waterbearer_fem
joined November 23, 2016
Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Sunday!
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by tctaa
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Just spent a great afternoon with my bull at his place - he bought me a bottle of Champagne bc I've helped him with something work related, he cooked, sunny day, dolce vita. We planned to make a short trip at the weekend. Everything's fine! A neighbor lending him a hand with some crafting at his property appeared - boom, the party was crashed. Sudden switch of mood out of apparently nothing.. Too noisy, too stressful was the only explanation. He offered me to bring me back home, what he did. Wtf.
    Why are you so damn moody? What throws you for a loop? It's a pattern and it's kinda annoying and frustrating... I just don't get it. I'm just trying to not take it too personal.


    Tell me more bout this neighbor that appeared - I sense that may have been the wrench in the gears - but I might be wrong. I don't like it but it's who/how I am - if someone calls or bothers me too much without a pre-arrangement; I am not always able to handle that well. I don't mean a SO; I'm talking outside person like a neighbor or a telemarketer or my insurance agent calling me at 9pm on a Friday night to go over my policy. I told him to call back some other time and he never did. He seemed appalled that he couldn't talk to me and said oh this isn't a good time and I said no it isn't. And don't get me started on telemarketers. LOL

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    The guy's just some kind of a gardener, tends the trees, trims the lawn etc., no red rag usually. But yeah, probably a mix of bad timing and unannounced distraction. You can definitely rain on the bull's parade just by crossing his way if he didn't choose to cross yours.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by LadyNeptune
    Is the neighbor female with a tight ass?


    No, that would have explained everything.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by Boots1313
    Because we're a fixed sign. Stubborn, hard to move. Set in our ways. Blunt and we don't play games.
    If we don't like a situation we have no poker face.
    I sit there and stew with a resting bitxh face the whole time.


    I'm also a fixed sign and he doesn't lack Air placements either... Nonetheless he can be so caught in a situation there's no way out. I can be pissed but shake it off in an instant if I want to.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by Boots1313
    Posted by TaurusFlower22
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    Posted by tctaa
    Posted by TaurusFlower22
    Idk. We just do.
    And then we feel bad about feeling bad. So then we feel worse.
    Buy him some ice cream. He'll be good.


    you are so right lol we don't like it then we feel bad and if we say something it comes out wrong and then we really look awful lol - it's a conundrum lol

    I've gotten better at this the older I've gotten - or maybe it's just that IDGAF anymore click to expand


    Same here!
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    Ugh this is so true.
    I'm so hard on myself for even getting mad/upset to begin with.
    Then I feel really bad and end up in a pissed off at myself spiral.

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    I'm feeling this way too right now. When it happens I just wanna be by myself. Don't want my moodiness to rub off on anyone or offend anyone. click to expand

    Lol maybe it's a Taurus thing today, my boyfriend is moody also. We're all a buncha moody mofos click to expandclick to expand
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    Thanks guys, you made me laugh so hard! It's very calming to know you're all a bunch of moody mofos! 😂

    I can definitely sense that he feels worse when he sees he's making me mad bc of putting up a fuss. Hard to be angry at you when you're mad at yourself!
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by jeane
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Thank you both, yeah, I get that.

    I know him quite well by now and I usually stay calm and let him have his way when he acts like a spoilt diva, I'm no drama queen. I wish he could just be a little bit more relaxed at times. And it's annoying that little things can be so overwhelming. I'll never get used to that. 🙄


    just don't take yourself seriously in that moment. i normally pull a face or do something stupid, call him by his pet name, anything to make him laugh and then he snaps out of it. click to expandclick to expand
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    Thanks, I'm trying. I'm already better at taking me out of his mood swings immediately and don't make a fuss about it... Just acting normal. But can't hide completely that it's still irritating me.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by jeane
    don't take it personally, it's what happens when they internalise too much stuff. you've got two options; leave them be or....

    distract them.



    Best idea of course, but his mood makes it a bit difficult for me to go straight into distraction. 😉
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Thank you both, yeah, I get that.

    I know him quite well by now and I usually stay calm and let him have his way when he acts like a spoilt diva, I'm no drama queen. I wish he could just be a little bit more relaxed at times. And it's annoying that little things can be so overwhelming. I'll never get used to that. 🙄
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by pisceswoman123
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Pluto, Moon, Mercury. Yes, yes, yes.


    I didn’t find Pluto

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    Pity! Where are all the aliens? Being Pluto dom is tough! 😂
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Pluto, Moon, Mercury. Yes, yes, yes.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Just spent a great afternoon with my bull at his place - he bought me a bottle of Champagne bc I've helped him with something work related, he cooked, sunny day, dolce vita. We planned to make a short trip at the weekend. Everything's fine! A neighbor lending him a hand with some crafting at his property appeared - boom, the party was crashed. Sudden switch of mood out of apparently nothing.. Too noisy, too stressful was the only explanation. He offered me to bring me back home, what he did. Wtf.
    Why are you so damn moody? What throws you for a loop? It's a pattern and it's kinda annoying and frustrating... I just don't get it. I'm just trying to not take it too personal.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Men: Sag, Cap (if they're not too casual), Taurus, Virgo (the vain ones)

    Women: Aries, Pisces (most of them just know exactly what they can wear) , Gemini (best example for "effortless chic" imho)
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by WittyGem88v2
    There was another woman that he showed on his ig story (or did you say snapchat story?) thats a red flag. Aqua Bf showed me on his the moment we got serious. He was taking snaps of me and sending it to friends of his and then took stolen photos of me too.


    This. Use this Gem moon of yours, please. We are no option. Cut him loose.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Aquarius 13% (2)



    Sun and Mercury



    I don't believe you, Walt.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    I am not scared at all, that to begin with. But I can be a cold hearted cookiemonster just to protect my little heart if necessary. I really like my Scorp dominance in terms of emotional depth, I would be a complete Airhead (and at times I am) if it wasn't for that huge Scorp influence. There are other benefits like getting what I want most of the time and I really like that Scorp Mars... Sort of.





    Are you a Plutonian too?





    Posted by AstroPlus
    Posted by waterbearer_fem
    Scorpio Mars/Pluto 1st house (Scorp and Pluto dom)... 😬 You definitely don't wanna mess with me.











    And if this wouldn't be enough, Sun/Moon/Rising in Air, Gemini second dom sign. 😂 But I like my air placements!








    I don't think Scorpio and Pluto are all that scary, lol. I think it's mostly those that are afraid of change that are fearful of Scorp/Pluto. My life has been one constant evolution and transformation, so I've embraced change a long time ago. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Scorpio Mars/Pluto 1st house (Scorp and Pluto dom)... 😬 You definitely don't wanna mess with me.



    And if this wouldn't be enough, Sun/Moon/Rising in Air, Gemini second dom sign. 😂 But I like my air placements!
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    If it smells like a trap, it is a trap.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Posted by Airfairy215
    Met this guy and I really liked him (a whole lot). And could've sworn the feelings were mutual. However, haven't seen him in almost three weeks, hasn't attempted to see me and I have received sporadic texts within these past few weeks. When he texts again, which I'm sure he will, I'd like to end things. I'd rather stopnhim right there before I like him any further and it ends up going nowhere. We weren't official or exclusive, but I'd rather end things nicely rather than just ghost him.

    What should the text say? 😕


    You are the dealing with a Bull, right? I have a story for you: a few months ago I was dealing with the same thing: feelings were mutual, we seemed to connect on a deeper level - oops - he dropped dead. I stepped up and demanded an explanation. He was busy with dating another woman. I told him that I can't be any part of our whatsoever anymore and the result was him panicking, reconnecting and sticking by my side until now.

    If you want any closure, stand up, I think you have the right to know what's going on at least. It makes it easier to close a chapter. So be blunt, no beating around the bush! You will have your answer if you want it. If not, just leave him be. He will be back when there's nothing better out there, that's for sure.
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Finally some truth about us. Winking
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    Getting comfy with my inner Scorp
    Because there's too much difference in both combos and we're not living in a world where people make huge efforts to make relationships work it seems... Idk.

    I don't see myself with a Virgo bc I'm too flakey and bored too easily for their meticulosity and accuracy in so many areas of life. This just wouldn't work out at all. I adore my Virgo friends though, I like the qualities I lack.

    I got really close to a bull bc of his Air placements and our mutual moon. We're both stubborn af and it's no easy ride at all, I just think it might be worth it. Typical bulls are too predictable and focus on different things than Aquas.