Posted by Rindaroo
Lol! My first husband is a Pisces. I was so angry at him I wouldn't speak to him at all. 20 years later he finds me on FB. The second I put my maiden name on there, he was all over it. It's been a back & forth. I unfriended him, he comes back after awhile. This happened a few times over years!! Until I finally was able to allow it, and let him be friends with me. I guess, kinda. Let him see how I'm doing at least, being the FB space. I don't think he ever got over me... we were divorced 26 years ago. I don't do well with water signs lol.


Wow, 20+ years of obsession. That really is something
Thanks for sharing.
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lool u keep doing that, playing games
this pisces will get fed up soon and shut that door!
looool u think u have control here



I am not playing games with him. I thought of him last night so I went to his fan page. I noticed that he has a concert coming up tonight so I texted him =.=


you are playing games.
you think you 'know' he will take u back
so u block him
u will do it again - break up, ignore him, cheat, anything to push him away,
because he will come back
this gives you ur power
but u fixed sign people do the same thing over and over
and it's boring and predictable
u better be great in bed to keep that door open


I blocked him because I was too upset to deal with the situation. We didn't cheat on each other though.
Anyways, I am not sure what will happen. I just thought about him out of the blue and realized that I do miss him.


*sigh*
don't take him for granted is what i'm saying
one day he'll stop taking u back
and u will miss him and it won't mean butter to him, regardless of 'water emotions'
ur looking at his "open doors" and thinking it's all safe for ya
what else do u plan to do to test the power u think u have?


I don't really have a plan. It is all impromptu.
On my end, I just want to find out how I feel when I see him again in person.
I think it means something if I still think about this person after 6 months of no contact ...
God knows, maybe when we see each other we will just realize that the thrill is gone and we can finally be friends


lol friends
ur hoping his door is open. that's the point of the thread
and that's the plan isn't it
to go back in and get what u want

an open door can mean:
1) good sex
2) he is still in love with his idea of u
if he was in love with YOU then he wouldn't go 6 months without letting u know about his pain

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I am not *hoping*
I KNOW his door is open because he wants me to come tonight and he suggested that we spend more time to catch up, when I texted him "hey, I may stop by your show tonight."
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I am going to see a local band tonight. I used to see the drummer in the band, who is a Pisces.
I remember him telling me about girls coming in and out of his life (always girls break up with him and then come back later and then leave again). Anyways, 6 months ago we had a fall out and I blocked him on everything. For some reason I thought about him last night so I texted him. I told him I may stop by his show tonight and he said "I would like that" and he told me he wanted to have more time to catup up with me blah blah blah.

I am wondering if Pisces guys have a tendancy to leave an open door for girls who have walked out of their lives? Now that I think of it, every single Pisces guy that I have been invovled with always leaves the door open when I reach out to them, no matter how bad it was when we ended things... also, this Pisces I am talking about he bascially lets every girl comes in and out of his life freely.

Are Pisces just forgiving, or are they just having a hard time getting over an old flame who left them?


What is your sun sign?



Scorpio... notorious for not being forgiving =.=


And they are notorious for TEACHING us how to do so...



HAHAHA, I still struggle. I guess this explains why every scorpio I know has their fair share of Pisces in their lives.


I had a fall out with a very close Pisces friend of mine last year (Aqua Venus I've mentioned). I ignored him all of last year because he was being massive jerk.

Anyway, saw him again this winter and he really went out of his way to be on my good side. Back to being a sweetheart.

I've learned with all the many Pisces that have entered my life, that confronting and apologizing the old fashioned way just isn't THEIR way.

Just like they let go, they hope you will do the same. And if you do... it all gets better.



Thanks for sharing!
BTW, I also had a fall out with my best Virgo friend a month ago over some misunderstanding.
We both knew it's just a misunderstanding, but things just became awkward since.
Do you have any experience patching things up with a Virgal?


😕 I have three very good Virgal friends, but I've never fought with any of them.

With one of them, we got separated naturally because our lives were changing (she got married and I continued college... etc., etc). I called her three years later to see how she was doing and she tried to give me guilt trips about it "wow, I8... what a surprise you calling me, thanks for making the effort". She said that several times and I nipped it at the bud "Virgal, IM CALLING YOU, I'm making the effort because I want to. You giving guilt trips will not make me want to in the future and remember I am making the effort, you haven't". She recognized and it was smooth sailing since...lol

You just need to keep it straight, I guess? Don't let things accumulate to the point where you get emo.

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Thanks. Do you think it is worth it to talk about why I felt hurt with the Virgal even if it was a misunderstanding or just let it go and reach out as usual? I just don't know if it is a smart thing to talk about emotions with a Virgo. I think rationally, we both know what happened. But I doubt that she realized that how that affected me emotionally.
It was actually over something really stupid. I was talking to a guy online and realized that he and my best friend went on a few dates in the past. I told my friend about this guy and then she contacted him and told him not to tell anyone about their past, she would de-friend him on social media, and asked him to keep it as a secret. But the guy was an ass and rubbed it at my face, telling me that my best friend contacted him. When I asked him what it was, he told me he promised her not to tell anyone... anyways, it was a lot of unnecessary drama. I just felt hurt when an online stranger told me my best friend talked to him and asked him to keep it between them. Since their actual conversation was nothing about me, it's really no big deal that they talked. I just still hope my friend could understand why it hurt me so much emotioanlly when I heard a stranger told me that my best friend told him something that he couldnt tell me--I never tried to explain because she's very rational and I just worry that even if I try, she cannot relate or understand why it hurt me, espeically since now that we all know what it was....
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lool u keep doing that, playing games
this pisces will get fed up soon and shut that door!
looool u think u have control here



I am not playing games with him. I thought of him last night so I went to his fan page. I noticed that he has a concert coming up tonight so I texted him =.=


you are playing games.
you think you 'know' he will take u back
so u block him
u will do it again - break up, ignore him, cheat, anything to push him away,
because he will come back
this gives you ur power
but u fixed sign people do the same thing over and over
and it's boring and predictable
u better be great in bed to keep that door open


I blocked him because I was too upset to deal with the situation. We didn't cheat on each other though.
Anyways, I am not sure what will happen. I just thought about him out of the blue and realized that I do miss him.


*sigh*
don't take him for granted is what i'm saying
one day he'll stop taking u back
and u will miss him and it won't mean butter to him, regardless of 'water emotions'
ur looking at his "open doors" and thinking it's all safe for ya
what else do u plan to do to test the power u think u have?
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I don't really have a plan. It is all impromptu.
On my end, I just want to find out how I feel when I see him again in person.
I think it means something if I still think about this person after 6 months of no contact ...
God knows, maybe when we see each other we will just realize that the thrill is gone and we can finally be friends
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I am going to see a local band tonight. I used to see the drummer in the band, who is a Pisces.
I remember him telling me about girls coming in and out of his life (always girls break up with him and then come back later and then leave again). Anyways, 6 months ago we had a fall out and I blocked him on everything. For some reason I thought about him last night so I texted him. I told him I may stop by his show tonight and he said "I would like that" and he told me he wanted to have more time to catup up with me blah blah blah.

I am wondering if Pisces guys have a tendancy to leave an open door for girls who have walked out of their lives? Now that I think of it, every single Pisces guy that I have been invovled with always leaves the door open when I reach out to them, no matter how bad it was when we ended things... also, this Pisces I am talking about he bascially lets every girl comes in and out of his life freely.

Are Pisces just forgiving, or are they just having a hard time getting over an old flame who left them?


What is your sun sign?



Scorpio... notorious for not being forgiving =.=


And they are notorious for TEACHING us how to do so...



HAHAHA, I still struggle. I guess this explains why every scorpio I know has their fair share of Pisces in their lives.


I had a fall out with a very close Pisces friend of mine last year (Aqua Venus I've mentioned). I ignored him all of last year because he was being massive jerk.

Anyway, saw him again this winter and he really went out of his way to be on my good side. Back to being a sweetheart.

I've learned with all the many Pisces that have entered my life, that confronting and apologizing the old fashioned way just isn't THEIR way.

Just like they let go, they hope you will do the same. And if you do... it all gets better.

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Thanks for sharing!
BTW, I also had a fall out with my best Virgo friend a month ago over some misunderstanding.
We both knew it's just a misunderstanding, but things just became awkward since.
Do you have any experience patching things up with a Virgal?
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Posted by d0s3r
lool u keep doing that, playing games
this pisces will get fed up soon and shut that door!
looool u think u have control here



I am not playing games with him. I thought of him last night so I went to his fan page. I noticed that he has a concert coming up tonight so I texted him =.=


you are playing games.
you think you 'know' he will take u back
so u block him
u will do it again - break up, ignore him, cheat, anything to push him away,
because he will come back
this gives you ur power
but u fixed sign people do the same thing over and over
and it's boring and predictable
u better be great in bed to keep that door open
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I blocked him because I was too upset to deal with the situation. We didn't cheat on each other though.
Anyways, I am not sure what will happen. I just thought about him out of the blue and realized that I do miss him.
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I am going to see a local band tonight. I used to see the drummer in the band, who is a Pisces.
I remember him telling me about girls coming in and out of his life (always girls break up with him and then come back later and then leave again). Anyways, 6 months ago we had a fall out and I blocked him on everything. For some reason I thought about him last night so I texted him. I told him I may stop by his show tonight and he said "I would like that" and he told me he wanted to have more time to catup up with me blah blah blah.

I am wondering if Pisces guys have a tendancy to leave an open door for girls who have walked out of their lives? Now that I think of it, every single Pisces guy that I have been invovled with always leaves the door open when I reach out to them, no matter how bad it was when we ended things... also, this Pisces I am talking about he bascially lets every girl comes in and out of his life freely.

Are Pisces just forgiving, or are they just having a hard time getting over an old flame who left them?


What is your sun sign?



Scorpio... notorious for not being forgiving =.=


I personally tend to forgive scorpios much more than any other signs, so it's quite possible that he still has feelings for you.
You should go to the concert and see (feel) what happens.Don't listen to what he's telling you as he may at first be shy and defensive, rather listen to what your intuition tells you.


Thank you! When you decided to fogive a scorpio, was it because you knew they were just dramatic/exterme (I think I am the type that I either love you or hate you :p)?


I know how they (you) feel, I highly appreciate emotional people and I know it's hard sometimes not to mix love with hate when strong feelings are involved.
Good luck with this guy.

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Thanks! I am glad you can take and appreciate emotional peopel like us
I will find out how I feel/how he feels when we see each other LOL
I actually feel a little embarrased thinking back of all the stupid things I said during our last fight :p
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lool u keep doing that, playing games
this pisces will get fed up soon and shut that door!
looool u think u have control here



I am not playing games with him. I thought of him last night so I went to his fan page. I noticed that he has a concert coming up tonight so I texted him =.=
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I dated a Pisces once.

Hum. He disappeared on me and I never reached out to him afterwards, so I'm not sure.

I once called him out on something and cut him off. Then, when I came back, he ignored me ... until he reached out himself 6 months later.

It depends on the girl. I'm a Scorpio too by the way.


Hmmm, did he explain himself when he reached out 6 months later?


He supposedly didn't see my message when I had proof he read it. He was a compulsive liar though.

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I do notice that Pisces guys can be liars when they do not want to be confronted ...
write her a romantic poem.
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I am going to see a local band tonight. I used to see the drummer in the band, who is a Pisces.
I remember him telling me about girls coming in and out of his life (always girls break up with him and then come back later and then leave again). Anyways, 6 months ago we had a fall out and I blocked him on everything. For some reason I thought about him last night so I texted him. I told him I may stop by his show tonight and he said "I would like that" and he told me he wanted to have more time to catup up with me blah blah blah.

I am wondering if Pisces guys have a tendancy to leave an open door for girls who have walked out of their lives? Now that I think of it, every single Pisces guy that I have been invovled with always leaves the door open when I reach out to them, no matter how bad it was when we ended things... also, this Pisces I am talking about he bascially lets every girl comes in and out of his life freely.

Are Pisces just forgiving, or are they just having a hard time getting over an old flame who left them?


What is your sun sign?



Scorpio... notorious for not being forgiving =.=


I personally tend to forgive scorpios much more than any other signs, so it's quite possible that he still has feelings for you.
You should go to the concert and see (feel) what happens.Don't listen to what he's telling you as he may at first be shy and defensive, rather listen to what your intuition tells you.
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Thank you! When you decided to fogive a scorpio, was it because you knew they were just dramatic/exterme (I think I am the type that I either love you or hate you :p)?
Posted by TrueBlessings
I dated a Pisces once.

Hum. He disappeared on me and I never reached out to him afterwards, so I'm not sure.

I once called him out on something and cut him off. Then, when I came back, he ignored me ... until he reached out himself 6 months later.

It depends on the girl. I'm a Scorpio too by the way.


Hmmm, did he explain himself when he reached out 6 months later?
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I am going to see a local band tonight. I used to see the drummer in the band, who is a Pisces.
I remember him telling me about girls coming in and out of his life (always girls break up with him and then come back later and then leave again). Anyways, 6 months ago we had a fall out and I blocked him on everything. For some reason I thought about him last night so I texted him. I told him I may stop by his show tonight and he said "I would like that" and he told me he wanted to have more time to catup up with me blah blah blah.

I am wondering if Pisces guys have a tendancy to leave an open door for girls who have walked out of their lives? Now that I think of it, every single Pisces guy that I have been invovled with always leaves the door open when I reach out to them, no matter how bad it was when we ended things... also, this Pisces I am talking about he bascially lets every girl comes in and out of his life freely.

Are Pisces just forgiving, or are they just having a hard time getting over an old flame who left them?


What is your sun sign?



Scorpio... notorious for not being forgiving =.=


And they are notorious for TEACHING us how to do so...

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HAHAHA, I still struggle. I guess this explains why every scorpio I know has their fair share of Pisces in their lives.
can I spread your nudes on the internet
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I am going to see a local band tonight. I used to see the drummer in the band, who is a Pisces.
I remember him telling me about girls coming in and out of his life (always girls break up with him and then come back later and then leave again). Anyways, 6 months ago we had a fall out and I blocked him on everything. For some reason I thought about him last night so I texted him. I told him I may stop by his show tonight and he said "I would like that" and he told me he wanted to have more time to catup up with me blah blah blah.

I am wondering if Pisces guys have a tendancy to leave an open door for girls who have walked out of their lives? Now that I think of it, every single Pisces guy that I have been invovled with always leaves the door open when I reach out to them, no matter how bad it was when we ended things... also, this Pisces I am talking about he bascially lets every girl comes in and out of his life freely.

Are Pisces just forgiving, or are they just having a hard time getting over an old flame who left them?


What is your sun sign?

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Scorpio... notorious for not being forgiving =.=
I am going to see a local band tonight. I used to see the drummer in the band, who is a Pisces.
I remember him telling me about girls coming in and out of his life (always girls break up with him and then come back later and then leave again). Anyways, 6 months ago we had a fall out and I blocked him on everything. For some reason I thought about him last night so I texted him. I told him I may stop by his show tonight and he said "I would like that" and he told me he wanted to have more time to catup up with me blah blah blah.

I am wondering if Pisces guys have a tendancy to leave an open door for girls who have walked out of their lives? Now that I think of it, every single Pisces guy that I have been invovled with always leaves the door open when I reach out to them, no matter how bad it was when we ended things... also, this Pisces I am talking about he bascially lets every girl comes in and out of his life freely.

Are Pisces just forgiving, or are they just having a hard time getting over an old flame who left them?
Posted by SMC
holy cow, that butter hit me right in the feels, not in a good way.
I couldnt..would probably start to clean it myself -_-


I totally freaked out on him =.=
Anyways, I decided that it just can't work.
Posted by Walkergrl
I don't understand. I have 2 cats. I've never had litter in my bed. Although the cats don't get under the blankets. They always sleep at the foot of the bed. My litterbox is between the laundry room and bathroom and gets cleaned every other day.

If there is that much cat litter IN his bed, I can only imagine how much litter is all over the bedroom floor. Gross.

I think if I wanted to continue seeing the guy, it would not be at his place. How old is he?


He's 28, turning 29 next month. anyways, I decided that it just can't work.
Yes, the floor. There's chucks of litter on the floor =.=
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
That's treetrunking disgusting. I am like princess and the pea. I cant have any dirt or fluff on my sheets or I cant sleep comfortable. I will get out of bed and shake the sheet if I feel anything in them.

And for it to be cat infested pee and poop litter. I would of walked out that door that same night.



I am actually very much the same way. I can only fall asleep in my own bed.
Posted by RumiL
tell him it's not healthy way to live O_O


I told him it's bad hygiene... anyways, I just called it quits. Can't do it anymore =.=