Bull in motion has to move carefully to not scare the Aqua away..

I can imagine that earthy Bulls would bore us to death... a Taurus with heavy air placements is a different thing in my experience.
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Thanks in advance!
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Sorry to interrupt, but can anybody tell me how to post the charts in here? I'd love to try this out.


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Thank you!

Sorry to interrupt, but can anybody tell me how to post the charts in here? I'd love to try this out.
Dominant sign: Scorpio
Dominant element: Water
Dominant house: 3rd
Dominant quality: Fixed
Dominant planet: Pluto
No, I never got back to an ex. You can't switch feelings randomly on and off and I'm still thinking on my recent ex-bf, but I closed the door and it will remain closed. We seperated for a reason. It almost takes me as long to commit myself as to finish a relationship.
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Sun:

1. Cap
2. Gem
3. Sagittarius
4. Aqua
5. Scorpio

Moon:
All my love interests have one thing in common: freakin' Gem moon..


oh wow. my ex leo had a gemini moon... but it kept clashing with my taurus moon.
what's your moon sign?
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Haha... I'm a Gem mooner myself. The guy I'm seeing atm is a Taurus sun/Gem moon.. my ex-bf was a Cancer sun/Gem moon and I'm usually not a big fan of Cancer guys (sorry!). I've learned my lesson: never underestimate the moon sign.

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Posted by compy
For Aquarius, love is not the same as it means to us, the other signs. Love is so universal to them, that it cannot be distinguished between loving people in general and loving an individual. To love an individual though, they can certainly do it, but only after a very long period of trying to figure out between various shades of love. But when they do love the individual, it's for an indefinite term and it's so deep that can consume them if they choose the wrong person. It's a very long way until reaching this point and many prospective partners usually give up a long time before that. And Leos usually burn fast.



I'm a Leo but at the same time you cannot wait an eternity for an Aquarius to make up his mind whether or not he wants to be with you for the long run. If they feel loving someone deeply is too much then why get involved in the first place? Why make someone fall so hard for them and then they turn around and leave them hanging with the "I love you to death" and so on?

Not knowing where I stand doesn't sit well with me. I feel like I'm just one of many options although he told me he loves me. It's not a nice feeling to be thought of last.


You need to talk. If he already told you he loves you, you shouldn't doubt it. What is it that makes you insecure? Aquas tend to be lovely to everybody, but aloof towards the people they love the most.. We're paradox and illogical at times and we know it.



hm my husband doesn't complain. I have been loved before by other men in the past and my husband loves me a lot; he doesn't think i'm aloof to him, he knows how to get to me and make me warm and lovely.

I think everyone is lovely to everyone because if you're mean to people and bitter, then that's not good either you know?

but if they are mean to you first, you just go what the treetrunk?? ok...*shoves arm sleeves up* let's find out whats going on here!!

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That's cute! LOL.. I know what you mean, I was talking about the initial stage, comparing to the Aquarian humanitarian traits. Every Aqua male in a relationship I know is really sweet and dedicated, but it takes time to persuade them.. I'm sure we can agree on that.
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Posted by compy
For Aquarius, love is not the same as it means to us, the other signs. Love is so universal to them, that it cannot be distinguished between loving people in general and loving an individual. To love an individual though, they can certainly do it, but only after a very long period of trying to figure out between various shades of love. But when they do love the individual, it's for an indefinite term and it's so deep that can consume them if they choose the wrong person. It's a very long way until reaching this point and many prospective partners usually give up a long time before that. And Leos usually burn fast.



I'm a Leo but at the same time you cannot wait an eternity for an Aquarius to make up his mind whether or not he wants to be with you for the long run. If they feel loving someone deeply is too much then why get involved in the first place? Why make someone fall so hard for them and then they turn around and leave them hanging with the "I love you to death" and so on?

Not knowing where I stand doesn't sit well with me. I feel like I'm just one of many options although he told me he loves me. It's not a nice feeling to be thought of last.
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You need to talk. If he already told you he loves you, you shouldn't doubt it. What is it that makes you insecure? Aquas tend to be lovely to everybody, but aloof towards the people they love the most.. We're paradox and illogical at times and we know it.
Sun:

1. Cap
2. Gem
3. Sagittarius
4. Aqua
5. Scorpio

Moon:
All my love interests have one thing in common: freakin' Gem moon..
I have a lot of male friends too, simply because we share same interests/hobbies and I love talking to them and hanging out with them. I know some of the guys since I was a child, they're almost like family. I'd expect my partner to get to know and accept my friends, I wouldn't expect to befriend them. My love interest will always be the number one man in my life, no matter what. Let me see my dudes once in a while and we'll all get along fine.
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Possessive. It seems that we treat our partners like a personal property.


I don't agree fully, it depends on how balanced and mature the Aqua already is... I've never seen a partner as property, it rather feels like belonging to each other and both parties being aware of it. We're capable of really deep feelings. Frightening stuff.

I feel calm and comforted they're just not a real romantic connection yet like yeah I'm attracted to him and I think he's very sweet but there's not a fire yet on my end if you know what I mean not that there always has to be one but there seems to be one on his end and I'm like OK we haven't known each other very long but my feelings for the other guy could be clouding this as well. He did tell me he was a little codependent in relationships and he hasn't had many relationships actually. He isn't smothering me which is good I'm just worried about jealousy And anger he doesn't seem like an angry person at all he's almost to calm. I just keep waiting for something to happen LOL
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As calm as a sleeping volcano... LOL. I know what you mean. Take your time as well. If you wanna be with him make sure you're a safe bet. He won't tolerate doing things by halves.
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Possessive. It seems that we treat our partners like a personal property.


I don't agree fully, it depends on how balanced and mature the Aqua already is... I've never seen a partner as property, it rather feels like belonging to each other and both parties being aware of it. We're capable of really deep feelings. Frightening stuff.