whatisthisallabout
joined January 08, 2017
  • I spent 2 years to get over an Aqua; another 2 years to get over a Leo
    In both cases, counting from the time things ended. I was with the Aqua for 3 years and was with the Leo for about a 1 1/2 years before we finally ended things.

    I am Scorpio Sun
  • I don't think it is a good article. It is very sad that she feels that she becomes valueless once her looks are gone.
    There are women in their 40s/50s/60s/70s and above who are still very attractive--the attractiveness shows in the way they talk, they way they walk, the way they think, the way they treat people, etc.
  • Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    I send nasty messages to call the person out, basically telling the person it is rude to ignore people.
    Scorpio sun, Libra mercury



    So rude to ignore someone esp someone who is being genuine.
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    Exactly!
  • I used to think that I would NOT date anyone more than 10 years older/younger, but my current bf is 14 years younger. He chased me. I think it all depends on what the other person has to offer and how seriously he wants to be with me.
  • I send nasty messages to call the person out, basically telling the person it is rude to ignore people.
    Scorpio sun, Libra mercury
  • Posted by brianafay
    But I will say sometimes I can really feel bad for myself when I’m struggling with something and get overwhelmed ....and I’ll start to feel real disappointed there’s no one like me in my life who is there for me like I’ve been there for others.

    In the end it’s my own fault though, you can’t expect people to know you need them unless you have to reach out...and I am admittedly not good at that.

    Also, I think people don’t always realize I need them because I work very hard to appear like I need no one but myself 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️


    This seems to be a common trait of sags... I guess I can at least just put it out there, saying "hey, if you ever need anything, don't hesitate to reach out."
  • Posted by brianafay
    I’m just a very compassionate person
    And no, nothing is expected in return...in fact, sometimes it’s most rewarding to help someone who could never return the favor


    That is good to know smile I guess next time I will just accept the help happily lol
  • Posted by EveryOunce
    As a Sag moon the answer is yes. I don't need anything in return but if you offer food (taurus rising) I wont turn it down.


    I guess offering food is the way to go lol
  • Posted by hellosaggy
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by hellosaggy
    I honestly just like helping people, introducing good karma into the world, and just trying to be a good person to people that need it.

    I don't need or expect anything in return as I give freely. I have noticed it does mind-quack people because they are used to selfishness, and subsequently I end up getting things I wasn't expecting in the long run.


    Thank you for sharing. That is good to know smile
    I was raised by a mom who always said, "I am doing x for you now so when I am old, you need to do x for me too." Therefore, I always feel a bit skeptical when people offer to help without expecting anything in return.


    I hate when people give with expectations. I personally feel it devalues the good deed. Seems like a selfish act instead of one of caring.
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    I feel that way too. That's why I feel I can never trust my mom. I feel she has never loved me. She had me because she wanted me to take care of her when she's old.
  • Posted by WitchmitchAries
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by WitchmitchAries
    i do and i am not a sag


    That's why Aries is their best match (wink wink)


    i am not a match for anyone
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    XD
  • Posted by WitchmitchAries
    i do and i am not a sag


    That's why Aries is their best match (wink wink)
  • Posted by UnicornSag
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    as a sag I do favors or offer my help whenever I can and as long is I can.
    but I wouldn't say it means I don't expect something in return.
    I would just hope that when I really need a friend or some help that that person is present to see it and able to help me. because 100% I have the hardest time asking for help.

    and although I feel like that's a good thing because I feel impowered and capable and proud of myself
    I also hate it because sometime things can be so hard and I wish people just noticed and wanted to be there for me when I need them the most.

    hardly ever happens tho.
    for me atleast


    Thank you so much for sharing! Now that I think of it, I cannot even recall a time when a sag friend asks for help. I feel they might feel too embarrassed to ask... Hmmm, I wonder if there are any signs of stress that I should watch for, so that I can offer help without them having to ask Confused

    we like to believe we can do anything and without anyone's helpLaughing obviously that's not possible...but asking for help is really difficult. I'm not even sure how it's done actually lol only one I do ask for help when I need is my mom lol anyone else just feels awkward but people can sense when you need help and offer to help in my experience at least. So I believe your friend doesn't need much help as it is and you would probably be able to notice if he does smile
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    Thank you! My friend is the only child in his family so he did tell me he's used to do everything on his own... very self-sufficient type of person. I guess it is safe for me to assume he doesn't need much help.... or maybe he just hides himself away from the world when he does go through stressful/difficult time. He is very laid back and soft-spoken so it is very hard to tell his stress level... Or maybe I just need to be more observant :p
  • Posted by sagittariusxo
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by sagittariusxo
    as a sag I do favors or offer my help whenever I can and as long is I can.
    but I wouldn't say it means I don't expect something in return.
    I would just hope that when I really need a friend or some help that that person is present to see it and able to help me. because 100% I have the hardest time asking for help.

    and although I feel like that's a good thing because I feel impowered and capable and proud of myself
    I also hate it because sometime things can be so hard and I wish people just noticed and wanted to be there for me when I need them the most.

    hardly ever happens tho.
    for me atleast


    Thank you so much for sharing! Now that I think of it, I cannot even recall a time when a sag friend asks for help. I feel they might feel too embarrassed to ask... Hmmm, I wonder if there are any signs of stress that I should watch for, so that I can offer help without them having to ask Confused



    I mean don't expect them to accept help without them saying "no, its ok"
    personally for me I never ask for help, I don't want to burden anyone with my drama, I don't want people to think im weak or incapable. ill tell you think, when im going thru thing or I have stresses. ill being them uppp. for example...

    im about to fix up my house to rent it out.
    I am so stressed because I don't have the time or patients to be hands on
    but I don't have the money to be hiring everyone to do think I can technically do.
    I have asked no one for help. but I have express that im stressed and that I have all this to accomplish
    and I assume if someone is listening to me, and cares about me and wants me to succeed that they would offer to help me complete this stressful task. one of girlfriend has offered, not even offered she just said "well lets do it then, we can get this done" and she is my Sag Soul Sister. we are 5 days apart in age.


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    This is very helpful smile
    I guess next time if my sag friends mention they have been very busy or have a lot on their plate, I will offer something smile
  • Posted by Seleukos
    They do it on instinct and without much thinking in my experience.
    Helping is just a natural part of what they are.


    Thanks for sharing your experience smile
  • Posted by hellosaggy
    I honestly just like helping people, introducing good karma into the world, and just trying to be a good person to people that need it.

    I don't need or expect anything in return as I give freely. I have noticed it does mind-quack people because they are used to selfishness, and subsequently I end up getting things I wasn't expecting in the long run.


    Thank you for sharing. That is good to know smile
    I was raised by a mom who always said, "I am doing x for you now so when I am old, you need to do x for me too." Therefore, I always feel a bit skeptical when people offer to help without expecting anything in return.
  • Posted by sagittariusxo
    as a sag I do favors or offer my help whenever I can and as long is I can.
    but I wouldn't say it means I don't expect something in return.
    I would just hope that when I really need a friend or some help that that person is present to see it and able to help me. because 100% I have the hardest time asking for help.

    and although I feel like that's a good thing because I feel impowered and capable and proud of myself
    I also hate it because sometime things can be so hard and I wish people just noticed and wanted to be there for me when I need them the most.

    hardly ever happens tho.
    for me atleast


    Thank you so much for sharing! Now that I think of it, I cannot even recall a time when a sag friend asks for help. I feel they might feel too embarrassed to ask... Hmmm, I wonder if there are any signs of stress that I should watch for, so that I can offer help without them having to ask Confused
  • Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    Posted by whatisthisallabout
    Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    I need more sags in my life

    I didn't know they liked cleaning


    Let me think... I think every 3 out of 4 sags I know enjoy cleaning lol


    Starts looking for sags on tinder
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    Hahaha. Good luck!
  • Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    I need more sags in my life

    I didn't know they liked cleaning


    I used to live with an older sag woman, who was my landlord actually. She did all the cleaning and offered to do my laundry for me since she has to do hers anyways. Then, she ended up doing my laundry for the whole year and a half when I lived there lol
  • Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
    I need more sags in my life

    I didn't know they liked cleaning


    Let me think... I think every 3 out of 4 sags I know enjoy cleaning lol
  • Posted by ChocolateHazelnut1
    No it's OK. You suggested dinner that was enough.
    Sags enjoy to help their friends and loved ones indeed.
    But let me tell you Sags love to feel good about themselves for doing so... And thats OK I believe.


    Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this! That is helpful smile