Aqua Sun, Gem Moon, Libra Rising (Sorry, not sorry)

Posted by Rindaroo
If a guy likes me, he shows me he's interested. Why would I want to be with someone who wasn't sure? Or was shy & insecure. I just see no point in chasing.


We're talking about the early state of a possible relationship, right? And you've never been insecure after a few dates how everything will turn out? Good for you!

Posted by Mahina
Just curious if any woman has ever been the pursuer and how it turned out ? I know some guys are shy and need a little encouragement, but the stereotype being let the many chase you/never chase a man....
A man chasing you is seen as "hes crazy about you, knows what he wants"
A woman chasing is seen as "desperate, or crazy"

Whats your opinon?

Any experiences?




I have no problem in initiating when I'm really interested. Then I like to lay back a bit and watch how it unfolds. I need a lot of time before committing, so I don't force myself on the guys. But when I get a hint he's interested too and just shy/insecure/whatnot, I know how to get what I want most of the time. It worked just fine with my Cancer ex. Walking on eggshells only thrills me as long as they keep it interesting enough.

Why should I consider myself desperate for it? Equal rights, equal efforts in terms of love. My logic.
Posted by aquarius09
For there to be a successful relationship for this match, the Cancer male must have an air moon for airy Aqua. Fire moon for fiery aqua etc. Moon is a powerful placement to be accounted for in such matters.


I agree on that, my Cancer-Ex and me shared a gem moon, we complemented each other just fine. I've known him since school and I'm pretty sure ten years ago we wouldn't have made it a few months, now the relationship lasted almost four years.

I have no idea just yet. I'm the Aqua with the water placements though.
Depends.

My brother has a gem moon and he is the most faithful man I know. He would never cheat on his girlfriend due to his high moral standards.

I've never cheated in a relationship when I felt good and content, but I get ideas shortly before I feel the urgency to break free. My Cap Venus/Scorp Mars only let me sleep with one person at a time, so when I'm having/stop having sex, I change the game completely for me and my partner(s). It's like my body senses emotional reshuffle first.

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Posted by Aquaviper
I'm hard to pin down and get commitment out of (despite wanting/liking it). I get bored easily and am very picky. I will chat and date several at once until I decide if I want something long term with any of them. I'll usually have 3 I'm talking to. I have no problem moving on the next one (so to speak)...

Capricorn Venus


Ditto...i rarely catch the feels. But when i do, ugh...its all over..
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Same here, especially the "all over" part and being picky as hell.

But I have to admit I don't like dating, at least not what everybody calls dating, it bores me to death to repeat my curriculum vitae over again. When I like you, I want to get to know you. Let's spend some quality time. Don't call it a date, if you're extraordinary to me and we don't fall for each other, we might end up as friends. That's not too bad either.
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i'm not a bull but my partner is.

at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?


i am an air sign and we both share the same fire moon so yes, i know what you mean about having lots to say but veering far from all things feelings. i am not always comfortable talking about my feelings either so i have a lot of tolerance for his behaviour.

im the same where i don't want to beg for the words either. i think i knew when got further down the road and starting having some major rows. lol! after those major fights you know you can get through almost anything.

good luck! sounds like you might have a good guy on your hands.


I'm definitively not comfortable talking about my feelings, I'm great at talking myself out out of them.

Thank you! I really adore this guy. When we have some quality face time he's so caring, respectful and lighthearted he could melt the Arctic! But I guess we've got some miles to go before it will be happily ever after. We had no idea we could stumble over each other when we first met, so we're both struggeling with falling in love and that's a stupid thing to try in the first place.


Sounds very similar to my situation with my fella. Sometimes the best things come when you least expect it.
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Aww, thank you. I'm not patient and I'm not calm, but I can be persistent and sincere (thanks to my earth placements) and he might be worth it.

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Posted by jeane
i'm not a bull but my partner is.

at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?


i am an air sign and we both share the same fire moon so yes, i know what you mean about having lots to say but veering far from all things feelings. i am not always comfortable talking about my feelings either so i have a lot of tolerance for his behaviour.

im the same where i don't want to beg for the words either. i think i knew when got further down the road and starting having some major rows. lol! after those major fights you know you can get through almost anything.

good luck! sounds like you might have a good guy on your hands.
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I'm definitively not comfortable talking about my feelings, I'm great at talking myself out out of them.

Thank you! I really adore this guy. When we have some quality face time he's so caring, respectful and lighthearted he could melt the Arctic! But I guess we've got some miles to go before it will be happily ever after. We had no idea we could stumble over each other when we first met, so we're both struggeling with falling in love and that's a stupid thing to try in the first place.
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Posted by waterbearer_fem
Just curious how male bulls (probably with air/fire placements) act and communicate while falling in love.. is it possible that there's some kind of difference? The bull I'm dealing with is very straight in showing emotions physically, but when it comes to communicating feelings, he can be cool as treetrunk, even elusive. That's confusing at times, but shouldn't sound like a complaint.

Probably an air moon thing? What's your experience/self-perception, Taureans?


I have a water Moon and air Venus. Talkative and flirtatious when I'm attracted to someone, but I've never been a great communicator of feelings. More of a doer.

It really isn't until a relationship is established that emotions get a little easier for me to deal with. Never crazy about saying how I feel, but it gets easier at that point.

Always prefer showing to telling.
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You don't have Venus in Libra, do you?
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What up Aqua babies...

Based on your experience... which fixed sign pairing is the best for an Aqua?

Aqua - Aqua
Aqua - Taurus
Aqua - Leo
Aqua - Scorpio

*never imagined myself to be attracted to a Taurus but I just found out a guy I was attracted to is a bull... I figured he was one too. But I officially confirmed it.*


The best one for a LTR is another Aqua for sure..

I've never dated a Leo, I was pretty fond of a Leo boy at high school but we never crossed the line, we're friends until now.

Although I'm a weird water/earth/air mix, Scorps are somewhat intimidating to me, I have a lot of Scorp female friends but never had a Scorp male.

Taureans seem to be my newest passion.. I'm not experienced, just giddy with excitement where I might end up with this guy.



We have similar placements. Lol
As far as relationships. I would love someone who's not as airy simply because I have enough of that. Want someone who'll Balance me out.


Well, hello then, sister in spirit.

My first bf was an Aqua, we've made it almost ten years! I wouldn't choose another air sign at all costs, but I have a very soft spot for gem moons: my ex had one, the bull I'm currently getting acquainted with has a gem moon, too.

Balance is the key! I sense myself as too airy, I need somebody who can keep me grounded. That's a full-time-job..



OMG! It's like hearing myself speak!
Yes I think it's that Gemini moon that craves stability.

I YEARN for it. I want someone to balance me out and give me a place to call home. Because I can be so airy and so out of place sometimes, I want to feel that security. To know someone is there patiently waiting for me. I think that's why I'm so attracted to earth and fixed signs. Because fixed signs are there till the end ( most of the time). Earth people are so grounded and practical. Plus I think my Capricorn and Taurus placements yearn for stability.


Oh yes. And yes! Cap Venus here. Please build me a place called home and I'll gladly return from my trips to outta space. I have a lot of fixed signs in my chart, but air is always breaking through making me unstable.


Yes. I think it's that Gemini moon that kills it for me. Because it can be so flakey.

The Aqua in me sets my mind to do something and I'll do it, but the Gemini in me is like yeah sure let's do it....then hmmmm🤔 idk if I should. We need to weigh the pros and cons.
Then my Taurus mars is like...ehhh, we can do it another day... I'm too lazy.
While my capricorn planets are screaming saying, treetrunk! We need to get our butter together now! We cant waste time. Our clock is ticking. Aquarius come and help over here.... and Aqua is like somewhere lost in space Lol
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That's so damn accurate..

My Scorp Mars would add: C'mon already.. you wanna know what's behind this..
Gem Moon: Reconsider. Now!
Posted by jeane
i'm not a bull but my partner is.

at the beginning when he was trying to get on my good side he was filled to the brim with flowery and poetic words. he has a mercury in gem.

then as we became closer, he became very tight lipped. i would get a bit here and there but on the whole, it seemed really hard for him to communicate his feelings. even now, a few years on, he is still fairly silent.

he does show his emotions physically but he also shows his love through acts of service. if i'm in trouble he is there. if i need his help with anything, he won't let me down. he will go above and beyond to do kind things for me and ensure that my life is made easier. he has a fire moon.


Yes, I've experienced the same in the beginning: lots of compliments, charming to the core and coquettish behaviour. The more serious it gets between us, the more he remains silent. We both have air moons so communicating about everything and anything is no problem at all, he's actually quite talkative when we're together. I'm a very verbal person so it's hard for me to read him at times, teasing him just makes him more evasive.. and I don't wanna force him to pay lip service as long as he treats me like he does.

How did you know eventually you two were in for the long term?

Just curious how male bulls (probably with air/fire placements) act and communicate while falling in love.. is it possible that there's some kind of difference? The bull I'm dealing with is very straight in showing emotions physically, but when it comes to communicating feelings, he can be cool as treetrunk, even elusive. That's confusing at times, but shouldn't sound like a complaint.

Probably an air moon thing? What's your experience/self-perception, Taureans?

Posted by aquanib
Posted by waterbearer_fem


You're overestimating my posting concerning "space". I would never, ever turn my back on a loved one like that. Once in a while I need space ( a break) from family members/friends/aquaintances. I always talk before I'm leaving. No surprises. I wouldn't want to be treated that way either (libra rising probably... but I don't like that placement much).

And I'm water dominant btw.


Eh i wasnt even thinking of your post when i wrote that. Just as a general reply to the "aqua space" thing.
Its so overated and misconstrued, i mean if youre the one (or its current iteration lol) i want in!

Hah im thankful for my libra rising. I need those filters badly lol.

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Haha, I see. I don't need timeouts that much when I'm with people I feel very comfortable with. Trust is a big issue!

So what do you think is your libra rising filtering in particular? I just don't seem to get close to mine.

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The good thing about the earth placements: when I'm convinced, I'm all in. No more disappearing. Just little excursions. The hardest part: convincing me/myself.

Do you have some water placements?


Ya, pisses moon/mercury

I can relate with convinced part. I find it disrespectful to disapear on gf/partner just like that.
I get the need for space but for two weeks at a time? Thats harsh lol, unless it part of witholding sex so its funnier when it happens.


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You're overestimating my posting concerning "space". I would never, ever turn my back on a loved one like that. Once in a while I need a break from family members/friends/aquaintances. I always talk before I'm leaving. No surprises. I wouldn't want to be treated that way either (libra rising probably... but I don't like that placement much).

And I'm water dominant btw.
Cap Venus, Gem moon (dominant). I'm much more air than earth, I tend to overthink things when it comes to relationships/love and I'm great in talking myself out of emotions if I feel the necessity. On the other hand I'm very serious once I commit myself.
Posted by aquanib
Ayyyy girls.......i have no earth in my chart and i want stability too.
It is a prerequisite for greatness anyhow, because if its not stable, trust is out the window soon, then respect and then the end is behind the corner.



The good thing about the earth placements: when I'm convinced, I'm all in. No more disappearing. Just little excursions. The hardest part: convincing me/myself.

Do you have some water placements?

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What up Aqua babies...

Based on your experience... which fixed sign pairing is the best for an Aqua?

Aqua - Aqua
Aqua - Taurus
Aqua - Leo
Aqua - Scorpio

*never imagined myself to be attracted to a Taurus but I just found out a guy I was attracted to is a bull... I figured he was one too. But I officially confirmed it.*


The best one for a LTR is another Aqua for sure..

I've never dated a Leo, I was pretty fond of a Leo boy at high school but we never crossed the line, we're friends until now.

Although I'm a weird water/earth/air mix, Scorps are somewhat intimidating to me, I have a lot of Scorp female friends but never had a Scorp male.

Taureans seem to be my newest passion.. I'm not experienced, just giddy with excitement where I might end up with this guy.



We have similar placements. Lol
As far as relationships. I would love someone who's not as airy simply because I have enough of that. Want someone who'll Balance me out.


Well, hello then, sister in spirit.

My first bf was an Aqua, we've made it almost ten years! I wouldn't choose another air sign at all costs, but I have a very soft spot for gem moons: my ex had one, the bull I'm currently getting acquainted with has a gem moon, too.

Balance is the key! I sense myself as too airy, I need somebody who can keep me grounded. That's a full-time-job..



OMG! It's like hearing myself speak!
Yes I think it's that Gemini moon that craves stability.

I YEARN for it. I want someone to balance me out and give me a place to call home. Because I can be so airy and so out of place sometimes, I want to feel that security. To know someone is there patiently waiting for me. I think that's why I'm so attracted to earth and fixed signs. Because fixed signs are there till the end ( most of the time). Earth people are so grounded and practical. Plus I think my Capricorn and Taurus placements yearn for stability.
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Oh yes. And yes! Cap Venus here. Please build me a place called home and I'll gladly return from my trips to outta space. I have a lot of fixed signs in my chart, but air is always breaking through making me unstable.
space = give me at least two full weeks without talking, calling, meeting. I desperately need to be alone. I'm absolutely sure about that.
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What up Aqua babies...

Based on your experience... which fixed sign pairing is the best for an Aqua?

Aqua - Aqua
Aqua - Taurus
Aqua - Leo
Aqua - Scorpio

*never imagined myself to be attracted to a Taurus but I just found out a guy I was attracted to is a bull... I figured he was one too. But I officially confirmed it.*


The best one for a LTR is another Aqua for sure..

I've never dated a Leo, I was pretty fond of a Leo boy at high school but we never crossed the line, we're friends until now.

Although I'm a weird water/earth/air mix, Scorps are somewhat intimidating to me, I have a lot of Scorp female friends but never had a Scorp male.

Taureans seem to be my newest passion.. I'm not experienced, just giddy with excitement where I might end up with this guy.



We have similar placements. Lol
As far as relationships. I would love someone who's not as airy simply because I have enough of that. Want someone who'll Balance me out.
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Well, hello then, sister in spirit.

My first bf was an Aqua, we've made it almost ten years! I wouldn't choose another air sign at all costs, but I have a very soft spot for gem moons: my ex had one, the bull I'm currently getting acquainted with has a gem moon, too.

Balance is the key! I sense myself as too airy, I need somebody who can keep me grounded. That's a full-time-job..