Water dominant airhead

I feel emotionally quite stable (knock on wood), I was recently contacted by my ex-bf who ruined me for some time last year and I was truly fine. My new love interest is keeping me entertained as well, we just go with the flow right now. Enjoying the finer things in life.

Job/finances/family good too. Can't complain I guess.. luckily I'm not Venus dominant. How's about you?
Wtf. No. You can't win this with keeping up having sex with him and being available whenever he wants.. he is in a relationship. Karma's a cookiemonster. Time to retreat, that's the only way of figuring out his true intentions. The bull won't move, why should he?
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Worst placement I have.

Makes you lazy and indecisive. Puts a filter on everything I'm feeling.


Cloudy perception? Can you give an example?

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Another charmer here....but what I don't like is my avoidance of conflict. It scares me a little....the thought of having a fight with certain people....ugh....I just don't wanna do it.


How do you deal with conflicts you can't avoid? Charmers, oh yeah. You know exactly how to snow somebody.



I'm passive agressive...I have this look on my face, honestly! It intimidates people so they don't confront me or start a conflict with me.
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I'm sure that's your Scorp sun, I can be quite intimidating, too! Speciality: resting cookiemonster face..
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I'm a Scorpio with Libra in Mars.

As a person I seek fairness and peace, I hate conflict! I love hard (obsessively) I struggle to say no because I don't want to upset people. Despite all of this, if I am pushed to the absolute limit I will explode and assert myself but manage to still say treetrunk you gracefully.

What I hate about libra in mars? I feel it completely contradicts my scorpion sun. I feel my personality is a little jeykl and Hyde - typical libra I guess, I'm indecisive, even when it comes to knowing who I am. So I just roll with it lol


I'm a Scorp Mars, Air Sun, so I can feel you.. I have the opposite issues.

I've never dealt with a Libra Mars before and I've already noticed that you seem to be quite striving for harmony. I'm not quarrelsome, but I have a temper and I need to have it out with you to settle a difference.. that's a bit frustrating at times.


Yes, thank you. I'm often confused and then kick myself for not trusting my intuition. What 'problems' do you face with conflicting signs?

I've learnt so much, and I'm still learning. This site is actually informative despite some of the 'days of our lives drama', that seems to occur daily 😂



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I think I can hardly cope with instability and indecisiveness regarding emotions.. my water Mars makes me deadsure about how I feel once I've figured it out..

Fictional Water/Air Mars dialogue:

Libra Mars: I feel so drawn to you tonight, I wanna buy you a star.
Scorp Mars: I've already bought you a damn star, do you wanna take it home eventually for treetrunk's sake?
Libra Mars: What if you want to have it back tomorrow?
Scorp Mars: (steady gaze)
Libra Mars: So sorry! (cringes)


I agree on the daily dramas here.. but once in a while there are helpful and sweet souls posting as well.
Aqua Sun - Cap Venus

Likes: I take relationships seriously and I'm light-hearted at the same time.
Dislikes: I can be cold as treetrunk on the surface.
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Libra Mars here 🙋🏻 I like my sexual experience to be beautiful , I'm kinda picky ugh .. I'm a charmer or so I've been told , I like to be fair & to compromise .. I'm not passive aggressive , more like assertive


Can you explain the beautiful experience? Certain craving for aesthetics in the bedroom?
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Another charmer here....but what I don't like is my avoidance of conflict. It scares me a little....the thought of having a fight with certain people....ugh....I just don't wanna do it.


How do you deal with conflicts you can't avoid? Charmers, oh yeah. You know exactly how to snow somebody.

Posted by VampScorp
I'm a Scorpio with Libra in Mars.

As a person I seek fairness and peace, I hate conflict! I love hard (obsessively) I struggle to say no because I don't want to upset people. Despite all of this, if I am pushed to the absolute limit I will explode and assert myself but manage to still say treetrunk you gracefully.

What I hate about libra in mars? I feel it completely contradicts my scorpion sun. I feel my personality is a little jeykl and Hyde - typical libra I guess, I'm indecisive, even when it comes to knowing who I am. So I just roll with it lol


I'm a Scorp Mars, Air Sun, so I can feel you.. I have the opposite issues.

I've never dealt with a Libra Mars before and I've already noticed that you seem to be quite striving for harmony. I'm not quarrelsome, but I have a temper and I need to have it out with you to settle a difference.. that's a bit frustrating at times.
Aries (f) - Cancer (m)
Pisces (f) - Aqua (m)

and..

Air sign/earth sign relationships in general.. work out almost always better than the reputation.
My cancer-ex was always concerned about my health for example. "Do you drink enough water?" "Do you sleep enough?" "You need to move your ass, let's get outside." I really appreciated it, it was his way to show me how much he cared.

He also loved to cook for me, he just wasn't so much into washing the dishes afterwards.
Hey guys, how does this placement affect you personally? Which traits do all Libra Mars ppl have? What do you like/dislike about Mars in Libra?

Libra Mars experienced ppl welcome too.
I really adore Cap guys, I've had a lot of very close Cap friends over the years. Most of them are sexy, smart and easy to talk to. Very ambitious and vivid personalities! I've never had a relationship with one of them though, every time things were getting too hot somebody pulled the brakes for friendship's sake. I'm fine with that, wouldn't wanna do without them in my life!
Incredibly talented artist. Still hot as treetrunk!
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To sum this up:


I HATE YOU AQUARIUS WOMEN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART EVEN THOUGH I STILL LOVE YOU; I JUST CAN'T HELP IT aaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwww. ^^


Oh yeah, this might happen to you guys. No irony.

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@waterbearer_fem: She didn't actually introduce me. Her family knew of me and they would talk about me openly. I admit I wasn't in the right frame of mind after we broke up but in our last conversation she did say she hopes she doesn't regret her decision to break up with me and that she wanted to remain friends because she could imagine life without talking to me. That was 4 months ago and she hardly makes an effort.

Honestly if she just spoke to me, it would be about losing face at all. I have said that girl time and time again lets talk and clear stuff up. She agrees she wants to talk but over the months, we never have.

She is in a hard place between me and her parents as her parents don't agree with us, I understand that. I did make some mistakes and I have apologised for them. Can I message you my apology? I have left the door open for her, so if she doesn't come back then in time I guess she will regret her decision.


Sure thing, you can message me. Probably I can be a little more of help with that insight.
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I'm totally done. This validated my original concerns of him not being mature. He was sweet though! I hoped we could at least be friends! I dont have any animosity towards him. He apparently hates me!


No, he doesn't. But he would cut his right hand off with a knife before admitting it. Are all Cancer men in their 30's that immature when it comes to feelings? I've never found an answer to that question..
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In regard to my last post.

Okay, so I get it, i'm a Libra/Gemini I'm not nearly as emotional as my Cancer but GODDAMN! So, I decided to check if i was still blocked on Imessage. I wasn't. I sent a text about my crazy neighbors and he responded. We talked very briefly. I apologized PROFUSELY. He said he needed to be alone for while. that he was working on himself.

He seemed like he was poking his head out. So, I asked him what he was specifically so upset about to act how he has. He said it was for me "Comparing me to your ex, saying this was a high school relationship and stating you felt you were concerned you were wasting your time."...... WOAH! He took tidbits of things I said and made them sound so much worse. I had been apologizing for like 4 days and was over his behavior so I said " John, I never compared you to my ex. Although you did that to me for the first 3 months we were together. I never cut you off or stopped talking to you. You can be really consumed with your own emotions. You should work on that."...... He said "Cool, ill work on that" Blocked me again.

People argue. People say stuff when mad. To me this seems incredibly extreme. You'd think we had some awful relationship or something. We didn't. I feel like I coddled the butter out of him. I'm just so annoyed about how this is entirely about HIS feelings. I told him I was wrong for my approach, took accountability, told him I loved him, etc. He never even once said sorry for a thing. That is so selfish and stubborn to me. Woe is me.


Yes, he is. I've had my share of four years with a Cancer guy and he taught me patience and everything about his egocentric world view even if I didn't wanna know in the first place.. They tend to come to their own conclusions when they are insecure and moody. It's almost impossible to set things straight bc there is only one truth and it's theirs. They won't apologize or admit a mistake until it's almost too late to compromise and they take their time. Don't get me wrong, I loved him dearly, but it was impossible for me to make this work out on the long run. Stubbornness won't help with a Crab.
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Every single person I meet and click with is a Scorp or Cancer. Its insane. I need to STOP dating water signs though. I do not understand their emotions!!!!


I feel you. Scorp Pluto 1st house, Scorp Mars, Scorp dom. My ex-bf is a Cancer.. ironically, I just seem to attract Pisces and Cancer guys, no Scorp men for me. I won't go for a water sign again! Waaay to much drama and overwhelming emotions.. they're literally drowning me!
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@waterbearer_fem - Its a long story and its to do with my ex.

The short story is that I was a bit pushy with her after she told her folks about us and continued to be pushy after we broke up.

She slowly blocks me off everything and doesn't even engage in work related stuff (we work together).

Been through a massive period of realisation and sent her a long email apologising and explaining myself. Told her Id love to have her back but that doesn't work then I just want her to be happy. She has a cancer moon so I now realise she may be super sensitive.

The thing is that through out this period of distance sometimes she completely blanks me, sometimes she looks at me, some times she feels uncomfortable and other times she turns away.

I am trying to understand her behaviour. Its been 6 months since she has been like this with me....

Any advice is helpful


Never put pressure on an Aqua, it makes us run. Telling her it's fine if only she's happy wasn't very smart, we're proud and you have to convince us until we are dead sure you wanna be with us and vice versa.

Your only chance to improve the situation is to step back. If there are feelings left, she will let you know in her own pace.


So weird. I literally walked out of an Aqua's birthday party that I planned (found out she was a compulsive liar). Over half of the party left with me (including some of her friends)....and she STILL has me connected on social media. Found out she likes the image of having friends so she keeps photos up as well, but you'd think she would block me for SURE.

I just think it's weird that some people get blocked for being pushy with Aquas, while on the other hand I CHOSE to burn a bridge with one and didn't get blocked.


This Aqua girl is a waste of time then.. do you know about her moon sign/other placements?
I do not block ppl on social media ever, as long as you're not going mental/wasting my time.


Oh definitely, a huge waste of time, which is a pet peeve of mine. She's a Libra Moon, Aqua Mercury, Pisces Venus, Sag Mars. I have no regrets at all about how I handled the situation. It's just interesting because from what I've heard, Aquas seem to block people when they are truly done with a person, but I guess that's not always the case. From what I've been told by her friends she's upset with me, but I could care less. I haven't tried talking to her since.


When I'm done, I'm done and you will know. That's probably the reason I don't have to block you, seems like playing games. I'll spare us some drama bc I won't change my mind anyway.

Do you wanna talk to her again? How's your relationship with her, is she just a casual friend? I'd rather relinquish liars bc trust is a big issue for me.


I have no desire to see or talk to her again. We were dating and had mutual friends. She lied about a lot of things, including being with her ex the entire time. Just thought the social media thing was odd, but from what you're saying it's not that strange. Fair enough.
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Well I guess your Aqua doesn't block you/deletes the pics bc she has her version of the "truth" and you and the other folks have yours.. she probably knows she'd lose her face completely by giving in now that it's too late. Fixed sign. Libra moon: Fickle and indecisive. No excuse for this cheap behavior of hers! Forget that girl.