Water dominant airhead

how did you fall in love/how did you know it was real

I have a hard time falling in love, I'm picky and I need a lot of mental stimulation first, lots of communication. Be my friend. I won't change you, don't try to change me. Be utterly yourself. Make me laugh. Keep me occupied. Let me breathe. Be passionate about something. Get me. Take your time.

Once I know I can cope with your flaws and still feel the same, I'm screwed... it has always been real from this point on. I just feel it when it's too late to counteract.

what is true love to you?

Mutual understanding. Unwavering trust. Bringing out the best in each other. Physical fireworks.

what made you fall out of love

My recent ex-bf starved me: emotionally, mentally.

and what are your placements

Aqua Sun
Gem Moon
Libra Rising
Cap Venus
Scorpio Mars

Posted by TheTinMan
Posted by waterbearer_fem
I can be lazy at times and I enjoy my time outs once a week, but most of the time I have to occupy my body/mind to be properly satisfied.. It's hard just hanging around doing nothing at all/wasting my time with nonsense. When I think of it, you might be right that this could be a matter of age, I'm in my 30s and I was a veeery laid-back teenager.

Can't complain about my sex life, it's probably better than ever. Blame it on my Scorp Mars though. I'm definitely not lazy at all between the sheets, you're confusing it with Libra Mars.



Sweeeeet. Didn't know libra mars is lazy in bed. Seems like I was never the type that enjoys going out too much. I'd much rather date in. And by in I mean date at home. You can blame my cancer parts for that. As a teenager I was still lazy. Well sort of. I never liked school of any kind. All I went to school for was to get girls and free school lunches

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I didn't know either about Leeb Mars until recently. Do you think your Libra rising makes you lazy in the bedroom?

I remember being bored most of my schooldays. I've always learned easily so I just hoped that time goes by fast every day so I'd have time for things I'm really interested in.
I have Cap Venus/Scorp Mars and I have quite a temper.. my air/earth placements make me kind of passive agressive at times and before discussions end in disaster I usually back out and calm down. I try to think before I speak/act.

The Cap placements should make him more diplomatic.
I can be lazy at times and I enjoy my time outs once a week, but most of the time I have to occupy my body/mind to be properly satisfied.. It's hard just hanging around doing nothing at all/wasting my time with nonsense. When I think of it, you might be right that this could be a matter of age, I'm in my 30s and I was a veeery laid-back teenager.

Can't complain about my sex life, it's probably better than ever. Blame it on my Scorp Mars though. I'm definitely not lazy at all between the sheets, you're confusing it with Libra Mars.
Mental stimulation is the only way to open my legs. In between the sheets I do not think.. the less my brain's involved, the better the sex. Emotions? They add on.. so I guess I'm the mental-physical type?

Scorp Mars.
Dear Taureans,

The bull I'm connected to is currently very busy to execute an important work project. It's something he always wanted to do and he's really passionate and determined about it. I'm always there to support him mentally because I love seeing him happy and content with what he has already achieved. He keeps me updated about the state of affairs. Although he's so occupied he has managed it to take time for me at least once a week during the past two months. We spend some quality time (sleeping in, watching movies, going out for dinner etc.) and then part for our workweeks. His project is almost always talking point and I'm fine with that, cause I'm really into him and what he's doing.

I'm a bit insecure how I should handle his high ambition in future because I don't want him to miss out on important opportunities because of me (and I can already tell now he will have to invest even more time and he will have to travel a lot to get things going, this is just the beginning..). It's up to me to show consideration for his schedule atm.

Does a bull appreciate a partner who steps aside to give him room to unfold whatever he needs to unfold? Or should I claim our time together more clearly because he will be in need of some kind of haven anyway?
Female Aqua interested in a bull, so not exactly what you were looking for..

But if we're talking strictly about the sun signs, it's defnitely a tough match.
Water and air have weird dynamics. Even though I have a lot of water in my chart, I can hardly cope with the intensity of water dominant people at times. My Aqua placements make me run away regularly respectively avoid in-depth situations because I know once I'm hooked.. damn!

Just get out of that bed, girl!
Posted by Miamia13
Posted by waterbearer_fem
I'm a Scorp dominant Aqua but for me it's more about balancing my emotional and my rational side out. Awkward.


Aside from making decisions with my actions. I also get caught up in being emotional as opposed to emotional. Some days I reach emotionally intense to the most silly things. Other times I am extremely rational. I think the Scorpio dominance for me can put me on a roller coaster of emotions.

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Roller coaster, hell yeah. I've also noticed that the Scorp placement makes me fiercly strong-willed and the contradiction is: deep down I know exactly where the road's taking me, but most of the time I have no idea how to accomplish things and how long it will take me. Impetuosity leads to unpredictability, hesitation makes me go nuts. Paradox indeed!
I'm a Scorp dominant Aqua but for me it's more about balancing my emotional and my rational side out. Awkward.
Posted by VampScorp
Posted by uchiha
I think we flirt alot without knowing it lol


You're right! I genuinely think I'm just being friendly however. When you take an interest and engage in conversation people get confused by our vibes.
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So how do you know a Leeb Mars is actually flirting with you?

I feel emotionally quite stable (knock on wood), I was recently contacted by my ex-bf who ruined me for some time last year and I was truly fine. My new love interest is keeping me entertained as well, we just go with the flow right now. Enjoying the finer things in life.

Job/finances/family good too. Can't complain I guess.. luckily I'm not Venus dominant. How's about you?
Wtf. No. You can't win this with keeping up having sex with him and being available whenever he wants.. he is in a relationship. Karma's a cookiemonster. Time to retreat, that's the only way of figuring out his true intentions. The bull won't move, why should he?
Posted by capitalism
Worst placement I have.

Makes you lazy and indecisive. Puts a filter on everything I'm feeling.


Cloudy perception? Can you give an example?

Posted by Cherrylips
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Another charmer here....but what I don't like is my avoidance of conflict. It scares me a little....the thought of having a fight with certain people....ugh....I just don't wanna do it.


How do you deal with conflicts you can't avoid? Charmers, oh yeah. You know exactly how to snow somebody.



I'm passive agressive...I have this look on my face, honestly! It intimidates people so they don't confront me or start a conflict with me.
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I'm sure that's your Scorp sun, I can be quite intimidating, too! Speciality: resting cookiemonster face..
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I'm a Scorpio with Libra in Mars.

As a person I seek fairness and peace, I hate conflict! I love hard (obsessively) I struggle to say no because I don't want to upset people. Despite all of this, if I am pushed to the absolute limit I will explode and assert myself but manage to still say treetrunk you gracefully.

What I hate about libra in mars? I feel it completely contradicts my scorpion sun. I feel my personality is a little jeykl and Hyde - typical libra I guess, I'm indecisive, even when it comes to knowing who I am. So I just roll with it lol


I'm a Scorp Mars, Air Sun, so I can feel you.. I have the opposite issues.

I've never dealt with a Libra Mars before and I've already noticed that you seem to be quite striving for harmony. I'm not quarrelsome, but I have a temper and I need to have it out with you to settle a difference.. that's a bit frustrating at times.


Yes, thank you. I'm often confused and then kick myself for not trusting my intuition. What 'problems' do you face with conflicting signs?

I've learnt so much, and I'm still learning. This site is actually informative despite some of the 'days of our lives drama', that seems to occur daily 😂



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I think I can hardly cope with instability and indecisiveness regarding emotions.. my water Mars makes me deadsure about how I feel once I've figured it out..

Fictional Water/Air Mars dialogue:

Libra Mars: I feel so drawn to you tonight, I wanna buy you a star.
Scorp Mars: I've already bought you a damn star, do you wanna take it home eventually for treetrunk's sake?
Libra Mars: What if you want to have it back tomorrow?
Scorp Mars: (steady gaze)
Libra Mars: So sorry! (cringes)


I agree on the daily dramas here.. but once in a while there are helpful and sweet souls posting as well.
Aqua Sun - Cap Venus

Likes: I take relationships seriously and I'm light-hearted at the same time.
Dislikes: I can be cold as treetrunk on the surface.
Posted by SofiaV87
Libra Mars here 🙋🏻 I like my sexual experience to be beautiful , I'm kinda picky ugh .. I'm a charmer or so I've been told , I like to be fair & to compromise .. I'm not passive aggressive , more like assertive


Can you explain the beautiful experience? Certain craving for aesthetics in the bedroom?
Posted by Cherrylips
Another charmer here....but what I don't like is my avoidance of conflict. It scares me a little....the thought of having a fight with certain people....ugh....I just don't wanna do it.


How do you deal with conflicts you can't avoid? Charmers, oh yeah. You know exactly how to snow somebody.