Aqua Sun, Gem Moon, Libra Rising (Sorry, not sorry)

Thank you so much everybody for giving me some insight! The ViP guy I'm dealing with is pretty cool on the surface, but he tells another story when it's getting physical.. He's actually water dominant like me and his Venus plays a big part in his chart.. so it seems like you're control freaks because you're vulnerable and afraid of getting hurt? No offense, I am one too. But how can I show him that I'm no threat?
Hey guys, can you give me some insight on this placement (probably combined with lots of earth/fire)? What are you looking for in a relationship? When do you fall in love and what does it take? Do you differ between sex and emotions? Fire away! I'm curious!
Female friends: Pisces (3 years, 20 years), Scorpio (6 years)
Male friends: Capricorn (12 years), Virgo (15 years)
Posted by saweetz1988
Thank u for creating this thread... dating an Aquarius man can be tricky for us Taurus who need constant reassurance at times and consistency... that is very big for us.... I'm also giving lots of spaces which I do now... I feel like I do 70% of the chasing ... I like to communicate on a consistent basis... maybe that'd my Venus in Gemini talking... anyhow, how long have u been seeing yours and what's your communication like? How often do u see each other? For me currently it's like once or twice a week. We been seeing each other for 2 /land a half month now...


I have it the other way round and falling for a Bull is stressing me out. We both need our time outs, but we talk on a regular basis.. Right now we're both busy with work, so once or twice a week is nothing but a sweet dream..
I don't think so. You have to know me very well, then I can be charming as treetrunk. If I don't know you and I'm charming, it's me being manipulative.. Scorp dom. I know to get what I want when I want it. But I'd never do this to people I love! I can't fake authentic feelings.
I have ViC as well and it took my Cancer ex and me almost a year until we made things official. We both initiated during "dating time", but I was a little more observing than him. We've seen each other every second week, sometimes weekly at that stage. I was hooked from the beginning because I knew him before and we got a mindblowing chemistry (both Gem moons) and it was tough to hold back my feelings.

I could never tell how long it takes me to fall in love, it depends. I'm currently seeing a Taurus and I like him a lot, but that's probably a life task. One step forward, two steps back.. wtf.
Posted by palehooves


Anyone else with Scorpio mars have a hard time trying to keep your mars under control? Like to be logical and reasonable and not entirely ruled by your feelings?

Feelings suck.


Yes and yes.

My air placements keep me sane, but that doesn't mean at times I got a feeling my head's gonna explode the next minute. Irrational ratio vs. emotion drama. It really sucks.

I try to avoid the person I project my feelings onto at any costs bc this could cause collateral damage. I talk a lot with close friends, they know about my mania and how to cope with it. After a few days/weeks of successful controlling myself/reconsidering, the worst is over. Things fall into place and are put into perspective. Lucky enough.. once again.

Scorpio dominant, followed by Gemini. Hell, yes.
I broke up with my ex-bf because I wasn't happy anymore... the relationship was going nowhere. He took me for granted and stopped to progress and grow with me at some point. This was aggrevated by his tempers and his egocentric attitude. It was pretty painful because I loved him a lot and I tried to sort things out and took him back several times.. we just didn't work out!
I can hardly say it, it's just too much and makes me feel so vulnerable and awkward I can't cope with it most of the time. I barely can hear it. I can reciprocate, although I'm well aware it's not the same! I'd rather tell my best friends/family before I tell a lover and that's unusual.. But I'll make sure to let you know it if it's the case.

Aries was very quick in dropping the words, the Pisces guy I was dating was quite good at beating around the bush. My Cancer Ex told me once, but he always doubted about me. Bulls don't say it, do they? They put on a show.
Posted by P6X58DE


But i know by what you explained, Taurus and scorpio together... it's amazing, i'm not Taurus sun by my Taurus moon and mars combo with Scorp pluto make one sexual bastard lol.



So that might explain how I got entangled with a bull.. Scorp dominant/Scorp Mars. Thanks for the insight, I had no idea how that came about!

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Posted by waterbearer_fem


Jeez. Now you have to tell me about his chart.


Trust me he's not all that lol He was at one point but I'm over it. He really ... ugh.... I'm not going to speak ill about him... but

My Chart Compared to his: Mine is the left...he is the right side

Sun - .........Aquarius ....... Aries
Moon - ......Gemini ...........Libra
Acendant - Capricorn ...... unknown?
Mercury - ...Capricorn ...... Pisces
Venus -.......Aquarius ........Taurus
Mars -..........Taurus ............Capricorn
Jupiter -.......Taurus............Taurus
Saturn - ......Capricorn .......Capricorn
Uranus -......Capricorn .......Capricorn
Neptune - ...Capricorn .......Capricorn
Pluto - .........Scorpio ..........Scorpio
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Scorp Plutonians... oh my! I'm one too, 1st house.

I had my share of Aries guys, it didn't work out for me either. Thanks for sharing!

Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by waterbearer_fem


I actually used to have sex minimum 4-5 times a day for a whole year after me and my ex got married. pregnant and all. So yeah lol
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Jeez. Now you have to tell me about his chart.
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by waterbearer_fem
Posted by VirgoGent


I enjoy sex a lot more when I'm in a committed relationship and have a mental, physical, and emotional connection with that person.

It's saddening to read some posts on this site of couples only having sex once a week or month. WTF is that!? I want it a very bare minimum of twice a day.


Connection, yes and yes! But twice a day? I wouldn't even find the time.. LOL! And with the right partner I can be abstinent for quite some time, e.g. when in different countries.. quality over quantity anytime!


Everybody's got time you just got to MAKE time. Even with a toddler and a newborn, I still managed to have sex at least 3-5 times a week.
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Agreed! But there's still a difference between twice a day and 5 days a week imho.. and I would never undervalue my libido.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Also, I acchieve things through sheer force of will.


That's so me. If I really want something, I'll achieve it and I don't even need to set the world on fire. I often think to myself: be careful what you're wishing for.

Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by waterbearer_fem
I do not like it very much, but I can appreciate it.


Why dont you like it?if you dont mind me asking
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I'm not Venus but earth dominant, so I don't sense the Cap Venus that much but it surely disturbs my ability to communicate feelings verbally. And I'm a very verbal person, thanks to my Gem moon.. Saying the three little words? Nope. Forget it. But I will hold a monologue for hours why I can't tell you!

I do not like it very much, but I can appreciate it.
Posted by Aquarius3189
Never met a successful virgo and aqua pairing,i have an ex virgo we dont go well together since he is so indesive,he likes me then he withdraws then come back then withdraw again until i had enough and cut all ties with him after 5yrs he comes back again, i swear to god exes are like cancer they keep coming back 😂


Please don't tell my cancer ex. 😂

One of my best friends is a Virgo male, I love him to bits, but I could never imagine a relationship with him, neither does he with me.
He told me about a week ago: "You know how much I love you, but you need a very, very smooth guy. Like.. very smooth."
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Posted by waterbearer_fem
Posted by VirgoGent


I enjoy sex a lot more when I'm in a committed relationship and have a mental, physical, and emotional connection with that person.

It's saddening to read some posts on this site of couples only having sex once a week or month. WTF is that!? I want it a very bare minimum of twice a day.


Connection, yes and yes! But twice a day? I wouldn't even find the time.. LOL! And with the right partner I can be abstinent for quite some time, e.g. when in different countries.. quality over quantity anytime!


Twice a day is not a lot imo. Have a good morning and good evening romp. I can be abstinent as well when separated. I like to have both quality and quantity.
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Kinky! I'd take the good morning romp then.